Chapter 080: There is still a lot of hope
At two or three o'clock in the afternoon, at the edge of the basketball court of the city's No. 1 High School, when Huang Jingyao grabbed a bottle of mineral water and drank it violently, a sunny and handsome young man deliberately walked to Tang Wenjing's side, and deliberately kept some distance from Huang Jingyao before muttering, "I said, sister, where did you find such a guy who can speak?" I was confused by what he said. β
The handsome young man is Tang Wenjing's younger brother, perhaps because the genes of the Tang family are too good, the young man is handsome, and there are a few wisps of resolute and heroic spirit in the delicate, with fashionable and sunny clothes, at first glance, he is really a handsome guy, walking calmly on campus, there are many girls on the left and right who secretly come sideways.
But at this moment, the young man's face was so dazed, after more than one class and more exchanges, he was really dizzy by Huang Jingyao, and not only dizzy, he also had a lot of other thoughts in his heart, thinking back to the previous exchange, he felt in his heart that Huang Jingyao said a lot of things too right, if he could do what Huang Jingyao said, it seemed to be a good choice.
The problem is that after thinking about it carefully, he found that what Huang Jingyao really wanted him to do was to temporarily let go of his love and obsession with games, and instead go to study, and then play as much as he wanted after the college entrance examination.
His sister Tang Wenjing, including his parents, has said these words many times, and every time he heard him in the past, he felt impatient, how could he think that Huang Jingyao was right now? It's an exaggeration.
With his dazedness, a smile flashed in Tang Wenjing's beautiful eyes, "How can I speak, this is my colleague, a teacher at the first high school in our county, and the head teacher of the third year of high school." β
"What? He's ...... at such a young age All right. Tang Wenhui was surprised first, and then looked at Tang Wenjing before he stopped talking, his sister is younger, and now she has just entered the age of 24, is it not the same as a teacher, or a teacher who has been teaching for more than a year and a half?
"Forget it, let's not talk about this for now, what is the matter with you coming to me this time? Wouldn't it just be for him to persuade me to study hard? The words were silent for a while, and Tang Wenhui looked at his sister strangely.
Tang Wenjing shook her head decisively, "It's really not, I just came to the city with Teacher Huang today to have something to do, so I stopped by to see you." β
Tang Wenhui was obviously a little unconvinced, but after looking at Huang Jingyao, he didn't say more, "Okay, whatever you want, but our next class is about to start, so I'll go back first if it's okay." β
"Let's go back." Tang Wenjing nodded, and when she saw Tang Wenhui turn around and walk away, she walked quickly in front of Huang Jingyao, "Teacher Huang, how is it?" β
"I roughly understand your brother's situation." Huang Jingyao took another sip of water before coughing and clearing his throat, "His problem is the same as most students, he can't stand the oppressive and restrictive environment of the school, the environment in the game is more exciting, and his personality is more competitive, addicted to the reward mechanism of the game, and loves to compare with others, which is very similar to the example of the student in our class I gave at noon......"
There are many students who are addicted to games in China, which is a common phenomenon, and there are many people who like to love it for the same reason.
Tang Wenhui's example is similar to that of a classmate in Class 5, and it is also normal.
But after saying this, Huang Jingyao's face was slightly stranger, "But there is one difference, that is, this kid also talked about a girlfriend in the game, which is incredible." β
"What?" Tang Wenjing also exclaimed.
The content of her exclamation is completely different from what Huang Jingyao thinks is strange, Tang Wenjing exclaimed that his younger brother is in early love, Huang Jingyao thinks this kid is so handsome, it is not a problem to find a real girlfriend in reality, but he actually engages in online dating in the game? He also heard that Tang Wenjing's exclamation was different from what he was amazed at, and then he smiled, "Don't get excited, early love, okay, seventeen or eighteen years old is the most curious and yearning for the opposite sex, it is normal nature to really like a certain opposite sex, there is no need to make a fuss, if this matter works well, it may not be able to become the motivation to stimulate his learning." β
How do you make puppy love a driving force? Not much else, the Wang Hao in Huang Jingyao's hand is the best example.
After comforting Tang Wenjing first, he explained Wang Hao's example, which also made Tang Wenjing's eyes light up again.
"I also asked just now, his girlfriend is a college student, generally speaking, she is still a white rich beauty, her academic performance is average, and she has entered a college by relationship, and if she makes good use of it, this is the motivation to stimulate his learning." Huang Jingyao spoke again, and he said that the content was all said by Tang Wenhui, the actual situation is true or false, Huang Jingyao is not sure and doesn't want to delve into it, he is an adult, and he is too naΓ―ve to believe what others say.
But as long as Tang Wenhui thinks so, this is enough.
Tang Wenhui thinks that his online dating girlfriend is a college student, a RMB player in the game, and in reality he is rich and beautiful, this is the gap between women and men, with his competitive character, he will have no idea about it?
Some words are not good, but it is true, human society is from the patriarchal era of slow and stable transition, even if many people in modern society say that men and women are equal every day, it can be said to be the same thing, do? And how many men can pat their chests and say that women are put on equal footing in all things?
Male and female couples, husbands and wives, men are better than women in all aspects of work and family support, I am afraid that everyone thinks that this is normal, this is as it should be, and the reverse is ......
So if Tang Wenhui really talks about a girlfriend like he said, in order to motivate him to change his situation through learning, it is very feasible, not to mention more, just tell him that your girlfriend is a book, and you will take a junior college exam in the future, or you will not be able to pass the junior college exam, is this appropriate, don't you want to prove that you are actually better than her in some aspects, and you can protect her and take care of her, instead of being in a position of being taken care of and protected?
Anything like this can stir him up.
told Tang Wenjing in detail what he thought in his heart, and Tang Wenjing nodded again and again, "It seems like this, so let's just say this?" β
"Of course it's not enough, it's just one aspect, and on the other hand, there's the reward system for his own addiction to the game."
Huang Jingyao smiled and shook his head, "This kind of addiction is also a good thing if it is used well, you can think about it, virtual network data, he can be addicted to it, if you can also sort out a real reward mechanism in reality, it will definitely work." β
"What's his favorite besides gaming? You can reward him in a round-robe, for example, if he likes electronics, you tell him how many points he will improve, and reward him with a corresponding ,......"
After teaching sixty-five students, Huang Jingyao really has a lot of experience in this area, but after chatting with Tang Wenhui for more than one class, all kinds of targeted ideas have emerged in his heart.
Of course, the most important thing is that he has also checked Tang Wenhui's learning talent, four five or two fours in six subjects, which is comparable to the data of Zhang Ting, the former first student in class five, for Tang Wenjing's sake, he has quietly improved his talent by six points before.
Nowadays, as long as the follow-up psychological counseling keeps up, students still have great hope of solving this problem.