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Chapter 185: Love and Marriage

The divorce made Li Juan feel painful and tired! She was lost too! But the appearance of Wang Jujun reversed the law of her life and gave her new hope, which not only allowed her to quickly get rid of the pain and tiredness caused by divorce, but also gave her a new understanding of life and love.

Although she is already a person who has been married and has children, Li Juan has never really fallen in love, and marrying Mu Tou is only a combination of flattering parents and matchmakers, such a marriage itself does not have much affection at all, and it is not stable at all. Not to mention that not long after getting married, Mu went out to work and rarely came back, and he didn't even have basic communication.

Li Juan is in charge of the family alone, and occasionally has to bear a major illness or disaster, and even when she gave birth to a child, the wood did not return to her, let alone take care of it.

When she is injured, when she is confused, when she needs someone to take care of her, when she needs someone to take care of her, when she wants someone around her to share her sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, and salty, all that appears in front of her is Wang Jujun, but the wood as her own man does not know where it is!

Who can understand the pain and tiredness of a woman who has to take care of her children, work, and everything in the house? The days are hard, and the bitter water is difficult. If it weren't for Wang Jujun and his family who had been helping him, Li Juan really didn't know what he would become!

Over time. has had a lot of contact, from her usual interactions with Wang Jujun, Li Juan knew that Wang Jujun was interesting to her, especially when she was sick, Wang Jujun took care of her carefully, and she felt that Wang Jujun was fascinated by her. Wang Jujun secretly looked at her and touched her, and she knew everything she had done. Even Wang Jujun hid outside her dormitory window at night, peeking at her to do such a thing, she also knew, and even sometimes she didn't want to do such a thing, but when she heard that Wang Jujun hid outside her window again, she deliberately did that kind of thing to show him, she didn't know why she did that, but she knew that Wang Jujun wanted to see it. She's going to show her.

Sometimes, she herself suspects that if she hadn't been married, she would have treated Wang Jujun as a big boy and hid all her feelings about him in the depths of her heart, maybe the first person to betray her marriage would be her - Li Juan.

Li Juan is a real person, she doesn't pay attention to fictional or romantic things. It's not that he doesn't like it, it's that she thinks it's left alone. She also knows how to distinguish between fiction and reality. Know how to think about things from the other person's point of view, and be good at communicating with the other party. can take into account the other person's feelings when doing things, this is the teacher's evaluation of her when she was in school; is good at understanding others, so I don't feel tired and stressed at all when I am with her, this is her evaluation of her after joining the work; She is self-motivated and competitive, but she does not deliberately pursue promotions or other honors, which is the evaluation of her by the leadership; She also has a good inner quality, and others are often surprised by his inadvertent cultivation.

Judging by Li Juan herself. There are many advantages, when she was in school and after work, she naturally had no shortage of suitors around her, but she has always been strict with herself and has never been involved in the emotions between men and women. Her original intention was to put all of her own. All dedicated to her future man, including love.

Marriage is like a "city" wall, people outside the "city" want to enter the "city", and people in the "city" want to leave the "city". When Li Juan was still outside the "city", she never thought that the passers-by who entered the "city" would come so early, but once they came, they were safe, Li Juan didn't think too much, so she nodded and agreed, and became a person in the "city".

Many people who enter the marriage hall say that marriage is the grave of love, and some people say that marriage is the days when two people live together with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea, and some people say that marriage is like a small padded jacket in winter, which is inconvenient to wear on the body, but it is very warm.

Li Juan has always thought that marriage is the foundation of love, and it is not too late to cultivate love with her man after marriage, but she didn't expect that her marriage is indeed the end of love, and there is not even a starting point. She experienced the bitter and tiring days of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea brought by marriage, but she didn't know what the warmth of marriage was.

With the betrayal of wood, a loveless marriage is irretrievably shattered, reflecting on her past, Li Juan finally understands how naïve and ridiculous her original idea was. Wang Jujun's figure kept appearing in her mind, and at the same time made her understand what kind of emotions she had for Wang Jujun, why Wang Jujun thought, and she was willing to satisfy him, even unconditionally!

