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In fact, this is the degeneration of your family, your family consciousness is living in the past, your parents or grandparents have taken a break after struggle, reminiscing about the past capital, his family is different, his family has no interest in 3 or 3 generations, and he has done his best to cultivate his descendants, and he has been in the middle of three or four generations, and from this generation onwards, he happened to appear in the generation that turned from the volt, and you were born in the generation when your family was close to the peak, at least it has insufficient stamina. If you were born into a rising generation of your family, it's still nice to experience being above the people around you.

A person also has ups and downs, if the ups and downs of the country, the ups and downs of the family can not be controlled, the ups and downs of that person are in their own hands, you work hard, persevere, even if you have better talent than you, good background, good conditions, even if you will not surpass, at least it is possible to step into a good circle with your own efforts, surpass yourself, if you are a person who is easy to fall, you will be complacent if you have achieved a little results, then congratulations, you have picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelons, got a tree, and lost a forest. You will be indignant, assert that the world is unfair, let those who are inferior to you surpass you, and those who are better than you will still be better than you.

Maybe there are people around you who mention how they were back then. Why do they always dwell on the past?

First, because they are very frustrated right now.

I used to be chased by a lot of people - oh, you don't care anymore.

I had a good grade back then — oh, you're doing very badly now.

I was skinny back then — oh, you're fat now.

Because I am not satisfied with the status quo and don't want to make efforts, the only way I can think of is to beautify the past to the greatest extent, and then steal some superiority from the past and talk about it.

Second, because the past was safe.

Nostalgia for the past makes us feel very down-to-earth and reassuring, because everything is certain, dust-settled, and full of familiarity. In contrast, the future is uncertain and means risky. Once you face the future, you can't escape any reality, you have to change yourself, and you have to solve problems. This is actually the thinking of the weak.

Although there are ups and downs in life, every bit of effort will make you rise and will not let you fall, but there is a time difference in between, so work hard and then hand it over to time.

This is called volatility.

If there is volatility, it will bring all kinds of accidents, deaths, bankruptcies and strife to the world.

But the absence of volatility means that everything is fixed, and from birth, everything has been planned, prescribed, and will not change.

It can be said that there are fluctuations, there may be accidents, but it gives people hope.

As Wang Jin observed and thought, as long as there are fluctuations in human society, then there is a high probability that there will be geniuses among the people at the bottom, and there will be fools, losers, and playboys in the royal family and nobles, which is the great gene of mankind.

Even if the first and second generations can work hard, it stands to reason that after the third generation, it should have fallen a long time ago.

However, Wang Jian held back in the grass for a while, feeling that this was too mocking, and after standing up slowly, he found that the other party didn't care about you at all.

The people in the car stopped there, as if they were enjoying some kind of food, and continued: "There is a lot of grass, why not go to the car and let the guests be in the middle of the strange, is not the way of hospitality, can it be said that the strategy of Chinese people as guests is to wander around?"

Will the map be cannon?

Wang Jian knew that he couldn't bear it any longer, so he stood up and said with a little confidence: "Ah, I'm sorry, I just walked on the road, but my feet were a little numb, just squat for a while, well, you're in a hurry." ”

The man in the carriage said lightly: "I'm going to the embassy." ”

Wang Jian didn't approach the group of people, at least patted his back to confirm that the two weapons were there, took a deep breath, and said, "Then I won't bother, I can't delay your trip." ”

"The so-called encounter is fate, why delay, come, get in the car, friend. ”

A posture that Wang Jian will not give up and refuse to leave if he doesn't come up.

Wang Jian sighed, and the dragon horn sword had already turned into a scabbard behind his back, wrapped the crescent moon, grabbed it in his hand, and slowly walked over at the same time.

The system of this carriage seems to be some years old, and it can still walk without animal power, relying on natural spells.

The car was very large, and when it reached the door, it slowly opened, but there were two figures sitting inside.

Wang Jian looked over, and the man in front seemed to be very fair-skinned, no wonder, there was no sun for people here.

He quietly caught in the situation in the car, but he planned it.

