"I've told you N times, don't call me a crooked chicken, I'm a happy bird." Before the words fell, Yan Xiaobei jumped to the small stone table, pouted and glared at Yan Bonian, and said dissatisfiedly: "Grandpa, you should go to the gate of the courtyard but guide it, look at what has become at the door, there is no place to park even a car." [Ran^Text^Library] []hp：／／／”

"The entrance of my courtyard itself is not a place to park, that is, where do you dare to park your car, and your father, a department-level cadre, is not obediently parking his car on the side of the road." Yan Bonian glared at Yan Xiaobei with a smile, and reprimanded in a low voice: "The eldest girl's family doesn't know the key point of stability, you look at Xiaopeng, quiet and steady." ”

"That's what he pretended, and he usually talks in a set." Yan Xiaobei's handsome melon seeds blushed, glanced at Liu Peng deeply, turned her face and continued: "According to your old logical reasoning, Lao Yan's car can only be parked on the side of the road, and my secretary's uncle's car will not stop and go?" My car can only be parked at the entrance of the hospital, and my aunt's car can only enter the hospital, you are eccentric. ”

"Strong words." Yan Bonian stood up, patted Yan Xiaobei's forehead lightly, and said with a loving smile, "Take Xiaopeng to the house to sit." ”

"No, just let him make tea and pour water for you elders here! I went to the kitchen to help my grandmother and Qin's mother. Yan Xiaobei ran to the kitchen as she spoke, leaving behind a string of sweet words.

Yan Bonian's loving gaze followed Yan Xiaobei for a long time before he slowly retracted it, greeted Liu Peng with a smile, and asked gently, "Come, Xiaopeng, move a chair and sit here." How's it going? Are you still adjusting to the work? ”

"It's okay." Liu Peng smiled shyly, picked up the teapot and filled Yan Bonian's cup with water, put down the teapot, held it in both hands and gently put it in front of Yan Bonian, then picked up the teapot again, poured water into Qi Tianxiang's cup, still put down the teapot, and gently put it in front of Qi Tianxiang with both hands. After doing all this, he slowly turned around and moved a chair, put it next to Yan Bonian's stone bench, sat down steadily, put his hands on his knees, and said implicitly: "I didn't want to tell my grandfather and uncle, I may not go to work in the bank, I may have to work in the countryside for a few years." ”

"Look at Xiaopeng's style, this sense of rules, can it be unproductive?" Yan Bonian looked at Liu Peng with a smile on his face, turned his face to Qi Tianxiang and said, "There are not many young people nowadays who can do this. ”

"Because of scarcity, so precious, the rules in the "Disciple Rules", the etiquette that every child had to learn before, has now become a rare quality, I really don't know whether to be happy or worried." Liu Peng's behavior was seen by Qi Tianxiang, and he was very satisfied in his heart, but he didn't praise it too much, but said slowly: "We boast of being an ancient civilization, where the civilization is, and where the excellence is, it needs to be interpreted by their behavior, and not only practice, but also find fun in these etiquette and rules." Isn't it, Liu Peng. ”

Seeing Qi Tianxiang asking himself, Yan Bonian also smiled slightly and waited for him to answer, so he slowly stood up and said softly: "Actually, these are not difficult, as long as the rules are formed, they are used to it, and if they get used to it, it will be natural." ”

"This kid has a very special idea." Yan Bonian smiled and praised Qi Tianxiang: "This is the problem of education methods, the same age, the same learning experience, and even the same educational background, the difference is so obvious." ”

"What Dad said is that whether it is school education or social influence, in fact, there is not much difference between children now, but it is different for everyone." Qi Tianxiang replied with a smile: "This is the so-called teaching by word and deed, the so-called poor family produces filial piety, and the country is difficult to see loyal ministers, but we can't wait until the family is surrounded by walls or the country is ruined before we can test the gains and losses of our education!" ”

"That's to the point, it looks like you've been deeply troubled by this." Yan Bonian glanced at Qi Tianxiang deeply, and often sighed and said: "In the past, our education, especially the education of our children, was not very invested. Fortunately, the social atmosphere at that time, as well as the social customs, were still positive, positive and sunny, although there was no old-style education of 'loyalty, filial piety, benevolence', but it was aimed at collectivism and patriotism, so it was still considered to fulfill the educational obligations of the society. ”

