Chapter 032: It's All Important
Lying on the bed with his eyes open, Niu Tiangou felt that his head was a little groggy.
In a trance, it seemed that Uncle Taurus's voice was still echoing in his ears.
Physical Condition - Height? Looks? Stature? Weight? Age? What is your skin tone?
When I go on a blind date, I seem to only look at the height and appearance, the age is about the same, and I don't even say much, where do I dare to "peep" at other people's body measurements or something, where do I dare to ask about people's weight, picky about people's skin color and skin quality?
Material conditions - deposits? Invested money? Property? Belongings? Family background, family background and home environment?
I didn't seem to think about these things when I went on a blind date, and I couldn't think of these things at all.
Nima, I just graduated and joined the work, where did I get the savings? That money is used for investment? Where are the real estate, vehicles, gold, silver and jewelry, antiques, securities, and bulk goods?
To steal? To grab?
What the hell is the family background, family background and home environment? The home is a poor and embarrassing situation, the family is a farmer's background, the loess background, the mud background, and the home is a backward and disastrous environment in the rural environment!
Mental Condition - Character? Diploma? Nature? Emotional intelligence? What else...... Temperament and cultivation, knowledge, ability, talent and fame, expertise, IQ?
Grandma's, how can it be so complicated, Uncle Taurus Star said that the conditions of erotic love in the world are too mysterious, right?
Nima, young people in the countryside are married and in love, as long as they are about the same age, they are not stupid, just look at their height and appearance, at most look at the house - just about the woman's business, ask the other party's character - they are hard-working, down-to-earth, not lazy, and filial, how can they pay attention to other messy things? Where will there be kung fu to pull these idlers!
In the eyes of rural people, the three major conditions of the so-called erotic love are simplified into six things: height and appearance, income and house, diploma and character. Everything else is.
How can rural people pay attention to that? At night, there is a fleshy living creature of the opposite sex under the body to burn high incense, and there are many bachelors who can only calender the bare bed, how can they pay attention to what lordosis and backwards, weight, age, skin color? If someone is so particular, the villagers will definitely give him three words: "You are sick!" ”
But...... Thinking about the conditions mentioned by Uncle Taurus, it is not unreasonable, but the rural people who dig in the soil do not have the time or energy to pay attention to them.
Just height and looks? Size, weight, age, skin tone and skin type don't matter?
Body shape doesn't matter? The same height, appearance, crisp breasts and high breasts, milk goughing, thin waist, like willow swaying, round buttocks and warped, sexy and hot - this front and back, concave and convex sultry figure, no matter for any man, its visual impact is no less than a spiritual atomic bomb, the crazy surge of mushroom-like hormones will destroy everything, its temptation and lethality is the kind of hills, boring "flat" body and up and down, making people greasy "fat round" body is far from incomparable!
The text seems to look at the mountains and does not like the flat, and the same is true for women, the ups and downs of the "mountains" are the most intoxicating scenery for men, and the men "climb the mountain" and enjoy the excitement of a strange peak!
Weight doesn't matter? Like the freckled girl Qian Xiaohua's thin and thin body, is it fit? A gust of wind blows eight miles, and the take-out rolls are rolled eight times, how can you still work?
Age doesn't matter? Women are like flowers, the younger they are, the fresher they are, the younger they are, the more pleasing they are to men. That's! Of course, there are exceptions for a very small number of people with preference, but they are not representative of the majority.
Skin color and skin type don't matter? Men are visual animals, the skin is like clotted white jade is the most eye-catching, its visual enjoyment is far better than wheat yellow wax, not to mention "black bright black bright" and other imperfections, Qian Xiaohua's complexion was quite white at the beginning, just because his face was covered with freckles, he felt that his skin was thorny, and he still looked weird.
Just an income and a house? Savings, invested money, belongings, as well as family background, family background and home environment are not important?
Deposit is not important? If I don't have a deposit, how can I buy a property and add furniture? How to raise children?
Isn't the money invested? How can you accumulate wealth without investing money?
Moneystuffs don't matter? How can I get around without a car? How can you show a woman's jewels without gold and silver jewelry? How can you have a cultural taste for elegant clothing without antiques? How to show off your wealth without securities and batches of goods?
Family background and family background are not important? There is a world of difference between marriage and love between people with a solid family background and a wealthy and powerful family background and an embarrassed family with no background! Although he Niu Tiangou is short, if his family is rich and has a wealthy background, don't say it's Cao Yanfang, don't say it's Yang Yuling, even if it's a fairy, she will also give her a hug! Maybe he'll pick and choose from the pile of beauties at that time.
Home environment is not important? Do you have a house that can be the same in the countryside as it is in the city? Can an "urban village" or "slum" be the same as a bustling city or a wealthy community? People look at you differently depending on the environment.
One is contempt, ridicule, and laughter, and the other is envy, jealousy, and hatred!
