As the saying goes, "Long pain is better than short pain." ”。 There is also a saying: "Cut through the mess with a quick knife." It can be seen from this that in everyone's eyes, simply, decisively, may be a good way to solve things, just imagine, if someone wants to kill you, are you willing to solve it with a knife, hit the vital point, and kill on the spot, or are you willing to be cut by a knife, and then bleed to death? I believe that everyone will choose the former, long-term torture is far more uncomfortable than a one-time injury, which can also explain why some couples, married for many years, but separated because of some small details in life, some couples can still sit and eat together for many years after divorce.

A few days ago, I happened to see a Sina big V talking about the cold violence in love. Probably means that if you want to break up, you should break up, don't be so cold and violent, your best friend is relatively simple, and she has always thought that her own problems are reviewing herself and pleasing your boyfriend.

Then I randomly searched for things about cold violence, and I found that in fact, everyone often suffers from cold violence in love, and many of you don't know that this is cold violence.

A friend I met, Mu Mu is one of the girls, the kind of girl everyone knows, who has encountered cold violence.

Mu Mu and her boyfriend Liang Liang met in college, they were classmates, and they were fellow villagers, the two met at the hometown meeting when the university just started, at that time, Mu Mu only felt that Liang Liang was really handsome, generous and decent, and very good at talking, which is the type of male god that girls like.

I believe that Liang Liang also had a certain feeling for Mu Mu at that time, otherwise he would not have secretly asked for Mu Mu's phone number and QQ after the fellow villagers' meeting, and then frantically began to pursue Mu Mulai.

Mu Mu is the kind of girl with a very good family background, not rich and expensive, nor has any bullish background, let alone the second generation of officials, but the family is more favored, and the family income is okay, and she is an only daughter, six people pet one, that is not spoiled by God, so Mu Mu has been worry-free since he was a child, although he can't say that he can't reach out for food and drink to open his mouth, but he rarely does housework.

When Liangliang first began to pursue Mu Mu, everyone was a freshman at that time, and Mu Mu did have a unique temperament that some girls did not have. Liangliang thought selfishly, his family background is not very good, the girls he has contacted before are not Mu Mu's type, Mu Mu shows people, full of confidence, talks about words and deeds, is a kind of lady fan, eats Häagen-Dazs, wears Louis Vuitton, and even the worst sneakers are Adidas. And what about Liangliang? That's Meters...... Bonwe.

So in the face of Mu Mu, who is a little pampered and a little willful, Liangliang feels quite normal, is this a princess's disease? This Mu Mu was in Liangliang's eyes at that time, that was the princess, okay? It is no exaggeration to say that I admire a piece of clothing, and it will be bright for a year.

So at the beginning, Mu Mu didn't know anything, Liangliang endured it, and admitted it, who called himself chasing a princess?

When Liang Liang first started to pursue Mu Mu, he knew that Mu Mu lacked nothing, so he didn't give some things, small gifts or anything like others, because Liang Liang knew that the things he gave were not known to people if they looked at them, and if he came by Mu Mu's preferences, he would be bankrupt and couldn't afford it.

So Liang Liang took the considerate route.

During that time, every time Mu Mu put the boiling kettle at the door, when he remembered to go to fetch water, it was already full; Every morning there is class, I can't get out of bed, I don't have time to eat, and when I arrive at the classroom, I find Liang Liang at the door, carrying the prepared breakfast; In winter, the weather is cold, and the road back from self-study in the evening is very dark and cold, Liangliang will take a hand warmer bag and a flashlight to accompany Mu Mu back to the dormitory. In this way, Mu Mu gradually began to pay attention to this boy who had some good impressions at the beginning.

Although this boy looks poor, the clothes he wears can't keep up with the trend, except for his good looks and natural height, none of them are worthy of Mu Mu. In these days, what's the use of just talking, is there still a shortage of talking boys in this university?

At that time, Mu Mu had only started school for half a year, and there were many suitors around him, including some with good family backgrounds, and some very good seniors. Expensive ones like Burberry scarves, Tiffany jewelry, and even coach's bags. There is no shortage of cheap perfumes and lipsticks, which are not very expensive, but the kind that girls can't refuse.

