Wang Jian took Xuanyuan Mingyue for a long time, but he almost saw the secrets he had discovered.

Of course, according to Wang Jian's explanation, this is the case, the two of them cannot leave, which was decided by dozens of scientists back then.

Go back to the three fat men and continue to help him clean up.

Wang Jian followed aside, sharing the labor at all times, but when he was halfway through the afternoon, he disappeared.

Xuanyuan Mingyue muttered a few words, this guy is just unreliable, but he is also absent-minded and continues to work with the three fat men.

In fact, the three fat man, this kid has a pure mind, what do you say, compared to the deep and powerful Wang Jian, it is much more comfortable to deal with.

It was only in the evening that Wang Jian reappeared.

When they were eating happily together, Wang Jian hinted that Xuanyuan Mingyue should not eat too much.

The three fat men didn't seem to notice it, and they were still very happy.

At night, Xuanyuan Mingyue, who returned to her room, was stunned.

The room was cleaned, with tables and chairs in the middle, with iron covers on them, and the atmosphere of the whole room was very ...... Ambiguous?

Wang Jian suddenly pointed to the bed and said: "Tell me, I made it with a stock curtain, the style seems to be the men's clothes of a certain actress at the Oscars this year, cough cough, you don't have to understand the meaning of men's clothing, however, I guarantee that this is a normal dress, you go inside to change it, there is still soup in the kitchen, although it is chicken, but it is not bad, you know, there is an extreme lack of materials here." ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue pointed to the clothes and said, "What conspiracy do you have?" ”

"My plot is to eat with you. ”

Wang Jin turned his head and left, and before leaving, he closed the door intimately.

And he sang as he walked.

"Don't shed tears when you are homesick, there will always be someone to accompany you until dawn......"

The sound is getting farther and farther away.

After confirming that the door was closed, and even blocking the door with a chair that I didn't know where to get, Xuanyuan Mingyue took a good look at the long dress.

When you put it in your hand, you can't see what it looks like when you put it on, but you can see that it was done with care.

She frowned, looked at the door, outside the door, Wang Jian's voice gradually faded away, but it never stopped.

She suddenly sighed and walked to the bathroom inside.

The hot water inside is the warmest contemplation of a tired uprooted girl. 139

When Xuanyuan Mingyue finished taking a bath, she suddenly discovered something.

This guy actually did this.

But in the end, it was still well dressed, but the absolute face was red.

And Wang Jian's singing, although it rises and falls, does not come from time to time, but it is also intermittent, and it is obvious that people are not nearby.

After thinking about it for a long time, Xuanyuan Mingyue was barefoot, stepping on the new shoes that Wang Jian didn't know how to make, walked outside, and opened the door.

As if he had received some order, Wang Jian appeared.

"The mushroom chicken soup is not very fresh, and the chickens here are machine-raised, so that's it, you have to bear more. ”

"It's ......"

"I opened the lower level, basically there is nothing to see, below is the living materials manufacturing area designed for the three fat people, well, basically it is still very scientific, I calculated it, because considering that the three fat people may live to be eighty years old, so the food they make is enough for us to eat, of course, if the two of us don't have a football team." ”

"Who's going to have a football team with you. ”

"If we don't have a football team, let's have less, just a basketball team. ”

"Get out!"

"Haha, eat, eat. ”

This soup is warm.

At the moment of raising her head, Xuanyuan Mingyue found that her neck was wide open, and she remembered that this dress was completely from the other party, but seemed to be the earth style, which gave her a very strange feeling.

