Chapter 8 Forced Marriage During Holidays
After accepting the banquet from the students, the whole school gradually became deserted in the next few days, because the time for the winter vacation arrived. Now primary and secondary schools have begun to gradually release winter vacations in batches, and university students have gradually begun to order bus tickets and other means of transportation to prepare for returning to their hometowns. And middle school students are still better, because most of them are local, so they just hold some leather bags and daily necessities, and they don't need too many things. Except for a small number of people who have special circumstances and have to stay in school for special reasons, other people have also begun to leave and choose to go home. After all, the winter vacation is considered the Chinese New Year, so many people have to go home for the New Year's reunion.
"Goodbye, Mr. Shang, this time you helped me get a perfect score in the Chinese test, my parents will be very happy." Lin Tingting said.
"Okay, study hard next semester and make progress every day!" Shang Zhenwu replied.
Shang Zhenwu is also ready to go home, and as a teacher, the industry is actually slightly better than other industries, in addition to the relatively stable work, there is also an advantage that there are more holidays every year than other industries, that is, winter and summer vacations. Teachers can go on winter and summer vacations with their students, which may be the benefit of the teaching profession. However, the price is that teachers do not have paid leave, after all, winter and summer vacations are also paid vacations, and if paid leave is returned, it is really unfair.
Shang Zhenwu was also ready to go home, because he hadn't seen his parents for a while. Because he went to college in another country, he was only able to come back once a semester. And this time, I returned to Anzhou No. 6 Middle School for graduation internship, isn't it actually just to be able to go home and reunite with my parents?
Shang Zhenwu took the bus back to the family compound run by the Anzhou Municipal Government, which is where Shang Zhenwu grew up. Shang Zhenwu is better than the tragic background of many online novel protagonists, at least his family is not the kind of family where both parents died, and it still looks good. My father is a staff member of the municipal government office, but he is currently in his forties and is a section-level cadre, so I am afraid it will be difficult to be promoted. can only be regarded as more than enough than the top, in this case, Shang Zhenwu has been carefree since he was a child, and he does not have too much miserable life. He can also study with peace of mind, and then he was admitted to a famous school in China.
When Shang Zhenwu returned home.
"Mom, Dad, I'm back!" Shang Zhenwu said.
"You're back?" Father Shang Tianyou asked.
Shang Zhenwu replied: "It's winter vacation now, so I can come back." But seven days after the holiday, I was able to go back. “
"Oh? Why do you have to go back after the festival? Shang Tianyou asked.
Shang Zhenwu explained: "Because I was going to tutor the graduating class, I went back early. ”
At present, many graduating classes are unable to completely spend the entire winter and summer vacations. Especially for the graduating class facing the college entrance examination, the winter vacation is easy to be encroached upon. But my sixth middle school is still good, but it just encroached on the eight-day winter vacation, if it is a school that lacks morality, it will not even let you have a good time during the New Year, and directly let you go back to school immediately after the New Year.
"You're going to tutor the graduating class? Do you have this qualification? Shang Tianyou asked in surprise.
"Yes!" Shang Zhenwu replied.
"It seems that the school still values you! If you can get the establishment in the future, that's fine. Now that the state is tightening its control over the establishment, even I can't help you get it. Shang Tianyou replied.
Now there are still a lot of so-called establishments in the school, but this kind of establishment control is becoming more and more strict, and even his father, Shang Tianyou, the section chief, can't get it. What's more, although Shang Tianyou is the section chief of the municipal government office, he is not the section chief of the education department, and the difficulty is even greater, or even impossible. Now there are cadres everywhere who dare to break the law and discipline, who dares to shoot casually at this time, and if you are not careful, you will become those typical guys on TV.
"Old Shang, don't tell your children about this yet. There is still one important thing next, then you should quickly find us a daughter-in-law, so that I can hold my grandson as soon as possible! Mother Zhang Ting said.
"Looking for a daughter-in-law?" Shang Zhenwu was speechless.
When Shang Zhenwu heard this, he couldn't help but be very speechless in his heart, he actually encountered the legendary forced marriage? I actually encountered the legendary forced marriage, and I am ready to graduate!
"Son, did you meet the right one in college? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Mother Zhang Ting asked.
Shang Zhenwu shook his head, and then said, "Where do I have time?" Although I am good at English, I also taught myself French and Japanese in addition to my own courses in college, so I don't have time to find a girlfriend! ”
"Hey, you nerd!" Zhang Ting suddenly said in a little anxious.
Shang Zhenwu was speechless, who made him study hard, don't be distracted, and don't fall in love? Especially when she was in high school, her mother Zhang Ting actually guarded against Shang Zhenwu's early love. But at this time, he actually said this, which made Shang Zhenwu very speechless. In the past, I was afraid of my early love, but now I am worried that I will fall in love too late, isn't this speechless?
"Son, you have to know that there is a big difference between men and women, so if you want to find a wife, you must hurry! Otherwise, I will definitely not be able to find my wife next, how will I hold my grandson when the time comes? Mother Zhang Ting asked.
"Well, I believe there must be a way before the car reaches the mountain!" Shang Zhenwu immediately wanted to shirk.
Shang Zhenwu knew that he was afraid that he had encountered the legendary forced marriage, and he was not a person who had not watched the news, so he naturally knew that he would be forced to marry when he went home during the holidays many times. But this is only the first time, because he has just graduated and he is still in the internship. But this time I am about to graduate, and many parents also hope to be able to find a partner for their children. Before going to school, I naturally wouldn't be forced to get married, but now that I'm about to graduate, I'm definitely going to face forced marriage.
