Chapter 2 The lonely man is pitiful

Frankly speaking, the place where Lu Qingyi grew up is not bad.

Although it is almost "locked up" in such a place, the environment is pleasant, safe and harmonious, at least there will be no troubles.

Of course, Long Yifei had to evaluate in her heart that she had not been in contact with people for more than ten years, and it was even possible that Wang Jian was the first person she had a lot of contact with and talked, which was due to herself.

"What are you looking at, take your dirty hands away!"

"I look at these things, my history class is not very good, remember the approximate year of these things, and you can know who your father is. ”

"You don't have a chance to leave, I don't agree, no one can leave this little secret realm, hum!"

"I don't agree, you can't leave, besides, without my protection, where can you go. ”

"You better go back, don't forget, your family must have gone crazy, and the war with the secret realm must have started, and the so-called beast sea is about to start a large-scale attack. ”

Long Yifei suddenly asked: "You understand, say it immediately!"

"Say what, I don't owe you anything, leave my house immediately, I'll open the door for you!"

Long Yifei walked back to the piano, and after sitting down, he said: "You went to steal my piano before, it seems that you really like this thing, but you can't play ......."

Long Yifei immediately understood what this meant.

The other party's parents, before they died, divided part of their soul energy to take care of Lu Qingyi in this world, which means that they can only do things with the least amount of action.

Because one more sentence or one thing will consume the energy prepared in advance, which in turn will lead to early death.

Therefore, most of the time, her parents must be in a state of deafness and mute, silently watching their daughter grow up, presumably at that time, Lu Qingyi didn't know what was going on.

Teaching a daughter to play the piano, even more impossible, playing the piano is a delicate job, maybe the energy spent can allow them to spend a few more months with this girl?

If they take care of Lu Qingyi when he is ten years old, then they should also teach all the skills related to fighting, and leave all the magic weapons before disappearing silently.

Come to think of it, Lu Qingyi as an adult can slowly understand what happened.

"Don't lose your temper, that guy needs support, we need to figure out what's going on, you just talked about the beast sea, what the hell happened. ”

"It's nothing, you know, I'm here, my father has arranged a lot of doors, you can go to many places, especially a space, where there are many that kind of magical beasts, and there are also human beings raising them, that kid killed one, but most people don't believe it. ”

"Who knows, but what are those people doing with the beasts? ”

"I am also in the process of continuous travel, I have discovered the mystery, some secret realms, and there must be a deal behind the people who raise demonic beasts, but first, it is too dangerous, and second, why should I fight for you?"

"Okay, I see, take me to see it. ”

"No! that's too dangerous, I can't go. ”

"I'm protecting you, and besides, it's not very interesting. ”

Lu Qingyi was silent for a long time.

Long Yifei suddenly said: "If you go back, I will issue a request, and I will help you get any treasure that you fancy and think belongs to you, how about it." ”

"That's mine!

"Well, then, that's what you think. ”

The two were silent for a moment, and suddenly, Lu Qingyi sat down.

"We need to rest, huh...... I only have fruit here, if you are not used to eating it, you can slowly go hungry. ”

It's obviously a paradise, but even after entering it, people are still people, they need all kinds of things, and they consume all kinds of supplies, such as food.

Lu Qingyi's parents were obviously painstaking, they felt that something was wrong, so they used great wisdom, great strength and great strength to fight perseverance, and turned this place into a paradise for their daughter to spend her childhood, and naturally there would be no shortage of food.

And unlike the sci-fi series of fried chicken legs of the three fat people, Lu Qingyi eats a certain fruit that grows on a few trees.

Some dry, slightly sweet, a little crunchy and quite soft.

Lu Qingyi took one by himself and split it open, but he put half of it on the table, but he didn't hand it to Long Yifei, you can take it yourself.

Long Yifei tasted it, but had a hint of enlightenment, such a life seems to be really not interesting.

At least compared to his own brocade clothes and jade food, Lu Qingyi is alive and ...... Shouldn't I be nice to her?

These are the little things.

However, wanting to grow up like this to Lu Qingyi has a last resort, but it does have a great deal of damage to Lu Qingyi's personal character.

Before Wang Jian, he tried his best to protect himself and refused to communicate with others, but after a battle with Long Yifei, after being injured, he fled to Wang Jian's house.

There must be something wrong with this guy, I found that someone had bad intentions in the school, but he deliberately concealed it, and when he went back, he must be rectified, after all, I am ...... Headmaster.

Prolonged loneliness may make a person more susceptible to a variety of physical and mental illnesses. The most typical mental illness is depression. Individuals who encounter depressive tendencies in counseling, if they come to the step of finding resources, basically start with social support in interpersonal relationships, so that the patient can be active, and through the support of others around them. Long-term loneliness can easily lead to a lack of social support and a vicious cycle when trapped in negative emotions.

In addition to depression, loneliness can lead to various psychological and behavioral problems such as suicidal tendencies and behaviors, hostility, aggressive behavior, and sleep disturbances. The psychopathic killers in the movie are all alone, eroded by loneliness for a long time.

The human body is psychologically and physiologically related, and mental disorders such as depression have a lot to do with dopamine and serotonin in the body. Impairment of mental health can affect a person's physical health. Loneliness plays an important role in this. It may affect physiological mechanisms including the cardiovascular system, endocrine system, and immune system.

Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people. Lonely people spreading information on the Internet to connect with others does not fundamentally solve their loneliness. Loneliness can be psychologically traumatic and lead to self-enclosed prophecies. Long-term loneliness makes people believe that they are a lonely person, so they will withdraw more and more in behavior, and do not participate in social interactions, and the use of use and withdrawal will gradually decline people's social skills, thus confirming that the lonely person is not capable of establishing social relationships, thus creating a vicious circle.

