We need self-control because others need us to have self-control. In fact, you'll find that why people with self-control tend to be better in life? It's because society needs us to have self-control, and when we have it, society rewards us. For example, the college entrance examination is originally just a test of knowledge, it tests our knowledge, but in the end we will find that the college entrance examination really tests our self-control. Because we have enough time to learn this knowledge, enough time to review it, and to make it a good idea, the only difference between us is whether you have the ability to control yourself. In fact, you will find that when we have self-control, we are able to achieve better results, and similarly, some of the great benefits in our lives are not because our intellect is often because we are more capable of self-control. When we have the ability to control ourselves, we will be more liked by the society, and when the society likes us more, it will give us some achievements. The reason why we need self-control is because society requires us to have self-control, and from this perspective we can understand very clearly what self-control means for us. So at what point does our self-control really manifest itself and make us more aware of it?

Xuanyuan Mingyue was almost out of control, and it took a long time to return to normal.

Wang Jian took her to the museum with a familiar car, and ordered food according to the gourd painting, this ordering equipment is really advanced, of course, its buttons are also very beautiful, and they are actually pasted with a few pieces of paper.

This also shows that this is his own person, Wang Jian can understand that after arriving here, this equipment may be made by the staff of the original research institute for the three fat people, a child with obvious intelligence problems.

However, the chicken is stocked here, and why is it so fresh?

Subconsciously realize that there is something in this.

But then let yourself forget about these things.

Xuanyuan Mingyue didn't seem to have eaten fried chicken before.

Considering her status as an otherworldly female spy, this doesn't seem incomprehensible.

In another world, the Germans, relying on their equally white-skinned advantage, sent a large number of spies into the United States in an attempt to wreak havoc.

But these German spies soon fell in front of the sugar-coated shells of the United States, and were completely rotten.

Sure enough.

I found another room, and after opening it, Wang Jian went to check it first, and then looked satisfied, and said with a little expectation: "Give you 5 minutes, and I'll come in and arrest people directly after 5 minutes, well, the water should be hot, it's really strange, why is there still hot water here." ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue glanced at Wang Jian hatefully and didn't say anything.

After eating and drinking, she finally remembered who had put herself in that tired, fearful, almost crazy situation.

Although I didn't have to resist, it was still ......

Let's go take a shower.

Wang Jian really didn't break his promise and went to spy on Xuanyuan Mingyue, after all, it was all checked inside, and there was nothing to fake.

He waited for five minutes, but began to count down: "Five, four, three, if you don't come out again, do you need me to go in and help you wash." ”

When Xuanyuan Mingyue came out, the killing intent in his eyes could no longer be hidden.

Wang Jian didn't care.

"Raise your hand, uh, you seem to have recovered some mana, then, put me a few fireball spells to see, the kind that will drain your mana." "Peerless Tang Gate fo

"Do you have a little humanity, in your books on the earth, aren't men all generous and generous, and don't care about women. ”

Wang Jian grinned and said: "You still put some effort into it, but unfortunately, I have to regret to say that those books are all read by my country's dicks, and the theories of the dicks are naturally very stupid." ”

"I'll you lungs, you hateful earthling. ”

No matter how she resisted, Xuanyuan Mingyue still had to accept her fate.

She is asked to cast spells until she is dizzy.

was brought into the room where Wang Jian was, but she was scared.

The girl spread her hair out and was as clear as water.

"Don't touch me, when I go back, tell your girlfriend ......"

"Touch you? I'm not one of those otaku, I don't need a two-dimensional girlfriend, as for you, oh my God, no matter how horny I am, I can't want a woman with an otherworldly level, a woman with a different dimension aesthetic who has no breasts and no ass, you have a snack, just you, at most five points, not more, even if it is an otherworldly plot, you can't give a six-point master, what am I letting you do? ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue's face turned red, but fortunately, she had the least intelligence and would not shout out why Miss Ben was not worthy of you.

She raised her head slightly, it's not that she hasn't seen your goodness, although it is very beautiful, but ...... We're taller than her.

"Well, I called you here to tell you not to sleep at night, to fan me obediently, I don't think the ventilation system here is very reliable, who knows what it will be, of course, the bundle must be tied to you, but you can choose...... Well, we are a country of cooking, and you can choose the color of the rope that binds you. ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue did not resist.

Her eyes were still full of hatred, but she used a wooden board she found to fan the wind for Wang Jian.

