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Later, after working from home, I saw that I didn't go out, and said that I was working behind closed doors.

To avoid suspicion, I would go to the town of Madken whenever I had time to order a nine-dollar cup of coffee to write, and although my words didn't sell a penny, I still enjoyed it.

When I went there to write today, I heard three ordinary sisters discussing marriage, and it was a congratulatory thing to get married, but I heard the discussion of the sisters, but I had wind behind me, and I didn't have any writing thoughts, and all the words of the sister paper were scared.

This sister's mouth is a car of 130,000 or 40,000 yuan, and that sister's paper is a three-story villa, or a house in the city.

The sister who was going to get married said whether she wanted three gold or four gold, and the other two sisters said: "Three gold plus a diamond ring."

When did the countryside keep up with fashion so much?

The girls are hundreds of thousands of mouths on the lips, and the furniture is also four or five thousand pieces, and if you don't give it at every turn, you will not be able to get a car, you will not take wedding photos, and you will not get a license?

This is still three ordinary girls with ordinary appearance, ordinary figure, and ordinary family, is it no longer about ordinary girls discussing marriage together is not discussing the man's appearance and family background, but discussing how many things to ask for, how to squeeze the man's family to make herself appear decent and not lose face?

I listened to it in a cold sweat, thinking of myself when I was still single, I suddenly felt that I was a cup, or a cup abandoned by the times.

If I didn't go to college at the time, but went out to work, even if I couldn't find a lover because of my clumsy mouth, I would have been able to get a wife from the blind date army!

Even if the parents of the wedding ten years ago were embarrassed, they only had a foreign debt of 30,000 or 40,000 yuan, and 30,000 or 40,000 yuan must have been a lot in the countryside ten years ago!

But now that three or four hundred thousand yuan is spent, it may not be able to get rid of the fate of being rejected from marriage?

Gradually, I don't understand what a wedding is. What is the purpose of getting married?

Is it just to let the parents borrow hundreds of thousands? Is it just to make others jealous?

Is it really necessary to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to get married? Or is the wife bought with hundreds of thousands really worth your life to protect?

Even if we really can't bear to see our parents borrow hundreds of thousands of dollars, but after marriage, you live a comfortable life in a two-person world, and your parents cut back on food and clothing in order to pay off debts, and even save money to buy vegetables in order to save money, how can you bear it?

Even if we are hard-hearted, our parents borrow money to marry us, and we watch our parents eat chaff, but if our parents are sick, will the money in your hands be used? Or has it been squandered?

In case, no matter how unfilial you speculate, your parents lose their labor force and can't earn money, will you still be able to rely on the borrowed money when you watch your elderly parents being forced into debt, or even worse, your parents die?

Since we can't pay off our debts, we have to pay them off sooner or later, so why can't we save some when we get married, so that we can live more comfortably after marriage? Parents have endured hardships all their lives, do they still suffer after retirement?

Some people may say that it is only a few hundred thousand, and hundreds of thousands of dollars are a loss to marry a wife?

Scold! I would like to say that rural families are not small separated Beijing families, and there are dozens or millions of old things.

Our parents do not have the glory of their ancestors, they do not have the IQ and opportunities of urban people, most of them are extremely ordinary farmers, more than ten or twenty years ago, their family property was dug out of the ground, and in recent years, they have also been exchanging money?

There may be hundreds of thousands of rich peasant families, but who has hundreds of thousands in most rural households?

Of course, can you say that there are no hundreds of thousands of wives to marry?

In fact, I also think so, if we don't have hundreds of thousands of dollars in our family, we really don't deserve to marry a wife, because we didn't have a good baby, because we didn't work hard in school, because we didn't have great opportunities, and we didn't have extraordinary talents, why should you marry a wife?

If you don't rely on anything, you are squeezing the lives of your parents by marrying a wife.

Especially for people like me who have gone to college and didn't get along well in the city, and who have returned to the countryside to find an ordinary job.

It is already difficult for the family to provide for us to go to college, how can we have the face to ask our parents to give us hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry a wife, if it is a consensual lover, it is fine, if not? Can you really keep a wife?

Today's young people are married under twenty, and they may have had more than two or three relationships at an age when they don't know how to love, but they just think it's fun, and they just follow the crowd when they get married, and they find a partner just because it's pleasing to the eye.

However, after a few years, when the family property you married has been squandered, when you know each other, when your wife has understood what love is, and when she meets love, will she still put up with you?

Maybe you will be kicked out of the house with a letter of resignation, your wife will become someone else's wife, your underage daughter will pursue someone else's uncle, your parents are old, what else do you have?

Actually, we don't have anything.

There are 30 million men in China who cannot find wives, and that number will grow as each year passes.

Some people are alone in the first half of their lives, and in the second half of their lives, they use their life savings to exchange for a partner who can spend the rest of their lives together and is emotionally rich.

Some people squeeze their parents' life's work in exchange for the first half of their lives as husband and wife, and spend the second half of their lives alone in guilt, remorse, and pain.

In this world, men and women are shouted everywhere, but everyone knows that men and women are already unequal.

A woman can marry no matter how ugly she is.

No matter how playful a woman is, as long as she wants to, she will marry.

No matter how bad a woman's reputation is, as long as she wants her, she can find the life she wants.

No matter how bad a strong woman's temper is, as long as she feels tired and can't fight, she can find herself a little fresh meat at any time and live a worry-free life.

A woman, as long as she is still a woman, she is the center of another man, regardless of whether she is ugly in heart or ugly in appearance, she can marry out with high standards.

And what about men?

Unless you have money, if you don't have money, you have power, if you don't have power, you have to be good-looking, if you don't have talent, then you can only endure ugliness, if you can't bear it, then what you want is definitely ordinary that you can't afford to play.

Otherwise, when you wake up, you will find yourself a glass.

In fact, I am like this, I am a cup that has always been sad, a lonely cup.

Others may be cups, but they are a golden cup that will be discovered one day. And I'm a transparent cup with nothing?