Many people who have been lonely for a long time have a certain negative view of themselves, believing that they are not accepted and loved by others, so they are reluctant to go out and contact with others. Even some serious people will have a pessimistic perception close to relationship delusions, they will take the other party's every move when they have been with others as their evaluation and opinion, and the other party's cough, look, and absent-mindedness will feel that the other party is contemptuous and demeaning of themselves. Lonely people have a negative view of themselves and may develop self-defeating behaviors when they encounter social situations in their lives. It's a substitute for a lack of confidence and control over interpersonal interactions, "Since I know I'm not socially good, I'd better stop saying hello to him to avoid embarrassment."

Sometimes, people are just afraid of making mistakes in interpersonal relationships, so they don't take action. Loneliness is a state of mind, a state, a personal experience. A person's state does not necessarily equal loneliness. Often, loneliness brings with it a feeling of emptiness, loneliness, not being needed, and a desire to communicate with others. It's a strongly subjective experience.

One may be able to endure all kinds of suffering, such as hunger or oppression, but it is difficult to endure the most painful of all suffering, and that is total loneliness.

Feeling lonely, empty, meaningless, even in the crowd will still feel the distant distance of the soul, when alone is afraid of being swallowed by loneliness, everyone is like a planet running alone, in their own orbit, sometimes near, sometimes far, even if sometimes intersecting, we also know that eventually separate, each person only belongs to their own orbit. The more you grow, the less you make friends, and it is very rare to encounter a collision of ideas that allows you to touch your soul.

Long-term loneliness can wear out a person's passion for life, there will be a sense of powerlessness to see through events, and there will be envy of those who are passionate about something, or have a passion for life. After being lonely for a long time, you will feel that you are living in another world, wearing a human face, watching the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of others through these eyes, and the moving pictures that used to make people never make ripples in your heart again. The heart of a lonely person is planted with a barrenness, and he can't get out by himself, and others can't get in.

When you are lonely, you will be lonely, empty, depressed, anxious, helpless, indifferent and even hopeless, and when it is more serious, you will feel lonely and cold that goes deep into the bone marrow. Short-term or occasional loneliness does not affect much of a problem, but long-term exposure to such a state can lead to certain mood disorders, which is very detrimental to mental health.

Loneliness is essentially due to the incompleteness of the heart. What does it mean to be incomplete? It means that you can't get along with yourself, as long as you are alone, your thoughts are mixed with all kinds of emotions whistling through your mind. If you feel satisfied with everything you do, then this is a sense of steadiness, which can also be said to be a sense of security, and this feeling can help you sleep peacefully, instead of tossing and turning at night. With a sense of security, you won't feel lonely when you're alone, because your heart is full. When you're full, you'll feel content – so when you're full, you'll feel less lonely. This is also the reason why many people who are emotionally out of control are prone to overeating, and they need to find a sense of security. People like me, who often feel lonely, are prone to gains and losses when interacting with others, because there is a big hole in the heart that needs to be filled with countless care and love, and if not, they fall into self-doubt.

If you feel satisfied with everything you do, then this is a sense of steadiness, which can also be said to be a sense of security, and this feeling can help you sleep peacefully, instead of tossing and turning at night. With a sense of security, you won't feel lonely when you're alone, because your heart is full. When you're full, you'll feel content – so when you're full, you'll feel less lonely. This is also the reason why many people who are emotionally out of control are prone to overeating, and they need to find a sense of security. People like me, who often feel lonely, are prone to gains and losses when interacting with others, because there is a big hole in the heart that needs to be filled with countless care and love, and if not, they fall into self-doubt.

The reason why Lu Qingyi keeps stealing all kinds of ancient treasures is not only to complete the so-called recovery of family property treasures, but also to find something to do for himself, so as not to have problems with himself.

This idea seems to be too reliable.

Friendship seems to be the most fragile of intimate relationships, and it is far less intimate than the relationship between parents, partners, and children: unlike kinship, which has no other choice, choosing friends is a voluntary act, and it is different from other relationships in which bonding is voluntary. Friendship lacks formal structure, strict commitment, and binding. It's unlikely that we'll go months without contact with our partner, but we can be estranged from our friends for an entire year.

But friendship is a very special relationship. The number of people we have had romantic relationships in our lifetime is usually much smaller than the number of people who have developed friendships. Friendship is also the longest in our life, because a friend may leave, and the friendship itself will always happen. Good friendship can constantly add new content to our lives, increase the interest of life, and also provide us with good social support.

In adolescence, we begin to need to form a first understanding of ourselves, and at the same time learn how to be intimate with others, during this period friendships will involve more self-exposure, we look for those who share our values, and once found, friendships can develop extremely deep and intense, thinking of each other as our understanding and support in the world. During this period, jealousy, possessiveness and other manifestations will appear in our friendships, and self-boundaries are often unclear, which is the process of learning to be intimate with others.

People are social animals, after having feelings for an individual or group, they will become dependent, and when the individual or group disappears, you will feel uncomfortable, and this discomfort is the prototype of loneliness. The mind is becoming more and more mature, the personality is becoming more and more independent, and at the same time, they are gradually parting ways and going to different paths. The self, as if it had broken free from the shackles of many years, suddenly swelled, and was strongly and nakedly exposed in front of its eyes. You feel lonely because there are fewer and fewer people walking with you on the road, and everyone is going their own way and busy with their own lives. Loneliness is a must in life. Feeling lonely is a sign that you have mature and independent options.