This secret realm is also powerful enough, but it is not so bad.

"Excuse me, I'll just sit in the doorway, well, shoes. ”

"It's okay, it's easy to clean, well, please take a seat, I haven't asked my friend what his name is. ”

"Wang Jian, well, what about you. ”

"Just call me Bai San. ”

It's a chic name, but it's fake?

Wang Jian thought for a while and said, "Your Mandarin is so good. ”

"Ah, I've watched your TV series. ”

Wang Jian looked to the side, and the woman seemed to look at it generously, without any shyness.

Wang Jian also knows this.

As a descendant of the Western Han Dynasty, she has not been poisoned by the feudal etiquette I sent, and the women in the secret realm are much bolder and very powerful.

Otherwise, why could Qiao Suya's mother elope to Huaguo?

Wang Jian said: "This is really fate. ”

"It's nothing. ”

Bai San pointed to the front: "This is your tribute to us, well, you drink a little, by the way, this is the little sister, Bai Yaya." ”

Wang Jian thought about it, bowed his head slightly, and sat cross-legged in the car with his shoes on, with a dragon horn sword under his buttocks.

The carriage moved slowly, and the soldiers began to march in silence.

"Hello Miss Bai. ”

"Brother Wang, is this out to relax, but be careful to get lost. ”

"To be honest, I'm just lost, if it weren't for Brother Bai, I'm afraid I'm going to be hungry, thank you very much. ”

"You're guests from afar, and of course we're going to entertain you. ”

"Yes, seeing that this secret realm is full of flowers, a prosperous scene, and thriving, I know that Brother Bai and others are strategizing, and they are all the dry cities of the country. ”

"It's just a little bit of the blessing of our ancestors. ”

The two had a conversation, but it was not leaky, and they both knew that the other party was not a brainless guy, and they couldn't find a topic for a while!

Speaking masters, the emphasis is on digging out the heart and lungs, warming the heart and lungs, but in fact, it is equivalent to not speaking, that is, you can't find the handle, and you won't leak any information.

Moreover, that's it, it can also bring a person closer to the heart.

However, this Third Prince Bai did not leak any of his intelligence from beginning to end, let alone the military intelligence of the secret realm, even if he liked to eat and drink, he couldn't feel it.

Wang Jian talked about what the other party likes to eat, but he was counterattacked by the other party, but he analyzed what the source of these things was, and what he said was the Tao.

This is the master.

Wang Jian used to be not so good at talking.

His real change was that after the college entrance examination, he went to participate in the collective activities of the children of the family members of a relative's unit, because the relative's children were not old enough to go, so he stuffed Wang Jian, the little guy, into it.

At that time, there was a handsome young man who was very popular.

Wang Jian took a fancy to a girl at that time, and that girl actually thought about it in hindsight, it was so ordinary, but the biggest advantage was that her breasts were relatively large and terrible.

Wang Jian was fascinated, but the girl only looked at the young man.

A little discouraged.

So, turn grief and anger into food.

Wang Jian took out a bottle of Lao Gan Ma from the bag and was about to open it, but he still couldn't unscrew it with the strength of milk, well, it was indeed a bit of waste wood that day, and at this time, he could only awkwardly hand this bottle of Lao Gan Ma to the young man next to him.

He unscrewed it all at once, and in front of so many people, Wang Jian was a little embarrassed, so he laughed at himself: "You have so much strength!"

He looked at Wang Jian and said, "Actually, it has been almost screwed by you before, so it is easier for me."

After he finished speaking, Wang Jian suddenly felt relaxed, just one sentence, saved face, and invisibly showed off himself, admiration and admiration!

This man is so rare!

But in hindsight, it's quite frightening.

But from that time on, Wang Jian began to figure out his knowledge.

Of course, this is not a good thing.

Once, after meeting the girl, I followed her to meet her parents, and the mother-in-law was really powerful, and even after getting married, the question of who would cook at that time was considered.

All right.

Wang Jian was really forced at that time, so when he saw his father-in-law who was gloating on the side, he suddenly had bad intentions, so.

