120. Only when raising children can you know the kindness of your parents

The next day, Shandan was tormented by the pain and had no strength, but the doctor asked Shandan to breastfeed the child as much as possible to promote the early secretion of the lotion.

Shandan was lying down, Gu Haiping put the child in the crook of her arm, and the child immediately began to come to ** everywhere to feed, Shandan put ** into the child's small mouth, and the child immediately sucked greedily.

The strength of feeding is very strong, Shandan feels that ** is sucked painfully, and wants to take it out to stop and feed it slowly, but the child's small mouth is so tight, Shandan can't bear to rob the child's job, so he has to endure the pain and continue.

When the child is tired of eating and falls asleep, he relaxes the ** in his mouth, and Shandan tries to squeeze it, but there is a burnt yellow lotion secretion. No wonder the child sucked greedily tightly, it turned out that she had eaten her mother's sweet colostrum.

With breast milk secretion, the child no longer needs to eat milk, but the hospital distributes a powder called "open tea", which is fed to each parent to the newborn baby, saying that it is to reduce the baby's fetal toxicity.

The doctor asked Shandan to move on the ground, but Shandan still didn't dare to move, the wound was too painful. Moving was like a knife cut, and she didn't want to move. But she also knows that as the doctor said, "the earlier you get out of bed, the less likely you are to develop intestinal adhesions after surgery, and the later you move, the higher the incidence of intestinal adhesions." ”

But it was so painful that Shandan still couldn't get up, and she had to work hard to turn over in bed, so she was sweating profusely, not to mention getting out of bed and walking. The doctor had to insert a urinary catheter and care for it in bed.

The mother after giving birth is the weakest, every time Shandan wakes up from sleep, he is drenched in sweat, his head is covered with beads of sweat, and his short hair is all soaked, but he does not take a bath and wash his hair, which is really uncomfortable. There was a smell like fermentation all over her body, and Shandan asked Gu Haiping to fetch a basin of hot water to help her scrub her body and wipe her hair. Such a sloppy life is really torture for Shandan, who has always been clean and tidy.

Living unkempt every day is unimaginable for Shandan, but now he has to endure it for a month, and he feels collapsed when he thinks about it.

On the third day, the doctor removed the urethral catheter, Shandan had to solve it by herself, she struggled to move on the ground, but it would be heart-rending pain when she moved, she held on to the bed rail and moved her body with difficulty, she had not urinated for five or six hours, she wanted to go to the toilet outside by herself, but it was difficult to even walk, how could she do it herself?

Gu Haiping took a hospital spittoon to pick it up, but Shandan didn't feel anything, and kept discharging a full spittoon like a faucet opening a sluice gate before stopping.

Shandan is a little scared! With so much fluid stored in the bladder, I don't feel it, and something will definitely happen if I delay it for a while. Fortunately, Gu Haiping repeatedly encouraged and helped her to get up, so as to avoid the consequences of Yan zhòng.

The bleeding after the caesarean section was particularly heavy, and the nurse kept changing the sanitary napkins and staining the sheets, and the nurse was very unhappy and muttered and complained. Shandan didn't care about it, but she knew that if she kept bleeding like this, people would gradually collapse due to excessive blood loss, so she had to endure the severe pain and ask the doctor to increase the dose and input speed of uterine contraction drugs.

The amount of blood slowly decreased, and on the evening of the third day, Shandan was able to slowly move himself to the toilet outside. As soon as she got out of the door of the ward, a fierce cold wind blew from the opposite corridor, Shandan did not wear a hat on her head, she wrapped her clothes tightly, went to the toilet, and half-squatted down, she felt a large blood clot "plop" and fell into the sewer, in her imagination, the blood clot was at least the size of a fist.

Shandan is a little worried, when will this bleeding stop? She doesn't have much life left. But she didn't dare to tell Gu Haiping, Gu Haiping was exhausted from taking care of Shandan and the child in the past few days, and he was worried that he would be crushed.

Shandan just paid close attention to his physical condition, but fortunately, after the third day, the bleeding slowly decreased, and the person gradually gained energy.

The child's milk is enough to eat, and the sound of the child's swallowing can be heard. It's just that Shandan's ** cracked a few small cracks, a little bleeding, and it will hurt when you touch it. But for the sake of the child's healthy growth, colostrum must be fed to the child no matter what.

Therefore, "if you don't raise children, you don't have parents"! Once again, Shandan thought about the difficulty of his parents.

In just a few days, Shandan deeply felt the difficulty of being a parent, what kind of pain and torture must be endured to raise a child?

Think about the many disasters and illnesses when you were a child, how much effort should your mother have spent to raise herself? How much effort do you have to make a difference and have the life you have today? She is full of gratitude to her parents.

