130, you want to travel far away
130, you want to travel far away
Tie Dan'er has urinated on cattle and sheep since he was a child, not to mention the wind and rain, the ice and snow and severe cold in Saibei have left irreversible injuries to his legs.
The knee joint is deformed, bony growth, and then ossification, so that only one leg of both legs can bend slightly, and the right leg is already like a stick that cannot be bent.
After resting for a few days, Shandan wanted to take his parents to the park for a walk, and the family took a taxi, but his father's legs were straight and it was difficult to get into the taxi, so he reluctantly sat in the front seat by adjusting the front seat to the most advanced position.
When I arrived at the park, it took a lot of effort to get out of the car, my father was sad, but Shandan was even more sad in his heart, this is her father - for their healthy growth, he paid his life of hard work and health.
Coming to South Park, where the birds are singing and flowers, and Xiaoyu is jumping up and down like a little swallow, seeing the eyes full of greenery and purple and red, my father and mother's mood is also better.
Yongcheng in March is already a derivation, the weeping willows by the south lake are still around, the new green is delicate, the triangular plum is burning in the air like fire, the almond trees on both sides of the street have also blossomed, the lake water is clear and green, and occasionally there are fish jumping out of the water, which is a good Jiangnan landscape painting.
Father sighed: This place is already so good-looking, and the riverbank grassland is still cold in spring, ice and snow.
My parents had never been to cities or places outside of Hoh, and their imagination could not have imagined the beautiful scenery that Shandan described on the phone. They have always believed that there is no beautiful scenery in this world except for the beautiful grassland.
Now that I am immersed in the scene, I can't help but be a little dizzy, and my heart is full of gratification, and the hard work that Shandan has paid for so many years of studying seems to be worth it. Being able to come to this place like a heavenly fairyland is worth it for such an environment.
The family took a camera and took a lot of photos as they walked. Shandan was also very happy when he saw his parents happy. Looking at Gu Haiping, who was busy taking pictures of her parents, she was once again full of gratitude: with him and his heart, she has the happiness and satisfaction she has today.
With a close lover, a smart and healthy child, and a pair of loving parents, Shandan is full of gratitude to God. In this life, this is enough for her! She no longer asks for anything else, she only hopes to have the current qiē, which she will cherish and maintain. Honoring her parents, cherishing love, and caring for her children, she is willing to do her best for today's "consummation".
Although Shandan has always been a strong, capable, and self-reliant child, she is still a little woman in her bones, and her wish is only to be a happy woman with a husband and children, and a virtuous woman who is content with her family and love.
When his parents came to his side, Shandan had the opportunity to respect and be filial.
She bought a health card for her father for more than 2,000 yuan, and went to the hospital every night to soak her feet in Chinese medicine and add foot massage therapy.
Every night before going to bed, Gu Haiping would carefully acupuncture the old man for half an hour, knowing that at this time, Shandan saw what the condition of his father's leg was: the skin from the foot condyle to the knee was a little lower, and the thick layer of skin had no pain.
Shandan couldn't help but feel sad, tears fell on his father's lap, Gu Haiping gently patted Shandan on the back, and said, "It's okay! Isn't it me? Don't worry, I will cure my father and promise to cure it before I go to school." ”
Gu Haiping has changed her name to her parents since she got married, and she called her parents kindly and naturally, which also moved Shandan very much, and she never called Gu Haiping's parents and parents, so she felt guilty because of this.
Shandan knew that he was comforting her, and it would be difficult for any immortal to rejuvenate herself like this.
But no matter how busy Gu Haiping is every night, he will take time to give acupuncture and bloodletting to the elderly, plus traditional Chinese medicine foot soaking, massage, and physiotherapy, his father's legs gradually began to feel conscious, and the bruising also began to slowly decrease, and every day a large piece of dead skin would fall off and grow pink new flesh.
Seeing such a miraculous curative effect, Shandan understood that the reason why Gu Haiping was able to do well in his career in a short period of time was by no means out of thin air.
She was also deeply shocked by the miracle of Chinese medicine, the medicine of the motherland, and he also realized the essence of Chinese medicine.
Shandan once again made up his mind: no matter what, he must unconditionally support Gu Haiping to learn and improve, and he must not let worldly matters affect his achievements.
My parents came from the countryside to the big city, and they didn't adapt to it.
The language barrier is the biggest obstacle. Every day when I went downstairs, sat in the shade of a tree, and enjoyed the shade with the old people in the yard, I couldn't talk or understand people's conversations.
Shandan and Gu Haiping commute to and from work on time every day, Shandan can't go home at noon because of the long distance, and Xiaoyu goes to kindergarten in the morning and arrives home at night. Therefore, the old man only saw Gu Haiping after work at noon, and only in the evening could he talk to Shandan and Xiaoyu.
