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"Doctor Su, I really want to forget the past, forget the bits and pieces of living with him, forget the deception and betrayal he made to me, but I can't forget it, I hate him, and I can't stop thinking about him, in this feeling of love and hate, I feel like I'm going to collapse. Liu Chunyan leaned back, leaned back on the sofa, and let out a long sigh. Su Yan could hear that her heart was very entangled.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, but it comes from the heart, so people's love may arise at any time and disappear at any time. For example, it's easy for you to fall in love with someone. It is also very easy for us to hate someone, although hatred requires conditions, but the conditions do not need to be very sufficient. It is also very easy to get married, and if two people agree, they will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a marriage certificate, and then hold a banquet. Divorce is also very easy, one thing, one word, a misunderstanding, you can divorce at any time. But the process of divorce is not so simple, economic disputes, child support, etc., especially in this society, the divorce rate is very high. After the divorce, don't always think that you fell for him, his feelings are not real, he deceived himself, these fluctuations in thoughts and feelings make you slowly resentful of each other, and then lose interest in a qiē thing, and don't want to communicate with your family, you can only torture yourself. ”

Speaking of this, Su Yan stood up.

"Ms. Liu, the tea is cold, I'll help you fill in some tea, and we'll talk again." After talking so much to Liu Chunyan, she wanted to give her some time to digest and comprehend, and she also wanted to give herself some time to take a break.

Liu Chunyan was already exhausted, and when she saw the recliner next to her, she fell asleep for a while, so she wanted to go up to the recliner, and just as she was about to get up, she saw Su Yan coming over with a teacup and sitting down again.

"Ms. Liu, I see that you are also tired, drink some tea, come here to rest for a while, we talk like this, you will be more comfortable in body and heart." Understanding her thoughts, Su Yan said empathetically.

Liu Chunyan picked up the teacup and drank it. Tea, smiling gratefully at her, leaned back in the recliner. Su Yan looked at the woman in front of him from the side, she was so ordinary that she couldn't be ordinary, a plain face, because of her neglect of grooming, she looked a few years older than her actual age, her hair was a little yellow, she simply wore her hair in a bun, her body was thin, and she didn't have the charm that a woman should have.

Su Yan has received many unmarried women over the age of thirty-five, and the reasons for their divorce are different, but there is a little similarity, that is, when they are frustrated, they no longer pay attention to themselves, and even forget that they are a woman, they need to dress up, they need to wear beautiful clothes, and they need to show themselves in a clean and tidy image.

At the end of each psychological consultation, Su Yan would give the counselor a sentence: "Women, no matter how big a setback you encounter, don't lose your nature as a woman, we have to live for ourselves, live for the people who love us, we want to live wonderfully, live beautifully, and live in the sun!"

"Doctor Su, do you know? When I saw the photos and videos sent by the woman, what did I feel in my heart?" Liu Chunyan paused, didn't wait for Su Yan to answer, and continued: "I want to die, I can't wait to die immediately, I don't see this filthy thing! I even feel that I am not clean, I feel disgusted when I have been touched by him! This is not his first woman, I am so wronged, I can't figure it out, I cook for him, run the house, Taking care of the children, he actually carried me to bed with several women, which ...... Disgusting...... I'm disgusting! but...... I don't understand, when I was with him, I was very miserable, thinking that it would be good if I got divorced, but I didn't want to, but now, my pain has not only not decreased, but has increased! Doctor Su, why do you say this?" When she said these words, Liu Chunyan kept looking at the roof of the shed, her voice was choked, and her tears were like beads with broken threads, sliding uncontrollably, drop by drop, and Su Yan felt uncomfortable.

As a psychiatrist, after seeing many such scenes, Su Yan thought that he would be numb, but he did not receive a woman who lost her marriage because of her husband's betrayal, Su Yan would be sad for them, and this time was no exception.

Su Yan took out two more tissues and handed them to Liu Chunyan. Thinking about her question just now, she replied: "Ms. Liu, after listening to what you just said, I can feel that you still love your ex-husband, you hate him because you love him too deeply and can't tolerate betrayal, and after the divorce, you are uncomfortable because you can't leave him, and when you think of living your own life from now on, you can't bear him." Since you still love your ex-husband, then the next thing is much simpler. There are two ways, first, you can mend the wounded feelings as much as possible, don't embarrass him, give him a chance, see if there is any hope to get back together, in my opinion, whether it is love, friendship, or family affection, it is an emotion that brings joy and happiness to people. You also love him, and if you can't do without him emotionally, there is no need to hurt yourself, so why be so persistent?"

