Chapter 158: There is no right or wrong in the face of reality
After being divorced for many years, after meeting by chance, there is no longer the slightest hatred between Chen Jin and Li Xianglan - Chen Jin has machismo, but he has his own heroic temperament, and he feels guilty about Li Xianglan, so he naturally will not have a grudge, which is inevitably too petty; And Li Xianglan has experienced the ups and downs of the business sea over the years, and is used to seeing flies and dogs in society, and she can more or less understand some of Chen Jin's thoughts about the things of the past, and she has such an identity and status as she has now, as a strong woman, of course, she is not willing to show the cautious eyes of a little girl or an ordinary woman under any circumstances. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
Strong women are always more generous and generous than most people.
And with the maturity of her heart, Li Xianglan gradually discovered, and she had to admit that since her divorce from Chen Jin, the reason why she has worked hard without slackening is to a large extent because she is angry with Chen Jin, hoping that one day in the future, she will ascend to a position that makes Chen Jin feel unattainable. And in this long journey, she realized that she was deliberately imitating Chen Jin's tough temperament, resolute and resolute personality, and bold and righteous behavior all the time......
The conversation between the two was very flat, there was no surprise of reunion after a long absence, and there was no verbal conflict.
Chen Jin didn't ask about Li Xianglan's experience over the years, knowing that she was doing well, his heart was much more steady. And Li Xianglan did not ask Chen Jin about his current living situation, she has always believed that with Chen Jin's ability and character, as long as he is not imprisoned, then he will definitely live better than most people, and her son will also live well.
The topic naturally came to the son.
Chen Jin was very calm, and with a little guilt, he briefly talked about his imprisonment and his son's difficult life over the years.
In a simple word......
The hard shell that Li Xianglan has been wrapped in psychologically for all these years shattered in an instant, and tears rained down on the spot.
Tiger poison does not eat children, let alone people?
How can she, how can she not miss her son, how can she not feel distressed when she hears about the suffering her son has experienced at this moment?
So she no longer has the elegant intellectual but lofty demeanor of a strong woman in the business world, nor does she have the indifference and disappointment when she was arguing with Chen Jin when she was forced to be rational, she was like a shrew, angrily scolding Chen Jin, since she was arrested and imprisoned that year, why didn't she tell her that she would take the child away, how could she let the child suffer for so many years? He is naturally kind and honest......
You can imagine how he survived this period!
Chen Jin was not angry, but he was still very confused and couldn't help but say: "Before I was sentenced, I wrote you a letter in the detention center, begging you to ......" Before he finished speaking, he had already thought of the reason.
Li Xianglan also knew the reason with this half sentence.
It was the family who withheld the letter.
She was resentful, but she was rational and ruthless and quickly made a decision in her heart, and she couldn't pursue it, blaming her family, especially her parents.
There is nothing wrong with the parents, but the fault is that they were ignorant and conceited back then.
When she fell in love with Chen Jin, her parents talked to her very seriously, Chen Jin did not receive a good higher education, but in a special era, the warriors created by accidental factors during the war, even the so-called heroic honor, is just a moment of brilliance created by the propaganda required by national politics, although it is undeniable that his military exploits, his meritorious deeds and honors for the country and the nation, but that kind of short-lived glorious honor will quickly decline and disappear in the long river of history, he is just a heroic, very lucky reckless man. If he really has enough ability and luck, then he will not be crippled, so that he will continue to grow into an excellent officer and even a future general in the army by virtue of his military exploits.
Over the years, Li Xianglan, who has matured, has finally fully recognized the concepts and words of her parents back then-with thousands of years of history in China, there is an absolute truth in the right person in marriage.
It is difficult for two people who are from completely different backgrounds and education and upbringing, and who are in two classes, to truly unite and live happily.
Society is very realistic.
It's not Cinderella and the prince in fairy tales, it's not Dong Yong and the Seven Fairies in mythical love......
If it weren't for that, how could it have come to the point of divorce back then?
If you hadn't divorced back then, didn't return to your mother's home in the capital, and didn't seriously reflect and change, how could you have today, which should be regarded as a "successful" career, so as to live your own life value? !
Li Xianglan inquired about Chen Jin's current situation, and learned that he ran a small cement products factory in Lianggouji Village, knowing that the economic conditions were okay, and her heart was somewhat down-to-earth, but with her current status and strength, she naturally would not take a small business with an annual income of only hundreds of thousands in her eyes, and she felt that that kind of life, although a little better, was far from being able to make up for her son's suffering over the years, so Li Xianglan proposed that if she sent her son to the capital, she would give her son the best living conditions and let him enter the best school. You can also let your son settle in the capital and enter the best universities for further study in the future, and even send him to study abroad...... Can give, son better future.