Of course, the living standards of rural people are low, the material requirements are not high, just have a simple house, anyway, it is to dig food in the soil, but the urban people are different, pay attention to deposits, pay attention to fixed assets, pay attention to the "inventory" in hand, pay attention to family background, family background and home environment, that is the wealth of confidence, that is the social status.
Just a diploma and character? What else is personality, emotional intelligence...... Temperament and cultivation, knowledge, ability, talent and fame, expertise, IQ, etc. are not important?
It is true that the material conditions of rural people are poor, and the requirements for spiritual conditions are not high, as long as the marriage and love men and women are not fools, a little culture, and hard work and practicality, it is not good to be lazy and filial, but the people in the city are different, just not fools, hard-working and down-to-earth, not lazy to be lazy, and filial piety, but also have a good character, profound knowledge, and a confidant to coax people to have exquisite emotional intelligence.
does not have a good character, "incompatible with others" and family members, and is constantly in trouble;
If you don't have profound knowledge, you will lose your share when you say it;
There is no high emotional intelligence, interpersonal relationships are jerky, lovers and husbands and wives are fighting coldly or quarreling endlessly or even waving fists at each other, and they are happy fart!
And also...... Temperament and cultivation, ability, talent and fame, specialty, IQ and so on, are all important.
Besides, what kind of bullshit family power and power don't matter? Don't you see those second-generation or even third-generation officials with family power? Those guys who have a little bit of power have their nostrils facing the sky? provoked those mediocre fans, goblins who climbed dragons and phoenixes to compete for jealousy and rush to dedicate themselves?
The three major conditions of erotic love, all of them are important, all items are important, and the family power and power that ordinary people can't reach are even more important.
Nima, can ...... herself How many items are there? Niu Tiangou couldn't help but be stunned and carefully compared.
The first appearance condition, I only account for four items: appearance, weight, age, skin color, and skin quality, and my height and figure do not match, and I have just compared them;
The second material condition is that I can't get along at all, and I don't meet any of them.
There is only salary, no surplus, no accumulation, and no money invested; Except for an eight-square-meter simple dormitory allocated by the school, there is no real estate, not to mention fixed assets; At present, there is not even a bicycle, let alone a vehicle, gold, silver and jewelry, antiques, securities, bulk goods, etc.; Parents and younger brothers are in the countryside, and they are in a rural school, which is 108,000 miles away from the family background, family background and home environment required by the ideal girls.
The third mental condition, his diploma and character are barely okay with these two items, but there are flaws in his personality - introversion, little talk, a little inferiority, not good at sociability, not good at greeting, not the type that girls like, and a serious lack of emotional intelligence - this Uncle Taurus has already concluded.
Niu Tiangou was convinced by Uncle Taurus's conclusion. Emotional intelligence is the ability to get along with oneself and others, and to put it in layman's terms, it is the ability to confide and coax others, and he really doesn't have this.
Otherwise, when he was in the normal school, he would have communicated more with the old man Geng, maybe he would have "coaxed" this strange old man and the relationship would be harmonious, and the strange old man would not have worked against Teacher Tang, and he would have been able to go to the county propaganda department smoothly without going back to Beihe Town at all;
Otherwise, when he was assigned back to Beihe Town to report, he would have taken the initiative to communicate with Principal Hu of the town middle school, and he would not have made such a big "oolong", and it would be impossible for him to be "transferred" to Tuhuang Township Middle School;
Otherwise, when he saw Su Mohan smiling at him at the gate of the town elementary school, he would take the initiative to come forward to talk and communicate, instead of missing the opportunity in a daze! Perhaps, he and Su Mohan are now in love - although this is still a plain love in his eyes.
Alas!
Communication, exchange, everything is inseparable from interpersonal communication! Even plain love requires emotional intelligence.
EQ, EQ, what he lacks is this damn EQ!
"Stone rollers can't press a fart!" Dad's words are vulgar and figurative. Although my father doesn't understand what emotional intelligence is, this may be his simple and simple understanding of his son's poor communication with others and lack of emotional intelligence.
He lacks emotional intelligence, and often brings negative emotions to others - because of him, the estrangement between Teacher Tang and Teacher Geng must have deepened, Counselor Wang and Principal Hu must have a mustard, and Su Mohan must be a little disappointed in his heart.
Thinking of this, Niu Tiangou's mood began to become irritable, as for what temperament and cultivation, ability, talent and fame, expertise, IQ or something, he didn't bother to think about it, and what kind of bullshit family power, wait for the next life.
Nima, you may not be able to wait for it in the next life.
Anyway, my current conditions for erotic love are terrible.
But...... Why did Uncle Taurus finally say "Maybe some beautiful women don't care too much about your height", what does this mean? Maybe you can really meet the beauty you like and are willing to marry you? This shouldn't be Uncle Niu Xing's comfort and fooling himself, right?
Alas, there is still a chance to ask Uncle Taurus to see what will happen to your love in the future?
Getting up listlessly from the bed, Niu Tiangou washed his head with cold water, his brain was a little clearer, and then finished breakfast under the urging of his mother.