Well, the corpse on the ground is very miserable, and it should have died from a very violent spell explosion, just looking at the age of this girl, it should be a powerful magic weapon given by the family, and it killed more than a dozen people in the secret realm at once.

Unlucky guy.

Wang Jian didn't know what this girl was bringing, so he naturally didn't dare to rush over, but waved his hand at a distance, and said: "My own person, I'm here to save you, you have deviated from the main road, Long Yifei is in front, let's hurry up and meet." ”

"Woo woo woo ......"

"Okay, I'll approach slowly, it's still very dangerous here, we have to leave immediately, but these people in the secret realm have been killed by you and can't be killed again, so don't be nervous. ”

"They just rushed at me. ”

"Yes, yes, you're a brave girl, well, what's your name. ”

"My name is Jin Mingyu. ”

"My name is Wang Jian, Suzaku, what about you. ”

"I ...... I am from Xuanwu, and my classmates have left me. ”

"Well, I understand, these people, aren't they good people, isn't there a saying, plastic sisters, in fact, it's not better to recognize those bad guys, I know one, that's it, on the surface it's very good to you, in fact, when I get home at night, I find a place to say bad things about other people on the Internet, and suddenly find that another person is also saying bad things about himself on that website, in fact, why care. ”

"Woo, we can't go back, I want to go home. ”

"Don't be afraid, we have Long Yifei, we can go back, but, if you stay here, what can you do, let's go with me." ”

"You can take me away. ”

"I can, but you should also stand up first. ”

Wang Jian walked over slowly.

Jin Mingyu slowly stood up and plunged into Wang Jian's arms.

"So, that's why you're holding on to other girls. ”

"So I want you to take over. ”

"Waste, you just go ahead, I guess we'll be doing it soon. ”

The news from the front that the rich second generation, who was afraid of running away at the earliest, and had an acceleration or a stepping device in his hand, had already run away to the exit.

"That is to say, as long as the speed is fast enough, you can order those officials to open the door now, let people go back, and exchange reinforcements to enter the secret realm, however, it takes time for the reinforcements outside the White Emperor City to be summoned, that is, there will be a vacuum period, and the time to open the door can last for half an hour. ”

"The other way is to wait until all the people are assembled, and after opening it at once, you can transport a large number of people over, which has the advantage of being as safe as possible, but it takes time to assemble people, and no one knows if the enemy will suddenly appear during this time. ”

Dilemma.

It is strange that many people take the trouble to make a deliberate decision on things that don't actually have a huge impact on their lives, such as buying a mobile phone, buying a computer, eating, drinking, and having fun. However, when it comes to major decisions such as school, work, choosing a partner, and getting married, they are more willing to make decisions based on mood, impulse, and experience. This may be because it is difficult to be rational, complex and information-rich or lacking, and in order to reduce the cost and avoid the dilemma, we tend to rely on experience, impulse, and intuition or even more convenient "lots" to make decisions. But the fact that it is difficult to be rational does not mean that we are destined to make the wrong decision every time, although many people do not know about decision-making, they have a good life, why? This is because in many cases, multiple options can be close to the optimal outcome, people only need satisfactory options are enough, but one thing to note is that what is satisfactory is not necessarily the best. Before you can learn more about how to make good decisions, you need to understand who you are, and there are a series of tests on common types of decisions, such as whether your decision-making style is intuitive or rational, whether you are willing to take risks or not willing to take risks, whether you are a perfectionist or a Mr. Almost, etc. Know your main personality tendencies, know yourself and know that the other side can be invincible, and if you want to know, you can also find relevant test questions on the Internet, so I won't repeat it here. Secondly, it is necessary to understand the tendencies and mistakes that most people have in decision-making, such as: overconfidence, inertia, timely satisfaction bias, anchoring effect, understanding addiction, familiarity bias, etc., and the analysis of each principle is simple and vivid in the book.

Many people think that this kind of problem is like a gamble, and it is possible to bet on either side of the bet. When a relationship reaches a turning point, it is a kind of courage to face the reality and leave decisively, but insisting on staying also shows tenacity. It is courage to dare to speak out in the face of injustice in the workplace, but leniency and tolerance are also strength. It is a kind of love to hope that children will have a rich and happy childhood, but restrictions are also a kind of education. There is no right or wrong thing about reason.

The pros and cons of things cannot be easily discerned, and the so-called dilemma must have its own advantages and disadvantages to make it difficult for people to choose. So is there no way to solve the dilemma, and you can only rely on luck to make a decision? No, if you can see the essence of the problem, then this choice is easy to make.

As the old saying goes, "It is better to raise the soup to stop the boiling, than to draw the salary from the bottom of the kettle." "The problem itself is only a symptom, and even if a single choice is made reluctantly, similar problems will soon arise. And the various problems that arise in you will have something in common. The crux of the matter is why you pay special attention to this kind of problem. As for the problem itself, the two different choices often point to the same psychological problem. Finding this inner problem is the true figure of the dilemma.

