My name is Lu Qinghe, I am 28 years old this year, and I am negotiating with my husband who has been married for eight years to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for a divorce tomorrow. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

Why I was suddenly willing to divorce my husband, who filed for divorce five years ago, all started five days ago.

Five days ago, my daughter Xiaolu was going to travel abroad with her grandparents during the primary school vacation, which is a good thing, I have taken her for so many years, although I am reluctant, but I never thought that a seven-and-a-half-year-old child would talk to me all night.

It was my daughter's words that made me stand all night in a fully air-conditioned space before I got sick and had a long and real dream.

"Mom, can you please stop packing anything in your suitcase? Didn't grandma say, all my things are bought abroad again, you have never been abroad, what can you understand? Xiaolu impatiently walked over from the sofa and threw all the folded clothes I had packed into her suitcase and threw them on the ground.

I don't understand, my smart and sensible daughter suddenly lost her temper with me?

Yes, I have been married to Wen Yuanjie for eight years, a very wealthy wife, but I have never traveled abroad, because I don't understand English, which is really embarrassing. Commoners marrying into such a family are naturally not as beautiful as in fairy tales.

So after I gave birth to my daughter and couldn't conceive a child for two consecutive years, I realized that my husband was unreliable, and my parents-in-law had never seen it seriously. When I was able to marry into the Wen family, it was all because my senior sister helped me at that time, and helped me get some unknown handles of the Wen family.

Otherwise, with the means of Wen Yuanjie and the Wen family, how could they get married without the groom?

When my daughter said such a thing to me, I was stunned and asked her a little dumbfounded: "Xiaolu, I am your mother, you should respect me and be polite when you say to me." "Yes, the child of a wealthy family, how can he be so rude?

What makes me the most sad is my daughter's attitude towards me.

It seems that since my daughter entered kindergarten, she has not been as clinging to me as she was when she was a child.

"It's because you're my mom that I say that to you. Mom, do you know how irritated I am every time I see you and Dad arguing? You only see each other five or six times a year, and each time you either quarrel or get divorced. After you quarreled, you weren't so drunk that no one even knew about yourself, and Dad was on the news every day with all kinds of different aunts.

Did you know that ever since I had a memory and was sensible, I was ridiculed by my peers, classmates, and friends? I admit you're my mother, even a good mother, but my good mother, do you know what I want?

I don't want to see you always looking aggrieved in front of your grandparents and being scolded for being scolded. I don't want to see you and Dad always arguing endlessly; I don't want to see you crying silently staring at your grandfather's pictures.

Mom, I'm eight years old, and I'm sensible. But I still don't even know my grandparents, except for my aunt, I don't know any of my mother's relatives. Mom, don't you want your grandparents to do it?

What do you know now except that you only revolve around me every day, except for drinking and getting drunk?

Don't you have dreams?

Our teacher once said that a person who has no dream is not even qualified to live!

You don't love my dad, you are so unhappy, unhappy, unhappy in this house, why don't you divorce my dad?

Mom, I really hate you when I see you so tired!!

Ask me why I hate you?

Because of your adult grievances, I was too sensible in advance.

Everyone is praising me for being smart and sensible, but I don't want to be at all, really, I just want my parents to have a good meal with me and accompany me to the amusement park, but only my mother accompanies me, or only my grandmother, I am completely like a child without a father, or a child without a complete family.

Now that I'm grown up, I don't need you anymore, tomorrow my grandparents and I will go abroad, don't think about me. ”

I watched my daughter throw the mess around the floor, pick it up one by one, hang it up one by one, fold it, and put it in place.

I don't know if my daughter's words were really what she thought of when she was eight years old, or if someone else taught her something.

But there is one thing, I have to admit that my daughter has a sentence that is very right, I am not happy at all in this family, not happy at all, and I have never experienced what happiness is.

Ask me if I haven't divorced Wen Yuanjie for so many years, I think it's because I'm unwilling.

