Chapter 3 Growth

diarrhoea

An An, you have been a little indigestible since you were born, you often have diarrhea, and you have to change about 20 diapers every day. Pen Γ— fun Γ— Pavilion www. biquge。 infoSometimes the first day is not dried, so I have to use a heater, hair dryer, etc. to dry; Sometimes you just changed the diaper, and you leaked on the butt again, so that there were yellow marks all over the mother's pants, and you had to change it again, and sometimes Dad had to run to wash the diapers to get there. It's okay if we're in trouble, but your butt is red and rotten, and you have to rub it with erythromycin ointment and green oil several times a day. Seeing you cry bitterly, we are distressed to death. After exhausting various methods, feeding you vitamin B6, lactase, pediatric and other drugs to promote digestion is still ineffective. Doctors say that this is the reason why you don't have a belly, and some people say that it is because there are many fat globules in your mother's milk that cause you to not digest it. But you are too young to be weaned, and what a trouble it is for us.

It wasn't until you were full of five months that you had a belly. We were so happy when you pulled out a ball of poop for the first time and didn't pull it again that day. Although it was repeated for several days later, there is no history of dozens of times a day in the past.

Your gastrointestinal function gradually normalized, and you have started to eat some complementary foods.

Cold, February 1999, Spring Festival

You have a fever, your forehead is hot, your face is burning redβ€”it's the first fever you've ever had since you were born. I used a physical cooling method to wipe your forehead, armpits, and carotid arteries with warm wine to cool down a bit. At 2 a.m., you have another fever. I wiped my forehead with a wet cloth again, and repeated it three times, until the fever finally subsided. I'm sweating profusely. Looking at your sleeping face, I feel that all the sacrifices made for you are worth it, and all the hardships are nothing. You really scare me, I really hope that all the suffering will come to me, don't hurt you anything, because you are my everything.

Later, you had a few more diseases, resulting in acute tonsillitis turned into chronic, every time you feel a little cold, you will have a fever suddenly, penicillin and physical therapy have been ineffective, only advanced pioneer mycin, Tylenol and other drugs injection, oral to be effective. Once you were allergic to pioneer-mycin, you had a large wheal all over your body, red and shiny, and the medical name of this disease is "urticaria", which is extremely itchy. You are so uncomfortable that you scratch your body with blood marks everywhere, and after your mother gives you anti-allergy medicine, she keeps rubbing you with cotton swabs for external medicine, and keeps blowing your red and swollen skin with her mouth, and tears drip on the cotton swabs and on your skin......

Another infusion, you struggled, I couldn't bear to see the nurse prick the vein in your head, it was my grandparents holding your arm and holding your calf to infuse it. Later, you removed the fixed needle yourself, and the nurse gave you another infusion. It took three stitches to be injected, and the pain in my mother's heart couldn't go away for a long time......

Pray for the Spring Festival of 1999

Because you love to get sick so much, I always feel like God is testing me. My grandmother and aunt and I decided to take you to Dazu Xiangshan to burn incense and worship the Buddha. Having studied medicine and never believed in Buddhism, I am so afraid of your illness, and I pray that my sincerity will impress the gods and make you grow up healthy. I now realize that I am indebted to you, because I can't eat more when I'm pregnant with you, and I want to vomit about everything. How I regret it, if I could eat everything, wouldn't your constitution be better? Can you forgive Mom?

In the Dazu stone carving, I put your health in the palm of my hand and put it into the mouth of a giant stone tiger. It is said that the hands of evil people will be eaten by tigers, and the wishes made by good people will be fulfilled. My wish is that I want you to grow up happy, healthy, and happy, even if I give everything. In front of every idol, everyone who can bow down, I have knelt down and made a wish: May my mother's love bless you with peace and security!

Milking March 1999

For every mother, the happiest thing may be when the child feeds, and I am no exception. But for me, there is another worry: I don't know if your stomach is level, and many times after feeding, even if you pat it gently, you will often pour it out in a spray shape, which scares my father and me at a loss. Looking at your little face flushed with choking, our hearts hurt terribly. Once you're done sucking my milk and your other hand is touching the other breast, I'm worried you're choking. It wasn't until you stared at me with round eyes and smacked your mouth in satisfaction that my heart let go, and my sense of happiness slowly filled, soaked in my heart, and I couldn't shake it away.

You don't take it seriously at all when you breastfeed, when you eat Zhengxiang, a little noise will alarm you, you will immediately put down the ****, turn your little head and look around at the sound, your mother's milk will flow everywhere, soaked through your clothes, you really can't do anything. You feed a lot, but you eat very little each time, and your physical development has always been at the lower middle level.

