Chapter 54: Daughter-in-law is Hard to Be (1)

In today's society, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become one of the most difficult relationships between women and rivals, and now everything is developing, science and technology are changing with each passing day, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is even more difficult today. In the Tang Dynasty a long time ago, there was a poet Wang Jian who wrote a poem to express the difficulty of a new daughter-in-law: "Three days into the kitchen, wash your hands and make soup." If you don't know how to eat your aunt, you will send your sister-in-law to taste it first. "What do you mean? That is to say, in ancient times, the third day after the monkhood was called "passing the three dynasties", and according to the custom, they had to cook by themselves, but in ancient times, they were all ordered by their parents, and the words of the matchmaker were never seen by the two, let alone let the bride go to her in-law's house to cook in advance. So the bride didn't know the new mother-in-law's eating habits at this time, so she had to ask her sister-in-law to taste it first.

But the current daughter-in-law, although she doesn't need to be the same as before, she washes her hands and makes soup, and she doesn't know how to eat a girl, many of them have known each other before they pass the door, and even many of them have lived together for a long time. But the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more difficult now than before, why is this? Today's story is about the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the two families.

I have a relative, according to the relationship, it should be counted as my grandmother's generation, it is a pair of sisters, these two sisters, they are not very old, that is, fifty years old, to put it bluntly, they are two fifty-year-old aunts. But this pair of aunt sisters has a background, this pair of aunt sisters flowers come from a scholarly family, the family was originally the kind of family education is very strict, don't say anything else, you don't believe it, in this era, everyone can wear as much as they can wear in the summer, this pair of aunt sisters flowers, and still wear long pants and long skirts.

Do you think this is what the sisters like? Actually, no, because when the sisters were children, there was a rule in the family that pants and skirts should not be higher than the ankles. Can you imagine this? The sisters, in today's street of shorts and skirts, have lived to be fifty years old, and have not worn pants and skirts above the ankle. The most exaggerated is yet to come.

The rules of the family for these sisters are that the parents of the body and skin cannot be damaged casually. So the two sisters have never cut their hair in their lives, from birth to the present. You can make up for it, how long can your hair grow in fifty years, I can tell you responsibly, it is the kind of person who relies on the help of people to wash your hair, and everyone is busy with combing your hair. Not to mention washing the hair, just this hair, that is, it has both skills, and the hair of the two sisters has never been like the girls we have now. When I was young, it was not allowed at home, and it was said that the cloak was not like words, and when I grew up, I couldn't, my long hair was mopping the floor or something, and I was going to wash it soon, and it was very troublesome to wash my hair, so I coiled my hair all year round.

is such a pair of sisters, the parents gave it a very literary and artistic name, and it is very similar to the name of the girl in ancient times, called Qingyuan and Hongluan. And today's story happened in these two sisters.

Although Qingyuan and Hongluan are both married early, according to the past, it is really not early to have children, and both children are now in their prime, and they are not yet married.

As an elder sister, the child born by the green kite is called Xiaozheng, who is twenty-nine years old today; As a younger sister, Hongluan gave birth to a child named Xiaozhi, who is thirty years old today. Neither of them is married, which is sad for the two sisters.

This filial piety is very capable, and he is already the first official of the court at a young age, and he belongs to the pride of the whole family.

And filial piety, in everyone's opinion, is to do a very unpopular job, is a bar resident singer, but in good conscience, although filial piety is more stumbling and singing, but singing quite well, it can be regarded as a powerful singer. But the two sisters don't think this is a glorious thing, and they always think that this child is not good.

When Xiaozhi was thirty years old, Xiaozhi and Xiaozheng both met her in their lives. But the irony is that she of the two turned out to be a pair of best friends.

Xiaozhi's girlfriend, called Mixia, this Mixia is amazing, this Mixia is a famous cartoonist, or a graduate student, with a high education, good looks, and a good family background, that's simply, it's a daughter-in-law who fell from the sky, and there is nothing dissatisfied, at least in Hongluan it looks like this now.