When making decisions, people follow the principle of "seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages". Psychologically, the causes of conflict can be divided into double conflict (both things are attractive), conflict avoidance (there are both advantages and disadvantages of a certain thing), and multiple avoidance (many things are composed of advantages and disadvantages). So when choosing, let yourself rate these interests ~ You can divide them into different levels according to your own benefits and damages, and then rate them in the time dimension of the impact of this benefit and damage on you (of course, this kind of rating scoring does not need to write 123 on paper and then calculate, it is just based on intuitive feelings to evaluate), and then you probably know which one is more important to you.

Everyone's life is the result of countless choices, some choices are small, such as what to eat, what kind of clothes to wear, and even where to buy things, etc., these choices our brain has already made automatic arrangements for you, and even we ourselves do not feel that this is a choice, but a natural result. Some decisions will not be as easy as mentioned above, and some decisions will even become very difficult, so we will choose to use the word "choice" to describe this matter. In everyone's life, there will always be a variety of crossroads, some intersections are easier to walk, you may choose which side to go after a little thought, but some intersections are not so easy, you may think for a long time and may not necessarily have the answer. These key crossroads almost determine the direction of your life, at this time, you need to make difficult decisions, when you make these choices, often the stakes are high, when you are young, you do not have the ability to choose, generally your parents help you make the choice, right or wrong is not really important, these choices shape you. But when you grow up, you have the initiative, and your parents are no longer responsible for your life, and the choice becomes very difficult. For example, when you go through the college stage of your life and go to the workplace, you are already fully responsible for yourself. At this time, many of your decisions slowly shape you, and the following are your key decisions, such as what kind of company to work for, such as what kind of people you are with, such as whether you choose to continue your studies or come out to work, such as whether you choose to respect your inner feelings, or choose to obey your parents' arrangements. After you have worked for a few more years, you have encountered other major choices, such as whether you start a business or continue to work, such as whether you send your children to study abroad or study in China, such as whether you want to go back to your hometown city to develop, or continue to be abused in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. Everyone will encounter the above key decisions in their lives, some people will be earlier, some people will be later, but no matter what, sooner or later you have to learn to grow up slowly, take the consequences of your own decisions, and then these decisions slowly shape you to become the person you want to be. Although it is difficult to make a decision, especially to make the kind of "choice" that is very important, there are still a lot of suggestions to give to you, Mr. Ju is not an expert, nor is he a master of chicken soup for the soul, he is a relatively experienced person in the workplace and business, and has experienced a lot of ups and downs in life. 1. Think clearly about what you really wantAlthough many people may not admit it, everyone does come to this world with some purpose. It's not fatalism, it's not prophetic prophecy, but you can judge from the difference of each baby, for example, if it's exactly according to the biological sense of the baby, they should actually have no difference except for their appearance, but if you take a deeper look you will find that each child is born with certain attributes, for example, some children are born with a special interest in music, and some children have a very different perception of color. This is very similar to the game that Mr. Ju made many years ago, before everyone came to the novice village, they set the attributes, some characters have strong attack power, some characters are "mages", and some characters are "meat shields", these attributes greatly strengthen or limit your specific abilities, so that you can show different results on the road of life in the future. The above paragraph may seem particularly incredible, but in fact, if you ask yourself, you can also find out about it. For example, when you encounter some problems, you will naturally and unnaturally have the answer in your heart, but when you are not so sure, you need to find someone to help you confirm, sometimes what you want to do in your heart, in fact, you have a sense in your heart, but sometimes it has not entered your thinking space. At this time, you just follow your heart's decision, and you will not go wrong. Today's education often makes people forget their original intentions and their inner feelings. There is a famous saying called "follow your heart", which is actually very important, but when we are often forced into a corner by life, we forget about it and always do things that go against our inner feelings, such as doing things that you don't like so much in order to make money for yourself in some particularly suitable positions, for the expectations of your parents, such as doing things that you don't like so much, such as doing things that you don't think are right in order to meet the requirements of your boss. These are all counter-examples, not really thinking through what you want. When you're faced with that kind of decision that is particularly difficult to decide, you can take a break and take a hard look at your own inner voice, which must have a voice that can tell you exactly what you should do. Maybe sometimes the voice is so faint that you can't even feel it, but be sure to spend time with yourself and really find out what you want in your heart.

If it's still hard to choose, choose the one that's more difficult.

When long-term interests conflict with short-term interests, many people will rationally know to choose long-term interests, after all, delayed gratification is the key, do not be attracted by the small interests in front of you. But when you really encounter key issues, you often don't know what are the long-term benefits, and whether there are benefits in the long run, it is not so easy to define. Many people will say, live in the present, first solve the interests of the moment. So they gave up long-term interests, and in the name of it, they were also long-term interests. Delayed gratification is a very popular word recently, the meaning of this word, in fact, the theme of the sentence is a meaning, don't be tempted by the small interests in front of you, focus on long-term interests, and know how to delay gratification rather than immediate gratification. People who do big things are often able to quickly distinguish between long-term and short-term, they know very well which things or interests must be given up at the moment, in order to achieve long-term interests, in business, in other fields as well, many times, you have to force yourself to choose those things that are important for your life, not things that are important for the moment.

It doesn't matter what choice is made – what matters is that the choice is made.

It's as if Wang Jian is also playing drums at this time, and the choice is easy to make, but what is the cost?

For example, a certain TV series says that this is the case, at all costs, well, you are the price.

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