Zhang Ting immediately thought about it and said, "Haven't you been on winter vacation recently?" So I arranged some blind date places for you to go and see. And I heard that this blind date is very high-level. The men and women who came on a blind date this time are generally staff members of some government agencies and institutions, and young middle-level people in large enterprises, and they have a lot of development prospects in the future. So if you can go there and find a girlfriend or two, that's pretty good. This is a ticket that I have been asking for a long time to get, but it took a lot of connections from your father to get a ticket from the city hall, so you must cherish it! This blind date is very high-level, and ordinary people are not qualified at all! This was proposed by Lin, deputy secretary of the municipal party committee, who said that government workers are very busy on weekdays and have no time to care about their families. Even many young staff members have not even solved their own family affairs, so Deputy Secretary Lin took the initiative to put forward this idea, hoping to organize a high-grade blind date, and then let everyone meet people with the same identity and almost similar family background, maybe there can be some possibilities! And being able to work in government departments or middle and senior managers in enterprises shows that they are all talents. Now and the past is different, in the past, it was a woman who was not talented to be virtuous, and now your mother I hope to be able to find a more capable daughter-in-law. And the girls who work in the government are obviously relatively high in terms of education and knowledge, you can consider it. So Deputy Secretary Lin organized this blind date this time, and I immediately took the initiative to sign up for you. ”
"I'm rubbing, this Deputy Secretary Lin is really, he cares about the sky and the earth, and he cares about people shit and fart! Isn't this redundant? Shang Zhenwu complained.
But Shang Tianyou said: "You can't say that, many outsiders think that we, the people in the government agencies, sit like this for a day with a cup of tea and a newspaper every day, which is completely fart." If it's okay to be a leader, at least you can rest on time. But some of the low-level staff, that's really troublesome. What Saturday is guaranteed not to rest, Sunday rest is not guaranteed, many people think it's talking about fun, but this is real! It's okay for our city government office, but if it's the public security, then don't really want to rest. Therefore, Deputy Secretary Lin has done a good thing for everyone this time, and hopes that people from all government departments can meet each other, so that there may be a common language. Moreover, most of you juniors also have opportunities, which can be regarded as some care for us old comrades. ”
Shang Zhenwu really has no choice, it seems that his parents also hope that he will find a girlfriend as soon as possible, but Shang Zhenwu really doesn't have this idea. Shang Zhenwu knew that with the current conditions, many men and women were not willing to get married so early. After all, the current society is gradually developing, and the economic conditions are getting better and better, and many people can survive independently with their own conditions. To know why human beings got married in the past, in addition to having to reproduce, there is also an important reason, that is, after two people get married, they can help each other and then share the risks of life. And there is another reason, that is, the economic conditions were insufficient at that time, so it was natural for the two to cooperate and "hold together" to survive.
Now many women are not in a hurry to get married, because now that the economic conditions are better, many women do not need to get married to support their lives. Many women also have their own independent financial resources, and they do not have to maintain their survival through marriage, and they do not need the charity of men. So this is what makes women not in a hurry to get married. And Shang Zhenwu is naturally not in a hurry, he still wants a few more years, how can he enter the "grave" of marriage so early. Nowadays, people advocate freedom, and naturally do not want to be bound by a marriage. Therefore, the reluctance of young men and women to marry too early is actually due to many reasons, not one side can be caused.
"Mom, can I not go? I've been very busy lately, so it's better not to go. Anyway, people may not look down on me, didn't I expose my ugliness? Shang Zhenwu asked.
"Not going? No, you have to go! How old are you, you're twenty-two. As for whether people look down on you or not, that's someone else's business. What's more, you are not bad, you can speak three foreign languages, and graduated from a prestigious school, you are a top student! Mother Zhang Ting said.
"Isn't it twenty-two? Is it just the legal age to get married? What's the hurry? As the saying goes, start a business first and then start a family, I want to ......" Shang Zhenwu just wanted to say something, but was immediately interrupted by his mother Zhang Ting.
"Okay, I've signed you up, you must go then! This time, Deputy Secretary Lin will also go in person, and if he doesn't sign up when the time comes, isn't that a slap in the face of Deputy Secretary Lin? So, don't you get your dad in trouble, understand? Mother Zhang Ting replied.
"Hey, what kind of guy is this Deputy Secretary Lin, who even cares about this kind of thing." Shang Zhenwu said helplessly.
"This is the concern of the organization, what do you understand? Don't be in the midst of blessings and don't know blessings, if you are not your father and the section chief of the government department, who in the organization will care about you! Remember, this is a political task, and you can't just turn it down. Zhang Ting snorted.
"Organize the organization, and now this organization is still here, it seems that our parents and our mother's generation are inseparable from the organization!" Shang Zhenwu thought helplessly, there is still a generation gap between himself and his parents, and the generation gap is not small.
Although it may be a good thing for others to have an "organization" to care about, it may not be for Shang Zhenwu. Because Shang Zhenwu knew that his future prospects would definitely not be low, maybe others would desperately sharpen their heads and drill into the organization, but they didn't think so. Once you join the "organization", it may be a constraint on yourself, and you will not be able to develop freely. Therefore, he intends to choose his own path, rather than joining the "organization" by means of obtaining a quota at school and then saving the country according to his parents' expectations. According to the old thoughts, the reason why my parents let me go to a normal school, and then graduate and return to school to become a teacher, is not that I hope to be able to obtain the so-called establishment of the school, and then transfer to this government department again through some waiting opportunities? This is also known as "koji." line to save the country". If he didn't have this QQ2050, then he might really do it, because it is good to get a job that guarantees drought and flood. But I don't need it at the moment, and having this establishment is a constraint, and there is no need to give up my future for the sake of a so-called establishment.
"Okay, let's go on a blind date first, it's really unlucky. Blind dates can be involved in political tasks, I'll take it! Shang Zhenwu thought speechlessly.