Chapter 40: Talk about love

Dinner was enjoyable, and the atmosphere became more lively after Gao Min Chengruo forgave Shu Neem's debts, and the two talked freely like old friends.

Taking advantage of Gao Min's conversation, Shu asked a question that had been in his mind for a long time, why hedge funds, which seemed to be pragmatic and focused on short-term returns, would invest in idealistic companies like the spirit of the times.

Gao Min unreservedly said: "This is a strategic investment, you must know that a large part of the funds we are entrusted with come from long-term global institutional investors, including university endowments, pensions, charitable foundations, family funds and sovereign wealth funds, etc., this kind of investors prefer long-term structural value investment, and the spirit of the times has a lot of room for growth, and it is worth long-term investment and holding shares."

"How did you notice the zeitgeist? Participated in the industry conference and found good seedlings, or did Mr. Chu personally visit DMC? ”

"Not really, it was recommended by one of my college alumni. She flew from Paris to Shanghai to persuade me to invest in the zeitgeist. At the time, I thought it would be great to have a project that would make her go out of her way to talk to me for 11 hours with a high fever. I'm an alumnus who is a very measured person, and I can say that I trust her vision. DMC analyzed the market prospects of the zeitgeist, the potential of the business model, whether the team is powerful, whether the product is reliable, and whether the company's development stage is appropriate, and finally came to the conclusion that my alumni are not fooling people because they are promoting projects from old friends."

Shu Neem shook his wine glass and sighed, "Mr. Gao, originally I was thinking of finding a step down,

Gao Min laughed loudly, he was rarely so unrestrained as he was tonight, Shu Neem could always find the right metaphor to joke about her current situation, a person with a sense of humor will undoubtedly have a wider road under her feet, and the courage to laugh at herself is sometimes a manifestation of wisdom and courage.

"Love is part of the spirit of the times, and I will treat everyone equally!"

"I'm relieved to have your words, come, Mr. Gao, I respect you!"

The two crystal wine glasses collided lightly and made a crisp sound, and Shu Neem drank it all.

"It's weird, I'm not very drunk when I drink, but I feel more emotional!"

"What do you feel now, happy or sad?"

"Of course it's a happy emotion, you see, thanks to you, my debts have been forgiven, I don't have to smash the pot and sell iron to be displaced, and I can pursue the cause I love without any worries, isn't this unhappy?"

"Do you have any other pursuits besides your career, such as family and relationships?"

Shu Neem crossed his fingers to support his chin and lowered his eyes and thought about it, "Actually, you want to talk about marriage, right?" My order is like this, feelings, marriage, family, to build a family, you first have to talk about a love that will not break up, I can't accept other flash marriage models blind date models, and establishing an intimate relationship with a stranger requires a lonely courage with both eyes closed, and I am just a coward, upholding the principle of trying not to hurt others, and not to be hurt by others, and the paradox is that if you insist on these two points, you can't start a relationship! ”

"Then what should I do, don't talk about love?" , Gao Min thought it was amazing, this was the first time he talked about emotional topics with others.

"Love is not something you can talk about if you want to! I think it's about time, love is also about timing, there is a similar saying in English, loveisabouttiming, everyone has at least one peach blossom period in their life, it depends on whether you can seize the opportunity, the season of love is best to occur when you are in college, when both physical and psychological maturity are mature, you can talk about a selfless love, don't think about reality, just enjoy the wind and snow! But once you miss the love season and go out of society, it's really not easy to fall into a relationship! Of course, everyone's situation is different, but at least for me, the cruelty of reality is reflected in the uneven drought and flood of Yanzhòng! ”

Gao Min showed a funny look, and he asked, "So you missed the love season, didn't you talk about it in college?" ”

Shu Neem shook his head, "I don't know what you think of the post-80s, I feel that this generation is very contradictory, in a period of social transition, experiencing the confrontation of conservative and open two currents of thought, facing the dilemma of survival, known as the failed generation, this characteristic is obvious in me, I came out of a small place, my parents have taught me since I was a child, you have to study hard, otherwise there is no way out, you can't pay attention to things other than learning after studying hard, such as the confusion of adolescence, the throbbing of first love, and the sensitive feelings of young people, I can't feel it, and I don't understand it. Later, after watching the movie Love Letter, I understood, oh, it turns out that there is a kind of relationship called secret love."

"After entering the university, the sense of loss is greater than the sense of superiority due to excellent grades, I found that I was too far from the big city students who received a vegetarian education, they were cheerful, confident, generous, and born with a leadership temperament. can't dance, can't sing, can't play the piano, has no special skills at all, what is attractive, and just wasted the best years! ”

"You are really merciless in your analysis of yourself, in my opinion, the reason why youth is beautiful is only because a vigorous face is enough to attract people, not because of the additional settings of being able to play the piano, dance and sing! Someone likes you just because you're you! ”

"Ah, that's even worse, it means that no one likes me, what about you, Mr. Gao, do you have any stories of youth to share?"

This time it was Gao Min's turn to shake his head, "My youth is lonely and misplaced, I was admitted to college at the age of 13, and my classmates around me are four or five years older than me, I don't know what to do except study, I can't play basketball, because I'm short, I can't fall in love, because I'm young, I can't make friends, because there is a generation gap, and I won't fight for my opinion if there are group activities, because they think I'm a little kid who doesn't understand anything, and it can be said that I'm incompatible with college life."

"Mr. Gao, you are a prodigy! It's no wonder that for us ordinary people, the prodigy is the kind of high coldness that I have seen through a qiē, born different, and the little troubles that come with high IQ are really nothing! ”

"Actually, I didn't have time to worry, I was fascinated by string theory in my sophomore year, and I spent all day thinking about transferring from mathematics to physics," Gao Min said with a smile.

