472. Mother's thoughts
472. Mother's thoughts
Shandan has always been very cautious about Xiaoyu's growth, and she hopes that her child will become a person with a sound personality and personality. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
She can feel that she has inherited some of the shortcomings and weaknesses of her mother's character, so she hopes that through her own efforts, the child will no longer inherit the character defects from the family. Therefore, her education of children is based on deep rational thinking and emotional maternal love. Xiaoyu lives up to her expectations and is growing up healthily, which makes Shandan very comforted.
Mother is illiterate without any education, in the long years of life can perceive life, understand life, have their own unique views and philosophy of life, it is very valuable, she will not criticize the mother's character shortcomings, she understands her, admires her, and will feel more sorry for her.
After dinner, Shandan sat next to Xiaoyu, and the small square table with red sour branches and wood was placed next to the sofa, just to do homework for the children. She accompanied the child to do homework, caressed and watched the child grow up and sensible day by day, and her heart was no longer sad, life may be like this, one life continues the information of another life.
Suddenly, the mobile phone rang, Daolang's "West Sea Love Song" "Since you left, you have lost your gentle ......", Shandan heard such a song, and thought that it was time to change a positive, cheerful ringtone, life has to move forward in the world.
looked at the phone from his brother Tie Dan'er, and then answered: "Hey, brother." ”
"Shandan, what are you busy with? Have you eaten? What is Xiaoyu doing?" Tie Dan'er would call from time to time to inquire about the situation of Shandan's mother, so when he picked up the phone, Shandan didn't care, and replied: "We just ate, Xiaoyu is doing homework, I have nothing to do with the child, what are you busy with?"
"We're all fine, nothing busy. I'll tell you something, don't worry. Tie Dan'er said.
"What's the matter?" Shandan became a little nervous.
"It's just that Mom was uncomfortable at the previous stage, but now it's cured, let me tell you. Tie Dan'er said without waves.
"Ahh
"It's okay, I'm sick, my mother won't let you tell you. "Iron Egg is a little embarrassed.
"Brucellosis? Sheep infection? Oops! I'm a doctor, you have to tell me in time if you have any diseases, I just can't dispense medicine myself, and the doctors who guide you to go to see a doctor are all professional, you are really right! Mom is afraid that I'm in a hurry and don't be sensible, and you are not sensible? It's not a serious illness, why are you hiding it from me? Even if it's a serious illness, you have to inform me first and discuss it with me!" Shandan was a little angry.
Tie Dan didn't answer.
Tiedan's mother is like this, she is afraid of causing trouble to others all her life, even if it is a child, she does her best to help the children, but she does not ask for anything in return, even if it is the daughter of a doctor, she only thinks of her as her own daughter, but she doesn't know that she is a doctor.
Last time, Tie Dan'er's mother tripped over a burning stick, and the middle finger of her left hand was cut by the edge of the sharp pot, so she didn't see a doctor or take medicine, and she fooled around and wrapped it up, and after a few days, the whole finger was inflamed and suppurated before she was found by Tie Dan'er, and she went to the hospital for debridement treatment and medicine, but the tendon injury and inflammation could not be recovered, so the middle finger could never be straightened again.
And Tie Dan'er's mother didn't tell Shandan about this from beginning to end, even if it hurt so much that she couldn't sleep all night, and sat with her hands together until dawn, she didn't want to add a little more trouble to Shandan. She felt that the doll was bad enough, and she should not trouble the doll for any big or small affairs in the family. She would rather suffer personally, and if she can give the dolls more help and shelter, she is willing.
It wasn't until Shandan came home to visit relatives that he noticed his mother's fingers curled up, and after questioning, his mother told her what had happened.
Shandan was a little angry, but she was even more sad, her mother would never trouble anyone for herself, not even her dearest children. She didn't remember that Shandan was a doctor, only that she was her daughter and that she needed her mother's care, but she didn't know that her daughter had already grown up and should repay her mother's nurturing kindness. This has been said to be "raising children to prevent old age" for thousands of years, and many people in the village say that she is a strange person, obviously her daughter is a doctor, and she naturally asked her daughter first when she was sick, but she never used it.
All the troubles will not be told by Tiedan's mother until the moment when the wind and waves are calm, and Shandan will always be the last person to know. Therefore, Shandan often blames herself very much, as far as the family is concerned, no matter how she says it, she has some culture and ability, but the family affairs can't help at all.
My mother used to say, "Shandan is so far away, telling her is just adding to her troubles." This also made Shandan regret his decision to go away, and he originally planned to lay a piece of the world by himself to support his parents in his old age, but now he ......
Seeing that his tone was too much, choking until his brother was speechless, Shandan sighed and said tactfully: "Then what is the situation now? Has it been diagnosed? Has it been treated? How can there be a cloth disease?"
"It's the disease that people bought back some cold sheep from Xinjiang and brought back, and the sheep on our grassland did not have this disease. Now many farmers and herdsmen in the whole grassland have this disease, and the government is treating people and sheep for free, you don't have to worry, my mother is almost better. Tie Dan'er briefly recounted.
"Oh, that needs to be treated in time, but it can't be dragged into a chronic disease, then it's not easy to treat. Shandan said.
"Well, you know, the government has opened a special outpatient clinic and called on everyone to find and treat it in time. Tie Dan'er said.
"You give your mother the phone, and I'll ask about your mother's situation. Shandan said.
"Oh, I told you secretly, my mother won't let me say it, if you call her later, you'll curse. Tie Dan'er laughed.
"Scolding? It's good if I don't scold her, and still scolding people?
"Oh, I'll go home first and call you, I'm out there now. Tie Dan'er hung up the phone and went home.
"What's wrong with my grandma?" asked Xiaoyu worriedly.
"It's nothing, I'm sick, your uncle said it's fine, it's fine. Mom was angry that Grandma didn't tell her about her illness, and Mom was a doctor who could help her heal. Shandan said to Xiaoyu.
"That's right, she probably didn't tell you because she was afraid that you would be worried. Xiaoyu expressed her opinion.
"That's not going to work! I'm a doctor!" said Shandan, dissatisfied.
"But grandma only knows that you are her daughter. Xiaoyu giggled.