144. The mood is unsettled

"It's just that I know that they are your parents, and I will give my parents what kind of filial piety they have, and you don't know what kind of filial piety they have. How can my parents know how to call from time to time to ask how our lives are?

"I can't help it, they are such people, what do you think I can do?" Gu Haiping said helplessly.

"I think it's that you have always been no matter what they do to me or how they treat Xiaoyu, you don't make a noise or care, and only then do they treat us as nothing, so they dare to do whatever they want!"

"They are parents, I am a son, do I still have to reason with them for some trivial things?" Gu Haiping was very displeased.

"Parents are parents, and reason is reason! Is it possible that parents should be unreasonable? Then how can they educate their children? How can they be parents? My parents and I will reason with them, and my relatives must also be reasonable, right?" Shandan pressed step by step, and she wanted to say what she had wanted to say for so many years today.

"How can there be so much reason for a family to talk about? Accommodate each other and tolerate it for a while, so why do you have to be so clear?" Gu Haiping felt that today's Shandan was incredible, and the usually knowledgeable and reasonable Shandan was now messing around.

"Yes! The Chinese have always had courtesy exchanges, and you have the first day of junior high school and I have the fifteenth one, and you also say 'mutual'! Then tell me, where is their 'mutual' with ours?" Shandan will never give up.

"Then what do you say you want? Isn't it just a matter of 5,000 yuan? As for such a sesame seed rotten grain shaved old bottom? If you want to, you can give it if you don't want to, don't be angry!" Gu Haiping's attitude also hardened, he knew that his father's approach was wrong, but as a son, he couldn't care about it, and besides, he was almost thousands of miles away, and he was already very guilty for not being filial. Why can't Shandan understand his suffering?

"I didn't say no, did I say it?" Shandan looked at Gu Haiping's sneering face with great annoyance.

"Then what are you going to do? If you want to give it or not, why do you say so much?" Gu Haiping suppressed his anger.

"Tell me, since we got married, am I a person who values money more than life? Have I always wanted to be a good word? I think I've been a stone for so many years, and I should cover it up, right? Why are your family so hard-hearted? Just call and ask them, they will lose a hair, and their status will not be noble? Xiaoyu is still not your daughter? Is it the flesh and blood of your Gu family?" Shandan couldn't help crying.

"When you go out, the children's chats are all about the chats of grandparents, Xiaoyu is listening quietly next to her, she has also grown up, do you think she doesn't understand? Even if you give her a greeting, birthday, June 1st, make a phone call to the child, let the child know that there are grandparents who care about her, why is it so difficult? How have I treated your parents for so many years, you see it in your eyes, it doesn't matter what they do to me, I can live well without their care, but Xiaoyu's growth should also be a little bit of care from their ancestors?" said Shandan with tears streaming down his face.

Gu Haiping was also very sad when he heard such words, since Xiaoyu was born, his grandparents have never taken the initiative to care, even if there is not a phone call, what Shandan said is the truth. He put his arm around Shandan on the shoulder and patted him comfortingly: "They are such people, don't you see what they do to me?"

"Then I also saw how they treated Gu Sansan's family, how they loved Gu Sansan's little girl, you also saw it. Why can't I exchange people's hearts for people's hearts? Big money can't be exchanged for a small amount of money? Tell me!"

"It's also that Xiaoyu hasn't lived with them all the time, and she has been separated. That little girl is often closer when she is around, are you still jealous?" Gu Haiping kissed Shandan's face and wanted to appease her.

"If I were to say that this is not the case, if it were me, a granddaughter would only go back once in a few years, and I would rather be better to her, is there very few such opportunities? They are good, I gave them such a good granddaughter, and I actually ignored them. Shandan said indignantly.

"I said it, you don't usually need to give them money, and then give it when the horse is high and short, you have to send thousands of yuan back every year, and we can save money ourselves. Gu Haiping soothed Shandan's back and said.

"Don't you know the phrase 'the son wants to raise but the parent is not there'? I don't want to leave regrets in your life, I'd rather suffer more than you be sad. It's just that they're too dissatisfied, too ignorant, and too hurtful. I originally wanted to give them the 5,000 yuan, but what you did made me feel uncomfortable. Oh, the son has the ability and the talent, so the daughter-in-law shouldn't take it seriously?" said Shandan.

"No, if you can't get over it, we're going to come back, and you send them money every year anyway. Gu Haiping was moved again when he heard Shandan's words.

"These 5,000 yuan may not be of much use to them, and they may be ruined again, and we still have no land and no house, so I save money and save land, so that if we raise funds for a house in the future, we can afford to buy a set. If you look at the fact that the compensation has already been quite a lot, should we return our money? In this case, our money has been saved from the emergency, it has already played its role, and our filial piety has been fulfilled. What do you say?" Shandan stabilized his feelings and told Gu Haiping the truth.

