The price of impulsiveness

There was another incident that happened last May that I had to document about it. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info One day at the end of May, you happened to be home from your monthly vacation. You went out with your classmates, and my dad and I went to see a movie on a whim that day, and I don't remember the name of the movie. When I came back, I lost my mobile phone in the taxi, although I didn't ask for an invoice, but when I got off the car, I habitually glanced at the back of the car and memorized the taxi license plate number. We immediately called on our mobile phone, but the driver didn't answer the phone. We immediately gave the license plate number to the taxi company, looked up the route through the radio, and luckily found the driver. The driver said that he was out of the car and that it would take more than eleven o'clock to drive to the community to return the mobile phone. By the time the taxi driver called, it was 11:55, five minutes before 12 o'clock, and you were already home watching TV. There is an unwritten rule in our community: if you exceed 12 o'clock, you must pay the community security guard a dollar to open the door. I took 21 yuan and was going to pay one yuan to the community security guard and another 20 yuan to the taxi driver. I was afraid that the taxi driver would make it difficult (because he didn't answer my phone many times before the taxi company looked for him), so I asked you to accompany me downstairs to pick up my phone.

The taxi was parked across the street from the complex, about 5 meters from the gate, looked at the phone, and there were still two minutes until 12 o'clock. As I went out, I pointed to a taxi a few meters away and said to the community security guard: "Don't close the door, I'll go to that car and get my phone and come in." "I paid the taxi fare, took my mobile phone and turned it back to the community, only to see that the gate had been locked. I looked at my watch and picked up my phone and it was just twelve o'clock in the evening when I went back to the community. The doorman of the community must have thought that I would not give him a dollar to open the door, and deliberately locked the door. I was a little angry, and asked him with a dollar in my hand, "It's not that I won't give you money, why are you locking the door?" I even said hello to you. He said, "I have so much to do with you, and at twelve o'clock I will lock the door." "Originally, I didn't have a chance to vent the fire in the taxi driver's nest, and the community security guard deliberately locked the door, and the fire in my heart came out as soon as it "soared". We got into an argument, and we couldn't control our tempers when we came and went. He started to push me first (because his back was to the community camera, so the camera couldn't see the movement of his hand), and when you saw him doing it, you immediately scolded him: "Why did you hit my mother?" When he is still disrespectful, you say, "What are you going to do?" You dare to hit my mother! "As you speak, you hit him back, and then you grab it. The fight happened so fast that I couldn't pull you apart. He scratched a large chunk of the white undershirt you were wearing, and the clothes became a net; He also had several bruises on his arms and shoulders; The phone in your hand was also thrown to the ground by him, and the phone case was broken. Because you're facing the camera and you're taller than him, you record all the action when you hit him. And he's shorter than you, so you can't see his movements on the video at all. In fact, you didn't exert yourself at all, because if you did, he would have fallen to the ground injured with your strength, not that you yourself were so badly injured and so embarrassed. We all called the police. 110 Two policemen immediately rushed over, the security guard fell to the ground, and the security guard's family of four surrounded us to accuse us, making trouble unreasonably and confusing right and wrong. The police immediately looked up the video and simply decided that you were the only one who hit him, and you made the first move. I pointed to the injuries on your clothes, mobile phone, and arm, and the police said, "If you don't accept mediation, then you will all go to the police station for a day to be investigated." Wait for the results of the investigation to be clear, and then see who is responsible. "You're going back to school the next day, I don't want you to delay your homework because of this, and I don't want you to be known by the school because of this matter, and there are any stains on your file, after all, you are still a child, how can I let you go to the police station." And from the video, you can only see that you have done it, and the result will definitely be unfavorable to you! In the end, we listened to the opinion of the police. The police originally asked you and the security guard to go to the Wuhou District People's Hospital for examination, but you thought you were okay and didn't want to spend that unjust money. And the security guard spent more than 400 yuan to check the whole body, all of which was paid by my father. The results of the examination were fine, the security guard took some medicine and went home, we thought it would be fine. Unexpectedly, the next day, the security guard went to the provincial hospital for an examination and prescribed more than 1,000 yuan of medicine, which he used to report to his father. In order to calm things down, we had no choice but to give. And no one pays for your loss of clothes and mobile phones. The security guard caught the psychology that we don't want you to go to the police station for the record, and we can only admit it if we do this deliberately.

Baby, I don't feel sorry for the money, I feel sorry for you, but I can't show it. Your act of standing up to protect my mother really touched me and made me feel very proud and proud from the bottom of my heart, you have grown up, you can protect your mother! Thank you for protecting Mom!

This incident started because of me, and first I had to do a self-examination. If I had controlled my emotions and didn't perpetuate my resentment against the taxi driver later, nothing would have happened that day. If I had given the money to the security guard in advance, I wouldn't have misunderstood him. Even if he should not take that one dollar, he should be considerate of his troubles, and there will be pity for the hateful.

Next, let's talk about your question. I sincerely hope that through the lessons of this incident, you will be able to control your emotions in the future, don't be impulsive, don't be rash, don't let small things become bigger, and think more about the results if you do this. Half of the fault that day lay with my mother, who couldn't stand the grievances that led to the events that followed. If you let him vent, just give him a dollar, why do you want to cause you to do it for a dispute? Mom apologizes to you, you didn't do anything wrong to protect Mom! But if you persuade Mom, maybe everything can be avoided! Fortunately, you didn't try hard that day, otherwise the consequences would have been unimaginable! Thinking about the possibility that you cripple or kill someone, and you will ruin your whole life, I really feel scared! Later, we agreed to his rogue conditions and made concessions, also for your sake, we hope that this matter will end as soon as possible, and you will have a clean and quiet learning environment. My baby, in the future, you may have to go through more difficult situations in society, you must judge the situation, and don't worry about small things and be self-defeating. Those who achieve great things are not informal, give others a way to live, and give themselves more space!

Baby, you have been through a lot of ups and downs this year, and Mom knows that this is a must in life lessons. You are kind, and Mom hopes that you will always have a kind heart! You love Mom, and Mom wants you to keep that love forever!

Baby, be the best version of yourself! Be true to yourself! Be a brave and wise man!