Shu Neem held his face and hummed quietly: "The little boy is rarely troubled, looking at the sun around him, the little boy is rarely troubled, I hope it will always be so good"

Gao Min sang with a beat: "Diejahre, Grossssind"

"It doesn't sound like English."

"German Lyrics for Little Boys"

"I see, I said how to give birth to my ears - Mr. Gao, let's have another drink, for the sake of youth without youth"

Gao Min raised his glass, "Yours! ”

The two of them drank slowly, ate and chatted, Gao Min never felt that he was a talkative person, and he usually hated aimless chit-chat, but tonight was an exception, I don't know why he and Shu Neem had endless words.

There is too much to talk about youth, and he is still curious about Shu Neem's college life, "You won't just spend your youthful and frivolous days in a dull way, right?" ”

"It's not as dry as you describe, and there will be some small surprises such as sexual encounters"

"Sexual encounter?"

I remember a big class, the bell rang, my classmates and I walked out, a group of students came into the hall, a boy in a white shirt came over, I only noticed his eyes, very big and dark and very bright, he walked past me, I felt that the magnetic field around me had changed, my heart was pounding, I secretly looked back at him again. Seriously, there aren't more than three men here who can turn heads! Shu Melia was immersed in memories with a smile on his face.

"You didn't catch up with him and ask for contact information?"

"I didn't chase it, it was too simple at the time, I didn't have the idea of possession at all, it was purely addictive"

"You've had more than one affair, haven't you? Because you're using a quantitative modifier 'some'"

It's rare to meet someone who likes to listen, and it doesn't hurt to chatter, "There was another time during college, in the lecture hall of first aid knowledge and technology electives, I sat in the front row of the middle row of desks, and there was a boy sitting in the third row of the column on the left against the wall, who looked very delicate, not the kind of handsome guy at first sight, but he felt very good, the clothes were very neat, the eyes were round, the eyes were round, the corners of the eyes were slightly drooping, and he looked gentle."

"Another wordless ending?"

Shu Neem said regretfully: "Yes, I don't even know which department he studied, and now I think back that I don't seem to have a heart for anyone, maybe there is, but it's not strong enough."

"You seem to have a special fondness for big-eyed men", Gao Min's fingers subconsciously stroked the corners of his eyes, he had a pair of inner pair of Danfeng eyes, and when he didn't smile, it was easy to give people a sense of majesty.

Shu Neem gave Gao Min a thumbs up, "Wow, God summed up!" Looks like that's the case."

"Is this the end of your college encounter?"

"It's only twice, the man who fits the eye is hard to find, how can you meet it again and again, but don't keep letting me talk about it, Mr. Gao also talks about your own, it's fair to exchange one for one!"

Looking at the big beauty's behavior towards Gao Min, it is clear that there is something, the eyes can't deceive people, the eyes of the women who look at their lovers or stare at Gao Min with affection or resentment contain these two emotions, maybe even she didn't realize that she leaked the secret with a smile.

"Love in student days may not be able to blossom"

"And then?"

"Gone"

It's really boring, I was expecting to hear a love triangle like Xiao Li Tanhua and Lin Shiyin, but now there is no drama.

"You polytechnic men are too boring, you don't have any gossip spirit at all, be careful that I make friends with you"

"Friends? What is this new term? ”

"It's just that you don't have friends to do it, you can weigh it yourself."

"So strict? I want to see it...... When I went to study in the United States, I lived in a Chinese family for a period of time, the youngest daughter of that family was three years older than me and was applying for college, she took care of me very much, I also helped her in her studies as much as possible, prepared thesis materials for her or something, for the first time in my life I was close to a girl, I was very excited, and slowly got along with each other and we came together naturally."

Shu Neem felt that she was joking too much, Gao Min seemed to recall the rhythm of the past love history, and her attitude was too cautious and strict, her original intention was just to grind him to talk about the feelings of youth, and to pass a note, pull the girl's pigtails and other embarrassing things to make everyone laugh, not only she made fun of herself, but also Shabu Shabu.

But everyone is talking about a previous relationship, and it's too late for her to interrupt.

"We were together for about six or seven years, and then we got engaged, and it wasn't long before she was with my partner."

Intuitively, this "she" is not, there should be someone else.

Shu Neem felt that he had stepped on a landmine, and it was too unkind to force others to expose their scars. Excuse me? I'm sorry? I don't mean to remind you of a sad past? It doesn't seem appropriate to say anything.

The girlfriend who has been in the relationship for seven or eight years has basically formed a de facto marriage, and in the end she has become the wife of a good friend, this is a double betrayal, Li Xunhuan gave up his lover to Long Xiaoyun, that is his masochism, but Gao Min recruited who provoked whom, and he was so involved in such a thing, and his head was green.

But sympathy to sympathy couldn't be spoken, so I had to talk nonsense and comfort him, "This...... How to say, according to superstition, you and your fiancée are not in a good relationship, so you can't go to the end. According to foreign sayings, your other half is still in the vast sea of people, and you are not in a hurry to find it slowly, and when you find it, you may be your soul mate! ”

Gao Min was amused by Shu Neem's nervous appearance, "Is my story weighty enough?" ”

"It's just enough", and the dog's blood is remarkable, the latter sentence is omitted, Shu Neem pretended to be excited: "How many paragraphs can I say?" ”

"What else do you have to say?"

"Life is like a song, how can there be two episodes!"

"Dare to love or suite, go on, I love to listen"

Shu Neem patted the table gently, "Okay, continue to talk about love, that's another sad affair!" ”