At the beginning, I fell out with my family who loved me the most, and I had to find my senior sister to help me calculate and marry Wen Yuanjie. Perhaps, it's because I was often bullied outside when I was a child, so I could only bully my sisters and sisters at home, but in front of my father, I pretended to be a well-behaved and sensible daughter, right?

That night, my daughter's words made me stand under the air conditioner and blow the cold wind all night, and the next day I caught a cold. I didn't even go to the airport to send my daughter and in-laws. Because I don't know how to face my daughter, a stupid woman like me gave birth to such a lovely and smart daughter, maybe it's the proudest thing in my life.

I got sick with a cold and had a dream, and a man named Hua Moning appeared in the dream.

In my dreams, he was my elementary school classmate, junior high school classmate, or my first love, especially his sunny smile, which directly crashed into my already distorted psychology and decadence, as if he could sweep everything away. But I remember that in my real world, there has never been such a person.

I don't know what kind of mentality I had, so I went to the gate of Hua Moning's troops and stood for an hour, and finally turned to the hotel where his comrade-in-arms had appeared in my dream. I thought it was just a dream, but when I got to that place, I realized that there was really a restaurant like that, and even the owner was the same as the person who appeared in the dream.

Ten o'clock in the morning, it was not meal time, but I still went in and sat down, I asked the boss if I could eat now, and when he said yes, I ordered all the dishes in their restaurant, and specially told them to have a small portion.

One, two, three, twenty-three dishes were all served and filled the table, and I ate slowly. Actually, I'm not hungry at all, and since I married Wen Yuanjie, I haven't come to eat in this kind of restaurant, let alone sit in the lobby of the hotel to eat, let alone sit in the closest position to the door.

I ate very slowly, until twelve o'clock, the restaurant was full, and by half past twelve there were already many people looking at me strangely. I didn't care, because I always had a hunch in my heart that I would definitely wait for that man named Hua Moning here today.

Sure enough, at half past twelve, three or four men in military uniforms walked in.

At a glance, I saw the soldier walking at the back, completely different from the young man in the dream, with a smile and innocence on his face, but a cold and handsome face. I stared at him for less than three seconds before he looked at me.

Inexplicably, I would love to go up and ask him, do we really know each other?

But my intellect and the way he looked at me told me that he didn't know me. Although there was a flash of surprise in his eyes when he saw me, it quickly disappeared under his eyes, and he entered a box with his comrades.

I took another bite of food, but I couldn't afford to eat anything, and my stomach felt uncomfortable, so I ran to the bathroom of the hotel and vomited all the food I had eaten today. When I came out to wash my hands, I ran into him again, and I looked at him for a while before I mustered up the courage to ask him, "Your name is Hua Moning?" Graduated from the National Defense Academy? ”

He looked at me with strange and complicated eyes for a long time, and then he replied, probably because he thought it was too indifferent, and asked me again: "Do you know me?" Who are you? ”

I shook my head, covered my mouth with my hand, looked up for three seconds, rushed out and took the bag to pay, but when I finished the bill, I asked the boss for a piece of paper and wrote a sentence for him.

Then, I got into the car, but I didn't leave immediately, but through the glass on the window, I looked at the boss holding the note I left and talking to him, he read the note and his handsome brows furrowed, so he ran to my car, knocked on the window and asked me unhappily, "What do you mean by this?" Wish me happiness? Who are you? ”

As he walked towards my car, I felt the warmth in the corners of my eyes, and I realized that I was crying.

Instead of wiping it with a tissue, I pulled down the window and smiled back: "I'm a stranger, it's nice to meet you, goodbye." ”

I drove the car out and saw in the rearview mirror that he was standing there alone, looking at my car.

When I returned home, in this large villa, I felt for the first time that I was really so far away from this home, so far away that I never felt a sense of belonging.

It's the house I've lived in for eight years, but it's just a house.

In the next few days, I went to see the people who appeared in the dream in Ansha City one after another, and sure enough, the people who appeared in the dream really existed in this world, but the only difference was that they didn't know me.

At the end of the dream, I had a very tragic ending, worse than suicide before the dream......

