Lu Chong smiled: "If the story I tell can cause you to reflect, it will be great!" Women, it is made of water, it is necessary to overcome rigidity with softness, if a woman's body and man's personality are too hard, not only emotionally, but also in career will be hindered, of course, I just said so, not to say you, just to feel the heroine in this story. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info"

Chen Xiaoxuan fell into deep thought, she used to be beautiful and proud, and she never wanted to reflect on what was wrong with her personality, but the story Lu Chong told made her see her own shadow, and she had to deeply reflect on whether there was anything wrong with her personality.

Some people have done a lot of wrong things, but she is self-conscious, never thinks that what she does is wrong, never complains about others, and never thinks about what is wrong with herself.

Such a woman is very common in Treasure Island, and Chen Xiaoxuan is a typical representative.

In that life, after Wu Zongxian broke up with Chen Xiaoxuan, he once said: "Chen Xiaoxuan often meets the right person at the wrong time, and the relationship repeats the mistakes of the past, because she lost to the personality, her personality is too hard, so the relationship is not smooth, she is a woman's body, a man's personality, and she is paranoid about her feelings, and everyone who loves her has become enemies, so am I, so is Xiao Zhan, I am not a bad person, but she closes the door of communication, and it is difficult to help her." ”

After Chen Xiaoxuan broke up with him, Wu Zongxian felt sorry for Chen Xiaoxuan for giving up such a good man as him, and also felt sad for Chen Xiaoxuan's future life, he boldly predicted that in the near future, Chen Xiaoxuan will repeat the mistakes made two years ago for the pressure of life, pick a section leader or director-level man to marry, and divorce soon, for the sake of the child's milk powder money, and then come back to filming. He also said: "Chen Xiaoxuan's current performance will only make her path in the entertainment industry narrower and narrower, now she has such a heavy burden of life and family difficulties, and she will have to fight a lawsuit with Chengfeng, a brokerage company, in February next year, and she doesn't know how to bow to reality, she is nonsensical, and she still has to shoot a photo album, just like Beifeng North (which means that mahjong is almost over)." ”

I have to admire, Brother Xian is worthy of being the host of both high business in the Chinese hosting circle, and he later won all these predictions.

Chen Xiaoxuan also had a short-lived relationship a year after the divorce, and was revealed to be in love with idol drama director Yu Huakun. As a result, the idol drama director "Famous Grass Has a Master" and has a 10-year relationship with actor Pan Yijun. As soon as this scandal came out, Pan Yijun expressed her understanding of her boyfriend, and said good things for her boyfriend everywhere in front of the media, without a word of blame. Yu Huakun felt guilty when he saw his girlfriend being so generous, so he quickly cleared up his relationship with Chen Xiaoxuan and denied pursuing Chen Xiaoxuan, "Chen Xiaoxuan is just a friend who can talk, if she feels like being pursued, it's not good for me." As a result, Chen Xiaoxuan was a junior again, and she hesitated for a moment about the new relationship between the two and said: "I don't know what to say, since he said that he wanted to continue with her, I have not contacted him." ”

Chen Xiaoxuan said before that he was willing to equal Hua Kun to handle his feelings, but Wu Zongxian disagreed: "Emotional matters can't wait for others to deal with them, she always can't learn well, the biggest sorrow of female artists is the harm to girls after making their relationship public, the man doesn't admit it, and the girls who suffer are all girls, and I don't understand why she wants the other party to make it public when she is dating." ”

When Chen Xiaoxuan was pondering, Lu Chong didn't disturb her, but told Yi Nengjing a story.

A woman has known a male star who is eight years older than her since she was eighteen years old, when this woman was pursued by a rich man, and the male star's words moved her: "Believe me, although I am not as rich as him now, but I can make you 10,000 times happier in the future," and then they had a long-distance love run for thirteen years, which became a love myth in the entertainment industry...... Later they divorced.

It is about the love story of Yi Nengjing and Haring.