"By the way, I can guess your approximate family background, but what do you think, our earth, by your textbooks, should be blackened into a monster with blue faces and fangs. ”

Ambiguity is a relationship between men and women with ambiguous attitudes. It is a very special relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, which exists between friendship and is transcendent above friendship. There are many kinds of ambiguous expressions, and words and actions can be expressed. The attitude is vague, unclear, friendship above the state of unsatisfied lovers, to put it bluntly, there is a layer of window paper between the two, if it is broken, it is love, and if it is not broken, it is ambiguous. I understand your desire to stop talking, you know my erratic, but we are not a couple. I want to possess you, and I'm afraid I'll disturb you, but we're not a couple. I'm looking forward to your coming, and I'm afraid I'll scare you away from your bad behavior, but we're not a couple. I will be cautious about tempting our relationship, but I will not say it explicitly, because we are not a couple. It's not ambiguous to talk to you all the time, it's ambiguous to carefully maintain this ambiguous relationship.

Generally important, the key is also your own strength. In fact, interpersonal communication is the same as diplomacy, if you have money, political status, and many friends (for example, the United States). A weak country has no diplomacy. The so-called interpersonal communication is often about taking advantage of each other. This utilization is not necessarily the use of resources (e.g., wealth, connections, opportunities, etc.) but also the use of emotional needs (e.g., listening, comforting, companionship, etc.). And a person's abilities are limited, so they need the help of others, that is, friends, to meet their needs. Therefore, when a person's own needs can be met by his own ability, he often does not need friends, and it can even be said that when he makes friends at this time, it will only be others who use him. For example, the closer people are to the core of power, the fewer friends there will be, and the more enemies will be. It was simply difficult for the emperor to have friends. The kind of top rich second generation is also difficult to have real friends. Because when you have too many of your own resources, most of the interpersonal interactions are for the purpose of using you. I think the kind of people who put too much emphasis on interpersonal communication. They often fail to achieve great success because they cannot focus on their own business and it is difficult for them to grow their strength. People are self-interested and realistic, and when your resources are not enough to meet your interpersonal needs, it is very likely that you will be poor in the downtown area and no one will ask. Of course, I'm not saying that everyone is snobbish, there are still people with noble character in this world. However, in the end, it is more icing on the cake than charcoal in the snow. The importance of interpersonal communication in your life depends on the quality of your friends and the character of your friends when you need help. If a person puts all his energy into managing his network, it is not advisable, which is the same as a girl pinning all her hopes on her boyfriend, because relying on trees will fall, and everyone will run. In short, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come; If you are strong, friends will come.

Relationships are laboratories for personal growth. Relationships evoke unhealed wounds and then give us motivation and the right opportunity to heal them. As long as the problem is exposed, we can solve it, and in this way, the problem at hand can be solved. However, as long as life lasts, problems will continue to be exposed, and we will have to keep solving them, and there will be no end. There is no such thing as "one or forget" for growth.

Life is nothing more than two things. Be a person, and do things. A person is very successful in doing things, maybe he has achievements, but he is not necessarily very happy. But a very successful person, he will be surrounded by many people who love him, his intimate relationships are of high quality, his social relationships are harmonious, and he actually lives a happier life except for himself. In fact, to a large extent, he is a successful person, and his career will not be bad. Because, in this world, whether it is doing business, marketing, sales, writing, management, education and training, or other work. Many of them are re-tests of the wisdom of being a human being. My values are like this. Even if I can not succeed in my career, I can't do without people who love me. If, even though I succeed in my career, there is no one around me who loves you to share it with you, I think I am still a failure. Because I'm not happy. Growing up, the problem that bothered me the most was interpersonal relationships. I thought of a lot of ways to solve it, and slowly it was not bad, and my soul also grew. And get more and more happiness. But it's still not enough, and the science of dealing with interpersonal relationships is too big. In this life, I feel like I need to cultivate. The purpose is not to say how utilitarian it is. I just want to be able to have a higher quality relationship with the person I love, and at the same time handle a harmonious social relationship. With these, even if the work I do is tiring and hard, I feel that I have recognized it. Because, when everyone is together, they will care for each other and get along very harmoniously, is there anything happier than this? Many times, we think that we are very lonely, that we can live in isolation, and that we can be very happy alone. But you really live by yourself. Ask yourself. How long has it been since you've been happy from the bottom of your heart? How long has it been since you've felt that warmth of love? How long has it been since you experienced the feeling of happiness. However, these feelings do not arise on their own. You really need to be brought to yourself. If you have a problem with this. That needs to be addressed. Being a person and doing things are very important, and we all need to face problems and solve them. Otherwise, if you escape, the problem will not disappear, and if you escape for a lifetime, he will exist for a lifetime, it will bother you for a lifetime, and of course it will be painful for a lifetime. Each of us is vulnerable, and each of us is not as strong as we think. But they are all in the flesh, and no one can survive well without them. Without human society, you are nothing. The essence of human beings is the sum total of all social relations - Marx's sentence, the more I think about it, the more flavorful it becomes. It's not just because people together create value. For example, Jack Ma can integrate people together to create an Alibaba, and Steve Jobs can put geniuses together to make such a beautiful mobile phone. It is also because we are in the process of creating value. We can still create happiness together. You're the only one left in the world. You have nothing of value, and there will be no happiness. Learn how to get along with others. Our lives are so short that we can only dedicate our time to love.

