Getting engaged and getting married is a big deal in your home country. "Music Text"

For the obsession with marriage, although many couples have not been very happy since ancient times, they are not really suitable, but they are obsessed with marriage, so they endure it for a lifetime.

Since ancient times, a lot of education has been done from the beginning.

This obsession from the beginning to the end has made many people endure it for a lifetime.

Most modern people don't look worthy. However, that's what things are, and marriage is what kind of marriage is.

In fact, if it is really divorced, further along, those who have really been divorced will be able to live better in the environment like the past if they are not seen.

Divorce to find better.

Of course, if your temperament will not change from this bad marriage, such as not being honest, not trusting, not being humble. Compromise is a sign of love.

If you say you love, but you never compromise with the other person, then where is your love? You just love yourself and desire how good the married life of two people will be, that's impossible. You just want to make yourself better, you have never thought about the affairs of two people, just think about your own feelings, just blindly ask the other party to make concessions, may I ask, what is your love?

Even if you divorce a hundred times and find a hundred spouses, who can really give you back for a lifetime, and you don't even have yourself, how can such a life be considered a good married life?

The personality is incompatible, in fact, it is just an excuse.

Many people have said that the two best marital states, one is very similar in personality and the other is diametrically opposite in personality, that is, very complementary.

In fact, if you think about it with your brain, if a person with a similar personality doesn't know how to back down, you know that his personality is very close to yours, they all want the same thing, they all want to go out to do sports or whatever, so who will clean up the family and take care of the children? If you only know each other very well, but you don't know how to compromise and back down, the final outcome will definitely be like this.

Our personalities are too close, our personalities are too similar, so, we can't be together, we are not suitable. The reason why our personalities are not compatible is that our personalities are too similar and not complementary at all.

It's not that they don't complement each other, but because they don't compromise, right? Do you love each other, or do you love yourself?

Who doesn't love themselves?

This question will give you a correct answer.

Some people, who love each other, no longer love themselves. It's all about the other party, and they pay again and again, and in the end they become a person who does everything, just like a nanny and a slave, but still makes the other party not satisfied.

There really are such people.

They just love each other, for fear that the other party will be unhappy, for fear that the other party will not love them, and as a result, he forgets to love himself, and in the end he does not get the love of the other party.

There is a master who once said that you must love each other seven times and love yourself three times, and only in this way can love reach the point of perfect harmony.

A person who does not love himself at all, a person who loves only himself completely, neither of them will get true love, and neither of them will get real happiness in their marriage.

A person who doesn't love himself at all, who only knows how to love each other, and who only knows how to pay for each other, must end up with the other party's despise and get no respect from the other party at all. The other party doesn't respect you anymore, how can they love you?

You have to get respect before you can get love.

There is also the issue of independence.

A person who does not have an independent individual has no way to fall in love, and a person who has no way to fall in love has no way to guarantee his love in marriage. His love came entirely from the charity of others.

In fact, for Sun Penghai and Zhu Yingying, their love, their marriage, and their marriage today are actually very hasty.

It's a haste to say it, but it's been a long time coming.

Sun Penghai has long wanted to fall in love, and he has long wanted to marry his daughter-in-law and go back to have children.

For a boy from the countryside who came out to work hard, in fact, when he didn't have a house, he thought about getting married and having children. It's just that he feels that his conditions are not good, so he must meet a beautiful girl who is willing to live with him, so for him, the conditions for marriage have been met.

Zhu Yingying is a thoroughly beautiful girl in every aspect.

Beautiful and beautiful, with a beautiful figure, young, it is still a first time, in terms of personality, that is, it has reached perfection for Sun Penghai in the past, if you score it, you can score 180 points with his standard at that time, if the full score is 100 points.

Although Sun Penghai later made a fortune with Hu Miaojing, with money, his status seems to have changed a lot, and later he fell in love with another beauty, Yun Mengyu, the daughter of Yun Hongyou, the boss of a large group, but this does not mean anything, nor does it change Sun Penghai's own nature.

