To get someone else's secret, you'd better give someone your own secret.

"I'm really envious, you don't have to prepare for the college entrance examination, you don't have to run around like a dog, and you can often go on outings, envy. ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue was very uncomfortable with this way of talking.

Wang Jian doesn't seem to have any sense of privacy, but he gradually takes the characteristics of the two parties' age proximity as a topic, and gets closer by chatting about the troublesome and interesting things he had when he was a student.

After Xuanyuan Mingyue was forced to join this kind of topic, it also meant that too much information had to be revealed occasionally.

"So, it's also a secret realm, you are not as extreme as the White Emperor Secret Realm, but I can also understand that from the beginning, the White Emperor Secret Realm was opened by an army, so its organizational structure is the leadership power from top to bottom, and the White Emperor is obvious, because he controlled the absolute power from the beginning, he naturally began to play that set, however, is that kind of gameplay stable, I feel, there is a big problem. ”

"I don't know if I ask this, but what I can tell you is that more than one group of people are in contact with the White Emperor's family. ”

Wang Jian touched his chin and said: "We can get here, that is, the future world, I believe, whether it is the secret realm of your home, or my earth, I am afraid that it has become a scorched earth, no, it is a cold and lonely end times, you think about it, there is nothing, what is there to fight for, the sun's life has reached the end, it has become a white dwarf, and then it is shrinking, exploding, the earth must have been finished, shattered, and become a part of this earth, so, do you think, such a broken place, what else is there to argue about?"

Xuanyuan Mingyue's face was very bad.

"Anyway, your home is safe. ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue shook her head and said, "No, since the earth has been destroyed, the secret realm is also destroyed, but we still don't understand where it exists." ”

Wang Jian smiled and said, " Well, the place we are in should be similar to the secret realm in theory, but the connection point is not necessarily a place on the earth, a mountain or something, but a special physical state, you can understand that we are a small bubble that exists independently, well, since it is a bubble, then the time of the outside world has nothing to do with us, so, at this moment, the outside world can be the first year of the Common Era, or a thousand years later, but this is meaningless。 ”

"No point?"

"Let's compare it like this, that machine can take us to a certain coordinate and time point, get something, but we want to go there, but what we need is that the other side has enough preparation to build a platform for us to land, you know the airport, but we can't communicate with the other side, in this case, it means that we can't leave." ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue frowned, but didn't say anything.

She could only sigh slowly, so it was. Small composition

"So, are you really from a common people's background? ”

"100% civilians, of course, the construction of the earth is still good, at least, as long as you are self-motivated, it is not a big problem to jump from the bottom of the poor to a few levels. ”

Wang Jian complained in his heart, although it was getting more and more difficult.

Evolve, grow.

Iteration refers to the activity of repeating the feedback process, usually with the aim of approximating the desired goal or outcome. Each repetition of the process is called an "iteration", and the result of each iteration is used as the initial value for the next iteration. The efficient iteration of the individual is simply the improvement and growth of the self. The best way to stay on top of this fast-changing and uncertain world is to iterate on oneself at the same time.

True growth is to fully understand the laws of the world, not to violate it or deny it, but to choose to master it and adapt to it. Someone once told me that the process of growing up is really not easy, especially when you start to accept your true self and see the world clearly, you will feel very painful. For me, real growth is very cruel, the old people around you will quickly get farther and farther away from you, and there will continue to be a group of strangers in various fields to enter your field of vision, and you have a new connection, the faster you grow, the faster the replacement of the old and the new. In this process, you will realize that some things that are difficult to let go of are actually not important, time is like a funnel, sifting down your life accumulation layer by layer, filtering out what you don't need now, leaving only a different you from before. It's a scary thing, and when you realize it, the old thing is slowly gone......

Growing up is learning to accept, not to miss the past, and to no longer regret losing.

Even if you fail, you want to fall closer to the finish line. No longer look at yourself and others in terms of winning and losing. Winning and losing is a concept that is too illusory. Sometimes on the surface, there is no difference in the glory of the road, but the root cause has already been sown, and sometimes the setbacks are rising steadily. If you win or lose for a while, you will not be able to see the big situation clearly. Learn to accept reality, even if it is unwilling. All actions are carried out on the basis of acceptance and recognition of the status quo. Without looking squarely, there is no way to start. Realize that you can never get back what you say, and you have to bear the consequences of what you do. On this basis, have the courage to choose. There is usually no double method in the world, and there are pros and cons to every option. Most of the time, we can only choose one of the two very general choices, which is slightly better. Or choose a less bad choice out of two. If you don't choose to look ahead, it's the worst option. The choice made at this point may seem completely wrong in the future, but that doesn't matter. Shows that you are growing. The choices in front of us are very limited, and our abilities and intelligence are also limited. Wrong to change is. Accept your imperfections and your vulnerability. A person's sense of belonging cannot be greater than self-acceptance. Otherwise, the slightest setback will make you wonder if something is wrong with you, suspect that you are not worthy of love, and self-loathing will throw you into a cave isolated from the world. Know that these fragility and imperfections are all present in the beginning, and they are super normal. This makes it a little more open-minded. Pro-virtuous ministers, far villains. People often say that you should not live the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, and the reverse is true of this sentence. After a good person is bullied, he thinks that this is enough, everyone is human, and the other party will stop in moderation. But usually not, the villain's bottom line and shamelessness are beyond your imagination, don't wait until you're cornered and have no way out to make a decision. Get some people out at the beginning and your world will be much better. Again, there is no way to reject others without hurting them in the slightest, and have the courage to establish your own boundaries and principles. Those who really like you will be happy for this right choice of yours. If someone abuses you, they are not really close friends. Don't be afraid, don't be afraid. A scared person will wave a weapon to protect himself and erect a wall to isolate himself, initially to protect himself, but to harm the people around him. People who have been unfortunate often say harsh things to others. When you open your heart, you will be hurt a lot and go through a lot of vulnerable moments. However, the first step to building a relationship is to embrace others first, starting with yourself. I learned that what I experienced was human. Talk to someone you can trust, and you'll find that you're not alone. Have the courage to admit mistakes. People won't laugh at you. Rather than denying and avoiding, people who honestly admit their mistakes gain trust