Five days later, Shandan and his daughter were discharged from the hospital, and after completing the procedures, they spent a total of 2,763 yuan. With the help of Lao Fan, the cost of about 500 yuan was reduced. The 500 yuan can buy some nutritional products for Shandan confinement, Gu Haiping quietly planned in his heart.

The money left in his hand is only more than 3,000, and it seems that he will have to be just as frugal in the future. Fortunately, Shandan plans to return to his hometown to work when his children are older, and there is a little more than 2,000 yuan of surplus after deducting the travel expenses.

Gu Haiping didn't know anything about cooking, but he tried his best to find all kinds of nutritious foods for pregnant women in confinement from books and his professional knowledge.

In the morning, it is a bottle of fresh milk, a piece of cake, an egg, a bowl of millet porridge in the middle, various soups and noodles are boiled at noon, and in the evening it is eggs, milk and steamed buns.

Fortunately, Shandan describes himself as a good cow, and can produce enough milk to feed his daughter, often eating half of it, while the child is gulping, while spraying like a shower.

One night, Shandan was so tired that he couldn't get up, so he just lay down to feed, and when the child was full and asleep, Shandan found that the little mattress that the child slept on was all soaked with milk flowing from the other side.

The bleeding has been intermittent, and the person has always been very weak, so Gu Haiping wanted to use astragalus to replenish Shandan's qi, so he boiled a bowl of light astragalus water for Shandan to drink, not wanting that the amount of bleeding had increased a lot.

Shandan does not understand traditional Chinese medicine, it is said that astragalus is a good medicine for qi replenishment, and it can also be used for maternity, but it may be that Shandan itself has a different physique, so it will also have different reactions. She didn't blame Gu Haiping, she just told him that it might be wrong. Lochia is about 50 days postpartum before it is clean. This is far beyond the normal range, Shandan knows that it must be the hard work since pregnancy, the body is weak, and the lack of righteousness leads to postpartum weakness and bleeding.

The confinement also failed to take care of it, just in time for the local Huinantian, it was wet everywhere, and the diapers couldn't be dried, so I had to spend more than 200 yuan to buy an electric heater, and Gu Haiping dried diapers while reading.

The room could not be ventilated, and the house was full of the smell of children's milk and diapers, and Shandan's sensitive nose was really tormented.

finally survived for half a month, but Shandan couldn't stand it anymore and insisted on washing his hair with hot water. But this really left her with a problem: her head couldn't blow the wind, and when the wind blew on the top of her head, her whole head would hurt. Shandan later thought that it might have something to do with the fact that she was blown to the top of her head by the cold wind when she went to the toilet in the hospital.

Therefore, the attention of the ancestors is still reasonable, and it is still necessary to listen, after all, it is the experience they have accumulated for thousands of years.

Stumbling is finally full moon. According to the local custom, the children should boil red eggs to celebrate the full moon, Gu Haiping bought several catties of eggs and came back to boil them, and then painted them red with red ink one by one, and then gave them to his classmates and teachers one by one.

After Shandan gave birth, it was Gu Haiping's winter vacation, and most of the classmates went home for the New Year, leaving only a few classmates to stay in school, and some local classmates came to visit them.

If in the hometown, the child has a full moon that is a grand process, grandparents and grandparents as grandparents have to tie the child with a long-life tie, that is, a few copper coins with a red thread to hang in the child's neck, relatives and friends will gather together to celebrate the birth of the child, wish the child to grow up healthy and happy, but also to worship the ancestral grave.

Now in this foreign country, except for a few classmates who have come, there is no bustle. Shandan felt somewhat desolate.

Gu Haiping chatted with a few classmates, but he didn't go home all night, leaving Shandan and the child snuggling together in the wet and cold night. Shandan originally felt lonely and sad, and under Gu Haiping's behavior, she began to regret coming here to give birth.

During the month, Gu Haiping tried his best to do a good job, once bought a big carp and said that he wanted to cook fish soup for Shandan, but when he put the fish in the pot, he disappeared, and Shandan was so hungry that he couldn't see Gu Haiping come back, so she had to go to the boys' dormitory to find it, and found that Gu Haiping and his classmates were playing chess in full swing, and forgot all about the fact that Shandan didn't eat.

Shandan didn't speak, turned her head and walked upstairs with tears in her eyes, she knew that Gu Haiping had worked hard, but the care she received was so unsatisfactory, she also knew that she shouldn't force him too much, but the loneliness and grievances in her heart accumulated a little. She wants to go back to her hometown after the New Year, with her mother's care, it's time to go to work, it's been almost half a year, after all, the hospital is different from other departments, although the president is accommodating, but a radish and a pit, there is no extra welfare for anyone.

Shandan has been like this since she was a child, when she does something, she always thinks about the impact of the matter on others, and what others will think. So never do anything out of the ordinary.