Chapter 55: Daughter-in-law is Hard to Be (2)
In fact, the main thing is that Yanhua is too capable, and she can't do it, for example, Xiaozheng commutes to and from work on time every day, but Yanhua is different, Yanhua sometimes has to work overtime until midnight, and then go home in the middle of the night, and it will be noisy that Xiaozheng can't sleep well. But when I came home so late, I would still get up at half past five the next day to make breakfast, and after making breakfast, I would not go to work until everyone had finished eating and washed the dishes. In this case, in the eyes of the young kite, it is a manifestation of invitation.
What's more, I have proposed to hire a nanny, my own family is so big, no matter how capable this Yanhua is, asking a nanny can also help some, you say that this big family is doing housework by itself, and it doesn't sound like saying it.
Qing Kite complained to Hongluan for the first time, saying that she had been married here for so many years and tried her best to do everything, but she still couldn't please the old lady, and when she got older, the relationship eased a little. When this daughter-in-law arrived home, she immediately pleased the old lady, and she liked it very much, and even the agate necklace that the old man gave her back then was given to this granddaughter-in-law, which shows her love.
I have been married to this family for so many years, not to mention what the old lady gave herself, even when she usually speaks, she is indifferent, and she has never been so intimate with herself.
On this point, Hongluan has a different view on this. Hongluan has told Qing Kite more than once, saying that Qing Kite's temperament is light, and many times she is not good at expressing her emotions, so the old lady will think that Qing Kite is more indifferent, and naturally she doesn't like to communicate with Qing Kite more. What's more, when people are old, they all like to have children and grandchildren, and they are close to each other, and this green kite has nothing to complain about. What's more, now the old lady didn't say that the green kite was not, and her sister also thought too much.
In fact, Hongluan thinks that her daughter-in-law is very good, with a high education, good looks, and a good family background, the only thing that may be that she can't do housework. Others don't know how to do housework, that's not proficient, for example, the green kite can't learn to make wine for so many years. But Meixia is different from others, not to mention those mopping and cooking, she won't be able to let her serve rice, a good pot of rice, it can be served into rice puree, steamed rice well, give her a serving, she has no appetite, she can't eat it.
Let's just say that cooking, it's either too salty or too sweet, and if you can make it too light one day, thank God. What do you think is nothing? That's when you didn't see Summer's first arrival.
When Meixia first arrived home, Hongluan didn't know that this Meixia couldn't do housework, so she asked Meixia to make breakfast and eat. This summer bar, I didn't say that I didn't know how to do housework, so I went to make breakfast. The result? The poached eggs are fried like grenades, black and hard. As for the porridge, it was still raw, the rice was not cooked, and the only thing that could be eaten was the bags of side dishes bought outside, compared to the dark dishes of Meixia, those side dishes bought outside were simply delicious.
Hongluan didn't want to let Meixia do housework, her daughter-in-law, everything is good, and she is worthy of her own unsuccessful son, who can't find a second one so blind with a lantern. But Hongluan thought that he would have to leave one day, even if he was still alive, he couldn't guarantee that he wouldn't leave at any time, and he didn't ask this daughter-in-law to be a full man, so he still wanted to fill his stomach, right?
This Hongluan began to teach Meixia to cook.
At the beginning, everyone was most afraid of eating every day, it was simply torture, you don't know what the next dish will be, you don't even know, how can those ordinary ingredients that you can see every day make this dark dish that seems to be bubbling black.
Of course, this Meixia is still very smart, and she quickly mastered the heat of the dish, at least the dish can be cooked.
But what about this taste...... Don't try it, just take a look.
Every time Hongluan sees the Yanhua of the Qingyi family, she wants to say, how good it would be if she was her daughter-in-law, she could rest, and her daughter-in-law there is not bad, but she is too bad at this thing......
But this family matter is not a point that Hongluan can't get used to Mixia, and the most critical contradiction between the two is Mixia's work and rest time.
Summerhouse is a cartoonist, every time she works in the middle of the night, she doesn't go to bed until five or six o'clock during the day, so everyone is ready to go to bed, and Summertop comes out to make a coffee, eats a meal, and goes back to work.