Speaking of, what is growth. Growth is the gap between the subjective world and the objective world, and you have to constantly break yourself and then glue yourself back together.

Realize your mediocrity, realize that this life may be destined to be ordinary, realize that a lot of grievances and anger have no chance to vent at all, realize that many opportunities and adventures are insulated from yourself, you want to work hard, you also work hard, but at this moment, your efforts are a drop in the bucket for the current situation, you find that time is more precious than money, but you don't have time, or it's too late, "Who said it's too late? Where there is a will, there is a way." "But have you forgotten that you are mediocre? You are no longer one person to feed the whole family and not hungry, you began to study how to make money efficiently, study cost-effectively, enrich yourself utilitarianly, and improve yourself in order to make more money, but you find that the threshold is too high, maybe the ambition is too big? But it turns out that it is better than this, I'm sorry, you have grown, your vision, experience, experience are growing, they will force you to go to a higher platform, and transform into a stronger self The two major tragedies of life, one can't get it, the other is to get it, and growing up is to find that some things will be obtained after all, and some things can't be obtained

It's hard to grow up, why should you grow up? Many people resist growing up, and see Peter Pan as an idol in their minds, as a sign of freedom and spirit. But if that's the case, when are we going to create a mature society? Why do we want to grow up? It's because it's so much harder than you think, so hard you can't resist. It's so difficult that one generation can never do it, it has to go through the efforts of several generations. What growing up means to everyone who is willing to grow up. Here I emphasize the "willingness" to grow up, after all, the thought of growing up is so much that some people would rather nest up on the couch and fiddle with their toys. Growth means pain, and the way not to compromise with growth is to recognize the suffering of growth and not ignore it, so that everything can be made holistic because of difficulties. You see more and more clearly the unbridgeable gap between what is and what should be; you are more and more able to see that life and destiny are no longer isolated points but a whole; you recognize the power of destiny, but you can also begin to look at and question things from a holistic perspective, and look at your own power in life from a holistic perspective; growth means sobriety; you clearly see that life is not a line but a cycle; you begin to realize the so-called "best of times" and "downhill road" It is wrong to say that every stage of life is the best, so make up your mind to enjoy the joy that you can seize every second. You know that every minute and every second will pass, and once you live up to it, you will never experience it again. You'll be calmer, your hippocampus will fade away from negative memories, and you'll find things getting better and better, like sunrises, sunsets, like everything that grows out of the soil. Growing up means thinking and judgment, which no one can teach you except life and growth itself, growing up means being brave, being brave enough to ask who you really are, what kind of person do you want to be and determined to be what you want to be? being brave enough to take on what we dare to be to ourselves, Taking responsibility for others, being brave enough to hold the dignity of human nature in oneself, being brave enough to overcome this era in oneself, growing up means forgiving, seeing and taking care of human nature, growing up means following the will of nature, nature here is better said to be laws, and by the way, there has always been a word in my values that is nature. For a long time I didn't know how to explain it to the person who asked, but in Rousseau's Emile I found the answer, which is "the inevitability of things".

It is courage rather than knowledge that is needed more than anything to grow. In this sense, philosophy itself is the key to growth. But philosophy plays the opposite role in helping us grow. It will neither comfort you nor relieve your pain, in fact it will definitely make your life harder. Because reality is irrational, the task of reason is to ensure that we do not forget this. Through the difficult dialectic of assertiveness and skepticism, philosophy leads us to respect the curiosity and anger that both contain, it requires us to recognize the difference between what is and what ought to be, and it requires us to face the fact that we can never get the world we want, while refusing to give up the world we want.

It doesn't have to take long to grow up, some people grow up at that moment, and some people don't grow up in their lives. When you fall and climb out of the mud pit, this is the first step in the process of growing up, and you take the responsibility for your own fall, and if you fall again, there is no custom, how can you grow up with the lesson of the last fall? When you get something you liked when you were a child, but you can't be happy, when you ask how to go back to your childhood and become a child, you may have grown up.

Gone are the days when you pay off.

When you grow up, no one will get used to you anymore. In the past, you were small, you could be coquettish, you could be willful, you could say "this baby is angry" and then wait for others to coax. But you're grown up now. No matter how willful, no matter how unruly you are, and then you think that others blindly follow you, others will only treat you as a fool. When you grow up, no one will ever treat you like a child again.

From now on, you are responsible for whatever you do. You're a striker, you're a defender, you're a goalkeeper.

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