471. Respect for life

"Oh, it doesn't matter, I want her to think about her mistakes, recognize her mistakes, tomorrow I will ask her to take the initiative and sincerely apologize to her classmates, you can help me praise Xiaoyu afterwards for her spirit of knowing her mistakes and being able to correct them, it is really troublesome for you!" Shandan pleaded with the teacher. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

"Don't do it, children's mistakes are all momentary naughty, so you don't need to make it so grand. The head teacher replied.

"That's not good, this is a matter of principle, thought and behavior, I hope to give the child a correct direction, tell her what she can do and what she can't do, and have the courage to admit her mistakes when she is wrong, and have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, I hope you can give you support!

"Okay, I will cooperate with your work and give the child the right guidance, you are really a good parent, and a good mother!" the head teacher praised from the bottom of his heart.

"You've won the prize! Thanks to your love for your children over the years. Her father is gone, I feel that I have a great responsibility, so I never dare to take it lightly, I want to cultivate her a habit and outlook on life and values in the slightest and trivial life, I don't expect her to get ahead and glorify her ancestors, I just hope that she can live her life safely and happily. Thank you!" Shandan explained his thoughts.

"There are too few parents who can know you now, if you have the opportunity, I would like to ask you to come to our class to tell all parents about your parenting experience, Xiaoyu is a very well-developed child, both academic performance and personality are very good children, you see in the face of such a big disaster, I'm sorry, I mentioned your sadness, but please understand what I mean, your mother and daughter are still living such a healthy life, I think you are really a great mother, your love for children is rational, there are thoughts and directions, so I want you to ask you to tell other parents about it。 The head teacher said.

"Thank you for your affirmation, I just did what a mother should do, I may not be able to do your request, I only have the energy and mood to manage my children, I am not selfish, and please forgive me, I really don't have the heart and mood to say anything. From the bottom of my heart, I am very grateful for the love you gave to your child when she was hurt! Thank you! I wish you a safe life!" said Shandan euphemistically.

"It's okay, I don't force you, I just want you to share your parenting ideas with other parents, you don't need to have any difficulties, and I still hope to get your preaching if I have the opportunity in the future. The head teacher said politely.

"Okay, thank you!" Shandan hung up the phone and walked back to the office, where he saw that Xiaoyu had taken out his book and was studying.

Xiaoyu was born, and she was accompanied by Shandan every day, and the learning concept she taught her children was by no means tied to learning for the sake of learning, she hoped that she would be interested in learning, and then have a strong desire for knowledge, rather than painful and boring learning.

Although after going to primary school, grades have become a benchmark for children's excellence in the eyes of teachers, classmates and parents, and Xiaoyu's grades have always been outstanding, but Shandan never takes this as a standard to look at children's learning, she hopes that she can feel the joy of learning while learning knowledge, and know a broader world through learning.

However, Shandan found more and more that Xiaoyu's concern for grades and her dedication to "answers" were far greater than her love for learning itself, and she also found that the child's original imagination was becoming narrower and narrower, and her thinking was limited. Shandan was very anxious, and he had to face such a teaching system and method, and he didn't dare to mention the disadvantages of education to the teacher, for fear that it would bring trouble to Xiaoyu. Just euphemistically said that Xiaoyu's academic performance is not the most important, she doesn't care very much about whether the child has a perfect score or double hundred, but more concerned about whether the child is happy, whether she gets along well with her classmates, and whether she can express herself correctly?......

The teacher didn't look at Xiaoyu so closely, and occasionally it wasn't a perfect score, and the teacher didn't blame it too much. It's just that the teachers are also secretly competing with each other, and the content of the comparison is nothing more than the children's academic performance, so Xiaoyu is also exposed to the fact that she has become a "product" in a mold like all children in such an atmosphere, which makes Shandan very uneasy.

Shandan has always wanted Xiaoyu to grow up freely, not because of the world's events, which is full of innocence and childlike fun. Shandan hopes that the child can perceive beauty and love with his heart, can appreciate all the scenery of the life process as a pure person, enjoy the beauty of life, and can also bear the difficulties of life.

Gu Haiping has reached the advanced level of academics, but their lives themselves have paid too many concessions for this, for Gu Haiping's career, she even sacrificed her future, and her children often grew up without their fathers, and is it all worth it?

Time is gone, the growth of children is only once, life is only once, and if you miss it, you miss it, Gu Haiping can't accompany the growth of your child, and once thought of giving up her doctorate.

And as far as life itself is concerned: what about the doctor? What about being glamorous? What about getting ahead? All of this is not what Shandan expects from the bottom of her heart, her initial and most modest hope is just to find a lover who can get along with each other, and the two of them can understand each other, and then live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Then there is a child of theirs, the family lives in harmony, it doesn't matter how much money is or how little money is, it doesn't even matter if the other party has a so-called income, it is enough to accompany each other every day, and enjoy the ordinariness of life and the beauty of nature.

After Gu Haiping left, Shandan thought more deeply about life itself, and she thought that her initial most simple understanding and expectations were the meaning of life itself. It is not that there is no pursuit, no ideals, and no deeds, but it is to operate life on the premise of respecting life itself, rather than sacrificing life itself to fulfill other carts before the horse.

Therefore, in Xiaoyu's education and growth, the two reached an agreement: they themselves do not have the ideals that they do not need their children to realize for them, and they also respect life itself more. Gu Haiping also once said that he wanted his children to grow up easily and comfortably. Shandan hopes that the child will not miss the content of each life course she should experience in the process of growing up, and will not give up today for the unattainable and unattainable future.