"What Dad said was that he said the characteristics of that era, and it was also the biggest gain." Qi Tianxiang looked at Yan Bonian with a smile, thinking and said: "At that time, what was focused on cultivating was the successor of the socialist cause, a knowledgeable and educated worker, and a useful person of the times. Because what the whole society admires is what should be learned and emulated, but today's social education has handed over the matter of knowledge indoctrination to schools, talent training to cram schools, and moral education to families. Isn't it important to let a group of people who are struggling for their livelihood tell their children what dedication is, how valuable faith and spirit are, and how to understand the profound meaning of the word giving? What's more terrible is that in the face of the education of only children, competition and competitiveness occupy all positions, going to school is not for learning knowledge, but for good grades, the intention of going to cram school is not moral, intellectual, physical and beautiful, but to increase the bargaining chips to win the competition, is not to lose the anxiety at the starting line, picking up garbage as a sanitation worker is not a choice of survival and career, but a punishment for not studying well. Under this kind of education, children think about what will be affected physically and mentally, and whether the society can accept it, it seems that it is not something to be considered in family education, so that we have now cultivated a large number of little emperors who do not know the crops, a group of nobles who are not rich and noble, and a group of young masters and young ladies who are contaminated with arrogance. ”

Qi Tianxiang's slightly angry words made Yan Bonian fall into deep thought, and only sighed slowly for a long time and said, "It would be nice if our family's Bei Bei knew this." ”

"Actually, sometimes Xiaobei is specially made for you elders to see." Liu Peng explained with a faint smile: "In the unit, almost everyone evaluates her as kind, civilized, and polite. ”

"Listen to what Xiaopeng said, this is confrontation and conscious." Yan Bonian was in a good mood, and his gaze at Liu Peng was also satisfied and loving, and then he said angrily: "It's all Yan Yong's habit." ”

"You can't always knock over a boatload of people with one oar, it's not fair." As he spoke, Yan Yong walked into the courtyard with a smile, and said as he walked: "I thought it was you and my mother who used her like this!" ”

"Don't involve me when you two quarrel, when did I get used to Xiaobei, and I didn't think our Xiaobei had no rules, I think it's good." Zhang Wanfen heard the sound of her son entering the door, so she came out of the kitchen, greeted Li Hongxia, and then glared at Yan Yong, and said dissatisfiedly: "I didn't come until this time, so I can't go out early." ”

"Mom, it's all my fault, it's because I cleaned up the house in the morning and washed a few more clothes, so I delayed the time." Li Hongxia saw that Zhang Wanfen was unhappy, and hurriedly explained with a blushing face: "I went to the countryside to patrol during this period, I was very busy, and I didn't have time to clean up. ”

"What's early and late, eat, how can there be morning and evening." Yan Bonian glanced at his wife with a smile and said to the big guy, "Let's all go into the house and sit!" ”

The family party, because of the presence of Sister Qin and Liu Peng, became even more lively, Yan Xiaobei kept picking up vegetables for Qin's mother, and Liu Peng also served vegetables for Li's mother from time to time, the two seemed to be discussing, and the one they called was naturally cordial. During the banquet, Liu Peng also politely toasted Yan Bonian and Yan Yong, making Yan Bonian and Zhang Wanfen so happy that their mouths couldn't close together, and Sister Qin's eyes when she looked at Yan Xiaobei were also full of joy and love.

After the meal, the family sat and talked for a while, Li Hongxia and Yan Yong left early because they were on duty in the afternoon, Sister Qin was not worried about the cooperative's affairs and left together, Yan Bonian and Zhang Wanfen had the habit of taking a lunch break and went back to the room to rest.

Suddenly deserted, Qi Tianxiang and Yan Li walked to the courtyard, enjoying the warm sunshine of the early winter afternoon, and seeing Yan Xiaobei and Liu Peng who came out, Qi Tianxiang asked strangely: "Such a good time, don't you go out to play?" ”

"I don't want to go out, Liu Peng and I have something I want to talk to the secretary's uncle, please give me an idea." Yan Xiaobei looked at Qi Tianxiang frankly, and said with an extremely serious expression: "I've been annoyed to death for the past few days. ”

"What can make us happy and sad like this, let's hear it." Qi Tianxiang looked at Yan Xiaobei's frowning brows, and said with a smile: "It just so happens that the four of us are all party members, and according to the provisions of the party constitution, we can become a party group. ”

"Look at you, the child has something on his mind, and you still have the heart to joke." Yan Li slapped Qi Tianxiang in disgust, turned her face to look at Yan Xiaobei and Liu Peng with concern, and asked softly, "What's wrong?" Is it a problem at work, or if the two of you are facing some difficulties, tell your aunt. ”

"Let him speak!" Yan Xiaobei looked at Yan Li, then at Qi Tianxiang, pointed at Liu Peng and said, "He understands better than me." ”

