Chapter Seventy-Seven: Advice

In a warmly furnished living room, a middle-aged woman with a kind and cultivated attitude wearing gold-wire glasses took out a plate of fragrant paws and put it on the glass coffee table, and politely asked Lin Ruoxi, who was sitting on the sofa, to eat melon seeds.

Lin Ruoxi smiled and responded politely: "Thank you, Mr. Yang." ”

Then she grabbed a few claws, and took a full claw between two beautiful fingers, and sent it between the upper and lower teeth very elegantly, and the teeth flashed, and the brittle claw shell cracked, and the flesh was rolled into her mouth by her tongue.

Ms. Yang is Ruoxi Lin's high school chemistry teacher.

Teacher Yang not only teaches well, but also is very good to students, especially the polite Lin Ruoxi, so when Lin Ruoxi was still studying, Teacher Yang invited her to the house from time to time, and also cleaned up the study and cooked and fried vegetables together, if you don't know, I think they are a pair of mother and daughter who respect each other.

Teacher Yang pushed his glasses with his index finger, smiled with a pair of wise eyes, and said softly: "From the moment you entered the door, I saw that you looked tired, as if you were overthinking, and told the teacher, what is it that makes you unhappy?" ”

Lin Ruoxi was a little surprised, blinked her beautiful Danfeng eyes, and said, "You are worthy of being my teacher, my heart always can't escape your eyes; I came to you this time, and I did encounter an upsetting matter, and I don't know how to solve it, so I want to hear your opinions and suggestions. ”

Teacher Yang gently spit the claw shell in the palm of his hand, looked up and said, "I guess, it should be an emotional thing, right?" ”

Lin Ruoxi was a little embarrassed, subconsciously pinched her fingers, and said, "Yes, how do you know?" ”

Teacher Yang smiled mildly and said, "I listened to my niece Yang Tingting, she said that you are stuck in a love triangle and can't extricate yourself. In my previous impression, you are a very strong girl, and no setbacks will break you; And now you say that you have encountered an unsolvable matter, and I guess it may be an emotional matter. ”

Lin Ruoxi secretly admired Teacher Yang's cleverness and said, "That's true. I had a boyfriend some time ago, I love him very much, he loves me very much, we are very compatible in appearance, we both feel that each other will not marry in this life, but my mother did not agree with her life and death, and tried her best to prevent me from meeting my boyfriend, and before she died, she asked me not to associate with him again, and asked me to marry my classmate Feng Tianyu, otherwise she said that she would not be blind. To be honest, Feng Tianyu is a very responsible man and has helped me a lot, but I have no feelings for him. If I choose to continue dating my boyfriend, I will break the promise I made to my mother, and I will be sorry for my mother under Jiuquan; If I choose to be with Feng Tianyu willingly, I will betray my boyfriend, and I feel sorry for my boyfriend. Teacher, I'm really in a dilemma right now, what should I do? ”

Teacher Yang asked, "Why does your mother object to your relationship?" What does your boyfriend do? ”

Lin Ruoxi's face flushed slightly, and said: "Don't tell the teacher, he just graduated from secondary school this year, and now he has no job, my mother thinks he is poor and has no house in S City, and thinks he can't give me happiness." But this is all temporary, I believe that he is an ambitious boy, he should work hard and create a career. ”

"Why do you think he's an ambitious boy? And why do you think he can create a career? ”

Teacher Yang habitually pushed his glasses again and asked sharply.

Lin Ruoxi stammered: "I think he's quite smart, isn't it easier for smart people to succeed?" ”

Teacher Yang smiled disapprovingly and said, "That's not necessarily, if he is so ambitious and unrealistic, then he may not achieve anything in his life; Only by being proactive and doing things in a down-to-earth manner can we succeed. ”

Lin Ruoxi nodded and said, "The teacher is right. However, I believe that my boyfriend is not the kind of person who is far from being ambitious. ”

Teacher Yang didn't know her boyfriend, so naturally she didn't comment casually, but just asked, "How long have you known each other?" How much do you know about him? ”

Lin Ruoxi said with some humility: "I have known him for ** years, but I have really dated him for the last three months or so; I only know that when he was a child, his family suddenly had a serious accident, he was forced to leave his home and relatives, and then was fostered at his aunt's house, but his aunt was very mean to him, often beating and scolding him, so that his young heart was hurt by YanzhΓ²ng, so his temperament became a little withdrawn and paranoid. ”

