Chapter 988: The years are merciless
Hearing this, Ouyang Mingmei shook her head slowly.
"Differences of ambition do not conspire with each other!" Ouyang Mingmei was lying on the bar, her voice a little muffled, "In the end, I still bear him." If he resents me, let it be. There is no perfect life in life, I was originally a selfish and irresponsible lady. Therefore, it is also a good thing that he recognized me for what I am and completely let go of his feelings with me! ”
"Grandpa, I really didn't expect that you taught me for so many years, don't be willful and don't be frizzy, you have to learn to empathize. When there is a problem, look at the problem calmly and objectively, you have been talking about it for so many years. It wasn't until I met Arrow that I really learned this! ”
"Obviously, you've really grown up!"
Because you care so much, you will be cautious and know how to think about something in a harmonious way.
In the past, Ou Yangmingmei only coveted immediate interests, and would only impose her own thoughts on other people, so that they had to do things and live according to her wishes.
But when she really fell in love with someone, she finally understood that in addition to her own feelings in this world, the feelings of another person are also very important.
Because she fell in love with someone, she began to ignore her feelings and think about that person wholeheartedly.
Because of love, she finally learned to give, regress and give way.
Love really made his Ming Ming grow a lot.
"Grandpa shouldn't tell me so much truth, the more truth you know, the more unhappy you become!" Ouyang Mingmei hoarsely continued: "If I don't understand anything, how good it would be! If I didn't understand anything and was tough, maybe I wouldn't be so upset! However, I was reluctant to do so. I can't bear to let him be unhappy because of me, and I can't bear to let him be unhappy because of me. What I love is not a self-servant soul! ”
Ouyang Di sighed and replied, "Obviously, grandpa has never wanted to be the leader of your life. I want you to explore life barefoot on your own, and grope your way through each process. But grandpa sometimes can't bear it, knowing that the path you chose is wrong, but he doesn't care about anything and lets you go on like this. Grandfather...... I don't want to see my most precious granddaughter suffer! But...... Also, other people's life experiences are always someone else's. If you focus too much on taking shortcuts, you will lose a lot of joy in life. ”
Doing nothing is the most ideal state, but people have seven emotions and six desires, and it is impossible to really let it go when the child encounters difficulties or experiences setbacks.
"But I'm still grateful to Grandpa!" Ouyang Mingmei raised her head and smiled lightly, "Grandpa, I cherish this relationship with Leng Rui, although a lot of unpleasant things happened in the middle. But I will cherish this past for the rest of my life, and so far, I have kept more good things. We just don't fit, it's not that we don't love anymore! ”
"Good!" Ouyang Di smiled and nodded, and said, "Grandpa is very happy to think like this!" ”
"You can see a lot of things, that's the best thing!" Ouyang Di said, stretched out his hand to wipe away the tears on Ouyang Mingmei's cheeks, and said with a light smile: "Grandpa has always hoped that mine will never grow up." Forever under my wings, growing up carefree. But...... The years are ruthless, my baby, in the end I still have to let you grow up, I can't protect you for a lifetime! ”
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