Chapter 293: Different Feelings
Everything was packed up, and it wasn't until half past six in the morning. =music=wen=
For a pair of newcomers, this pair can be called a pair of hard-working people.
Most newlyweds, or men and women who are just tired of being together, mostly prefer to be lazy in bed.
Because the lingering of the first day delayed too much sleep time, because when I woke up in the morning, I liked to linger in bed for a while, and I was proud for a while, anyway, I couldn't get up and so on.
There are very few men and women who can get up in the morning.
Not to mention that the body is delicate, but the temper is always delicate, especially in front of the lover, more coquettishness, it seems that you can get more love.
A lot of men and women are asking for love.
Their attachment to love allows them to always be a person who asks for love and can ask for love from each other.
It's really sad.
When the love you can ask for from the other party reaches a certain limit, when the other party is tired of giving love, you really don't know if there is another party in your future life.
There is also a sad phenomenon that many people's love depends on money and on unearned gains.
How do you say that? Very well explained.
Love itself is based on material. We've known this since we were very young.
Therefore, many people pay more attention to the material foundation. That is, whether the other party has money or not.
And it's more not to see whether the person has money, but to see if he has rice and money at home. Is there money for them to enjoy now or splurge it?
And whether the other party's family has money, there is another sentence to see if his father has money.
If his father is rich and an official, then I love you, and if your family is very rich and your father's official position is very big, then I love you very, very much.
I can buy clothes and things with you, buy food and luxury accessories, see how much I love you, and I want to buy you things all the time. Of course, all the costs of these things are paid by your dad.
I am happy for you and I am happy at the same time, and my parents and my relatives are happy too.
Because we have an inexhaustible amount of money. And I don't have to worry about the money. There is no need to think about whether the money will be gone.
If you don't have it, use it up and ask your dad for it.
Of course, if your dad suddenly has an accident and your family suddenly has no money, I'm sorry, I still love you very much, but my family doesn't agree with me being with you, and I can't go against my family's opinion. It was not easy for them to give birth to me and raise me, and I couldn't help but listen to them.
Look, what a high-sounding reason.
I'm doing this because of filial piety, it's not that I don't love you anymore, it's not that I betrayed our love. It's because my parents don't agree, and I want to listen to my parents.
Hehehe......
Love is one lie after another, because the basis of their love is a lie. Not because of you, but because of your dad's money. Love is because of your father's money, such love, do you still yearn for it to be true love?
If you take it lightly, there's nothing wrong with that.
As an individual, you are not qualified to receive true love.
Why should the other party give you true love? What is there about you that deserves the other person to truly love you? Since there is none, then be calm and accept the betrayal of the other party calmly. In fact, there is no betrayal, the other party himself has not really loved you, he or she is just in love with your father's money. And you still accept it.
There's nothing to complain about. If you want to complain, you can complain about why you are in the middle of the road, or you can complain about yourself, why not start with self-reliance, self-love and self-esteem?
A person without financial independence will not have an independent personality, and a person without independent personality is not qualified to fall in love. Because your love is not built on you personally, but on someone else. It's like the top of your parents' money.
Your love can only be negotiated when your parents give you money, if your parents don't give you money, is there no love?
If you think about it in this way, you will find out what love is and how to talk about love before there will be true love.
Only true love can lead to a truly happy marriage. It's your life that can be truly successful.
Don't put your love and the happiness of your life on someone else. That kind of life is really a real sadness.
One day, you will fall into misery. Because you never got real love. You didn't really become a real person either.
If you don't get real respect, you can't get real love, you won't get anything, and even your children will look down on you. Because you've never done anything. Just inherited a property, and used it to get a wife, give birth to a son, and that's it.
To see whether a man really loves a woman, to see whether he can be as rich as this woman, to see if a woman really loves a man, to see if she can work hard with this man.
These things seem to be a little too far away for Sun Penghai and Zhu Yingying.
They, like most men and women, don't think about it so much.
Both of them are people who are eager to enter the palace of marriage, and of course they are very serious about today's marriage.
At half past six in the morning, two young men, who had only slept for about three hours, walked out into the street hand in hand.
Of course, while walking, their mouths are not idle, not eating, but talking about everything today, such as whether to wear a red wedding dress, whether to buy all three golds, whether to buy a diamond ring, whether to get engaged and need a master of ceremonies.
Of course, these questions were all said by the excited and happy Sun Penghai, and they were all vetoed by Zhu Yingying one by one.
Zhu Yingying was very careful when she vetoed these, not because she wanted these things, but because she was afraid that the veto would make Sun Penghai unhappy.
Sometimes, rejecting a man can make a man feel shameless, although these are for the sake of the man, and the man sometimes needs to spend money, especially for his own woman.
Only when your own woman is well dressed can you have face, right?
Fortunately, Sun Penghai was rejected by Zhu Yingying again and again, and there was no bad mood.
It's not that he doesn't want to spend money with Zhu Yingying, but because he also knows that many of the things he thinks of can only be used on the day of the wedding.
Engagement, in fact, is also an engagement ring.
In the United States, engagement is just a matter between two people. What method does a man use to give the girl a marriage proposal ring, as long as the girl accepts it and wears it on her hand, then they are married.
Of course, there is one point that needs to be clarified. It's hard for an American man to propose to a girl.