The essence of human beings is loneliness, most people's relationships are used by each other, and fairytale interpersonal relationships do not exist in real life. After understanding this, I still have to be a person of affection and righteousness, but in moderation, what is moderation? I don't feel too hurt about what I give to others, even if others don't appreciate it and eat me. That's moderation. Excessive giving is inevitably accompanied by expectations of good relationships, expectations of moral and material rewards from others, and unrealistic expectations are often a sharp edge to hurt oneself. The nature of human beings is loneliness, so you must be self-reliant, free, cautious, and ponder people and things when you are alone, and you will find that when you accept that you are lonely, it will be difficult for others to mentally hit and hurt you. Because you have accepted life for what it is. This does not mean that there is no warmth in our lives, but warmth is the dessert and episode in life, and it will not be the mainstream of interpersonal relationships. You can enjoy it, but don't indulge in it. To be gregarious, it is not really to integrate into the collective from the heart, the heart should be free and lonely, gregarious is just a convenient way to live in the world, lonely and high emotional intelligence, there will be no sense of disobedience. When you understand the essence of life, you will find that what you need is inner freedom, and financial freedom is the material guarantee of inner freedom, and it is still necessary to dance well in society, but those social activities are a kind of instrumental activities, which do not represent your own heart, and the honor and disgrace generated by this also belong to that field, not to yourself, but don't bring the dust in the "field" to your heart!

Everyone has human weaknesses of one kind or another, and in order to accomplish our goals, we need to acknowledge these weaknesses and face them bravely. When you interact with people, don't bring out the evil side of human nature, but create an environment for "good" to play, only then can you have a good external environment to pursue your ideals. Goethe said: "It is very foolish to hope that other people will be in harmony with us, I have never wished that I would always see each individual as an individual, and I try to know all his peculiarities, but from them I never wish to gain further sympathy." In this way, I was able to talk to everyone and thus acquire the knowledge of different personalities and the tactful alertness necessary to control my life. ”

As a person who aspires to become an expert, you need to get rid of the "naïve and naïve" state as soon as possible, do not think that society is black and white, do not take pride in speaking up without considering the feelings of the person you communicate with, do not think that you should be valued because you are full of talent, and believe that society will not be lost, and do not think that your predecessors have an obligation to help you and you can ignore the minimum of politeness. You should also know that everyone is unique, and everyone has their own personality weaknesses and likes and dislikes, and they will see the world from different perspectives due to the difference in the environment in which they were raised. Therefore, everyone should be responsible for their own relationships and be friendly with all members of your environment, and not think that the whole society is unfriendly to you and make a mess of your own relationships. Many talented and ambitious people are caught up in this endless struggle and cannot extricate themselves, and end up becoming cynical critics of society instead of becoming real builders, which not only wastes their talents, but also deprives them of many opportunities to grow."

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