Xu is a strong habit that has been cultivated over the years, unintentionally, or intentionally, Li Xianglan's words inevitably carry some contempt and contempt for Chen Jin.
As the chairman of Beijing Huayue Technology Group, Li Xianglan, who was worth more than one billion yuan in the late nineties and early new century, does have the strength to be strong in front of Chen Jin. Of course, she didn't know the identity of Chen Jinyanyun's gambling king, and in Chen Jin's previous knowledge and social circle, there were many billionaires worth hundreds of millions, heroes who covered the sky in a certain place, and warlord leaders abroad!
Chen Jin was not angry at Li Xianglan's aggressiveness in her words, he had a more calm and atmospheric measure than Li Xianglan, and he was more serious in this kind of thing, in his opinion, it was too petty.
However, Li Xianglan's proposal moved Chen Jin's heart.
Although he was reluctant to send his son to the capital to live with Li Xianglan, he knew very well that he really thought about his son's future......
There is no doubt that Li Xianglan's suggestion is good.
With a Beijing hukou, it will be easier to enter the top universities in China, and with Li Xianglan's network resources, her son will also be very interested in studying abroad. The reason that made Chen Jin think like this was that he knew that his son was a warlock, and because of that mysterious scroll, he was involved in a huge dispute vortex that was not clear for the time being, and there was no end in sight, but it was likely to appear in the future, and it was very dangerous.
Therefore, if he sends his son to live with his mother in the capital, it will obviously make him farther away from this possible crisis.
If you can go abroad......
Better!
As for the possible storms in the future, Chen Jin thought to himself, let me bear it myself!
But now, looking at his son's attitude, I am afraid it will be difficult for him to forgive his mother in a short period of time. After all, Li Xianglan was too ruthless to her son back then, and said so many things that hurt the child's heart.
Alas.
Fortunately, his son is kind and soft-hearted, and Li Xianglan is his biological mother, so he will forgive him if he persuades him slowly.
In the study of the West Wing.
Chen Zimo sat cross-legged at the desk, closed his eyes and silently recited the meditation mantra to get rid of the messy thoughts in his heart and calm down his mood, but he did not practice the spell, but used a calmer state of mind to recall a little bit of the happy time with his parents and family when he was a child, although it was a little vague, but still very happy.
Then, without further thought, he took the letters out of his bag.
As for the mother, I can't talk about hating her, but I don't want to forgive.
When I opened these letters, they were all written in color and beautiful stationery with a faint fragrance, which were love letters—subtle, euphemistic expressions of liking, wanting to be good friends with him, hoping that he would accept a new friend; There is a direct one, it is to express the meaning of admiration, willing to agree with him on this, work together, of course, will not affect learning, the two can encourage each other, progress together, and ...... in the future
After briefly browsing the letters and the writers, Chen Zimo picked them up and wanted to throw them into the small paper basket next to him, but then, he held back.
After thinking for a while, he held a pen on the back of the stationery of each letter and replied with a simple line: "Thank you for being able to look up to me, we are destined to gather in Yannan No. 1 Middle School, we are classmates, but also friends, we should cherish each other, may the friendship of classmates last forever." "When you're done, sign your name.
A few letters, the same reply, and then one by one back into the envelope.
After school starts, just let Qu Jiajia return it to them.
Outside, the sky was getting dark.
The books were placed on the table, and Chen Zimo's originally calm mood made waves again - he couldn't look at the matter of his mother and father meeting by chance lightly, he knew that there must have been something between his father and mother, and then his father would mention it to him, he didn't want to, but he couldn't help but want to know what they talked about.
Just as he was thinking about it, he heard Jiang Peng's voice coming from the front yard outside: "Brother Jin, Brother Bai is back!" ”
Chen Zimo immediately put aside his thoughts, got up and walked out with joy on his face.
When I opened the bamboo curtain, I happened to see a plain custom costume, similar to a Tang costume, and a casual dress that looked like practicing kung fu but more formal than practicing kung fu. Beside him, there was a very beautiful, but very strange woman.
It's weird because this woman with long hair is wearing a white dress that is similar to the costume in a costume TV series, but also has a sense of fashion, and hand-sewn embroidered cloth shoes with flat soles...... The breath of a fairy.
It's just that in the real world, it's easy to make people feel that they are neurotic?!
But after thinking about it, this woman's temperament and dress are very compatible with Bai Qilin.