But every bright gift is different from others.

For example, at Christmas, Liangliang's gift to Mu Mu is a talking parrot, and every morning he says: "Mu Mu little lazy pig is up~". It suddenly overwhelmed the crowd and became the most special gift Mu Mu received.

For another example, in the New Year, Liangliang's gift to Mu Mu was a sleeping aromatherapy essential oil and an aromatherapy lamp, just because Mu Mu complained in the circle of friends that he didn't sleep well at night and couldn't get up during the day.

Liangliang's gifts are the cheapest every time, but they are all the most special and the most intimate.

The two soon got together at the beginning of their sophomore year, and when the two of them were just together, everyone was shocked, everyone wondered, so many people, why did this Mu Mu find this poorest one?

The two are also going well together, at least everyone seems to be like this, and Mu Mu seems to be like this.

Every time there is a small friction between the two, it is because of Mu Mu's little temper, and every time Liangliang will apologize first, and then ask for forgiveness.

So the two of them didn't have anything to do until they graduated from college.

At that time, the two made an appointment to go back to their hometown to work, and when the time comes, it is more convenient to work and get married or something, and it is more convenient to take care of the family.

When they returned to their hometown, the two of them graduated from a prestigious school and had the right majors, and soon found their own jobs and were ready to start internships.

Mu Mu, the work is better, because there are family factors.

Liangliang, because of his good performance in school, a good record and a lot of scholarship records, a bunch of awards, and a job search is also very smooth.

At the beginning, the two were very busy, although they were in a city, they got together less and left more, and every date ended in a hurry, and sometimes they broke up unhappily because of Mumu's princess's illness.

Later, Mu Mu began to find that Liangliang seemed to be much busier than himself, in the past, he would call himself every day, and every time he got home, he would call or send a text message to say, "I'm home~ ...... today". Now I don't have a phone call a day, sometimes I don't even send a text message, every time Mu Mu sends a text message to ask, "Are you off work?" Liang Liang often doesn't reply, and when he calls, he will say "I didn't see it" or directly say that he is busy.

Mu Mu just thought about it, everyone has just come out to work and is a little busy, and a few girlfriends have been too busy recently, they don't see anyone every day, and they can't make an appointment every time they go shopping. Mu Mu just thought, everyone understands each other, Liangliang has been good to himself for so many years, there is nothing wrong, and no matter what it is, he apologizes first and never gets angry.

Mu Mu thought, when he is so busy, and he is struggling, don't bother Liangliang, isn't the current effort all for the future of the two of them.

But later, Mu Mu realized that something was wrong.

Because although Mu Mu and Liangliang are in the same department, they are not a major, nor are they a class, although many of our classes are taken together, so the relationship is very close, but after all, they are not a class, and people are still different. However, because Mu Mu is cheerful and generous, and everyone often goes to class together, Mu Mu has a good relationship with several girls in Liangliang's class.

One day Mu Mu was bored at work, the work was done, and when he was scrolling through the circle of friends, he found that a girl in Liangliang's class posted a small video, and the text written on it was "Classmates get together, handsome guys sing very well~". Mu Mu clicked on it and saw that it was indeed a boy in their class who was singing, but those present seemed to see Liangliang.

Mu Mu was very strange, and asked this girl privately, and the reply was that Liangliang did go, and he had a lot of fun, and he didn't leave until late.

This Mu Mu felt strange, this Liangliang didn't even have time to call and text with himself, why did he have time to participate in the class reunion?

But Mu Mu didn't say it, he felt that this was just one time, and it was nothing, not to mention that no matter how busy he was at work, he had to have normal communication.

But in a few days, he slapped Mu Mu with a big mouth.

Because of the last class reunion, Mu Mu paid more attention to Liangliang's classmates, and sometimes he would take a special look to see if there was any Liangliang in these people's circle of friends.

The emperor lived up to his wishes, and finally let Mu Mu find out.