So, when I woke up from my miserable dream again, I took the initiative to call Wen Yuanjie, my husband of eight years, to talk about divorce.

"Lu Qinghe, what tricks do you want to play? Didn't you say you wanted to talk to me about divorce? "The person who spoke was Wen Yuanjie, who filed for divorce from me five years ago, and he felt uncomfortable even staying with me for a while at the moment, and he was even more bored when he looked at me.

I smiled, look at this handsome, rich and powerful, he is more swaggering than a flower butterfly in his thirties, but seriously, Wen Yuanjie is indeed a very attractive man, just his pair of peach blossom eyes can fascinate many women.

I laid out the eighteen divorce agreements he had handed me: "If you want to divorce me, you can divorce me, I want half of your family property, and my daughter belongs to you as you say, and I will comply with your request and never see her again, and I will not call her again." After the divorce, I will never appear in Ansha City again, you and I have nothing to do with each other. ”

"You, you, are you serious? As long as I give you half of the property, the rest will be done as I said above? Wen Yuanjie looked at me with some suspicion, should he not believe that I suddenly agreed to it after suddenly dragging him for five years?

I can understand his disbelief and doubt, after all, I once let him say that even if I die, I will not divorce him, and he will not want to get rid of me in this life. And in the past five years, I have done this, except for not giving him a green hat, as long as Wen Yuanjie hates it, I have done it all again.

Besides, my request is not too much, Wen Yuanjie's property was only given to me 30% and then a few properties in the divorce agreement before, and I only add 50% to it now, and I don't want anything from my parents-in-law, which is already very merciful.

"Yes, if you agree, we will sign it today, go through all the formalities of the real estate store, and as soon as the money arrives tomorrow, we will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a divorce certificate."

As soon as I finished speaking, Wen Yuanjie suddenly stood up and pointed at me angrily...... I don't know if it's because of my indifferent eyes or because he wants to get rid of me, a woman who has occupied his wife Wen for eight years and is useless.

He immediately called a lawyer, and except for a villa in Yangcheng, all the facades of Ansha's three houses and four rooms were converted into cash for me to transfer to me.

All the formalities were completed, and when I came out of the law firm, Wen Yuanjie was afraid that I would regret it and took me directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau, and it was only five minutes before I got off work.

I followed him to the Civil Affairs Bureau without filling in anything, and really signed each other's names, and changed from a red knot book to a green book, and the whole process took less than a minute.

I looked down and chuckled, it was a heartfelt laugh, and then the divorce was not as difficult to accept as I thought.

"What are you laughing at? Haven't you always been reluctant to divorce me? Why are you so happy to agree so quickly today? "Obviously, Wen Yuanjie should be happy after the divorce, but he suddenly spoke to me in such a tone that seemed to be resentful and even yin and yang, and he directly laughed at me.

Am I the other way around with him?

"Laugh at myself, Wen Yuanjie, how good do you say it would be if people were like the first time they met?"

You're still that confident playboy, and I'm still a girl from the countryside, how good is it?

I didn't stay too long, got in the car and went home, packing my bags.

Looking at the clothes, shoes, bags, and accessories in several cabinets, I suddenly didn't know which ones to take with me, and I thought that I hadn't been back to Lingu Village for a long time, and my parents would not forgive me then?

I used to be my father's proudest daughter, and then I was the only one of five daughters to get divorced...... Will Dad be disappointed in me?

No, maybe as early as eight years ago, I didn't listen to my parents' advice to marry Wen Yuanjie, and my father was already disappointed in me, right? ?

I picked out a few sets of clothes and shoes that didn't look so gorgeous and put them in my suitcase and jewelry, I took a separate box and packed them, and I just picked a few pairs of shoes, and I packed the rest and asked the maid to send them to the welfare station to donate.

Carrying three big suitcases, put them in the trunk of the car, took out the phone and dialed the landline number that was deep in my heart, every beep, my breathing was a minute, and the third sound, when I heard the familiar voice, my nose was sore, and the tears couldn't stop falling.

"Daddy...... I'm divorced. ”