"I wanted to talk to the secretary's uncle just now, but I didn't find a chance." Liu Peng looked at Yan Xiaobei with a smiling face, and slowly looked at Qi Tianxiang and Yan Li and said: "After the start of school, I was going to officially sign an internship and service agreement with the bank, but I was a little hesitant and signed an agreement with ** to serve the grassroots students, and Xiaobei was unhappy. ”

"I'm not upset, I'm not really upset, I have no intention of interfering with and hindering your development." Yan Xiaobei protested unhappily, but under Qi Tianxiang's dissatisfied and stern gaze, she also felt that her aggressive tone was a little inappropriate, so she softened her tone and said, "I support your grassroots training, you can sign for another year, if you can, sign for another year, can't you?" ”

"Beibei, why do you talk like that, and don't you feel narrow-minded when you look at things like this?" Yan Li saw the dissatisfaction in Qi Tianxiang's eyes and the increasingly gloomy expression, so she hurriedly answered and said, "The school is run by your family, and the system is formulated by your family?" Isn't this an increase in the psychological burden on Xiaopeng, is this your original intention? ”

"Auntie, you don't know, I am very much in favor of Liu Peng's student aid service, isn't there a change?" Yan Xiaobei also knew that her tone and words might have hurt Liu Peng, and she was very grateful to Yan Li for the steps she designed, so she said to Yan Li coquettishly: "Who knows what kind of illness we have in our industry, notify me when I get off work the day before yesterday, report to the Qinghe City Education Bureau on Monday, and let me go to the primary school as a mathematics teacher, do you say that I am the one who educates children?" ”

"It's not suitable, you are also unladylike in your industry, how can you be the king of children? You should be arranged directly to the kindergarten to be an expectant mother. Despite Yan Li's repeated signals, Qi Tianxiang still couldn't help it, and said coldly: "At least let you know what is going on with the mother and what the child means." ”

"Uncle, are you still my own uncle?" Yan Xiaobei looked at Qi Tianxiang dissatisfied, and said aggrievedly, "Don't you think about my feelings?" ”

Yan Xiaobei's words instantly made Qi Tianxiang laugh, but then he said solemnly: "Consider your feelings? But have you considered how you feel in the line? Have you ever wondered why the industry asked you to be the king of children? Will it be so boring to make fun of you? ”

"The orthodox education we have instilled over the years has always been that the nation comes first and the country comes first, and there seems to be nothing wrong with it, but in the eyes of practical values and vulgar philosophy of life, it is a brutal act that seriously restricts freedom and individuality, and it is idealism that ignores personal values, and it seems that the feelings of family and country are more in line with social common sense and the characteristics of human nature." Qi Tianxiang sighed slightly, looked at Yan Xiaobei and Liu Peng, who were a little surprised, and said: "Whether it is a family or a country, it is a concept that is told, but the angle of focus is different, that is, the positive and negative sides of the coin, in fact, the essence is to put aside the individuality and talk about commonality." ”

"The family and the country, in fact, emphasizes the importance of the home, and the country, it seems to pay attention to the importance of the country, that is, the dialectical relationship between the big river and the small river, more simply understood, that is, the relationship between the inside and outside of the city, in fact, the real meaning is the word nation. Because the number of residents in the city is only the prosperity of the city, it has nothing to do with people's lives, and it is not stained with happiness, and the real measure of the cohesion of the city is not politics, nor economy, but the nation. Qi Tianxiang said so much in one breath, it seemed that he felt that it was too profound, so he softened his tone and said: "To put it simply, it is the relationship between people and society. ”

As he spoke, he looked at Liu Peng and said gently: "You are always flaunting the concept of independent individuality and freedom, it seems that this society, this nation, and this country have nothing to do with you, but does it really have nothing to do with it?" It seems that it doesn't matter much, if you have money, you can have everything in life, but have you ever wondered how the food came from? Is it possible that the clothes on the body are not created by industry? This seems to have nothing to do with the country, but without the stability of the country and the contribution of all walks of life, are these seemingly simple gains really that simple? ”

"Your uncle's words speak to his worries, and to the problems that exist in reality." Yan Li looked at Liu Peng's somewhat astringent expression, and slowly answered: "Modern education only focuses on the instillation of knowledge, and ignores the cultivation of quality and quality, it seems that as long as you complete the basic education, everything will be fine, from primary school to high school, every child learns the same thing, this is like the product of the production line, there is no difference, and there is no characteristic, how can it go on like this?" ”

