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At that time, great-grandfather was fiercely opposed. He also said that you are clumsy and harm yourself, if you harm people's lives because of this, you can smash our Li family's signboard and create evil for others. ”

Tian Tian stuck out her tongue, and the words were indeed heavier.

"Grandpa has a good temperament, and when he was young, he was a little ...... Ahem, my mouth is stupid, and my heart is very anxious, but I don't know how to tell my great-grandfather. Besides, great-grandfather had made up his mind that he would not hand over his medical skills to his grandfather. Grandpa didn't want to give up this path, he also wanted to be able to heal and save people like great-grandfather, and help many people in need—"

Although Tian Tian didn't speak, she couldn't help but sigh in her heart, this grandfather with a big tongue is really a good person.

"Great-grandfather refused to teach him, so grandpa learned it himself. Fortunately, there are many medical books in the house, as well as the notes written by my great-grandfather, the diary of treatment and his experience. ”

From that day on, my grandfather kept reading the book every day, read medical books by heart, and summarized the experience of his predecessors, and recorded his income in a thick yellow book. This habit has been with him for dozens of years, and he did not fall until the last moment of his life-"

"Whenever I had spare time, my grandfather would carry the medicine house on his back and go up the mountain to look for medicine. In the process of collecting herbs, he memorized the growth habits of these herbs and understood the environment in which they grow. Each of them was delicately recorded and written, and some were accompanied by drawings, and with his tireless intellectual curiosity and meticulous attitude, he discovered many things that others had not discovered. ”

Tian Tian held her head in her hands, and the stone in her hand quietly put down at some point, listening to Li Banxia's narration, her eyes were fascinated. If a person is really completely immersed in knowledge, life should be very interesting, right?

People who don't know this industry may find these things boring and boring to do. I also think that this kind of life is too boring. But only those who really understand this line of work and love this line of work can know the joy in it.

Grandpa persevered and studied day by day, and no one could erase his progress and transformation, and his rich medical knowledge and accurate grasp of herbal medicine injected him with a lot of self-confidence. When facing his great-grandfather, he lost the cowardice and nervousness of his childhood. In the face of his doubts, he was not impatient, not arrogant or discouraged, and even better than other older and younger brothers and masters! ”

It's not just Li Banxia. Even Tian Tian was excited when she heard this.

yes, what could be more exciting than this change? One has been questioned by others since childhood. A stupid child in the eyes of others can still accomplish his dreams with his own efforts and persistence, and make others look up to him.

Tian Tian couldn't help but think of herself, and lowered her head in frustration.

She couldn't go to school, not because she was stupid, or because anything else. Just because she's a girl.

However, Li Banxia's purpose in telling this story is not this.

"Anyone, through their own efforts, has the opportunity to get what they want. It's not about whether someone else teaches you, or whether others oppose or not, or even what others think of you, but how much you want to do what you want to do. ”

"The reason why Grandpa worked so hard to learn medicine. It wasn't because great-grandfather's words hurt him, he wanted to prove it to him. It's not to compare those who think he's stupid and make them look good. It's because. This is what he wants to do. It was simply that he wanted to do it, and when he threw himself into this business and forgot to sleep and eat for it, all he thought of was his dream of curing the sick and saving people, not from the neglect and coldness between his father and his brothers-"

"If you don't let me go to the academy, it's hopeless. Am I not going to learn? No, I can learn it on my own. Don't think well of me. Is it true that I think I'm a girl and that it's useless to read a book? This is simply a big mistake. Although it would not be good in the village if we didn't study, we could still live like this, but reading would make a big difference in our lives—"

This statement was completely different from what she had heard before, and Tian Tian couldn't help but raise her head, breathe lightly, and stare into her eyes. And when she said this, she had a serious look on her face.

"If you can read and hyphenate words, others will not be able to deceive you by writing a few words casually. will settle accounts and will come to a simple addition and subtraction, and buying things in the shop will not be regarded as a big wronged person by others. I can read and read, and I can learn many things on my own even if I don't know how to do it. If you learn something, it will always be useful, and your livelihood will be one more or two. ”

"The most important thing is that we learn not just knowledge, but an attitude towards life. In the process, we will not only understand more truths, but also develop more faith. ”

These are all great truths on paper, and in modern times, almost everyone can't listen to them. Li Banxia also knew this, but this seemingly simple truth was almost unimaginable to them.