"Hmm-" Gu Haiping looked embarrassed.

"Is it that the old man doesn't want to give it?" Shandan guessed that this was the case.

"It's not—I want to give it to him, I can't take care of it when something so big happens......" Gu Haiping began to spit again.

"Well, look at it, I'm going to cook. Shandan didn't speak again, she knew that as long as Gu Haiping was right to his family, he was the weakest and most unprincipled and unprincipled, it was useless to talk more, shut up and work. May his and her hearts and kindness inspire his father's hard heart.

Dinner was tasteless, Shandan and Gu Haiping were both worried, five thousand yuan is Shandan three months' salary, which is equivalent to three months of not eating or drinking in vain. But the other party may still be proud, having a promising son is really going to be windy and rainy. Maybe that unloved sister-in-law is still laughing at her stupidity, right?

Gu Haiping fidgeted beside the telephone, looking absent-minded.

"Jingle bell, jingle bell..." The phone rang, and Gu Haiping, who was sitting next to him and was contemplative, was startled.

Shandan expected that Teacher Gu would definitely call on time, and he would definitely not give up the money he had - whether it was 5,000 or 5 yuan, he would "fight".

Gu Haiping picked up the phone and hung up, and then called back and began to hesitate, Shandan hid in the kitchen to wash the dishes when he heard the phone ring, she didn't want to listen to Gu Haiping say insincere words in order to deal with her. She didn't want to have more contact with Teacher Gu, they could do whatever they wanted, she thought that this day was not the same? It's just that she still feels unhappy that her dignity is not being respected as it should be.

She slowly grinded in the kitchen and didn't want to come out, she didn't want to have a head-on conflict with Gu Haiping, but she didn't want to force herself either. She didn't even want her mind to dwell on these things that were upsetting her. She doesn't care about money, what she cares about may not be cared about in this life, do they know how to respect her or deliberately ignore or even trample on her dignity? Now she is no longer entangled in these, fortunately, if she doesn't live together, there are fewer pots and pans.

She can accommodate Gu Haiping, but she doesn't want to show weakness and accommodate him in front of their family. Then they may be even more aggressive, more swaggering, and even less inconsiderate of her.

So when Gu Haiping pretended to be enthusiastic and shouted, "Xiaowei, come to answer the phone, Dad's call", Shandan felt extremely disgusting. Is it necessary to show such a bloody plot to their family? Didn't they always know that their son was capable and their daughter-in-law was vassal? Why did she add her cowardly and humble image to their already strong consciousness?

She is deeply in love with Gu Haiping, she can do anything for him, but such injuries again and again make her unbearable. She decided that she would not answer today's call, and that she would no longer lose her dignity for the sake of what he had been trying to say to his parents.

Gu Haiping shouted twice, and seeing that Shandan did not respond, he put down the phone and came to the kitchen to call Shandan, and he found that Shandan was crying silently while absentmindedly wiping the stove.

Gu Haiping couldn't understand it in his heart: Isn't it just 5,000 yuan? When he gave it, he said that he would give 20,000 yuan, why is 5,000 yuan so sad now? He will never think of why Shandan is sad.

She just wants a recognition, a word. However, no matter how much she does or does, they will take it for granted, and never give back even a word of boo. Xiaoyu's birth made Shandan's heart a lot weaker, and as a parent, she can better understand the difficulties and difficulties of being a parent. So, usually she will do all the etiquette in place no matter what. But if she were to be asked to put down her despised dignity face to face and cater to them, she would not be able to do so.

She didn't pay attention to Gu Haiping, she knew that he was good to her, but his foolishness also brought her harm.

Although Gu Haiping is also by his side, his busyness is incomparable, Shandan often feels powerless to take care of the children alone, and she doesn't want to disturb Gu Haiping, she is willing for him to devote himself to his career, his achievements are their together, and it is also the hope that she can talk about.

The sense of loss brought about by the abandonment of her profession, coupled with the arrival of the child's first rebellious period, Gu Haiping was so busy that he couldn't take care of his family a little bit in the dark, and Shandan felt unprecedented pressure. Her heart has always been strong, and now her inaction may be the reason why her in-laws despise her. But how could they not understand: If it were not for her uncomplaining and unrepentant hard work, where would Gu Haiping have the energy to concentrate on his career? Where could he have achieved prosperity in just a few years?

Although Gu Haiping often said that the military merit medal was half of hers, but in reality, it might not be the case, otherwise how could he not say a good word for her in front of her parents, or just a truth, a fair word? She actually complained about Gu Haiping a little more in her heart.