Not to mention anything else, just this living habit, how can it be, the body is broken, how to have a child when the time comes.
But Xiaozhi doesn't think there's anything.,This may have something to do with Xiaozhi's life and rest.,As we said earlier,Xiaozhi is a resident singer in a bar.,It's also the kind of day and night reversal.,When Xiaozhi gets off work.,Just happened to meet Meixia to eat the last meal and get ready to sleep.,These two people's schedules are more compatible.,If this Meixia is the same as Yanhua,Then I can't live.。
Do you think, you are so tired that you want to go home, this daughter-in-law is cooking and doing housework, jingling, do you still want to sleep? Even if you sleep by yourself, so that you and your daughter-in-law may be able to see each other at dinner time a day, and you are sleeping during the day, not to mention anything else, if you go on like this, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely be affected.
Hongluan often talks to Xiaozhi about this matter, Hongluan thinks about it, let Xiaozhi quit the job, and then find a serious job, these are all thirty-year-old people, every day in that kind of place, mixed with fish and dragons, how bad, now young people, no one is serious.
But Xiaozhi likes to sing in bars, Xiaozhi feels that this is his hobby, his hobby can make money, this is what a happy thing, not to mention anything else, his daughter-in-law, who looks like a fairy, was met when he was working, and this job is meaningful.
On this matter, there was no less quarrel in Hongluan's house.
Hongluan felt that this Meixia and Xiaozhi's work were too improper, Meixia, she could work in the daytime, but she had to do it at night; This filial piety, when you are old, you have to work in that kind of place.
Every time Qing Kite and Red Luan complained about Yanhua, Red Luan began to talk to Qing Kite about Meixia, and then the two shook their heads, you said that it would be great if these two people were replaced, so that they could be the right person.
But where is the truth like this? Can the daughter-in-law change it if she wants to? If it can be changed, I believe that both of them will want a son who is filial and capable of doing a good job like Xiaozheng, and who wants a child like Xiaozhi who does not do his job?
Just when the two were complaining to each other, Yanhua and Meixia were actually complaining to each other about their mother-in-law. The place where I complained was the coffee house that Summertime and Yanhua frequented.
"You don't know, my mother-in-law forced me to cook at first, you know? I'll just cook, I can't even cook instant noodles......" Meixia frowned and complained to Yanhua: "She said, if she wasn't there, Xiaozhi wouldn't even be able to eat instant noodles, so I said, if you can't eat it, you can order takeout, and it's not that you don't have money." ”
"What's the same on the outside as you do on your own? The older generation will definitely say that their own family makes a living and is nutritious~ This is normal, I don't like to order takeout......" Yanhua looked at the best friend in front of her who was about to wrinkle her brows, and shook her head with a smile.
"But your cooking is delicious, of course you say so, I cook, then it's not human food......"
"You know that, too? I want to ask how Xiaozhi eats it~"
"He didn't eat it...... It's all biscuits to eat back in the house......"
"He doesn't even eat it, so what are you cooking for...... Make it for your mother-in-law? Isn't she masochistic......"
"Actually, before I got married, I said that I wouldn't be allowed to do housework...... If I knew it would be like this, I wouldn't want to get married...... Now that mother-in-law wakes me up every day, you know, I rarely wake up in the middle of the day......"
"Didn't you say that you were uninspired in broad daylight? Didn't you tell your mother-in-law? ”
"I said it...... She said that this reversal of day and night is not good for her health, and it will affect the birth of children in the future......"
"That's right, it's not good for your health to reverse day and night, and you should pay attention to it. It's not easy for this woman to get pregnant when she's old......"
"Oops...... I'm not in a hurry...... What's more, Xiaozhi only comes back so late every day, and I can't have a normal schedule......"
"That's right, Xiaozhi's work is also a day and night, and you are a perfect match......" Yanhua looked at Meixia, took a sip of coffee, and said: "You're just this, I'm also targeted by my mother-in-law every day, I don't know what's going on......"
"Huh? You're so capable that you're being targeted? I balanced in an instant......"
"You say, I've been at her house for so long, and I'll have breakfast the next day when I work overtime until it's too late, and I want to do my own housework, and she looks at me like this...... Alas......"
"What do you see?"
