Huang Jingyao's ideal is to cultivate introverted and withdrawn students like Xu Weijie, who do not have persistence and resilience in doing things, to be optimistic and cheerful, face life with a positive attitude, and then match the character of insisting on not admitting defeat, and then improve a proper world view, values, etc.

If he does this in addition to improving the other person's academic performance in the following year, it will be considered a success. And in his heart, his personality and attitude towards life, students' self-perception, etc., are actually more important than grades, and it is because the purpose of high school juniors is the college entrance examination that he will put his studies first first.

So his starting point, the first is to change the flaws in the other party's personality that cannot be adhered to, as long as it can be changed, judging from the history of his determination to study hard again and again, his performance improvement will become a matter of course.

This will also be much better and better than the method used for students in the first year of his senior year of high school.

And perseverance and hard work, not afraid of hardships and dangers and not giving up, such character qualities have been described by too many historical stories or proverbs.

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts, as long as the kung fu deep iron pestle is sharpened into a needle, the meaning of these proverbs is the power of perseverance.

Historical allusions? During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei was exiled for half his life, why did he finally become the founding king of Shu Han? No matter what others say about Liu Bei, the character merits of this hero cannot be erased, that is, no matter what difficulties and obstacles he encounters, no matter how embarrassed he is, he has always persevered and is not afraid of failure.

There is also an allusion to the repeated defeats and defeats of Zeng Guofan in the late Qing Dynasty, and the repeated defeats are also the same thing.

Huang Jingyao doesn't need and doesn't need to go so far. He was complimenting Xu Weijie. He also pointed out that there were some deficiencies in his personality. He gave him a few modern celebrity anecdotes, which are all examples of repeated setbacks and failures, and then they are not afraid of difficulties and continue to persevere, so as to achieve success.

After giving an example, Huang Jingyao took Xu Weijie himself to talk about things, saying that he can re-energize himself after failure every time, which is already very good, but the shortcoming is that he does not insist on it properly.

This is the place to begin. He began to explain to this kid again, no matter whether you think studying is useful or not, but there is one thing that cannot be erased, even if you go out of school and into society, when you really go to work, if you can't persevere because some work is too hard and tiring, and you give up, then you can't do anything well.

This is also something that Xu Weijie cannot refute.

Huang Jingyao began to persuade that no matter whether the other party likes to study or not, it will not prevent this from being used as a way to exercise his good character qualities. If he likes to learn, then you can't stick to what he likes. Not to mention other things, if you don't like it, if you can stick to what you don't like, when it comes to other things, what is there to be afraid of?

The chatter-style explanation continued to unfold, and Xu Weijie became more and more moved to listen.

The main thing is that what Huang Jingyao said is very correct, and he can't deny or question the correctness.

Seeing Xu Weijie's intentions, Huang Jingyao still smiled, things have a good start, it is worth being happy, but this is just a beginning, just like the more than 100 students he taught last year, each beginning is nothing, the key is the follow-up.

As for the follow-up, he is also certain to a certain extent, he originally planned to include Xu Weijie in the class, after today's incident, he is even more determined in this idea, and there is still a year to go, with his experience to work hard to cultivate, there is still a lot of confidence that this goal can be achieved.

After laughing, Huang Jingyao did not say more in this regard, but began to reverse Xu Weijie's improper values.

For example, he thinks that it doesn't matter if he goes to school or not, and after graduation, many college students don't have some people who drop out of school early to go out to work. This is a lot of real-life examples, but is it really like that?

"You say it's better for people who have gone to college to find a job than to drop out early, do you know how they spent college? Do you know what happens to those who drop out of school early and just enter the society after dropping out of school? ”

"Although I don't know, I can roughly guess that seventy percent of those who can't find a good job after going to college are because they waste their time, have fun in school, and don't really work hard to learn knowledge.

"On the other hand, those who dropped out of school because they entered the society early and worked early, and it is not easy to have fun during work, right? Then they are working hard. ”

"This may not be accurate, but it should be the truth of most of the cases you know, and it is not surprising that you see those, one squandered time in his youth, and the other buried himself in his youth, so the latter is better off than the former, isn't it a matter of course?"

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Xu Weijie was speechless again, he couldn't speak this time because he really only saw the surface of those things, and he didn't know anything about what was under the surface.

Even Huang Jingyao himself, he is not very sure of what he said just now, it was said in speculation, he has not done a detailed investigation, and he can only say personal speculation.

However, this speculation is also based on many examples around him, he also graduated from college not long ago, and he also has a certain understanding of the situation of various classmates, as far as he knows, it is really difficult to find a job after graduation if he really studies seriously in college?

It's not hard.

Those who study seriously, even if not everyone can pass the recruitment examination at one time like him and enter a prestigious school like the city's first high school, but it is not difficult to find some ordinary schools to teach or private schools or something, but the working environment is not so ideal at the beginning, and the treatment is not ideal.

But it's not surprising that anything is difficult at the beginning, and if you want to live a standard of living like a dream from the beginning, then it's more realistic to continue dreaming.

What is really difficult to get along in this industry is those who play every day in college, have not taken much classes, and have to cheat every time to pass the exam.

This is compared with some high school dropouts, maybe at a glance there are differences in salary and treatment between the two sides at the same age, but don't forget that those who have dropped out of school have been working hard for several years, and the other party's environmental salary at the beginning can really be compared to your beginning? The other party has suffered so much, shouldn't it be willing to come to the bitterness?

Following these topics, Huang Jingyao smiled again, "I know you won't believe it immediately, you can ask more after you go back, inquire more, don't just look at the surface when you look at something, you can't just look at other people's scenery or downfall, but don't look at what environment and reasons create this scenery and downfall, you will be an adult soon, and this way of looking at people also needs to be changed." ”

Looking at people and things can't just look at the surface, this is also a concept that needs to be established correctly, Huang Jingyao suddenly wanted to laugh after speaking, he felt that he was not too anxious, and he just had some ideas in his mind, so he instilled all the ideas in this little guy who took the initiative to send them to the door. (To be continued......)