Teacher Yang had a look of surprise on his face and said, "You don't know him very well, so you talked about falling in love with him rashly, are you a little irresponsible for yourself doing this?" You don't seem to be the Lin Ruoxi I know, that Lin Ruoxi is cautious and will not approach a boy lightly, let alone fall in love; But now you, Lin Ruoxi hurriedly explained: "Although I don't know him very well, he is very good to me, really good!" He treated me with a lot of respect. Actually, loving someone doesn't have to be based on understanding each other, as long as you have feelings for each other, you can try to fall in love, right? In fact, we are both very happy with each other. Teacher Yang didn't say yes, nor did she say no, because she didn't know if Lin Ruoxi was right. Mr. Yang only knows that the more a person loves each other, the more blindly he will defend the other party, even if the other party has such and such shortcomings and shortcomings, he doesn't care, and even takes the maintenance of the other party for granted, and does not allow others to judge it. As the saying goes, "the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear". The bitter experience tells Ms. Yang that this girl may be making a mistake that is as stupid as she was at the beginning, which is very dangerous. Lin Ruoxi, who was deeply troubled by her troubles, obviously hoped to get Teacher Yang's help to help her get out of the shadow of pain, but when Teacher Yang proposed her own, she refuted it intentionally or unintentionally, why did this happen? In fact, in Lin Ruoxi's heart, she hoped that the respected Teacher Yang would help her untie a knot that her mother tied for her and sweep away the worries in her heart. It doesn't take much effort to untie this knot, just a word to support her and Lu Xiaobai in falling in love, and then the knot will be untied. However, Mr. Yang, who was deeply hurt by his feelings, did not do so. Although Lin Ruoxi's paranoia made Teacher Yang's heart resist, Lin Ruoxi was her own student, a good boy with good conduct, and she had to help her with reason and reason, and she had to solve problems for her, even if she fought with her, she couldn't back down, because she didn't want this girl to be hurt like her ignorant self. So she said cautiously: "It's okay for you to love someone, but you must be cautious." After all, a girl who is extremely passionate about her first love can easily lose herself. Lin Ruoxi was quite surprised and said, "Teacher, why do you say that?" Are you going to persuade me to leave my current boyfriend? Teacher Yang hurriedly explained: "Please don't get me wrong, I don't mean that, I don't have the right to persuade you to leave your current boyfriend, I just think that falling in love is a big thing, it is related to whether you will be happy or successful in your future life, so you should consider and choose carefully!" Lin Ruoxi stopped talking, because she had never thought carefully about these important issues. Teacher Yang smiled softly again, as if to comfort her, and as if to self-deprecating. She said: "To be honest, I personally don't approve of falling in love with each other lightly without understanding each other's personality preferences and aspirations. It is undeniable that love is a kind of chemical effect of love, which can make people can't help but be fascinated by it, intoxicated by it, and even willing to pay a qiΔ“ for it. However, feelings of lack of understanding are like rolling dice, although it is very exciting and full of good expectations, but if the number of points rolled is not the number you expect, then you will be sad and even painful. Lin Ruoxi thought for a moment and said, "Teacher, what you said is reasonable, but it is really painful for me to give up my current boyfriend, and I am afraid it will be difficult to do it." Teacher Yang said lovingly: "I understand that you are very painful and difficult to do, because the teacher is also a person from the past, and he has been crazy about love, and even put out the fire for love moths, but then I found out that I was wrong, very wrong, and I still regret it when I think about it now." So I hope you don't follow in my footsteps and harm yourself. Lin Ruoxi couldn't help asking: "Teacher, you are very smart and knowledgeable, how can you make mistakes in the matter of feelings?" Teacher Yang said disapprerovingly: "You are wrong, I am just an ordinary woman, and people will make mistakes." In addition, there is no scientific proof that when a person with a high degree of education faces complex and changeable personal feelings, he knows how to self-regulate and maintain calm and restraint better than a person with a low education or an uneducated person. Lin Ruoxi nodded and said, "That makes sense." Seeing that she agreed with her point of view, Teacher Yang felt ironed in her heart, and asked aloud, "Do you know why I have been single and unmarried until now?" This question is a question that Lin Ruoxi wants to know, she has always felt very strange, Teacher Yang is so gentle and lovely, talented, and has published hundreds of thousands of words of works, there should be many men who have pursued her, but she is now over the age of confusion, and she is still a single aristocrat, what is going on? But she is a well-bred and polite person, and understands the order of the elder and the young, so she never asks her about personal emotional matters. She shook her head and said, "I don't know, and I don't dare to speculate." "This novel is from this book, from /book/html/34/34389/