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Regarding having children, He Zhang refused at first.
Although he was not responsible for giving birth, he was worried that the child would not be healthy, although his disease would not be directly inherited, but it was inevitable that the child was a high-incidence group, and he himself experienced that when he was a childhood riddled with disease, he naturally did not want his children to repeat the past. But since Jiang Qi wanted to give birth, he quickly retreated and asked, "Actually, I don't like children, but since you want to, do you want to find a sperm bank?" At least you can ensure your health. ”
"If your mother knew that her grandson wasn't her own, she would have exploded on the spot."
He Zhang didn't mind: "Don't tell her, anyway, it came out of your belly, and my name was written in the father's column on the birth certificate, which is my biological child, besides, I care so much about my own child, can I still have a womb?" Ignore her, I can't give you a 100% healthy child. ”
Her husband's thoughts are more biased than Jiang Qi's, Haichuan Baina.
But to put it bluntly, if it's someone he likes, then everything is good, let alone a sperm bank, Jiang Qi picked up a dog and came back and said that he wanted to raise it as a son, and he wouldn't have an opinion, just let his daughter-in-law be happy.
He Zhang respects and loves her, and she doesn't want to make him sad for a child.
In the end, it was Panda who came out and gave her two pills to wash the meridians and cut the marrow, and solved the matter.
Jiang Qi was naturally grateful: "This elixir is very precious, right?" Take out two ...... at once."
"What age is it, I eat and play with this kind of sugar pills, buy one get one free at a discount in the fairy supermarket, you come to eat it when you get married, and you don't give a red envelope, so you should make up for it."
…… Her gratitude was suffocated by Panda's smiling face.
So a year later, the most vigorous pregnant woman in history, who could do two times, gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
He Xuan, what fate.
Together, it is Xuanyuan.
Jiang Qi's name, He Zhang had no opinion throughout the whole process, she felt that there was no sense of involvement, so when she gave a nickname, she asked his opinion, he thought hard for a long time, and held back the two: "...... Wangcai, Laifu? ”
I was almost not knocked out of the single ward by my daughter-in-law.
Speaking of choosing a name, everyone has their own ideas, He Zhang saw that a few blind picks were not good, so he began to search on the Internet, and asked Jiang Qi's opinion when he saw it: "Daughter-in-law, look at this Liying, Angelina, Yingxue, Yuhanling......"
"Get out."
"QAQ fell and couldn't roll, and he had to be kissed by his wife to get up."
In the end, I really couldn't think of it.,Jiang Qi gave up the behavior of challenging the imagination by taking a nickname.,He Zhang is getting more and more energetic the more he thinks about it.,What kind of middle two anime names are up.,At the end, there was regret.:" If I want to take the child, it must be the name 'Pikachu' to have the motivation to bring it, or the apostle is not bad......"
Jiang Qi felt more and more that her move of not choosing a nickname was very wise, and she successfully put an end to the shadow of the children's childhood.
*****
He Zhang has emphasized many times that he doesn't like children.
"My father's love only breaks out when I tear people up on the Internet, and the sons and grandchildren I have accepted over the years are not thousands but hundreds, of course, I don't hate it to the point of abuse, but I don't want to spend time solving things that can be solved with money."
He has his own set of truths: "Lack of father's love? The expression of father's love is to buy, buy, buy, and both parents are not as rich as the family, you see my parents love me so much, they almost used me to what I was. Why don't I buy an inflatable doll that I pinched in the same shape as I made and put it in the baby room so that they could feel the company of their father? ”
Jiang Qi's work location is free, plus the nanny she hires, she doesn't have to eat heavy with her children, as long as she asks one more nanny on duty to breastfeed.
Let her have money and not spend it, and she has to be woken up in the middle of the night to come back to express her mother's love, which is impossible.
The two had a detailed discussion before preparing for pregnancy and reached a consensus that they both belong to the type of rational parenting, not too doting, and reserve a certain amount of parent-child time, but they will never get into it as a whole. Before becoming a parent, first of all, he is a person, giving the resources within his power to the two children, not expecting to support the elderly, and supporting himself as an adult.
Having a child requires financial preparation and psychological preparation, and it is more cautious than getting married.
You can leave after getting married, but when the child is born, you can't stuff it back, not to mention winning at the starting line, at least you can give a qualified nurturing environment.
Everything was ready, the only thing that exceeded Jiang Qi's budget was.
He Zhang, who said that he rejected children in the first 30 years of his life, was ...... after He Xuan was born.
"The nanny told me today."
"Huh?"
"She said that she warmed the bottle, and when she was going to hold Yuanyuan to feed, you volunteered to snatch the bottle, but the posture was not in place, and Yuanyuan cried?"
……
He Zhang pretended to be looking at the scenery in the distance.
This situation became more and more serious after the two babies grew up, and they knew to hide behind their father when they made mistakes at first, and then they obediently admitted their mistakes to Jiang Qi.
Once He Zhang asked: "Why don't you two look for my protection when you are dying now?" ”
He Yuan held the doll book and glanced at his father with the eyes of the mentally handicapped.
He Xuan was very happy and enthusiastically answered his father's questions: "Because my mother will punish you together!" And Dad, you recognize it too quickly in front of Ma Ma! Not manly at all. ”
He Zhang disagreed: "What kind of masculinity do you want from your daughter-in-law?" It's enough to have it on the bed. ”
Hearing this, He Yuan raised his clear eyes and looked at him with interest: "Dad, why should there be manliness in bed?" ”
"Uh, that's it."