"Take 10,000 steps back, learn a little something, you will have a baby in the future, and you won't even be able to write the baby's name. It's nice to name the baby, don't be a second dog, three stunned or something, how sad should the child's heart be? Other children will laugh at him when they hear it, which will make the baby have a shadow in his heart since he was a child, which is very detrimental to the child's development and growth. ”

"Besides, if your baby has a very simple question for you. Mother, mother, let me ask you, a puppy traveled in the desert and died, how did it die? If you can't answer, isn't that very shameless? ”

Li Banxia didn't want to talk to Tian Tian about the truth that girls can read poetry and books and make contributions like boys, and many things are still in moderation. If you talk too much, the child will be even more unable to accept it.

Tian Tian burst out laughing, and the more she thought about it, the more she felt that Li Banxia's last few words were interesting. Especially the action of squeezing her eyebrows when she speaks, which is weird and funny.

As soon as she laughed, Tian Tian realized that she had just finished working, and immediately tensed her face unhappily. Li Banxia will not be deceived by her appearance, seeing that she is in a better mood, she will ask many words unceremoniously.

"Alright, according to what I just said, now it's time for you to talk about your business." Li Banxia dragged Tian Tian down, regardless of her struggle, and also pressed her to the ground and sat in a row with him.

Talking like this, I feel a lot.

Tian Tian looked away, "Say what?" ”

"Just tell me why you want to go to school so much. I've thought of possible reasons, but I'd like to hear what you mean. Li Banxia asked this because she had a reason. If it's for literacy and hyphenation, you don't have to go to school. With her to teach her, this little thing is definitely not a problem.

Speaking of literacy and hyphenation, it still makes Li Banxia very happy. Because although there is a difference of hundreds of years between it and modern times, many of the characters are not written much differently. In addition, she also has a bit of a traditional background, even if there is a little difference, guessing is mostly nine out of ten. I really don't recognize it, and the situation is still in the minority.

She didn't have time during the day, but she didn't have anything to do at night. When you take advantage of the cool weather, you can teach her to know a lot of words. If she wants to learn the knowledge in the textbook like other children, then she can ask her brother to lend her the book to read.

When Li Banxia was studying before, the ancient literature was still good. There is no big problem in translating a few words and words in the text. What children learn at a certain age, I don't think about it deeply!

If Tiantian wants to go to the school, not only to read and hyphenation, but also to be able to feel the atmosphere of the school and teach a few more friends like other friends, then she can't do anything.

Tonight, Li Banxia wanted to jump out several times to help persuade Ma to let Tiantian go to school with her eldest brother, but in the end she held back.

Not to mention how stubborn the mother's personality is, it is difficult to listen to what others say. Just because of the recent events at home, Li Banxia really didn't dare to let Tiantian go to school rashly.

Xia Shanxiang's pregnancy, Liu Ginkgo's recent changes, and Ma's busy day, all show that the family is in great need of manpower.

She doesn't need Tiantian to do much, and she doesn't need her to be busy, she just doesn't feel at ease to hand over these things to Liu Yinxing.

She felt uncomfortable enough, when Tiantian was there, there was still someone with her to bear it, and she could talk to her, so that her mind could relax, and don't think about those unbearable things every day.

Yesterday's big quarrel made her last chance to speak for Tian Tian gone. If Tiantian really wants to go, she can only wait until Ma is in a better mood another day.

She wanted to say that Tiantian's money for going to school was out of their house, and the key was not money. The mother gave them this room money to hide from her younger siblings, if they knew that they still had money to study for their children, it would only be a bigger storm!

Tian Tian shook her head, "Don't go~~"

"What?"

"I don't want to go to the academy anymore?" Tian Tian seemed to have figured out something. Grandma and Auntie's words were still echoing in their ears, and although they felt uncomfortable, they were not without reason.

If she goes to the school, it will make so many people unhappy and unsupportive, so what's the point of her going?

Besides, as she said, if she doesn't go to school, it's not that she can't learn. Tian Tian floated her eyes to Li Banxia, and her eyes rolled, as if she was thinking carefully.

"Not going?"

"Hmmm! If you don't go, it's okay to think about it, and maybe you can learn more at home. Intuitively, she could learn more from her.

Li Banxia smirked, this kid, just figured it out like this? It's too fast, but she's prepared a lot of words, and she hasn't said anything yet.

"But how did that puppy die while traveling in the desert?"

“……”