Because there's a reason for that, it's simple.
Once a girl rejects a boy's proposal, then their chances of being together in the future are almost non-existent. Because no boy has ever been able to chase this girl after proposing.
The girl rejected the boy's proposal, thinking that they could not live together.
Therefore, after the boy is really ready, he feels very sure before he can muster up the courage to propose.
Of course, the embarrassment of being rejected is very embarrassing for many men. Not only did I fail, but it was a very humiliating failure.
Many boys will be disappointed for a long time when a marriage proposal fails. Some people don't even dare to propose anymore.
There is a sense of loss, and there is a sense of loss now, and Sun Penghai's mood is a little lost.
Because he suddenly realized that it was only an engagement now, and it was an engagement without the presence of parents and relatives of the twins.
There has been a legend since ancient times that a marriage without the blessing of parents and relatives will not be happy.
So, in the end, Sun Penghai asked about this issue.
So, Sun Penghai made another call to his parents, this time not only Sun Penghai, Sun Penghai also asked Zhu Yingying to call his parents and talked about some very friendly topics with each other, of course, Sun Penghai's parents said a lot of blessings, hoping that the two of them would be okay and could live happily together.
Zhu Yingying also wished the two old people good health and happiness in their old age, and said that she would treat the two old people well when she went back in the future. Treat your own biological parents like you, even better than your own biological parents.
The happy mouths of the two old men could not be closed.
Anyway, it's always good to be able to say that, although I don't expect them to really serve the two of them, but if Zhexi blesses them, they still like it.
Zhu Yingying didn't call anyone to inform him that she was going to get engaged, this phenomenon made Sun Penghai a little suspicious, but Zhu Yingying said that after today, she would give him an explanation.
Sun Penghai looked at her with his eyes, Zhu Yingying couldn't say anything, shook her head, and shed a tear.
Sun Penghai watched the girl tear up, and immediately said that it was okay, needless to say, he would see him in the future.
Zhu Yingying wiped away her tears, said that she was wrong, and told Sun Penghai: "I have no relatives in my family, they are all dead, and I only have one younger brother, who is now paralyzed, and a cerebral palsy, who needs a lot of money for treatment and living." So, they don't have a single relative. ”
Because the grandparents, parents, and parents are dead, and because the younger brother is a cerebral palsy, he has no relatives, which is very cruel and realistic.
Yes, this is a bottomless pit, when the amount of money is not enough, and she is a girl, and she is going to marry someone in the future. There will be no debt repayment at all.
Who is willing to give them more money, so there are no relatives, who is willing to recognize her two people!
Maybe there were some knots in my heart before, after all, many people can't accept the way I know Zhu Yingying, although Sun Penghai is a person who really likes Zhu Yingying, and Zhu Yingying is really the first time, but Sun Penghai will still put a knot in his heart.
Now that he has listened to Zhu Yingying's story, he really wants to comfort her with his heart.
A poor girl who has lost all her relatives and is alone to earn money to take care of her younger brother.
No diploma, no skills, she barely has any way to make a lot of money, what can you let this girl do? What can you expect her to come out for? It's already very rare to be able to sell yourself without coming out. Even if she really sold herself, what can you say about her for her brother?
Sun Penghai finally knew what this girl was for, for her only relative, a younger brother who needed a lot of money to take care of.
"Actually, I don't want to tell anyone, because no one will do anything for you, they will just feel that I am a burden and leave me. This is true of all relatives. A lot of TV shows say that you can turn to society for help, but in fact, this requires a lot of channels, and I don't have any channels. I don't have a unit, I don't go to college, I don't have any classmates and friends, and I don't fit all the channels, so, in fact, I don't want to tell you, I'm afraid that you will abandon me because of this, after all, my brother is a real burden, and I don't know how much money to spend and how much energy it takes, but I know you love me, right? ”
Zhu Yingying looked at Sun Penghai's eyes, and was very worried in her heart, if this man turned around, she didn't know what she would cry like, this man was the man she was most excited about, and she had given him everything she had, completely given her heart to him, and gave him the rest of her life.
Zhu Yingying really didn't know why she told him about it. She originally wanted to keep it a secret, she just wanted to bear this hardship alone. It turned out that what she wanted was to ask Sun Penghai for money, no matter what he thought of herself, after she asked for money, she would be twice as good to him and his parents, and she would always be able to repay the debt he gave money.
However, she still said, perhaps, this is because she is really in love with each other, hiding from her beloved is actually a very uncomfortable thing.
Since you love him, you have to share everything about you with him, don't you?
Share your joy, share your distress, share your pain, share your sorrow, share your sweetness......
Looking at Sun Penghai with longing eyes, Sun Penghai looked at this pair of eyes that were the same as Yun Mengyu, and his heart chuckled for a moment, and he suddenly thought of Yun Mengyu again.
Yun Mengyu has her freedom, because when it comes to money, she has never lacked anything. And Zhu Yingying, who has the same eyes, has such a difference in this aspect.
One is rich, the other is poor, one can't spend any amount of money, and the other is how to earn money, and the money is not enough.
And what Yun Mengyu gave herself was not only love, but also pressure like a mountain, Zhu Yingying gave herself in addition to love, and all the ease.
Although Yun Mengyu can help herself financially, while Zhu Yingying needs her own help financially, as a man, she has such a different feeling.