Chapter 255 Psychological Counseling

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Unlike Zhao Gang, Liu Chunyan and Zhao Gang got married entirely because of love, and it is precisely because the relationship is true enough and deep enough that they cannot tolerate betrayal again and again. Although Zhao Gang repeatedly explained and admitted his mistakes, there was so much naked evidence in front of her, she could no longer trust him, and felt that "long pain is better than short pain" and ruthlessly filed for divorce, but now, the red book has been replaced by a green book, the marriage has been divorced, and the property has been divided, but after the divorce, she found that she still loves Zhao Gang very much and is emotionally inseparable from him.

"Chunyan, where are you going, I'll send you. Seeing Liu Chunyan getting thinner and thinner, Zhao Gang didn't feel good in his heart. Coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Liu Chunyan's identity has changed, from Zhao Gang's wife to his ex-wife, Zhao Gang is embarrassed, but there is no way.

"No, I want to be alone. Liu Chunyan took out a tissue, wiped the tears from her face, and rejected him.

"That'...... When can I pick you up and Wenwen and have dinner at home together?" lest Liu Chunyan change his mind, Zhao Gang then asked.

"In the evening, you come to us in the evening, I don't need you to buy vegetables, I will buy it. Liu Chunyan said without saltiness. promised Zhao Gang to eat together at night, in addition to emotional factors, it was also taking into account his son's feelings, after not seeing him for many days, Zhao Wenjun kept shouting and thinking about his father, and Liu Chunyan's heart was broken.

Marriage is like a bowl, it is difficult to restore the original state when it is broken, and even if it is glued, the crack will always be there. This is very true. Liu Chunyan once tried to forgive, but since she knew about Zhao Gang and Zhang Nan, Liu Chunyan fell ill, as long as Zhao Gang was at home, as soon as his mobile phone text message rang, Liu Chunyan panicked, when Zhao Gang was out of the house, he didn't answer his mobile phone, Liu Chunyan would feel that Zhao Gang and Zhang Nan were together again...... To put it bluntly, Liu Chunyan couldn't convince herself to trust Zhao Gang anymore, this was a demon that she could never defeat, her nerves had been tense, and she didn't relax at all, what Xu Wen sent was undoubtedly a bombshell with great lethality, blasting out all her patience, pain, and grievances, and she was completely desperate for Zhao Gang.

Although there is reluctance to the good days of the past, but the divorce has become a fact, Liu Chunyan wants to get out of the shadow of the failed marriage as soon as possible, farewell to Zhao Gang, Liu Chunyan came to the famous psychological counseling center in Haicheng - Meixin Garden, she knows that the owner of this psychological clinic is Shen Mei, a well-known psychologist in the country, but she does not know that she is Ruhan's aunt.

Shen Mei is the owner of this psychological counseling center, and there are more than ten psychological counselors under her command to accept psychological counseling appeals in Haicheng and even across the country. At the end of each month, she will go to the clinic to see in person, and the rest of the time, her lover Su Yan is responsible for handling the affairs of the consultation center. This day is Wednesday, and it happens to be Su Yan's visit, Liu Chunyan went to the front desk to make an appointment, just waiting to pour out the depression in her heart.

After waiting for more than an hour, Liu Chunyan was called into an elegant room with pink walls, and there was only one woman in a white suit, a delicate appearance, about forty years old, looking at her with gentle eyes.

"You are Ms. Liu Chunyan, my name is Su Yan, I am your psychological counselor, you can sit down first, and I will pour you a cup of tea." ”

"Okay, thank you!" Seeing Su Yan enter the inner room, Liu Chunyan sat on the sofa by the window, the sofa was very soft and comfortable, which made her feel at home in an instant, and then looked down, on the sofa table in front of her, there was a pot of extremely elegant small potted plants and a plate of snacks that looked very appetizing, and next to the sofa was a milky white recliner with a pastoral style. The whole room was quite warmly furnished, which made her nervous feelings slowly calm down.

"Ms. Liu, please have tea. Just as Liu Chunyan was intoxicated by the scenery in front of her, Su Yan walked out of the inner room, put an ivory-white teacup on the sofa table, and then sat down on the sofa next to Liu Chunyan.

"Ms. Liu, if there is anything you want to ask or say, just tell me, I am willing to be your best listener and answerer, and I assure you on behalf of Meixin Beyuan that what you say today will be kept confidential and will not be told to anyone. Looking at the haggard woman in front of him, Su Yan could guess what was going on.

