Chapter 183: Misunderstandings of Experience
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Chapter 183: Misunderstandings of Experience
As the saying goes, don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts calling the door.
As a person who has come over, Li Juan will naturally judge the relationship between a pair of men and women from the behavior of a pair of men and women in interpersonal communication, in addition to personal experience. She has used this method many times, and each time she can easily get an answer. This is also her experience in officialdom for many years.
Success is the other side, experience is the captain. People learn from experience, from how to take steps and how to choose the path of life, experience will play a decisive role. Therefore, it is more important (or at least equally important) to get in touch with the world, to experience more, and to accumulate more experience than reading.
The accumulation of experience is invaluable, it can make it easy for you to get out of trouble, reduce the limited time and so on. Especially for those who have stepped into the officialdom, experience is indispensable, and if you don't pay attention to it, you may step into a situation from which you will never recover.
There are many kinds of experiences, the experiences of others and their own. Drawing useful lessons from failure and success is to teach you how to deal with what comes your way! Experience is not fixed! It is not a matter of where, when, and what situation can be judged by previous experience, but it depends on the actual situation and needs to be flexible. For example, if you take the instructions of the traffic lights when crossing the street in the city to decide whether to take the foot to pass, and use it on the sheep intestine road in the country, this is a clear mistake! If you don't know how to be flexible and stubbornly follow your experience at this time, you will find that you can cross the road with just a gentle step, but you can't get through it at all, because you can't find the traffic light at all.
And the problem that Li Juan is facing now is the problem caused by experience. From the perspective of a bystander, the current appearance of her and Wang Jujun, combined with her experience, there is no doubt that there is a greasy relationship between her and Wang Jujun, and it is by no means a simple relationship between sisters, brothers, relatives and friends, and neighbors. This is why Li Juan blushed after seeing the water stain on her clothes.
If she just hugged Wang Jujun, Li Juan would not blush, and she really didn't feel shy before pushing Wang Jujun away. If the water stain left by Wang Jujun hadn't appeared on the top of the towering mountain that belonged to her symbol of womanhood, she wouldn't have been shy like this, and what if......
No matter how many ifs, they are just an assumption, and in the end, they can't change the facts that have happened, and Li Juan inevitably steps into the misunderstanding of experience.
A woman in love is cute! This is the brick family after many years of research and demonstration, and it is also a well-known conclusion in the world. But how many people know that women in unrequited love are more stupid?
If it weren't for the abandonment of wood, Li Juan would have been dragged down by things such as maintaining the family and taking care of the children, and would not have sorted out her heart at all, the only creed in her life is to be a good wife with a husband and children, although that creed is not very strong, but she will use all her energy to protect it.
It is also the creed that Li Juan guards with all her energy, with the abandonment of wood and the replacement of divorce papers, she faced up to her inner world, so as to find Wang Jujun's figure in her inner world, and then after recalling the past, Wang Jujun's goodness was magnified thousands of times until it occupied her entire heart. (To be continued......)