At this time, He Zhang, who has been a father for eight years, thought about this serious problem, how to explain to the child what is masculinity in bed?
He pondered for a long time.
After a long time, He Xuan He Yuan invariably raised his head and looked at Jiang Qi who came out of the study: "Ma Ma!" ”
"Huh? What are you talking about? ”
Just when He Zhang secretly said something wrong, the eldest son had already pounced on her: "Dad is teaching us masculinity in bed!" ”
The youngest daughter doesn't like to be coquettish, but when she saw Jiang Qi, she also closed the book and opened her arms to hug her: "Well, manly." ”
……
He Zhang: "Do I still have a chance to explain?" ”
Jiang Qi lowered her eyes, the corners of her lips raised slightly, squatted down and kissed each of her children's faces: "Today's homework is finished?" When you're done, let you watch TV in the living room for an hour, and cut fruit for you to eat after an hour. ”
In the end, the child's heart, when he heard that he could watch TV, he immediately put this matter in his mind, kissed her with a bang, picked up the remote control and jumped on the sofa.
When He Xuan's attention was on the TV screen, Jiang Qicai leaned over and gently grabbed He Zhang's collar, and the latter got up from the ground and was led back to the room nervously.
An hour is enough for evil or for fun.
"Like to do things?"
"No, no, no, I like you, I don't like to do things!"
"Manly, huh? Isn't that so? ”
"Daughter-in-law, don't pinch QAQ to hurt ......"
Facts have proved that pretending to be forced is easy to be struck by lightning, and the way of heaven is good for reincarnation, if you don't believe it, look up, who does the sky spare?
Anyway, I didn't spare He Zhang.
*****
After getting married, the most intimate social circles of the two almost overlapped.
As soon as he came, there was only one friend Liu Tao, who had a family after marriage, and his attitude towards Jiang Qi's friends was like a normal person, and his speech was humorous, so he finally made friends One by one, others are old and young, and he is a middle-aged friend. So every time they have a dinner party, there are at least five people, and Wang Yao and Liu Tao often have to go to other countries because of their work, so it is not easy to get together.
KC is single, plus she has a habit of exercising, but she looks the youngest in the audience, and the years are on her...... There is no use at all, in terms of immaturity and naivety, only she and He Zhang can compete with each other. And because of the success of holding the beauty, He Zhang's hostility towards his rival KC has also weakened a lot.
Until Jiang Qi took the two babies to a dinner party for the first time after they became sensible, it was also convenient, and it was in the villa near He Zhang, which was very private.
The group was preparing food, but Li Yongyi and KC, who couldn't cook, became the children's playmates.
Half an hour later, the dishes were set up in the open-air courtyard, and Jiang Qi raised his voice to call the four of them out.
"Brother KC, can the boss you said be like this? One life can be achieved without injury? It's amazing, I didn't even know there was this mechanism ......" He Xuan took KC's hand and said as he walked, his eyes were so bright that he was about to burst into stars, it seemed that in just half an hour, he had been subdued by KC, who was full of game talent.
Even He Yuan, who doesn't like to talk, obediently holds Li Yongyi.
Jiang Qi was surprised, she didn't expect them to get along so well with the child.
Usually at home, the only object of playing games online with his son is He Zhang, seeing that He Xuan has a new object of worship, He Zhang was devastated, and when he was gnawing on chicken wings, He Xuan inadvertently said: "I want to become a man as powerful as Brother KC in the future!" "It's even more cold and elegant, sprinkled all over his face, and my rebellion breaks his heart......
He tried to strike at the enemy's arrogance: "Xuanxuan, KC is not an elder brother, it's a sister, don't you like to play with girls in school?" ”
He Xuan looks like his mother, his originally delicate facial features have a subtle chemical effect on the boy's body, and he is twice as handsome as his parents, and he is often harassed by little girls at school, and over time, he doesn't like to play with other girls.
KC doesn't care: "Well, biologically, I'm really KC's sister. ”
He Xuan was stunned.
Jiang Qi couldn't see that the child's worldview was hit, so she explained: "KC is a good friend of my mother, but she still hasn't figured out whether she wants to be a boy or a girl, so she can call it whatever she wants." You can't change your natural gender, just like you're a boy and you're a girl, but if you want to try to be a girl one day, your mom won't stop you, as long as it's your deliberate decision. So we also have to respect other people's choices, Xuan Xuan Yuan, you know? ”
He Yuan nodded.
He Xuan came back to his senses: "Brother KC...... Are you a girl? ”
"I guess so." From KC, who has seen the world.
"Ang ......"
He puffed out his cheeks and thought for a long time, until the adults had already shifted the topic to other things, and then he stopped Jiang Qi: "Ma Ma! ”
"Huh?"
Jiang Qi looked at his son, he was very smart and chose to interject in the gap between everyone's chats, and the others did not ignore his opinion because of his young age, and turned their eyes to him.
"I thought about it, I don't want to try to be a girl, because if Sister KC is a girl, I want to marry Sister KC in the future!"
……
HE Zhang: ????
The friendship between KC and He Zhang, before it sprouted, was quickly strangled in the cradle because of He Xuan's words.