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Li Yuecheng is in his forties this year, and he has been teaching for more than 20 years, so Huang Jingyao will say that he is an old-timer, and this senior is not only an old qualified senior, but also a senior backbone teacher in the city's first high school, a famous school in the province, and the level is the level of Qin Xingpeng, a Chinese teacher in class 6.

Because of this, the other party said with a serious face that he was convinced of Huang Jingyao's strength, and when he wanted to invite him to dinner and ask him for advice in this regard, it was even more amazing.

These words and expressions also fully illustrate the open-mindedness and bearing of this teacher Li. Huang Jingyao smiled and said, "Don't say that, when it comes to teaching ability, I can't catch up with you now, and I want to ask you for more advice, as for doing students' ideological work, I am a little careful, as long as Teacher Li doesn't dislike ,......"

There are some things that Huang Jingyao can't be more modest now, he has raised the fifth class to today's level by doing ideological work, being too modest is another kind of show-off, Li Yuecheng is interested, he won't hide it, after all, he didn't treat this kind of thing as a secret in the first place, and many people in the county first high school know it.

clearly expressed his attitude in his words, Li Yuecheng also became interested, and thanked Huang Jingyao with a smile before continuing, "I really want to ask you more questions, let's just say that students are addicted to games, what is the cause of him?" Why are games so addictive? A few years ago, when computers just emerged, I met too many students who skipped class to go out to Internet cafes to play games, and recently after the popularization of mobile phones, students don't have to skip school, but playing mobile games is more energetic and more hidden, take my current seventh class, I don't like to play games anymore, there are several, but Tang Wenhui plays the most, Mr. Huang, you should have a similar situation in your class, right? ”

Huang Jingyao didn't know how to speak for a while, mainly because the problem was too big. After sorting out the thoughts in his mind, he explained with a smile, "There are many reasons for this, first of all, the attraction of the game itself, which is too exciting compared to boring schoolwork, and now the game is constantly set up with various levels, equipment, etc., so that students can rely on their own efforts to have fun in the process of playing the game to get a higher level, equipment, this kind of reward mechanism not to mention high school students, many adults are tired of it, if it is a competitive person, they will like to constantly compare with other players in the game, It is also very attractive to teenagers, after all, most of the students in this period are not admitting defeat,......"

"Secondly, there are some introverts who don't get all kinds of respect in reality, and they don't get the outside attention they want, but they can achieve this in the game. Because introverts across the network can also put aside all kinds of constraints and have no scruples about verbal communication, such students may not like rewards such as level equipment, they just like to chat and make friends in it. ”

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Why are students addicted to games such a big proposition, since the rise of computer games, there have been countless people in China to study, just like the legend of the year has created how many students often skip class to go to Internet cafes?

You can search casually on the Internet, and you can easily search for all kinds of explanations for such reasons, Huang Jingyao only said at the beginning to show his attitude, Li Yuecheng asked sincerely, and he sincerely explained the reasons he thought he thought.

The call was long and varied, and he smiled bitterly after saying these words, "But Mr. Li, although what I just said is a variety of reasons why students like to play games and even indulge in them, these words are too general and useless. ”

"When I took over the fifth class, there were also a few students who liked to play games, one of the female students just felt that she was not beautiful, the family environment was not good, and she was introverted, and she was often a neglected marginal figure in the class, but she was eager to be recognized and paid attention to by her peers in her heart, in a game because she was a female player, she was often taken care of by male players, and there were many older ones who cared for her as a little sister, and what she couldn't get in reality was realized in the game, so she liked to play."

"For that student, it was difficult for me to get her out of it alone, so I used some small tricks, such as asking her classmates to play with her more,......"

Huang Jingyao said that the girl, the way to suppress the game addiction is similar to the way he took care of Han Lei and inspired Han Lei's confidence, so far the girl still plays games, but the energy and time spent on the game is not as good as before, at least she will spare a lot of time to study, the last time the results were not too dazzling and still below the average score of the fifth class, but as long as she continues to work hard, Huang Jingyao is also sure that she will get good results in the college entrance examination.

Then he talked about several other examples of students who like to play games, a male classmate is a competitive personality, addicted to a sense of achievement such as rushing to the level, and is attracted by the game's reward mechanism, Huang Jingyao through various persuasions, let the other party realize that since he has no money, no matter how much energy and time he invests in the game, he is still easily crushed by RMB players, and then he asks why can't you be a RMB player yourself? You are from an ordinary family now, but as long as you study hard and find a good job and earn money in the future, wouldn't you be able to become the RMB warrior that everyone yearns for?

Of course, when this matter is really realized, it is not done in one or two sentences, just as he stimulated Wang Xingjie at the beginning, and he mentioned Tsinghua University and Peking University as the goal, Wang Xingjie himself scoffed, this is mainly the follow-up, Huang Jingyao improved his talent to make it easier for the other party to learn, plus continuous counseling and temptation, and long-term efforts to create the result.

The same is true for this male classmate who likes to play games.

There are all kinds of things, he can't say anything about improving his talent, except how to say and do it, Huang Jingyao also said it roughly completely, more than half an hour has passed after the situation is finished, and the meals ordered by several people have already been served on the table, but no one has eaten a few bites, only Huang Jingyao himself drank a pot of tea.

"That's roughly it, to sum up these things, each student's reason must be accurate, whether it is like going to the hospital for treatment, cold but according to the method of stomach ache, after finding the cause is not a day or two can be changed, the most important thing in the process is to make students feel your attitude towards him, is equal respect rather than condescending, this period they are too sensitive, often hope to get the respect of adults and equal communication, but it is often difficult to achieve, once you do it is also very good to communicate, after all, they are all children."

When the final summary was spoken, Li Yuecheng, who had been listening carefully for more than half an hour, didn't say a word, gave Huang Jingyao a thumbs up, grabbed the beer and poured a glass.

"No wonder you can do it, how much time and effort does it take? I feel terrible when I hear it, but you really did it, and you made achievements, come, just rush this, I have to toast you a few more glasses! ”