We've done everything we can for your diet. Traditional Chinese medicine, Western medicine, all the ways I can think of have been thought of. We are regular customers of the Chinese medicine pharmacy in our hospital and the Shijia pharmacy on the street. I have tried steamed eggs and steamed meat with koji, meatballs made from chicken inner gold, and Haci stomach digesting tablets. As long as you can eat it, I am willing to spend any money and try any recipe. Baby, you eat less, but you digest quickly, you often poop twice a day, and your grandfather often teases you for being a "rectum"! The doctor has shown you, and there is no disease, you really make your mother helpless!

Baby, how I hope you eat more and grow up healthy!

Climb May 1999

As the saying goes: seven rolls and eight crawls will walk every week, which means that children can climb when they are eight months old. You're doing very well in this area, and you're crawling by the age of seven months. When you were three months old, you were often lying in a stroller with your calves kicking the body and making a "popping" sound. When your grandfather pushes you to go to the workers' village to buy vegetables, you keep moving your calves, and the sound of "popping" makes you kick even more excitedly. Your kicking in the stroller becomes a sight to behold.

I like to see you climb the way you climb. You are different from other children, you are crawling on one leg, and the other leg is slightly bent and not straining, and you look very cute. Whenever you come to your mother's office, Director Zhang Qianxia quickly cleans the floor (no patients enter our office), and many people come to see you climb. Everyone loves you very much, and calls you "handsome guy", and the whole hospital calls you a son like this. I'm really proud of you, you're so smart and cute, so understanding, and you have touched everyone's hearts.

You are truly a gift from God.

Teething June 1999

At eight months, you're teething. A white mung bean-sized tooth suddenly popped out of the small pink flesh, which was very cute. Maybe it's an itchy tooth, every time you feed, you bite your mother's **** hard, and the pain makes me convulse. Every time you bite the ****, I gently scratch your little face, and it takes you a long time to reluctantly let go of your mouth. You're like a little tiger, worthy of your name. Sometimes you bite the **** and pull out, so painful that your mother calls your grandmother loudly. Grandma smiled maliciously and said, "Wait for him to bite, and the adopted child will know the kindness of his parents!" ”

It hurts so much, let me go, I don't want it!

Weaning 1999.8.27-9.5

Today you are 10 months and 2 days old, and the nutrition in your mother's milk can no longer meet your growth and development, and you only eat milk, do not eat other complementary foods, and your physical development is extremely poor. In order for you to change from complementary food to a regular diet, I decided to wean you after consulting your doctor. You're very obedient and don't make much trouble. But my mother had enough of the hardships, and it took 9 days.

My grandmother went to Heping Pharmacy to buy Chinese medicine for my mother, and I took injections and Western medicine, but my breasts were still swollen. The house leak happened to rain for a day, and then the unit sent me to Chongqing on a business trip. When I was looking at gifts in the Chongqing Department Store, there were too many people, and from time to time someone squeezed me, and my swollen breasts hurt terribly. I really couldn't do it, so I put my hands in front of my chest to protect my breasts, and walked forward like a zombie, causing many people to look sideways. After a while, I went to the bathroom to squeeze my swollen and shiny breasts, and then I ate painkillers. Finally finished the work and met up with your dad in the evening.

My classmate Xiaoming and I met your father at your sister-in-law's place, and he didn't get excited as he should be, but his face was cold and expressionless. He arranged for me to stay with Xiaoming at night.

Xiaoming said: "I think there must be something wrong with Yu Tizhao. You haven't seen each other for so long, and he doesn't live with you, but wants you to live with me? ”

I didn't want to believe it, and I was uneasy. My breasts were still swollen and painful, and I couldn't sleep all night.

When I returned to Rongchang the next day, I saw that you couldn't cry and breastfed you again. The first weaning ended in failure.

After two days, I can't wean the milk if I continue like this, and your father can't be contacted, so I can't do it, so I have to travel to Jiuzhaigou alone, so as to completely wean, relieve the pain, and distract from it.

People are in Jiuzhaigou, but the heart is in you. When my mother told me: You cried so much, you looked for your mother everywhere at night, and you fell out of bed, and blood fell out of your right forehead, and there was a big bruise on the side of your right eye, I was very anxious. I couldn't care about weaning anymore, so I rushed home immediately.

We both cried when we saw you, and you were still biting your mother's hand tightly. I don't care about the pain, I'm busy checking your wounds. Your forehead has scabbed, and the bruises around your eyes have dissipated. Thank goodness I didn't break my eyes, God forbid! God, do you think my son is so handsome that you need to mark him? Bring all your afflictions upon me!

After such a toss, the milk is really broken.