It's just that, adhering to the professionalism of a psychological counselor, Liu Chunyan doesn't say it, she will never find out.

"Miss Su, I'm divorced, I just came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, do you know, I didn't feel relieved when I came out of there, I just felt uncomfortable, sad, and wanted to cry...... I didn't want to hurt myself, and I didn't want my family to be sad. But I really can't adjust my mood, please help me, how can a newly divorced woman like me get out of the pain?" Seeing Su Yan, Liu Chunyan seemed to have found a savior, and couldn't wait to ask.

"Ms. Liu, I understand your mood very well, you drink some tea first, calm down, and then, I will help you answer. Seeing that Liu Chunyan was excited, Su Yan hurriedly tried to comfort her.

"Doctor Su, I'm fine......" Liu Chunyan took a sip of tea and continued.

"Ms. Liu, I want to ask, you and your husband, no, it should be your ex-husband, why did you divorce?" Su Yan asked tentatively.

"Because of his betrayal, he looked for a woman outside more than once, and finally this time...... The woman put ...... They sent me a picture of their bed. I love him so much, I didn't expect her to treat me like this, is there really no love in this world, it's all deception and lies!" Humanity is a family ugliness that cannot be publicized, but Liu Chunyan at this time can't take much care of it, not to mention, she trusts the psychological counselor in front of her and believes that she will keep it secret for herself.

In many cases that Su Yan has come into contact with, most of them are divorced due to the extramarital affair of one of the husband and wife, especially the man, and after thinking about it, she said: " We are born in the world, everyone has love, love is also a kind of fate, so it is worth cherishing, but there are four kinds of love can not be cherished, one, deceptive love: that is, to hide your love, to say that you love you, hiding others in your heart is unacceptable, it is useless to accept, in the end he will deceive you, you will never be happy; second, insulting love: that is, the love that does not respect you cannot be pursued, it is useless for you to pursue and get, you will not be happy; third, possessive love: that is, to use your beauty, status and power to love is not necessary to care, no matter how much you care, it is useless, he will not cherish, you will not be happy; four, betrayal love: It is not necessary to keep the love after derailment, you must let go of it, you can get liberation, if you can't let go, you are not happy. These four kinds of love must be forgotten, otherwise it will bring you endless pain and suffering. As long as you pursue more love and loyalty in your life, you can get more true love and less worldliness, so that you can abandon some earthly troubles and leave a wider space in your heart, love will naturally have a perfect home, let go of the old love you should let go, or unhappy love, you will have a happy love! We must know how to let go, learn to let go of old feelings, let go of the heart, make the body and mind light, so that our love will be happy and happy. ”

"Dr. Su, I understand everything you said, and I also clearly know that the so-called love I have is one or two of the four you said, or even ...... Three, but...... I just can't put it down. Or rather, I feel like I'm a failure, and I use ten years of youth to love such a man!" Speaking of sadness, Liu Chunyan burst into tears again.

Su Yan handed her the tissue, and continued, "Ms. Liu, you are also a woman, I feel very uncomfortable to see you like this." I might as well use an analogy, love is like eating fish, and almost everyone who has eaten fish has the experience of being stabbed and stabbed. There are two kinds of people whose experiences are different, the first type of people, the people who eat fish and are pricked in the throat by a thorn, and they no longer dare to eat fish. You must know that there is no impossible love in this world, and there is no unbreakable love, and the love between you and your husband is not unbreakable. Nowadays, it is often seen on TV that there are too many cases of deception and lawsuits between mothers and sons, fathers and children, and siblings. So, the love between you and your husband has reached the time when it is time to end, and it is time for you to let go. The second type of people, who have eaten fish, also have the experience of being pricked by thorns, but still want to eat fish, as long as the thorns are removed, the wound will heal sooner or later. Now that the wound is healed, be careful when you eat again. Divorce is like a war, a war is a war, a family is a family, a marriage is a marriage, and a divorce is a divorce. You must know that there is nothing immutable in the world, the only constant is change, not to mention that the feelings and love in the world are changing all the time. For example, there are many people who divorce after marriage, remarry after divorce, or remarry after divorce. ”

Su Yan's voice and words had a kind of power to iron people's hearts, and in the face of her gentle gaze, Liu Chunyan listened very seriously, and her brows gradually relaxed. (To be continued.)