442. Surrender to fate

If you are tired of playing in the mountains and rivers, wouldn't it be a great pleasure in the world to go to the nearby farmhouse restaurant by the river to have a meal? !

Yongcheng is located in the southwest, located on the south side of the Tropic of Cancer, belongs to the humid subtropical monsoon climate, sunshine, abundant rainfall, less frost and no snow, mild climate, long summer and short winter, the average relative humidity is about 80%, the main climate is characterized by hot and humid. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

Relatively speaking, the summer is generally humid, while the winter is slightly dry, and the dry and wet seasons are distinct. Summers are much longer than winters, and they are summer from about May to November, so the hot hours are longer, and about three seasons of the year are summer.

The south belongs to the fire, coupled with the hot and humid climate, Yongcheng's eating habits are light, and the food is fresh and natural, and other condiments are not added. Meat is especially good at "white cut", "white cut chicken", "white cut duck", "white cut pork" and so on, dip a dish of homemade five-flavor dipping sauce (probably green onion, ginger, garlic, soy sauce, vinegar and so on on fresh ingredients, green onion to chives is better, ginger must be sand ginger for the like. ）

Most of the vegetables are added to the pot with peanut oil, add a handful of garlic and stir-fry fragrant, and then add seasonal vegetables to stir-fry out of the pot, and eat a fresh and true color.

Steamed river fish, you can smell the umami in the corridor.

A table of local chicken, local pig, local duck, organic vegetables and all kinds of wild vegetables, eating a group of old people smiled, I haven't eaten such an authentic "local taste" for a long time.

After being full of wine and food, I smashed my mouth with satisfaction and had an endless aftertaste.

Because of the hot and humid climate, Yongcheng people are particularly easy to "get on fire", manifested as sore throat, red eyes, and irritability, therefore, the ancestors of Yongcheng people used all kinds of cold wild vegetables into medicine, commonly known as herbal tea.

You can also see all kinds of cold vegetables on the dinner table: white cauliflower, a top red, watercress, kale, mustard greens and other bitter cold vegetables.

The materials used for herbal tea can be more abundant: grass roots, light bamboo leaves, honeysuckle, kudzu, houttuynia cordata, mint, poria cocos, mulberry leaves, dandelions, lotus seed hearts, etc. can be used in medicine.

After "getting on the fire", drinking some homemade "herbal tea" has played an immediate role in "reducing fire", but I never wanted to reduce the fire from a small or long-term time, so that the local people show a large number of yang deficiency and fire prosperity.

Gu Haiping has seen many similar patients clinically, and he also took half a day to give a lecture on "The Influence of Yongcheng Climate and Eating Habits on the Locals", and invited people from the public to observe. I advise everyone not to rush to "lower the fire", because the lack of yang energy is not enough to resist external evils, which is the source of all diseases.

Seeing a table of cold dishes, Shandan didn't dare to move the chopsticks, she simply ate a little, for so long, she tasted the deliciousness and sweetness of the food.

Slowly, life is on the right track again.

When I got home in the evening, I told Xiaoyu about the day's itinerary and described what I saw and heard during the period, and Xiaoyu listened with relish with big eyes.

The mother and daughter ate a bowl of long-lost cat ears, and the two of them quietly wrote homework, read books, and chatted from time to time, and life slowly quieted down.

Shandan thought: Growing up with the child calmly like this, and accompanying her through the mountains and rivers of the sun and the moon, is the meaning of her life.

In his hand is Mr. Cui Manli's "Glass World", during which natural disasters and man-made disasters continued, and a dialogue between Fengyi and his father gave Shandan a lot of inspiration:

Feng Yi encountered the life and death difficulties of life, and in response to a series of questions raised by her father, her father's answers were full of love and wisdom.

Father: "Son, you remember, being alive is the foundation of human beings, and it is the first thing that people should do well. ”

"Whatever you encounter?"

"No matter what happens!"

The daughter asked, "Daddy, what if you are desperate?"

"Give up and start all over again. ”

"What if you can't give up?"

"Bear it. ”

"Bear it?" the daughter was a little dazed, "Isn't that painful?"

"Bear the pain, and bear the time, and time will make the pain less and then give new happiness. ”

For many days, she had been under the yoke of life and death, so heavy that she could not breathe, raise her head, or think, as if she had fallen into a fire and burned.

Today, when I saw the dialogue between Feng Yi and her father in Mr. Cui Manli's "The Age of Glass", her thoughts suddenly woke up like thunder, and she thought: Should I bear the pain, and bear the time, waiting for the new happiness given by God? Will I still be given happiness in my future life?

In an instant, a voice responded: Of course, the healthy growth of children and the health of parents are not the happiness of life?

Think again, life is nothing but a journey to death, long or short. If you can let go of the gains and losses in the world and only live in the moment, isn't it also happiness?

Isn't it also happy for the child to sit quietly and obediently at the table to study, and the mother to accompany him quietly and lovingly, without worrying about food and clothing?

Teacher Ba said: Don't be attached to one person, one thing, one thing, live in the moment, and enjoy the beauty of the moment, right?

Shandan put down the book, broke the pomelo he brought back from the countryside, separated the flesh, removed the seeds, and stacked them neatly on the plate, just as Gu Haiping did when he was there.

The watery, crystalline flesh exuded a faint fragrance, and Xiao Yu couldn't help but grab it directly and put it in her mouth.

"Wash your hands first. Shandan pulled the child to wash his hands, and Xiaoyu "giggled" and laughed mischievously.

In the past few days, there was a child's laughter in the house, and Shandan felt a little relieved in her heart, no matter how God arranged her life, she would continue to improve herself, change what she could grasp and change, accept, endure, surrender to the powerless, not demanding of God, nor demanding of herself.

The past remains the past and cannot be changed. She has no regrets or regrets for Gu Haiping's intentions, her past life was beautiful and short, but she has no regrets. Even if the years come back, she will still be the same choice.

Following him, sharing weal and woe with him, helping each other in the same boat, and being selfless, was her relief after his sudden departure. She has never had selfishness, and has always loved him wholeheartedly, thinking about him and paying for him.

In the days to come, she will have the same philosophy, trying her best not to let herself waste her time and leave regrets in life.

For her relatives, friends, country, society, and sentient beings, she must try her best to be perfect.

Give your child a sunny, strong and positive role model, cultivate your child's sound and independent personality, so that you will not deviate from the path of life because of your father's departure, have a kind and benevolent heart, and have the instinct to feel love and give back love. As for what kind of achievements she has, it depends on her efforts and creation.