Faced with marriage, Li Juan had to admit that she was a failure! She chose marriage without thinking too much about it at the beginning, because she believes that marriage is the ultimate destination of people and the inevitable result. But she ignored one problem, that is, love and marriage are two different things!

When a person gets married, there are a lot to consider, to consider his family background, work, character, and appearance. Because, love is romantic, but marriage is very realistic. After getting married, you have to face too many things, you have to spend money, you have to have children, you have to feed your children, and you have to go through the ups and downs of life.

There are many things in life that are like this, and only when you fail will you know that the original idea is childish and ridiculous. If it weren't for a broken marriage like Mu Tou, Li Juan would not have changed her mind about marriage and love. But after experiencing it, she remembered how wise the story about marriage and love the teacher told when she was in school.

That story, Li Juan still remembers it vividly. It's not that she has a good memory, but that she stood in the line of the opposing side to refute his teacher in a debate class about love and marriage when she was about to graduate from school, and the end was that her teacher lost. The group of students was happy because it was the only time they had beaten their teacher in a debate tournament since they went to school. But their teachers were not convinced. Before leaving, he left a sentence: "Only when you experience it will you know what true happiness is!" ”

In that class, the teacher told the story like this: One day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates: What is love? The teacher told him to go to the wheat field outside the classroom and pick the largest, most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field, and he could only pick it once and walk forward. There is no turning back. So he did as the teacher told him, and he walked out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it. He said: "Because I can only pick it once and can't turn back, even if I see the largest and most golden ears of wheat during this period, because I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I didn't pick anything, and when I went to the front, I found that it was not as good as the front, and the largest and most golden ear of wheat had already been missed by me, so I didn't pick anything." The teacher said, "This is love."

On another day, Plato asked the teacher: What is marriage? The teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree in the woods, and he could only cut it once. And the same can only go forward, not turn back, Plato did as his teacher said. This time he came back with an ordinary tree that was not very luxuriant, nor too bad. The teacher asked him how he could bring this ordinary tree back. "With the experience of the last time," he said. When I walked most of the way, I was empty-handed, and when I saw this tree, I didn't think it was too bad, so I cut it back, so that I wouldn't miss it and bring nothing back. The teacher said, "This is marriage."

Li Juan's teacher made a comment at the time, she said: Life is like walking through wheat fields and woods. Only go once, and you can't look back. Find your own best ears of wheat and trees. You have to have a lot of courage and a lot of hard work.

The teacher also said to Li Juan alone: Love is a feeling, when you experience it, you will understand, maybe just appreciate it from afar, you will have a crazy heartbeat, maybe it is an ordinary sweet hand-holding together, shopping, your heart will be filled by someone. I miss it when I can't see it. Love itself is very simple, it can be love at first sight, or it can be morning and twilight, in comparison, marriage is much more complicated, and it is not as simple as we love each other so we get married. Some people get married because of love, some people get married because they need to have someone to accompany them, and there happens to be such a person who is not annoying, which is very common, not everyone can meet a person who loves each other and can live together at the right time, but everyone needs marriage, not only for the sake of responsibility, but also for the sake of a life partner, a sense of social identity. Maybe you can't realize this at your age, but this is very real, two people, is a small community of interests, take care of each other in life, at the same time, marriage involves a lot of practical problems, both sides of the family, house, work, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, so there is a saying that love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, because life is entangled together, about how to face love, how to manage love, manage marriage, there are a lot of summaries, communication, encouragement, Cherish blah blah blah blah. But everyone still has to experience and learn in their own lives, it is impossible to get a happy marriage according to a book and one by one, there is a simplest formula, be a good person, and then, find a good person, as for all the troubles, there is no secret, when it comes to face it, life will teach you!

After experiencing this divorce incident, and recalling the teacher's comments, Li Juan was quite touched, and then thought of everything between her and Wang Jujun, and the pain caused by the divorce was much lighter. In the face, how ordinary these two words are, and how philosophical they are! When she got married, she never thought about what the future would be, but now she is a woman with a proud career, and at the same time, divorce also gave herself freedom, gave her belated adolescence, and gave herself healthy emotions, so that she could devote herself to her feelings for Wang Jujun. With the existence of Wang Jujun, she believes that one day she can face this unhappy marriage with Mu with a smile. (To be continued......)