Chapter Twenty-Eight: Naming Names Requires Clarity and Clarity and a Good Accent
East, west, north and south in all directions,
The noble and the low, the glory and the withered are divided into yin and yang.
Seven stars and eight corners of the position,
A good name Fu Shou Kang.
"Report your birthday." The widow said.
When the woman saw this, she hurriedly reported her birthday. After hearing this, the widow pondered for a long time, slowly raised her head, and said, "Girl, don't worry, it's autumn now, after this autumn, as soon as winter comes, there will be faith, this can be done, don't worry." It's just that you can't be anxious anymore, judging from your eight characters, you will be blessed in your life, but you also work hard, love to worry, you can't let go of anything, you have to pay attention. ”
"Auntie, you're right, I just can't look at my poor family, no matter how I think about it, I have to let my man earn more money, it's not like he's okay all day long, I'm in a hurry these days, I'm nervous."
"Girl, listen to me, don't worry, there will be a letter as soon as the winter comes, this thing will be completed a year ago, with you behind to help the momentum, your husband can't be poor in this life, you are a prosperous husband."
"Really, auntie?"
"Hexagrams are not joking."
When the woman heard the widow's words, her expression was much more relaxed, and her words were filled with joy, and the two talked for a long time, and the beautiful woman departed. How far did this Ermao go, and he watched the woman walk away without a trace, and then returned. I secretly thought in my heart that it would not be in vain to be able to disappear my soul with this woman overnight in this life.
After returning to the house and sitting down, Ermao looked at the widow and asked, "Auntie, how do you know that she is a hard worker?" I think she is such a beautiful woman, she should only be happy. ”
"Ermao, just from the face, you can't see it. Do you know that she is guilty of Chong, this person, whether male or female, the heavenly stem is happy, the earth branch is happy, the heavenly stem is jealous, and the earth branch is jealous. Rushing in the adjacent earth branch is the most fierce, the next phase collision can be slowed down, and the close opposition must work harder, regardless of men and women. In the past, women were divided into men and women, but now how can they be compared with the past, in the past, women did not go out of three doors and four households, and were closed at home. Now women are just as prominent as men, they are just as powerful as men, and sometimes women pay more than men. According to the ancient theory, women are taboo, and men are happy. In my opinion, men and women are the same, and they should have the same opinion. Let's just talk about this girl just now, she is punished by the moon and the sun, and the understanding in the past is that women are poor and poor. Now can you say she's poor? This woman is a rich man, and when she is in her forties, she is very rich. It's just that she loves to work hard, is restless, and is prone to mental fatigue and other diseases. She just has a nervous breakdown and other diseases in a certain period of time, take medicine to recuperate, adjust her mentality, in the past, she was still so personable, loved by everyone, rich and glorious. ”
"Yes, auntie, you're right."
There was nothing to say about the day. The next morning, the two of them sat in the hall and gossiped. At this time, a middle-aged woman, who was in her fifties, dressed fashionably, and looked like a learned person, entered the house and sat down in front of the widow, and said, "Old sister-in-law, I have a granddaughter, and I want you to make a name." ”
"Tell me my birthday."
Hurry up and report your birthday. The widow bowed her head and pondered for a long time, and said, "As long as this child does not use the words on the edge of the word and the word on the gold edge, everything else will be fine." ”
"Old sister-in-law, when I came, I asked someone to arrange the eight characters and said that there was a shortage of water, but why did you tell me that you didn't use the words on the edge of the water characters? Can't I add water if I don't have water? ”
"You know one thing and you don't know the other. What you say is the eight-character balance method, this kind of thinking comes from the Confucian idea of the mean, now many people are looking at the eight-character criticism of the eight-character, so that when naming the child, they are using this kind of thinking to analyze the eight-character and apply it to practice, who knows that this kind of thinking is unavoidable. Take your child's eight characters as an example, look at this child's eight characters, fire is her official star, living under the moon in the eight characters, is using God, you add water, water is her jealous god and hurt the official, and she is the official star of her life, and the official star is her husband star for the woman's life, this official star is controlled and injured, will she have a good life in this life? ”
"That's right. Old sister-in-law, before I came to you, I found two gentlemen who said that there was a shortage of water, so let me add water, and use the word with water, I just want to hear your opinion. ”
"The balance method has a long history of inferring the eight characters, and this idea comes from the Confucian theory of the mean, which believes that the neutralizer is safe. In fact, how can there be a reason to neutralize everything in this world? It is not necessarily correct for people to blindly pursue the golden mean, and to apply this theory to all aspects. In fact, if a person's eight characters are neutralized, the five elements are not lacking, generally speaking, this person has nothing to do in his life, and he does not look at his life. According to the eight-character theory of your granddaughter, there is no water for the life of officials and nobles, and there are mediocre people. Do you think this water can be added? ”
"What my sister-in-law said makes sense."
"This life is an official prisoner when it encounters water, a wealth when it encounters gold, a blessing when it encounters soil, and a noble display when it encounters fire, what do you say should be added?"
"In the words of the old sister-in-law, is it adding earth fire?"
"It doesn't matter if you don't add this kind of radical, just don't deliberately make up for the lack of water in her eight characters. Deliberately adding water is not only detrimental to her future, but may also have a negative impact on her future life. For this child, her life is not conducive to going to the north and west to work, study and live. Because of the prosperous land in the north, she was restrained from hitting the official star pattern, and the official star was not conducive to career development and family harmony. The West is the place where she compares the calamity, she grows up to work and live in the West, and she can't see the impact in ordinary years. That's why I said I can't use the balancing method. ”
"Listening to you, I know a lot in my heart."
