Chapter 23 Ask Three Views Before Falling in Love

Ye Shan and her date every weekend, but the relationship has never gone further, Li Xiaoli is not in a hurry, Ye Shan is not in a hurry, the two are more like friends than a couple, that is, there is no holding hands, no kissing, and there is not even a confession confirming the relationship. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info

Li Xiaoli was lying on the quilt and thought, what the hell is this? Even a virgin is not like this, do you want to ask your life mentor Wang Zhenyu?

…… Do you have the ocean in your head? Xiaoxiaoli asked.

…… But this was the agreement between Wang Zhenyu and me at that time.

…… Use A's boyfriend's question to ask B's boyfriend, are you stupid?

…… Is he waiting for me to take the initiative?

Li Xiaoli decided to meet again and ask Ye Shan a few meanings, if she thinks it is suitable to be friends, then it is better to be friends.

When the weekend came, Ye Shan asked Li Xiaoli where she wanted to play, and Li Xiaoli said let's find a café to talk to. Hayama hesitated for a moment on the phone and said okay.

After buying coffee, Li Xiaoli found a quiet corner, and the two sat down.

Li Xiaoli was like an owl possessed again, staring at Ye Shan motionless with dark eyes, staring at Ye Shan thinking that his trouser chain was not pulled, or that there was ink on his face. Under the gaze of the hunter, the prey finally became a little confused. Ye Shan opened his mouth first: "That, what do you want to talk about?" ”

"About you and me. Hayama, let's talk openly and honestly. How do you define this relationship? ”

Ye Shan smiled embarrassedly and said, "Counting it, we have been dating for half a year. I've been thinking about how to speak, but I didn't expect you to ask first. ”

"What's so hard to talk about? Do you have something you can't heal? Li Xiaoli couldn't help but scare people.

"In my opinion, a relationship with the goal of marriage is not a simple sweet date, there are many points that need to be agreed upon in order to continue - if I suddenly open my mouth to discuss these with you, it may scare you away, after all, this is how my first two relationships ended. So I've been looking for the right opportunity, and it looks like it's today. ”

Li Xiaoli was curious, the young university lecturer in front of her was logical, rigorous in thinking, very organized, and a very rational person, somewhat similar to her, but more ruthless and focused than her. She wanted to hear what Hayama would say.

In the case of Li Xiaoli's repeated assurances that he would never turn his face or get angry, Ye Shan instantly became so calm that he couldn't get close to him like analyzing an academic paper, he put his upper arms on the coffee table to form a triangle, put his hands together in front of his mouth, looked at Li Xiaoli and said: "In the big picture, there are actually three dimensions: money concept, sex concept, and family concept. I can say mine first, and then you can say yours. That way we can fully understand each other's limits. ”

Li Xiaoli became interested and said, "Okay, I like to discuss issues rationally like this."

"My view of money: reasonable spending is the first priority, but I can't pay for vanity," Hayama said. Who will take care of the money, I think to open a joint account and deposit half of each of their monthly salaries. Larger expenditures are negotiated between the two parties. He paused, his eyes asking for Li Xiaoli's opinion. Li Xiaoli said this is very good, very fair and reasonable, you continue.

"Now talk about my sexual concept. Frankly, I want my wife to be a virgin^, and it doesn't matter if not, but I will have a pimple in my heart - Xiaoli, are you? ”

Li Xiaoli wanted to turn her face, but when she thought that she had something to say first, she squeezed a fake smile: "Then are you still a virgin?" ”

"I'm not a virgin. This society has different requirements for men and women, and when it comes to the virgin complex, every man has it. I just wish I had the good fortune of this, but it's not a requirement. ”

"Well, I understand. You continue. Li Xiaoli felt that Ye Shan was very frank and sincere, but it was somewhat hurtful.