This is too different from the living environment of the riverside grassland.
Every day the parents who have nothing to do are looking forward to the arrival of the evening, the mother waits at the intersection where Shandan gets home from work every day, and sees the figure of the mother looking forward to it from afar, Shandan feels very uncomfortable, it seems that leaving his parents to live here is not necessarily a filial piety, they have become accustomed to their living environment.
The so-called inseparability of the homeland is inseparable from the habits and environment that have lived all your life.
My father's blood pressure also rose as the temperature in Yongcheng rose, and he complained of headaches every day.
Two doctors, Shandan and Gu Haiping, plus the professor-level director of the cardiovascular system of a tertiary hospital, couldn't handle it, and their blood pressure had obviously been controlled, but his father's headache was still not relieved. My father said that they were not as good as a barefoot doctor on the riverbank, which made everyone very embarrassed.
Later, Shandan and Gu Haiping analyzed, it is estimated that the old man is too nervous to adapt to the climate of Yongcheng, or something is wrong with his brain?
So I took the old man to do brain CT and brain Doppler, and the results showed that the cerebral arteries were moderately sclerosis, and the cerebral blood supply was insufficient, leading to headaches. Coupled with the fact that he did not adapt to the sudden rise in temperature, he had severe pain in his head.
The eating habits of the prairie and the meat lead to hardening of the arteries and the high proportion of strokes.
Shandan is very happy: fortunately, his father came to Yongcheng and was able to get timely diagnosis and treatment. Grandpa Tie Dan'er died of a ruptured cerebral artery.
As a result, the timely infusion of various drugs to soften and dredge blood vessels, coupled with health care drugs such as deep-sea fish oil and soybean lecithin, my father's headache was finally relieved, and Shandan's pressure was reduced a lot.
But the good times didn't last long, just a month later, Tie Dan'er began to talk about going home, frowning every day, saying that she was uncomfortable anywhere, Tie Dan'er's mother was very angry, but she didn't dare to have a seizure, worried that Tie Dan'er's big body would not go back.
His mother whispered to Shandan: "He is worried that he will not be able to go back to the riverbank and die here, afraid that he will be cremated." ”
Alas, I originally picked up my parents so that they could live comfortably and spend their old age in peace, but now that there is so much trouble, Shandan feels a little uncomfortable. Thinking about Gu Haiping, who has gone all the way to pick them up, no matter what, he has to give her some face, right?
Eating and drinking every day, the body has been actively treated, seeing Gu Haiping sweating every day to help his father treat without complaint, Shandan was very moved, but his father was ......
The temperature is high, but my father can't stand the low temperature of the air conditioner, so he can only blow the electric fan day and night, and it is difficult for the elderly.
Shandan was also in a dilemma in the middle, and privately appeased Gu Haiping, but Gu Haiping did not dislike it, he said: "The old people are like this when they are old, and you and I are like this when we are old, like a child." Besides, your parents are also my parents, I won't care. As long as they are comfortable, healthy, and happy. ”
It is also rare for Gu Haiping to be easy-going and good-tempered. Shandan is naturally grateful.
Fortunately, Dr. Gu Haiping's admission letter arrived in early April, saying that the school would start at the end of August, so he could only wait for Gu Haiping to go out a few days in advance when school started and send the old man back.
My father finally had hope, and he no longer went back noisily every day, and various treatments were still ongoing. My father's health gradually improved.
Shandan was worried about the arrival of that day, Gu Haiping and her parents had left her, and only she and Xiaoyu were left at home, how lonely and lonely should it be in this foreign place?
But she would never make her relatives feel a little aggrieved or uncomfortable for her own sake. Parents have paid too much for their children, she can't keep them, they don't adapt to the living environment and language environment here, the mother said that she is like a fool, which also makes Shandan feel very guilty, think about filial piety is not to obey the old man? how happy they feel, this is also what children should understand.
Seeing that at the end of August, Gu Haiping began to prepare for the formalities and various materials for going to school, and Shandan began to pack some bags for Gu Haiping, although it was a happy thing, but Shandan was really reluctant to let him go so far, thousands of mountains and rivers!
While sorting out Gu Haiping's clothes, he couldn't help but cry.
Beijing's climate will drop after the National Day, so the clothes should be brought in winter and summer, such as the thinness, length, winter and summer pajamas, all kinds of warm clothes, and even the socks and shandins are prepared one by one according to the usual habits of Gu Haiping. All kinds of coats are ironed, folded, put into different garment bags, and are ready for each category.
The mother watched silently from the side, her eyes were extremely reluctant, she didn't worry about staying in Shandan to take a child so far away. However, her parents are still there, and there is no one to take care of her weak body, so she can't rest assured. It made her feel bad.