He is a child from the countryside, and his inferiority complex can never be erased for those high-ranking existences.

There is no way to change this inferiority complex, not that Sun Penghai has an inferiority complex, but that anyone will have an inferiority complex, and a person who will not have an inferiority complex is an idiot or a real fool.

For example, you are very rich, and you are very confident in front of many people. But in front of the richest man in the world, are you still very conceited?

Then you're a fool or an idiot.

In front of people who are much nobler than you, there is no way for you not to feel inferior.

Sun Penghai's inferiority complex is the same in front of anyone.

Of course, there are exceptions, such as Xiang Yu, the king of Chu and the overlord of Chu. He saw the emperor's guard of honor passing by, and there were many people kneeling beside him, and he even shouted that one day he would take his place.

Many people say that he is arrogant, but in fact, it is also a kind of fool's performance.

Even if you can take your place, you don't have to shout it out, do you? I can't help but shout out, I want to say it, and I can't help but be calculated by others in the future.

This logic seems to be a little wrong, but that's exactly what it is.

A lot of words, a lot of things, can only be done but not said. And there are some things that can only be said and not done. One must distinguish between these.

If you can't tell these apart, the final outcome must be a bleak defeat.

Sun Penghai is not Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, he is just an ordinary little person.

Many people are ordinary little people who want to have a stable and happy home.

Sun Penghai wants a warm and happy home, and Sun Penghai's parents have long hoped that their son Sun Penghai can have a wife of his own who can give them a grandson to inherit the lineage.

Therefore, although it seems to be in a hurry, in fact, Sun Penghai has been preparing for marriage for a long time.

Let's talk about Zhu Yingying, in fact, Zhu Yingying has long wanted to find a man who can be trusted.

She is alone, doing that and that to make money, in fact, she is really forced to do so, she needs money, she needs a lot of money, and she doesn't have that channel to make money at all.

For a girl, for a girl whose family has always been very difficult, it is really a very difficult thing to make money, the calculation is that she sold herself, if there is no good way and method, in fact, she can't make a lot of money.

Therefore, for Zhu Yingying, in fact, she needs a reliable man more, needs a shoulder, and is more eager to get love and a good marriage, but she has never had the opportunity and has never met her.

Although it's only one day, in fact, Zhu Yingying probably doesn't want to delay even a minute, and wants to marry herself, but she just wants to marry someone who can be reliable, preferably able to give her love, and a warm harbor and a warm home.

It looks very hasty, it seems that it was only a day to get married, and they didn't even let the parents of both sides meet, in fact, in the hearts of the two people, they can't wait for this marriage to be married.

Early in the morning, at five o'clock, as soon as the sky was bright, Zhu Yingying opened her eyes.

Yesterday was her first time, and her body was actually not particularly comfortable, so last night, Sun Penghai, who knew how to feel distressed, did not fight Wushan with her, but took care of her emotions very carefully, which made her very sweet, and she was excited to dedicate herself to Sun Penghai a few more times.

Women, for a woman like Zhu Yingying, what she can dedicate is actually not just the following, which makes Sun Penghai very excited, but because of this excitement, he feels more moved.

Because of love, this prospective daughter-in-law has done too much for herself, and he feels that being able to hold her into sleep is the sweetest and warmest thing.

Before falling asleep, Sun Penghai said something that moved Zhu Yingying's heart almost to tears.

Before Sun Penghai fell asleep, he said in a daze: "I hope that when I wake up tomorrow morning, I will find that this is not a dream, and I hope that when I wake up tomorrow morning, I can see that there is still you by the pillow." ”

This sentence has always been in Zhu Yingying's heart, she only slept for less than three hours a night, Zhu Yingying opened her eyes, she was very energetic, she knew that she woke up, she had no sleep.