Compared with Meixia, Xiaozheng's girlfriend is much more ordinary, called Yanhua, from an ordinary family, is a small white-collar worker, get up early and squeeze the subway to work, not to mention, from time to time to work overtime, looks, although it is good, but compared with this Meixia family work, it is simply not enough to see, if there are any advantages, that is, Yanhua does housework that is the first hand, doing housework and cooking, that is simple, comparable to a specialized housekeeping company, cooking skills can be compared with famous hotels. But Qing Kite is not satisfied with this daughter-in-law at all, her child is so good, this woman is so ordinary, what is the difference between marrying a nanny?

But the fact is so coincidental, everyone thinks that the girlfriends of the two are not very compatible with these two, if you say how to match it, some people may say that it is better to exchange.

But where can the truth be explained by common sense, not to mention that love is blind, there is no reason, and there is no room for choice, to put it bluntly, that is, to take a look at it in the vast sea of people, and you can't forget your face from then on.

In the case of Qing Kite and Red Luan's opposition to no avail, and filial piety and filial piety insisted on going their own way, the two held a wedding together on the same day and in the same place.

But it was after this marriage that the problem arose.

Everyone thinks that the initial contradiction should appear in Hongluan's home, because Xiaozhi's daughter-in-law and Xiaozhi are simply the same as heaven and earth, and the two are afraid that they will not have a common language if they talk a little more, how can they live together?

But it turns out that this is really not the case, and the first to have problems is the pair of Xiaozheng and Yanhua. The key point of this problem is that Yanhua is too good at housework.

Xiaozheng's father, that is, Yanhua's father-in-law, is a civil servant, has retired, and is now at home. And Xiaozheng's grandmother is still alive and well, and she is a very cute and foodie old lady.

And the problem is not in Yanhua and Xiaozheng, nor in Yanhua and grandma, but in Yanhua and Qingyu.

Qing Kite felt that Yanhua was too good at housework. You will definitely say, do housework, what is too good, will be yes, will not be no. But Yanhua is not the same as ordinary people, let's just say cooking, normal people cook, basically home-cooked food, but Yanhua is different, home-cooked food, major cuisines in the country, snacks in various regions, Yanhua will do, snacks in many places are quite authentic, even the seasonings used are special, ordinary people don't know, they have never heard of it.

And this filial grandmother happens to be a foodie again. Xiaozheng's grandfather, when he was young, took Xiaozheng's grandmother to travel everywhere and play everywhere, so grandma can basically be regarded as a famous gourmand who eats all over the world.

Because of this, when the green kite first got married, she didn't suffer less. At that time, it was still an era when you got married and all the housework was handed over to you in the future. At first, the green kite would politely ask her grandmother what she wanted to eat, but the grandmother said that the green kite would not know it at all, so later the green kite gave up this idea. But because the green kite is also virtuous, and the filial father is also respectful, and the green kite is also considered to be everyone's ladies, from a scholarly family, even if she is not so good at cooking, she is also a good daughter-in-law, and there is no contradiction after so many years.

But after Yanhua got married, it was different.

Yanhua can do anything, even grandma said that if she wants to eat rice cakes, Yanhua can make them at home. This made Yanhua's status in her grandmother's heart rise all of a sudden, and it was as simple as that to establish a good relationship with foodies.

At this time, although the green kite was unhappy, she couldn't say anything, in the end, she was incapable, she was powerful, what could she do?

But gradually, this green kite discovered that Yanhua is not only powerful, but simply too powerful.

Xiaozheng's family is very good, the house where the family lives is very large, the upper and lower three-story villas, the area is not small, there is a small attic and a garden, and there is a garage. In such a home, one or two nannies are generally hired. But Yanhua just got married, and the nanny at home quit, because Yanhua hopes that the nanny at home will wipe it with a towel after vacuuming it with a vacuum cleaner, so that it will be cleaner.

But everyone knows that if this is an ordinary small house, dozens of square meters, it doesn't matter, but the house of Xiaozheng's family, which is a large villa of hundreds of square meters, how can it be possible to do this? What's more, even if you want to mop the floor, you don't have to lie on the ground and wipe it with a towel, you can use a mop to mop it, isn't it the same?