"Auntie, my father cooks at my house, he said that the oil smoke hurts the skin, and he doesn't let my mother into the kitchen, and my father also comes to wash the dishes, of course, I came later. ”

So, the mother-in-law immediately turned the muzzle of the gun and turned her head to look at the old man who was lying down and was also shot: "Look at the people!"

Poor thing.

One of the most critical and most important first of the so-called speaking is to look at the background position of your speech.

Knowing how to listen is the first lesson, the focus is to discover the demands of the other party, language is logical is the second lesson, the focus is to move people, and having a heart to understand others is the third and most important lesson.

The so-called comprehension, speaking beautifully, and winning a win-win situation, is a test of the speaker's ability to empathize.

Before Chinese New Year's Eve, you are very tired after cleaning all day, and then you are very angry and say to him: "You wipe the window, I can't be busy." ”

At this time, the other party may reply perfunctorily with a "wait a while" or something like that, or a bargain that has not been played, and finally reluctantly help. Regardless of the outcome, as long as one of you is uncomfortable with either of you, it's not a win-win situation.

At this time, you might as well say, "You are tall, please help clean the glass."

When I was a child, the Xinhua bookstore still had a plaster on the window: "Stealing is a crime".

The slogan is useless, and the book is often dropped.

Changed to: "Thanks to everyone's help, we caught the thief".

The thief has no morality and loses shame, and it is obviously useless to write the sentence "stealing is a criminal" at this time. Take advantage of the empathy of the thief: the psychology of fear of being caught, to achieve the goal. 、

can speak, but it's not just official.

Use the most official and impeccable reasons to do what you want to do, and from any point of view of others, it can be said that you are doing things in accordance with the will of the leaders of the state, and then once something happens, you can find a reason to avoid responsibility in time and even let people take the blame.

But that's not going to happen.

First of all, we must have a great understanding of language, at least we will think that language is a very powerful weapon, because it does not require the user to have any physical fitness, and it is the first weapon against people. Such a person will usually be cautious, think carefully about every word he says, let himself say every word without typo, and be very sensitive to others, and over time he has developed a reaction speed to speak, that is, he can speak well, that is, at the moment of speaking, he can know what he should say, and what the consequences of saying this are, although unprofessional, this is probably what it means.

Words are not provocative, they outperform each other in terms of speaking.

The woman said to you, "I received a call today when I was taking my medicine, and your mother said she was sick. ”

This is a proposition.

The attitude of speaking is always as important as the skill and content.

"Heck, I'll just kid. "It's better not to say.

Don't make fun of other people's relatives, friends, lovers, and idols.

Don't insult what others like.

Turnip greens have their own preferences, and everyone has the power to have different tastes.

Always! Never! Don't laugh at other people's physical defects! No jokes!

If it were you, would you be able to laugh?

Never, never, don't laugh at someone else's physical defects!

No jokes!

If it were you, would you be able to laugh?

When others laugh at themselves, it is better to refute what they say.

Even if you think so, you can't go along with it.

Don't expose people in public, it's not who is loud and who's right.

Don't look at God, if sometimes you look at others like fools, then others may look at you the same.

But if you really meet a fool who can't communicate at all, indulge him! Indulge him! Make him a disgusting fool when he speaks!

Well, if you don't understand it well, that's it, the one who should be called the mother-in-law is called the aunt, the one who should be called the aunt is called the sister, the one who should be called the sister is called the little sister, and the one who is almost a few years old is called a classmate and a sister.

What matters when you speak is what you achieve!

The kind of person you are talking about, you ask her what she had for lunch, and she replied that you are annoyed, I went to the cafeteria elevator today, a bunch of people slipped and fell when they got there, and let people cut in line, but when the aunt who made the rice gave me braised pork, her hands kept shaking, and a spoonful was full of three slices in my bowl, and then there was no seat, mainly because I had a quarrel with my aunt, and the kung fu had already been occupied by someone at that time...... There are many such people, who do not consider grasping the other party's point and talking nonsense with their own peculiar thinking, I can only guess in good faith that such people are very warm and friendly and eager to talk.

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