In the literal sense of the word, tolerance is the understanding of certain inappropriate behaviors or practices of others. What is forbearance, that is, the other party has done something that makes you feel uncomfortable, and even needs to be patient, but still let the other party go. The degrees of these two are not the same. Tolerance: Generally speaking, the other party does not tolerate as much harm to themselves as they do. The person who asked this question, I assume that it is a so-called "bun" in ordinary life, that is, a good old man. Why do you ask this question, because I have already felt hurt and uncomfortable, in fact, I want to say that anything you feel hurt and uncomfortable should be changed on the basis of what you can. And the so-called virtue, what is called virtue, this society is a complex complex, human beings are highly intelligent animals, and a person can do a lot of things that affect others. In order not to make the world more chaotic and disorderly, mankind invented the so-called civilization. Human beings use laws, quality, civilization, etc. to require human beings to try not to cause chaos, and over time, these things have penetrated into people's outlook on life and values. In fact, people are also animals, and the key is to eat the strong. In a way, sometimes civilization is a fig leaf for human humanity. Whether you think it is a virtue to make concessions depends on your values, people who are pragmatic and civilized, that is, people who do not love to wronged themselves, and only show virtue at certain times, because of the need to gain the approval of others, and most of the time they are unwilling to wronged themselves. People who are deeply affected by the values of civilization and literacy, that is, people who think that the overall situation is important and give in to themselves, feel that virtue is more important, even if they are wronged, firstly, it is a psychological hint to themselves, I am a virtue, and secondly, it will not cause unnecessary trouble. Generally speaking, from the perspective of human nature, when others hurt you, when the degree reaches the point of tolerance, there is no such thing as virtue at all, virtue is just imposed on you by society and restricts your behavior. Our ancestors have long said that if you repay your grievances with virtue, how can you repay virtue. Repay grievances with straightforwardness and repay virtue with virtue. Finally, I gave some suggestions to some people who are more buns, although I have just analyzed it from the perspective of human nature, but the current society is a civilized society, and virtue cannot be less. What you do is to grasp a degree, you can't be too tolerant, once others get used to it, you will wait to be habitually bullied. But some inconsequential times should be good to show virtue, after all, no one wants to be friends with a person full of thorns. Generally speaking, we should be both rigid and soft, get along cordially at ordinary times, and strive for reason once we encounter something principled. Don't lose face, you think it's just a matter of two people? There are many people waiting and watching, everyone knows that you are not easy to mess with, and there will be a lot less trouble in the future, really. Finally, improve your strength and make yourself great!

There are many things in life, we can't do it, so we need to be patient, there are many desires in life, we can't reach them, so we need to be patient, there are many sufferings in life, we can't avoid it, so we need to be patient, there are a lot of idleness in life, we can't avoid it, so we need to be patient. Because patience is a kind of wisdom in life, a kind of profundity, and the wisdom of understanding the complexity of life. Fate is often a torture.

As an overly self-centered person, the perception of the self is based on emotions. It can easily lead to arrogance, irritability, inability to listen to criticism, refusal to communicate, inability to accept insults, and even amplify the malice of others towards themselves. Healthy self-esteem stems from a relatively rational perception of one's own achievements, which forms motivation for oneself. In other words: the difference between self-centeredness and self-esteem is probably that the former relies on feeling and the latter relies on reason. The typical thinking of a self-centered person: "He does a better job than me? That's because I haven't done a good job; as long as I am serious, I will definitely be able to do a better job than him!" The typical thinking of a person with normal self-esteem: "He does a better job than me, and the data supports this; I really don't have a finished product with better data than him, so I have to work hard." "Self-centered people can't be blamed. Most of the psychological mechanisms of human beings are evolved to protect themselves. Therefore, any individual will distort reality a little bit to protect his self-esteem. Therefore, many people with excessive self-esteem, in addition to self-centeredness, are often very inferior, which is reflected in the phenomenon that the more arrogant people are, the more inferior they are. A person with a low social status has a completely different confidence than a person with a high social status. Therefore, the former has to rely on self-centeredness to protect their self-esteem, and the latter does not have to be so. This makes it appear that the former has more self-esteem – and that's the result. But if we look at the reason: As mentioned above, self-centered people are more emotional than less self-centered people. In reality, if you want to get things done, assuming that you run the same line, rational people have a greater probability of getting things done than emotional people. Smart, rational, and persistent people may be less lovable but tend to be more efficient. Over time, self-centered people will become more obsessed with feelings, while less self-centered people will be able to look at their work relatively rationally and continue to do it. Bloody roars are often inferior to precise calculations, and that's why. At the end of the day, self-centered people are relatively irrational. Rationality, on the other hand, is the product of human evolution and adaptation to the functioning of society. So over time, rational people will gain higher social status, while less rational, relatively self-centered people will continue to need to rely on feelings to maintain their self-esteem. Over time, a situation will be formed: the less successful people will be more emotional and self-centered than the successful ones, and it is easier to be unhappy if they don't agree with each other. At the end of the day, self-esteem and self-improvement are good. Self-centeredness is not so good. The self-aware person knows that self-improvement is rational self-esteem, and it is not so good just to feel good about himself.

Patience with temptation and delayed gratification are good qualities in the long run and will help you develop more forward-looking rewards and strengthen your ability to make plans and rational judgments, while in the short term you may miss out on many opportunities and weaken your confidence and well-being in the moment. Tolerance to hurt and delay pain is not a good quality in the long run, and higher tolerance will reduce your motivation and ability to solve problems, but in the short term, it can help you focus quickly, mobilize rational thinking, and retrieve information efficiently, so as to find the optimal solution to the current problem.

Restraining dissatisfaction provides useful space and time for resolving contradictions, and plays a role in softening contradictions. After both parties are calm, think more from the other side's point of view, and have a more tolerant and accepting attitude to better resolve the conflict. On the contrary, frankly excavating one's personal views and stabbing the other side like a sword can easily excite the emotions of both sides and further intensify the contradictions. From a scientific point of view, when we hear opposing views or feel conflicts, the secretion of adrenocorticotropic hormone and glucocorticoids increases, producing an individual's stress response and causing great mood swings. In the process of frankness, there are emotions and content, and if the emotions are not right, the content will be distorted. The dissatisfaction between the two sides not only makes it difficult to maintain the original relationship, but also further intensifies the contradictions on the original basis. On the other hand, forbearance does not have to worry about the risk of intensifying the conflict, and on the basis of maintaining the original relationship, the interpersonal relationship can be eased, and the big things can be turned into small and small things, so as to further resolve the contradictions.

There are really people in this world who are living the life you want, and most of those people have endured setbacks that you haven't experienced yet.

This forbearance is a kind of moral cultivation, and at the same time there is no one who forbears, naturally, without the slightest reluctance.

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