"This is said at a high level, in the end, it is a student work background, and it hits the nail on the head!" Qi Tianxiang met Yan Li's angry gaze, smiled, lit a cigarette and took a puff slowly, and said slowly: "In the past, traditional education focused on standing up first and then studying, whether it was the "Three Character Classic", or the "Disciple Rules", or the "Mengxue Daguan", all of which were based on the inculcation and cultivation of conduct, and these basic etiquettes and bits and pieces of knowledge of thought and morality, even if they were not further studied, could regulate and restrict a person's daily behavior and thinking. And further study, pay more attention to each person's personality, in the past to talk about the six arts, the small six arts are the necessities of life, the big six arts is the compulsory growth of a gentleman, but also the foundation of the skills of governing the country and the state. There are 3,000 disciples of Confucius, 72 sages, and 10 philosophers, each of whom is different. ”

"And now, education is industrialized, just like the products on the production line, mass production, batch copying, the only criterion is the score, it seems that everything is taught, but nothing is taught." Qi Tianxiang seemed to be deep in thought, and said worriedly: "This is the case with primary and secondary education, and the same is true with university education, all of which are those knowledge in textbooks, and the rest is not under the care of teachers, as for whether these knowledge can be applied to real life, no one cares." As a result, there have been batches of bachelor's degree clerks, master's section chiefs, and doctoral bureau chiefs, and these high-level intellectuals who have come down from the production line can really assume economic and social management responsibilities, and do they really have the relevant ability? ”

"Academic qualifications are just a proof, they only show the level they are in, in fact, they can't explain anything, what kind of society is like, what are the problems at the grassroots level, what are the needs of the people, do you people from schools to institutions know?" Qi Tianxiang's eyes became serious, and his words became more solemn, "These basic knowledge are what you must make up, active and passive, the result or effect is different." ”

"I really want to understand what Uncle Secretary's words are, but they are too profound for me to understand for a while." Liu Peng thought about it and said slowly: "It seems that our generation should be responsible and responsible, after all, the future of this country and nation has a deep-rooted connection with us, not only by blood, but also by cultural and civilization." ”

"You'll say, sycophancy." Yan Xiaobei glared at Liu Peng, snatched him and said, "Uncle Secretary just asked us to obey the organization's assignment and not pick the fat and the thin, right, uncle?" ”

"I didn't really emphasize anything, let alone ask for anything." Qi Tianxiang knew that these two young people had understood, so he didn't want to say more, but he still said unsatisfied: "To borrow the words you often use, it is also a phrase often seen on the Internet, 'The problem that can be solved with money is not a problem', such a simple truth, but now it has confused the people of a whole country, the country emphasizes that everything looks at money, public opinion advocates that wealth proves its value, and merchants flicker without money and have nothing, is this really the case?" ”

"House, car, seat, ticket, wife, these so-called'five sons Dengke', in addition to the seat, need other factors, the remaining four, which one is not measured by money, but think about it carefully, which one will not maintain the safety of life, will affect the survival of the nation, the house can be big or small, the car can be dispensable, the ticket can be more or less, the wife has nothing to do with money, so it seems that what we pursue all our lives seems to have nothing to do with the meaning of life, let alone happiness. However, the ideals, beliefs, beliefs, and spirits that are closely related to the life and death of the country and the nation have been ignored by public opinion. Who told for the sake of some right thoughts? Shouldn't you be responsible for this? Qi Tianxiang said slowly, as if he didn't mean to continue, just said with a smile: "These are not complicated issues, you need to interpret them, maybe a few years, maybe a lifetime." ”

Yan Xiaobei and Liu Peng seemed to understand what Qi Tianxiang said, and they didn't seem to fully understand, but looking at Qi Tianxiang's cold expression, they didn't want to be too stubborn.

Qi Tianxiang didn't stop thinking, Liu Peng's work may just be arranged by the academy, Yan Xiaobei's work changes, but he has deep intentions, Qi Tianxiang doesn't want to say too much, just hopes that she can accumulate her own things in the short training.

Yan Bonian's words, as well as what he said, were slowly entangled together, and even on the way home, they were not completely distinguished.

Originally, he wanted to accompany the two old men to dinner, especially to listen to what Yan Bonian said again, but Wang Jinlong called and wanted to have a good chat with him, but his voice was not so relaxed, which made Qi Tianxiang's heartstrings tense again, so he had to agree to the appointment and ask him to send the address. Then he said goodbye to the two old men apologetically.

On the car home, I received a text message from Fang Zhenquan: "Rectification has been arranged, and I hope Secretary Qi will check it at any time."

Qi Tianxiang looked at the text message, recalled Yan Bonian's words, seemed to understand something, and smiled meaningfully