But Yanhua disagreed, and had to ask the nanny to do it, and after getting the nanny's refusal, Yanhua actually started to wipe it herself.

But this wipe doesn't matter, and something goes wrong. Within a few days, Yanhua fell ill and fainted. Now, everyone panicked, this is not to be seen, this is not to be seen, this person is tired and sick, and it is not good to spread it.

Therefore, during Yanhua's exhaustion, Qing Kite sometimes helped the nanny to do some things, so that the nanny could take care of Yanhua wholeheartedly.

Under everyone's care, Yanhua quickly recovered. At this time, Yanhua proposed to fire the nanny and take care of the housework herself.

Naturally, everyone will not agree to this, this house is so big, there are so many things every day, so many people inside and outside have to eat, how can one person be busy, not to mention that Yanhua still has to go to work, Yanhua is still unwilling to resign.

But Yanhua knew that everyone would not agree, so she secretly quit the nanny in private, and paid the nanny an extra month's salary out of her own pocket.

Although everyone is a little dissatisfied, everyone can't say anything, everyone is gone, and it will take a while to find a nanny, so let Yanhua do it first.

So Yanhua began to take on all the housework.

Just talking about mopping the floor, Yanhua has to wipe it with a towel after vacuuming, everyone doesn't see it, it doesn't matter, this is seen, who can see it, so many people will help, the first to help, is Yanhua's father-in-law, filial piety's father.

This dad is retired at home, and when he has nothing to do, he goes out to chat with friends, plays ball or something, and his retirement life is also comfortable. But once, when my father came back from playing ball with someone outside, he saw Yanhua lying on the ground and mopping the floor, and he couldn't bear it all of a sudden, so he offered to help Yanhua wipe the floor. This Yanhua must refuse, but refusal is definitely useless.

So when the green kite came back, she saw her husband, for so many years, it can be said that her ten fingers don't touch the spring water, and she can't even cook instant noodles, and now she is mopping the floor, and her daughter-in-law is watching from the side.

Then there was a family war.

Qing Kite felt that Yanhua deliberately tricked her father to wipe the floor, and said that her father was a father-in-law and had no father-in-law, so she let her daughter-in-law come to Hu.

Of course, Dad helped Yanhua speak, saying that he was watching Yanhua mopping the floor, and he offered to help, but Qing Kite definitely didn't listen.

Yanhua was also very aggrieved, saying that she didn't ask her father to wipe the floor, but her father had no choice but to help him.

But Qing Kite felt that Yanhua had ulterior motives, first secretly fired the nanny, and then instructed her father-in-law to wipe the floor, and then she didn't know what to do.

Anyway, this family war ended with my father getting angry and Yanhua apologizing, although everyone has turned the page, but this incident has left a pimple in Qing Kite's heart, and I don't want to see Yanhua anymore.

And grandma is very satisfied with this granddaughter-in-law who can cook food from all over the world, especially seeing Yanhua doing housework meticulously, seriously, and treating her elders with respect and courtesy, she is very loving. Sometimes he even helps Yanhua wipe his sweat, and he will fan Yanhua who is resting on the side.

Because of this, Qing Kite often complained to Hongluan, saying that this daughter-in-law had ulterior motives, and she was originally deliberately pleasing her grandmother, but now it has only been a few days since she passed the door, and she began to instruct her father-in-law to do housework, and she didn't know what to do when the time came.

Now that everyone is helping Yanhua speak, Qing Kite's heart is even more uncomfortable. Especially thinking about his son, he wants to be good-looking, have a job, have a family, and finally marry such a nanny, and feel very uncomfortable. Looking at this daughter-in-law, in addition to being the leader of housework, her education is not good, her work is not good, and her appearance is not good, not to mention anything else, how to match her son, her son should find a good person, even if you don't find a rich man's daughter, at least you have to find a filial daughter-in-law, at least she is a graduate student, and she is worthy of it, now this, what is it, what is this, what is the difference between this and marrying a nanny. (To be continued.) )