Mu Mu found in another girl's circle of friends that among the people eating barbecue at the table, there is a hand that looks like Liangliang, click on the video to take a look, hey, this is not the watch I bought for Liangliang, isn't this Liangliang. Looking at this video, not long after the dinner began, Mu Mu called Liangliang.

After calling for a long time, Liang Liang answered the phone.

"What are you doing? Busy? ”

Liangliang was a little noisy over there, and he could hear that Liangliang was in a very noisy place, and then after a while, it suddenly became quiet, and Liangliang said, "I'm eating with customers." Is there something wrong? ”

"It's strange that you customers like to drag people to barbecue restaurants." Mu Mu finished speaking coldly, and he didn't stop explaining brightly, so he hung up the phone.

Then Mu Mu received a bright text message, which probably meant that Mu Mu should not think about it, he was working.

Mu Mu didn't say anything, and went to sleep by himself.

But the next day, there was indeed improvement, at least Liangliang called Mu Mu before Mu Mu went to bed, and told Mu Mu to go to bed early, he was still working overtime, don't think about it.

Mu Mu saw that Liangliang took the initiative to call him, and he didn't say anything, the two chatted, and hung up the phone and went to sleep.

But Mu Mu found that in fact, there was no change in substance.

What is it, Mu Mu sent a text message in the past, Liang Liang also replied, the phone called, Liang Liang also answered, the topic is just some daily greetings, not only does it not sound like a couple, but it is a little like a friend who is not very familiar.

But Liangliang never took the initiative to contact Mu Mu. As long as Mu Mu does not contact Liangliang, for two or three weeks, Liangliang will not take the initiative to contact Mu Mu.

Mu Mu began to feel that something was wrong, why did Liangliang suddenly do this? Did you do something wrong? What did you do to make Liang Liang angry? Mu Mu began to review himself, but after thinking about it, Mu Mu Si didn't figure out what he did wrong, and in the end he could only attribute it to his bad temper and Liangliang being too busy recently.

So Mu Mu deliberately called Liangliang more, his tone became gentle, and he began to pay attention to his attitude towards speaking, and he began to lose his temper. But Liangliang is still like that, cold, and doesn't say much, let alone affection, and even the daily greetings are very official, just like watching a cold news broadcast and talking about something that is not his own business.

After a few more times, Mu Mu began to bear it anymore, since everyone was unhappy, then just break up, what is the point of dragging it out like this? Mu Mu texted Liangliang and said that he wanted to break up.

The text message was just sent, Mu Mu was just about to delete Liangliang's number, and the bright phone here came, and he began to apologize to Mu Mu, which probably means that he has been very busy recently, very busy, there is any misunderstanding, I hope Mu Mu doesn't take it to heart, I also want to make a little more money, and I plan for the future of the two of them, I don't want to break up, I hope Mu Mu gives herself another chance, don't break up, it's not easy for two people to go from their student days to now, everyone takes a step back, and promises on the spot, In the future, it will definitely not be like this to Mu Mu, Mu Mu will send a text message, and he will definitely reply on time, shush the cold and ask for warmth.

Mu Mu was amused by the man who almost stripped off his clothes, and the two of them returned to the past.

Mu Mu found that this breakup was really effective, Liangliang called himself the next day as before, it was really to ask for warmth, and the text message was really to reply on time, Mu Mu felt very happy.

Mu Mu felt that he might be really too willful, people were just a little busy, but he thought about others like that, broke up, and did this and that, it was really unreasonable, no wonder people were busy and didn't care about themselves, and co-authoring was their own problem.

Mu Mu thought that his problem really needs to be changed, it shouldn't be like this, it's not easy for everyone, just graduated, it's all time of struggle, he shouldn't make trouble at every turn, break up at every turn, this kind of good man, thinking about the future of the two of them all the time, he should cherish it, how can he break up?

Mu Mu thought that this holiday is coming soon, Liangliang should also rest this time, the two of them go out to watch a movie together, have dinner, take a walk, the two of them have a good talk, this is better, there are always a lot of problems with less gathering and more separation, misunderstandings always have to be made clear, so if you hold it in your heart, any kind of person will be suffocated. (To be continued.) )