As the saying goes, people are in good spirits when they are happy. Zhu Yingying's spirit is very hearty.

When she opened her eyes and saw the face next to the pillow, Zhu Yingying felt warm. Sun Penghai's words before falling asleep sounded in her ears, looking at him quietly, breathing quietly, listening to his breathing quietly, and feeling her heartbeat.

Remembering that she wanted to dedicate herself last night, but the other party refused, Zhu Yingying showed a smile on her lips.

Loving others and being loved is really beautiful and beautiful, does this kind of life really belong to me?

There was a little tremor in her heart, if this was just a dream, then Zhu Yingying would rather have never had this dream.

Will I really be able to grasp this happiness in the future? Zhu Yingying suffers from gains and losses, and her heart is nervous for a while, and sweet for a while.

originally thought that Sun Penghai would sleep more time, because he slept too late last night. However, Sun Penghai woke up in less than twenty minutes from Zhu Yingying's troubles.

Seeing the beauty Zhu Yingying beside her looking at herself, those eyes were so beautiful.

Sun Penghai was in a trance, and looked at it in a daze for three minutes before he remembered that this was Zhu Yingying, a beauty who wanted to fall in love with him.

The corners of her mouth slowly showed a smile, Zhu Yingying looked at Sun Penghai and smiled, she smiled even sweeter. A little shyly got into Sun Penghai's arms, laughed and frolicked and said, "You are bad, you are bad, you are not allowed to laugh at me." Don't laugh at me. ”

Sun Penghai smiled and said, "You said I laughed at you, what am I laughing at you?" “

Of course, this question is easy to answer, Zhu Yingying stretched out her hand and gently slapped Sun Penghai, and said: "You laugh at me for not washing my face, you laugh at me for my sleepy eyes, you laugh at me for not looking good yesterday......"

Sun Penghai finally grabbed Zhu Yingying's hand and said, "I didn't laugh at you for not looking as good as yesterday, I'm glad that you are even better looking than yesterday, your face is flushed, just like a peach blossom." ”

There's no woman who doesn't like to be complimented by others. Especially the people you love praise yourself.

In bed, the two of them hugged each other tightly for some time, and then they started a new day of kissing.

The kiss lasted for more than ten minutes. Then it ended with Zhu Yingying's exclamation.

Sun Penghai asked nervously: "What's wrong, what's wrong with you, what's uncomfortable?" ”

Zhu Yingying covered her mouth and hummed, "I'm ...... I haven't brushed my teeth yet, do you hate me for stinking? ”

Sun Penghai's face tightened, which made Zhu Yingying a little worried. These detailed things, if the other party feels sloppy or does not pay attention to hygiene, it is not good, this is the first day of marriage, it leaves a bad impression on the other party, what can I do?

Tears were about to fall, Zhu Yingying said softly: "I'm sorry, I won't be in the future, next time I will definitely brush my teeth and come back to wait for you." Then I wanted to get out of bed and brush my teeth.

Sun Penghai chuckled, he couldn't be unhappy. With a wife who cares so much about herself, she will definitely be very happy and happy in the future.

"It's okay, just pay attention next time, but ......, I haven't brushed my teeth either?"

This problem is actually two-sided, the man did not brush his teeth, but kissed directly, in fact, it is a sign of not paying attention to hygiene, what qualification does he have to ask the other party to brush his teeth when he does not brush it?

But this is different for Zhu Yingying, because in her heart, Sun Penghai is his arm, a place she will rely on in the future, a man who can give her a future, and she can't care about him.

"But are you a man? Men are different, but these are actually bad for women, anyway, it's my fault, it doesn't matter if you brush your teeth or not, but I, as your woman, if I can't make you comfortable, if you feel bad, it's my fault. I'll pay more attention in the future. Please rest assured husband, I must be a good wife. ”

After speaking, Zhu Yingying got up, went to the bathroom to brush her teeth and wash her face, and even took a quick shower.