After a while, Xu Weijie washed out of the bathroom, still wearing the clothes that were wet before, even if Huang Jingyao asked him to wear his own first, this kid kept shaking his head nervously.

"Have a cup of tea." Huang Jingyao poured him a cup of tea, and then saw Xu Weijie standing in front of him honestly, so he smiled and said, "Sit, school hasn't started yet, and you don't want me to be a teacher." ”

These words were still ineffective, and Huang Jingyao's head became bigger.

But he didn't insist on anything, and only after taking a sip of tea did he smile, "You want to go to college, this is a good thing, it is worth affirming, but I have also seen your scores, which are not bad, why do you have to enter my class?" ”

Xu Weijie was still nervous, but he still gritted his teeth and said, "My score is unstable, and I may be able to go to a second book in this situation now, but I want to go to a better university, if I can follow Mr. Huang, you can definitely go to a better one." ”

“……”

Huang Jingyao didn't know how to react, the students who didn't officially enter his class were so confident in him?

Crying and laughing, he sorted out his mind and reopened the topic, although Xu Weijie's nervousness was still there, but Huang Jingyao was not a novice when he first took over the third year of high school, and then for a period of time, he still learned the information he wanted very skillfully.

For example, this kid had the courage to come to him today, he thought he was stimulated by something, but the result was very ordinary, that is, when he was playing at home, he was caught by his parents and taught him a lesson, so that he had time to study hard or something, and he was about to be in his third year of high school,......

This is not the first time Xu Weijie has been lectured by his parents, according to his words, he is often lectured by his parents. He will be annoyed if he talks too much. But it's too much to say. Occasionally, when he thinks about it, he will also work hard, but this kind of effort is easily swayed by other circumstances.

For example, learning to learn to feel too boring, too boring, so he began to resist, and his own character also has a lazy side, at first he was occasionally lazy after studying hard, and then he was lazy more and more time. It becomes a persistent laziness and learns occasionally.

In addition, his learning purpose is also unclear, and he has always felt that if it were not for his parents who wanted him to study and wanted him to study well, he would not want to continue to study.

"Teacher Huang, do you think going to school is really useful? Some of my friends or former junior high school classmates have graduated from junior high school and gone out to work early, and now they are doing well outside. At least I can support myself, and I've heard that many of them went to college. It's hard to support yourself just after graduation, and the job you're looking for isn't necessarily much better, so why do you have to study? ”

After being relieved of the tension by the skillful conversation, Xu Weijie had already sat down opposite Huang Jingyao, also took a cup of hot tea in his hand, and couldn't help complaining after taking a sip.

Huang Jingyao's face was calm, and he just asked softly, "Do you think it's useless to go to school?" ”

"It doesn't seem to be of much use, and according to what I've heard, it shouldn't be of much use." Xu Weijie hesitated to speak, and Huang Jingyao asked again, "It's really useless?" ”

He said this in a very ordinary tone, just like a question between friends, but Xu Weijie's already hesitant expression immediately changed, "It's useful, right?" ”

Huang Jingyao laughed out loud at this time, and when the laughter made Xu Weijie stunned and nervous again, he waved his hand and said, "Don't be nervous, didn't we have a good chat just now, I just smiled, what are you so nervous." ”

After a pause, he affirmed, "Actually, in your heart, you think it is useful to go to school, otherwise why would you come to me today?" ”

Xu Weijie opened his mouth, he wanted to open his mouth to refute, but he didn't know how to refute, he wanted to say that he was just annoyed by his parents today, and he wanted to work hard for a while as before, but he couldn't study during the holidays, so he thought impulsively, if he could enter Huang Jingyao's class, his inability to persist should be corrected, he came here really impulsively, not that he felt that it was useful to go to school, but how embarrassed to say these words, he didn't dare to say it.

"I know you may think I'm talking nonsense, but don't worry, let's let the facts speak." Huang Jingyao smiled again and spoke, in fact, Xu Weijie's problem is easy to solve, and his problem is also very common.

That is, a student has unclear learning goals, no initiative, and is completely burdened with the expectations of his parents to work hard, resulting in a boring learning process, and slowly squeezing it down becomes a boredom of learning.

He had really met several such students in the previous year, and if he followed last year's method, as long as he gave Xu Weijie a clear learning goal and aroused his interest and initiative in learning, things would become very easy.

But Huang Jingyao didn't want to simply repeat himself.

"I said that you think school is useful, it is from the changes in your sophomore grades, you see, a slip and an improvement, a slip and a promotion, if you feel useless, will you repeatedly insist on trying to keep yourself back up in failure?"

When Huang Jingyao spoke again, Xu Weijie was a little dumbfounded when he heard it.

What's going on?

He obviously fell again and again, and he finally worked hard for a while to recover, and because he didn't want to learn lazily, he fell, because of these former teachers, his parents didn't talk about him, why was Huang Jingyao here, but he kept getting back up in failure? It doesn't sound the same taste.

"In fact, in my heart, I still think that you are a rare student, because you have not been knocked down by declining grades again and again, as long as you are not afraid of failure and are willing to persevere, then even if your academic performance does not gain much in the end, once you develop this kind of character and energy that does not admit defeat, you are not afraid of not achieving anything."

Huang Jingyao's new starting point is to cultivate from the student's character, outlook on life and values, etc., in his heart, Xu Weijie's biggest flaw in character is that he does not persist, does not have that tenacity, if he can be cultivated in the future to not admit defeat and not be discouraged, and dare not be afraid of everything in the face of the right direction, it is really not a academic performance, a test score can be replaced.

This kind of character can affect a person's life and affect all aspects.

But he can't blow this kid as soon as he opens his mouth, and if he really wants to open his mouth to denounce his character as being afraid of hardship or something ugly, with his introverted and withdrawn performance, he may be destroyed in confidence.

So he praised Xu Weijie first, and when he praised this kid a little dizzy, Huang Jingyao changed the topic, "However, although you can re-energize yourself in the blow of defeat every time, the strength of this exhilaration,...... is still a little insufficient" (to be continued......)