The widow was thanked and the two began to talk again. This Fan Ermao listened attentively, not daring to speak, and after the arrival left, this Fan Ermao asked: "Auntie, there is so much attention to naming a name?" ”
"Ermao, the name is exquisite, but its origin is nothing more than four sentences:
The name needs to be clear,
Lang Lang has a nice accent,
According to the eight characters to determine the five elements,
The five elements should be distinguished. ”
"Got it, auntie."
As soon as Ermao's words fell, a middle-aged woman in her forties walked into the house, sat down in front of the widow after entering the house, looked at the widow and said: "Old sister-in-law, I don't know how to be bored in the past two years, I feel tired, and I don't know what to do." I'm coming to you today to ask for directions. ”
This Fan Ermao can't see a woman, and when he looks at this woman, he gasps in his heart and doesn't come back to his senses for a long time. How do you say, but when you see this woman, Wuyue is wide, the heavenly court is slightly uplifted, the earth pavilion is full, the face is white, the appearance is thoughtful, the back is broad and the waist is round, the expression is majestic, and the nasolabial folds have passed the corners of the mouth.
"Birthday."
When someone came to see him, he immediately reported the hour, and looked at the widow expecting to reply.
"You, don't worry.
Spring flowers and trees meet spring, and they are naturally happy on the eyebrows.
Step straight upstairs, the first floor is higher than the first floor.
People make good luck and get water, and Sanchun occupies all the good customs,
Judging by your non-mediocre face, your good fortune has come.
Sister, don't worry, out of this autumn, it will get better as soon as winter comes. The future of tomorrow and the future is bright, and it will go to the next level. Look at your eight characters and face, you are a nobleman. It's just that your official star is vigorous, and the palace of the sun is damaged. Your husband is a weak and sickly person, and he has a weak personality. ”
"The old sister-in-law is right. I'm also worried about this matter at home, inside and out, I'm so tired. ”
"I was sad and turned white. Sorrowful, every three autumns. People, you can't always think about troubles, you have to be happy. The heart is opened, and everything is opened. In your present situation, you are in the midst of wealth. Wealth has the ability to produce officials, and it also has the power to vent oneself. If you want to be rich, you must first consume your own energy, and it is normal for you to feel tired. These two years are the years of accumulation, turn over the year, enter the seal of silk, Yin Ru mother can protect the officer, you will be promoted, good luck will come naturally. Your husband's health will also improve, what are you worried about? ”
When the woman heard this, her face became much more open, and she thanked the widow and left.
At night, the two of them sat under the oil lamp and started talking, and listened to Fan Ermao say: "Auntie, I didn't realize it before, I sat here these days and listened carefully to your hexagram, why didn't I hear you say that the other party has disasters and disasters, when is the disaster, and where is the disaster?" ”
"Ermao, looking at the eight characters is to find the role of the god and the jealous god in the eight characters, and at the same time analyze the relationship between punishment, rush, restraint, harm, and the relationship between the year and the fortune of the fate, so as to analyze and infer the fate of the life of the master and the fortune of a certain stage. Exploring the fate of a person has been a subject pursued by sociologists and numerologists for thousands of years. It took thousands of years from the ancient ancestors to verify the practice of traveling around the world to the later gradual entry into the theory and into the study. So is this set of theories a complete theory? No. The ancients, the present and even future generations will continue to explore the mysteries of fate and fortune. Looking at the eight characters is just using this set of theories explored by the wisdom of the ancestors. Nowadays, the knowledge and mentality of a numerologist are very important. A good numerologist, when deducing the eight characters, is looking for the effect of using God in the eight characters on the seeker, as well as the impact on the seeker, to see how much of a role the use of God can play in the life of the seeker. When a good numerologist deduces numerology, it is necessary to see in which period the god can play the greatest role, and tell the seeker to let him show his strengths, inspire him to give full play to his advantages, and then give the seeker strength, let him control his destiny, understand himself, and create a rich life. ”
"Ah, auntie, I see that you have a lot of positive comments and encouraging words."
Since we can see the advantages of liking God, we can also see the disadvantages or disadvantages of being jealous of God, so why not show it? That's a complicated issue. This involves a lot of problems, including the flaws of numerology itself, as well as psychological, sociological, ethical and other aspects. To be a good numerologist, when deducing numerology for the seeker, when you see that the idle jealousy god will have a negative impact on the seeker at a certain age of the seeker, you can only warn it, not explicitly. As a result, some words have an unimaginable negative impact on the test. ”
"Yes, auntie, I can see it, I remember."
"For the seeker, there will be no pros or cons at the time, but after a while, even years and decades, many people will feel the benefits of my reasoning in their lives."
"Yes, auntie."
"They will feel from the bottom of their hearts that they have seen their own life and a bright future."
"Yes, auntie, good virtue and good fate, rich and noble."
"Yes, some people predict and focus on disasters, and they don't care about the other party's understanding and ability to bear it. This situation will cause some people's psychological shadows for a lifetime, and they cannot change until death. The results of numerology can help the seeker understand themselves and bring some good psychological effects. A good prediction can encourage the tester to actively face possible opportunities and challenges. And the bad prediction results can warn the seeker, so that the seeker can face possible adversity cautiously and calmly, and grasp his own life, which is the real numerology. ”
The two of them chatted to the depths and went to rest.
Precisely:
How do you know that fate was determined earlier,
Seeking the test is only for the peace of mind.
Taigong test knows that King Wen,
Fang went to the river to be a fisherman.