Yi Nengjing was smarter than Chen Xiaoxuan, and she immediately heard that Lu Chong's story was reflecting her and Haring, so she glared at Lu Chong angrily: "How can you be like this, how can you curse us like this?" ”

Lu Chong sneered: "Curse? You are also a smart person, think about it, if you marry him, can you get the blessing of his parents and family in your marriage with him? With his personality, can he protect you well? If you are busy with work in the future and separated from each other, with your romantic and amorous personality, can you really stay the same forever? Before you blame me, ask yourself these questions! ”

Yi Nengjing's family background was not bad, her grandfather's name was Yang Yuanding, and he was a famous politician in the early years of Baodao, but he was killed in the 228 incident, and the Yang family declined. Yi Nengjing, whose parents have been divorced since she was a child, was sent to her adoptive mother's house, and her poor childhood made her not even have shoes to wear when she was a child. There is a brother-in-law in the family, but he went insane due to business failure, and when he saw that Yi Nengjing was thin, he abused him. When she was 12 years old, Yi Nengjing's mother married in Japan, so she came to Japan with her mother. But in Japan, the stepfather was not kind to their mother and daughter, and the fourteen-year-old Yi Nengjing went to the restaurant to wash dishes in order to let his mother return to the familiar treasure island, hoping to earn money to support the family.

When he was 16 years old, a ID photo allowed Yi Nengjing to meet Liu Wenzheng, a singer who was very popular on Baodao at that time. Liu Wenzheng took a fancy to her at a glance and hoped to sign her as a singer. In order to earn enough money as soon as possible, when Yi Nengjing was 16 years old, despite his mother's opposition, he relied on the money earned from his part-time job to buy a plane ticket and fly back to Treasure Island. Although she was not well-known when she debuted on Treasure Island, and her life was still poor, she finally enjoyed her father's love. Sadly, her father died in a car accident shortly after signing the contract for her. One night in 1987, his father went to Yi Nengjing's record company and said to Liu Wenzheng: "My daughter is too smart, please take care of it." After that, Yi Nengjing sent his father downstairs. Seeing his father, who was 184 cm tall, riding a 50cc motorcycle, Yi Nengjing blurted out: "You are so dangerous", and his father said: "Then you can make money to buy me a trolley in the future." No one could have imagined that it would become the last conversation between her and her father. It was she who went to claim the body herself. One can imagine how hard this hit her 17-year-old! Car accidents have always been tragic deaths, and it is not surprising that the flesh and blood are blurred, and when she saw the appearance of the corpse, the impact was conceivable. So, how many midnight dreams, she will think of this scene. She has confided in many programs, but others only sympathize with it, and then listen to it and forget it. But that kind of impact, that kind of pain, that kind of regret, that kind of regret, that kind of confusion, that kind of self-blame, that kind of correction, that kind of fear, or that kind of stimulation, who can really understand. If she wasn't strong enough, maybe it would give her a mental block.

Compared with Yi Nengjing's bumpy life experience, Harlem can be said to be from a famous family. Haring's grandfather, Yu Enxi, was the mayor of southern Yunnan, his father Yu Jialin was a political veteran, and his mother was Zhang Zhengfen, a famous Peking Opera singer.

Yi Nengjing is not only poor and has been raised by the rich in order to live, which makes Haring's family have always disliked her, that life, the two were secretly married, Haring's family strongly objected, the wedding scene, except for the Yu family's mother and sister, there was no half of Yi Nengjing's family present, and even the wedding ring had not been bought The first meal after receiving the certificate was not a warm celebration, but a random place to eat some pizza, the first night after the marriage was spent at a friend's house, at that time, Harlem took Yi Nengjing's hand, Yi Nengjing cried all over the place, This is also the origin of "holding your hand, but you are crying with red eyes" in the lyrics of Chunni later...... The accumulation of contradictions over the years of adulthood made this woman unable to bear so much pressure.

Not to mention a woman, even a man like Lu Chong who can resist pressure can't stand it, in that life, the old father-in-law and mother-in-law have always disliked his family background and disliked him in all kinds, although he worked hard to earn money and raised their daughter fatter than a pig, he still couldn't get any approval from them, so the unblessed marriage came to an end in the seventh year.

Yi Nengjing lowered her head and thought about it for a while, she had to admit that if she married Haring in the future, she would definitely not get the blessing of his family, she couldn't help but ask herself, if she was not blessed by the other party's family, she would have to look up and not look down in the future, could she bear it?

Moreover, she knows that she is very insecure about her relationship, if a situation like Lu Chong said, she really doesn't know, can she stand it?