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You will turn 18 on October 25 of this year, next month. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

The white horse has passed the gap, eighteen years, time flies so fast! Look at the bloody you who just came out of your mother's belly in the photo, look at you with your eyes slightly open in swaddling clothes, and look at the bracelet that the hospital put on your wrist to prevent you from being born that year, and the name and bed number on the bracelet are still clear. Stroking the fetal hair that was cut for you, stroking the little teeth you have lost, the teeth are pointy, like the teeth of small animals, and it seems that there are still traces of blood in the roots of the teeth that have fallen back then, and now they have turned dark red - all this makes my thoughts linger for a long time. I still remember the scene when you fell out of bed for the first time, the surprise when you "babbled" and shouted "Mom" for the first time, the scene when you pulled out the infusion tube when you were sick, and the scene when you were afraid to ride a skateboard, when your mother carried you and slid down from a high place and fell into the colored ball, you were so scared that you cried "wow" and your mother laughed. Do you remember when I went to Chengdu for further study, you didn't want me to hug me because I couldn't see my mother for a long time, and when I hugged you forcibly, you bit my shoulder hard, and bit my shoulder out a deep tooth mark? Do you still remember when I was going to bring you to Chengdu, and you hugged your grandmother and didn't want to separate, shouting "I don't want you, I want my grandmother's mother", I cried very sadly? Remember when you were three years old and called the police yourself? I heard my grandmother say that when I was studying in Chengdu, you missed your mother, and every day you moved a small bench to sit next to the phone, waiting for the phone while watching the DVD fairy tale disc on TV. My grandparents were afraid that you would damage your eyesight after watching TV for a long time, so one day they pretended that the DVD had been stolen by thieves. casually said that you thought you would give up, but I didn't expect you to immediately call the police on 110: "Uncle policeman, my DVD has been stolen." "Grandpa was so frightened that he quickly snatched the phone in your hand and hung it up. A few minutes later, the police center called again to verify the situation, and my grandfather hurriedly explained to the police for a long time before convincing the other party that you had not been kidnapped or anything. This scene has always been told by my grandparents as a classic joke. Do you remember the fact that you almost got lost in Dali and Lijiang and made your mother anxious? There are too many, too many of them, as if they happened yesterday.

You've grown up, you've grown taller, you've grown a man. When you were young, you pestered your mother, hugged your mother, kissed your mother, and you said, "I want to marry you when I grow up." "Now you don't let your mother hug you, let alone take the initiative to kiss your mother. Sometimes I have to wake you up in the morning and see that you have fallen asleep and never get up, so I quietly hug you or kiss you, but you are already very impatient to push your mother away. In the past, it was your mother who taught you how to do things and how to behave, but now it is you who teach your mother to wear jeans and sneakers to look young. You no longer hold your mother's hand, you have thrown off your hand and strode ahead, often turning back to urge your mother to walk quickly. Snuggling has become companionship, and love has a distance. Thinking of this, there is a trace of sadness in my heart, but more of a relief.

When you were a child, you often advocated for justice for your brother next door, you gave your beloved books to the children in the welfare garden, and you also donated a lot of clothes and books to the children in the mountains. Now you are still paying attention to public welfare, and you still donate a little money to public welfare every year, although it is a meager force, but it is enough to show your kindness. You never bargain with vendors, and you don't allow me to bargain with laid-off people who are re-employed. Kindness comes from your heart, and I also believe that it will follow you for the rest of your life, which is something that my mother especially admires and feels gratifying.

You love music, you love Bieber. Mom said that he had a lot of negative press, but you tried your best to maintain his image, and you gave an example of him doing a lot of public welfare things to refute Mom. In order to have more common language with you and communicate more with you, Mom also often watches your favorite singers and listens to your favorite songs. What Avril Lavigne, Taylor, etc., mom can also name some songs about them. When Mom said this, her peers looked at Mom in amazement. Not to mention Jackson, the singer your mother talks to you the most is him.

Because your mother is a doctor, and your mother has given you the correct education of men and women since you were a child, you have always been a sunny, cheerful, and psychologically pure boy, which is recognized by all the teachers who have taught you.

In your seventeen years of growing up, you have also made many mistakes.

When you were three years old, you passed a kombala in a toy store in Lijiang; You've lied, you've sweared; You lie on the ground and ask for toys or food. You set off fireworks and burned people's cars; You copy your classmates' homework; You defend mom and beat the security guard and so on. All this, no matter whose responsibility it is, Mom is with you to bear it, learn together, be educated together, and grow together.

My dear darling, you have grown up and are about to become an adult.

Eighteen years old, that's a dividing line. Mistakes made in the past can be forgiven, no matter how big or small, and some mistakes may even be seen as cute acts in retrospect, because you are a minor, you are not responsible. After the age of eighteen, you will have to take responsibility for your own actions, and your mother will no longer be able to bear it for you. You have to think about the consequences of everything you do, and you can't be as impulsive as you used to be. Some things are done once they are done, such as fighting, and they may be held legally responsible. Some things can even make you regret it for the rest of your life, so thinking twice is something you should think about often in the future.

You are young, and eighteen years old is in the prime of life. You can be crazy, but Mom wants you not to squander your youth; You can try to do what you like, but don't sin; You can learn a lot, but don't be bothered by irrelevant information; You can even like a girl, but I don't want you to just admire her looks. In short, there are many things you can do, but remember not to do things that go against the principles and break the law.

You're eighteen years old, and you're going to take the college entrance examination next year. You love music and are currently training at Chengdu New Asia Art School. Your biological father has always disapproved of your hobby, and he felt that students who graduated from music school could not be employed and could not earn money. I don't deny his opinion, but Mom has never stopped your hobby, Mom always tries her best to support you after communicating with you. Making money is not the only purpose, since you have chosen this path, then my mother hopes that you can be admitted to your favorite Sichuan Conservatory of Music next year, sing seriously, and be a musician with solid basic skills. The path of music is difficult, but since you have decided on this path, don't regret it. Whether the road is full of flowers or thorns, you have to go bravely! Even in the future, when you are old and sigh about your choice, you will not regret it, because at least you have worked hard, at least you have fought for your dreams!

At the age of eighteen, you are no longer a young teenager, no longer ignorant, no longer immature and naïve, you are your mother's hope, the future of your family, you are a handsome man!

Eighteen-year-old youth, for the sake of your dreams, plug in the wings of knowledge, and soar freely in the sky! Gather your strength and roam freely through the forest!