"She told me not to always think about asking for credit, just be myself, and said that I should not use my father-in-law to help me with housework......"
"What? Father-in-law helps you with housework? Filial piety father? ”
"I didn't scream...... I'm mopping the floor, and my father-in-law insists on wiping it for me...... I also refused...... But it didn't work out, and then I didn't know whether to go to work or rest, so I could only watch there, so my mother-in-law said that I deliberately designed my father-in-law to do housework......"
"And then?"
Then there was an argument...... My father-in-law said he just saw that I was tired and wanted to help me...... My mother-in-law said that I did it on purpose, and I couldn't help it...... Then my mother-in-law was scolded by my grandmother......"
"Then you and your mother-in-law's Liangzi is settled, I heard my mother-in-law say, as your mother-in-law has been married for so many years, this grandmother has always been indifferent to her, without too much communication, and without scolding, it just doesn't matter much, you are ...... to provoke two generations of wars."
"Then I didn't mean to...... I don't want this either...... That father-in-law insists on helping, do I want to push my father-in-law away and say that he doesn't want you to go away? Then I don't know what to say about me......"
"That's right...... But ah, in fact, the key is that Hyo-jeong's father is said to be not doing housework, and he can't even cook instant noodles, and this work for you won't make your mother-in-law think that you have robbed her husband......" Mixia finished speaking, and covered her mouth and laughed.
"You're still smiling...... If only I had met your mother-in-law...... Alas......"
"Don't you say it, except for this one that forces me to do housework and forces me to change my schedule, the others are really good to me, and they also stew soup for me to drink......"
"Yes, yes...... Your husband still buys snacks for you every day...... I know it all......"
The two chatted and chatted, and after chatting until three o'clock in the afternoon, Yanhua said goodbye and said that when she went back to be busy for a while, it was time to go back to cooking. This Meixia is also going back to rest and rest to catch up with the draft, although both of them have complaints about their mother-in-law, but the two of them are not good, as a bride, both families are in the run-in stage, there is no more complaints.
What's more, complaining is complaining, life still has to be lived, is it just because of a little thing to get divorced? That's too sloppy.
Yanhua came home after work with a bunch of dishes to be made today, a bunch of dishes, compared with Yanhua's thin little arms, these dishes are really scary.
This Yanhua just came in with a bunch of vegetables, grandma got up from the sofa, saw Yanhua holding so many things, hurriedly helped to get some, after putting down the things, and pulled Yanhua into the house to rest, grandma also specially helped Yanhua fan fans.
Grandma is old, although there is an air conditioner in the room, but it is not turned on all the year round, it is too cold to blow, and the bones hurt, so grandma is a fan all year round.
Grandma insisted that Yanhua lie down, and fanned Yanhua herself, but Yanhua couldn't resist grandma, so she lay down. But this is the coincidence, as soon as Yanhua lay down, grandma's fan hadn't been fanned a few times, and the green kite came back at this time.
Originally, there was nothing to do, this green kite thought, today brought back the rice wine made by Hongluan, this old lady must like it, so she brought a bowl to the old lady's room, and just saw Yanhua lying down, and the old lady was there to fan Yanhua.
This green kite fire came up all of a sudden, and secretly scolded this Yanhua in her heart for being too ignorant, the old lady is so old, lying down by herself, and asking the old lady to fan herself, what is this. But the green kite didn't express it on her face, just put down the rice wine and went out.
Yanhua also chased out, ready to make dinner. In the living room, Yanhua met the green kite who was about to go upstairs, the green kite glanced at Yanhua and said: "The junior should have the appearance of the junior, usually the merit in front of the invitation, respect the old and love the young, lie down and let the old lady fan the fan, and you can lie down." After speaking, Qing Kite didn't care about Yanhua's expression, so she went upstairs by herself, Yanhua wanted to catch up, but seeing that the time was almost up, she still cooked first.
After cooking, Yanhua wanted to find her mother-in-law to explain what had just happened, but her mother-in-law didn't give Yanhua a chance and went out. This Yanhua didn't say anything, and she didn't stop her mother-in-law, so she went upstairs.
Guess where the green kite went? You don't need to say it to know that the green kite must have complained to Hongluan. (To be continued.) )