"Dr. Su, I'...... I don't want to continue, since I have chosen to divorce, I don't plan to give him a chance, I just want to let myself come out as much as I can, and no longer hate him, because the taste of hating a person is really uncomfortable, and the taste of love and hate is even more uncomfortable......" Liu Chunyan interrupted Su Yan's words and said incoherently.

"Well, I can think of your state of mind. Yes, you want to get rid of it, but now you simply can't let him go. Therefore, you live very tired and tired. There are two options in front of you, either to remarry or to let go, and there is no need to go around in the horns. If you still have concerns about this marriage and can't let go, but you choose to divorce, this is not letting go, but giving up, and you still can't avoid the pain. ”

After saying so many words, Su Yan had a dry mouth, picked up the water cup, and drank it. Shui, and then said: "Generally, when a man and a woman fall in love, the man wants to get married, but he doesn't say it, so most of the words marriage are put forward by women; when the relationship between husband and wife is not good, the man always wants to divorce in his heart, but he still doesn't say it, and most of the words divorce are proposed by women; once the divorce is the most painful and regretful within three years after the divorce, it is the woman who regrets and suffers after three years. Some people treat marriage as child's play, and this kind of person's marriage is never happy. Therefore, marriage cannot be a child's play, marriage must be responsible, divorce cannot be a monkey play, if you get divorced, you still have to marry again, can you guarantee that your second husband will not cheat? Can you guarantee that there will be no troubles in another marriage? Sometimes, we have a lot of troubles, because we think of the world too perfectly, and any marriage will have more or less flaws, but your ex-husband has made this flaw bigger, so big that it is out of control, which leads to the breakdown of your marriage. Divorce is a formality, or a process, the days after the divorce are what you have to face, no matter how reluctant you are to your ex-husband, reluctant to your home, but divorce is your choice, and you don't want to look back, then, you should look forward. The priority is not to be sad or depressed, but to design your future life. ”

What Su Yan said, when she was sober, Liu Chunyan thought about it, on this day, through Su Yan's mouth, she had the same feeling, Su Yan's voice was soft, like a spring breeze, which gave Liu Chunyan, who had been tortured for days, a great comfort. Seeing that her feelings were somewhat soothed, Su Yan asked, "Ms. Liu, are you ...... I think I have children, right? Are my parents in good health? Can I have siblings?"

Liu Chunyan looked at her, smiled, and nodded.

"There are parents, children, brothers and sisters, they are all your dearest and loved people, you have lost a man who does not love you, you are not lonely, you should take your relatives as the motivation for you to live well, I think, they all want to see you happy and happy, do not want to see you full of sadness, right?"

"Well, I know, it's uncomfortable, but I'm still conscious, I know what to do next, it's just ...... I want to find someone to talk to, I want to hear some words of comfort, and I feel better. Liu Chunyan straightened her body and re-tied the ponytail on her head, and her sallow face regained a little radiance.

"Doctor Su, thank you, listening to you say so much, I feel much better, it's not early, I went downstairs to pay, and left. ”

"I'm very happy to be able to alleviate your troubles, and finally send you a word, the advertisement says: Women should be kind to themselves! No matter when, don't forget that we are women, live wonderfully, live beautifully! The last sentence sounds like a slogan, but it is very inspiring, Liu Chunyan stood up and gave Su Yan a warm smile, although a little reluctantly, but compared with the bitter gourd face when he first entered the house, it was much better.

After saying goodbye to Su Yan, Liu Chunyan took a taxi, ready to go to the supermarket to buy some vegetables and meat, and promised Zhao Gang that she would still do it, even if it was not for Zhao Gang, but also for her son, Zhao Wenjun shouted for a long time that he was going to eat with his father. A woman's heart is always soft and will not do things absolutely. It was Liu Chunyan's approach that made Zhao Gang see hope.

Zhao Gang had already returned home, mopping the floor, washing clothes, cleaning up a messy home, and just waiting for Liu Chunyan to come back with the child. (To be continued.)