('Since Wu Yuan's mother Xiu said that their maternal grandfather Yu was among their children, he never fired at them once except once.) www.biquge.info The only time he was angry was when their mother's second sister was ignorant when she was young, and I don't know why she suddenly had a whim, and once she suddenly remembered the sweetness of the budding grain poles still carried in his own field, and when he thought of that sweet taste, he was so provoked by his own imagination that he wanted to drool. He picked a corn bud stalk in his house, but instead of trying the sweetness he had imagined, he tried it to the point where it didn't even taste like tap water. Wu Yuan's maternal grandfather knew about this matter, and he didn't have a word of superfluity, he took the bud grain pole that had been picked off by their second aunt, and gave her a meal directly. It was also the only time their mother's memory showed that their maternal grandfather had taken a big scold on them. In their mother's memory, with a good father who was always gentle and considerate, this memory extends to the story that Xiu heard from his father. When Yu was young, he already had the opportunity to work in a big factory, but he didn't go long before he came back. He worries that he has an old and blind mother in his own family. When he got outside, he saw a scene he had never imagined before, the old people whose children were no longer at home fell in their own vegetable patches while picking vegetables, and then passed away like this. At that moment, Jade, who had seen this scene with his own eyes, thought thoroughly about his own future life responsibilities and his own life mission, and finally he completely gave up the career that he was about to be able to develop outside, and returned directly to his mother, who was still alive but had already left class in both eyes. He can completely give up everything in his life force, and he no longer needs to envy what kind of development he can have in his life, how much wealth he can have in the future, and how much retirement salary he can have when he retires. At that moment, his soul only wanted it to be by his own mother's side, and his main mission, and the most important mission among others, was to provide for his own mother, and for this purpose he was willing to give up everything that belonged to him for life, including all the material things in his life, all the wealth that he could have in the future, and all the rights and positions that he should have in victory. From the moment he considered his mother at home and widowed, he felt that all the things of power and fame were not worth mentioning, and compared to the moment he missed his own mother, he felt that everything but this love had become illusory. What he endured after his father's death and as the eldest son in the family had matured his new type, and he knew perfectly well what was most needed in his own life force. At the moment when he wanted to hear about the most important mission of his life, he resolutely submitted his resignation to the factory where he worked. At that moment he had decided that he was willing to give everything that belonged to his own life for all the decisions he had made, and even if he died, he willingly supported him to the end, until he was able to support his own mother until the last moment. He only wants to be a filial son in front of his mother, and everything else doesn't matter.

At the moment when Jade had already thought of his ultimate mission in life, he made all his decisions with tears of gratitude in his eyes. Then he went almost lightly to the side of his mother, who gave birth to him, and henceforth willingly made a dutiful son of his mother, the Western Xia, and he was ready for all the hardships that he needed to mature in the rest of his life. It wasn't until he was in his thirties that he got married and had his first child, Wu Yuan and the mother of the three brothers. The picky eating habit he developed since he was a child has always made his body thin and thin, and then her second sister, her third brother, the only brother under his mother, and her fourth sister, fifth sister, and the youngest sixth sister also came to this world one by one. After their sixth sister was born, the family was already destitute, and their whole family was no longer able to raise their youngest sister.

Xiu hadn't finished the third grade in school, and her mother, Chung, had fallen completely ill on the hospital bed, and she hadn't finished her school that year. Years later, he still remembered that they were taking the lesson of "Zhaozhou Bridge", and their teacher asked them to memorize the entire text. Until he has been out of school for decades, Xiu was still able to vaguely recite this article. But it was the moment she remembered that she left school, and he returned to his home to take care of their mother and the younger siblings below him in place of her father, Jade. She had learned to needlework and sew clothes for her younger siblings, and she had taken on the position of a loving mother at home, and everything she had done at home had made her fully mature. It is precisely because of this that all the beauties of the family call her their eldest sister in line with their words and deeds. For this call of the eldest sister, they have been calling for many years, they are sincere and have regarded Xiu as the eldest sister they worship in their hearts, everything Xiu has experienced is enough to admire every beauty under him, and everything he has done in the lock at home is enough to make it a veritable big sister, plus he is the oldest of all his brothers, and it is a matter of course for all the younger siblings below her to call her big sister, In the eyes of all her younger siblings, age is one aspect of what they call his big sister, but even more important is what she does for her younger siblings at home. Her affectionate motherly care made them feel the warmth of home, and they never changed the name of the big sister they admired in their hearts.

Xiu's hard-working character honed since childhood also made her benefit from almost his entire life, but since she got married, the hardships of life have also made her mind confused more than once, sometimes he himself can't stand the blow of this kind of confusion in her mind, he chose to run away from home in a fit of anger, but when he walked out of the two houses she had built since she married her husband, her inner world had an unprecedented confusion, Far from diminishing the fear that made her afraid, it grew stronger and stronger in her inner world, until at last she realized that she needed great courage to accomplish every step she took out. But then he found that his inner world became more and more empty, the whole world was so wide, but so small, that he had a feeling of nowhere to go in his inner world. When she felt that her inner world was extremely nowhere to go in the family where she had been married, he would have a desperate desire to leave this home, and when she was extremely unable to endure more toil and hardship in her own years, she desperately longed for herself to be able to escape from the environment she was in now, but when his inner world really reached her strongest endurance, he finally had the courage to walk out of the family she had been living in since she got married. When she actually stepped out of the door, she felt unprecedented confusion and dazedness in her inner world, and the unprecedented fear in her inner world made every step she took increase the powerful pressure in her heart. It wasn't until that moment that he was looking forward to being able to go back, and she found that he had suffered more when he had gone out than she had suffered in this house. And he himself will always be the darling of fate, every time he goes out not far, Wu Yuan and their father can always arrive in time, either hugging her tightly and not letting her leave, or reaching out and holding his arm, and then pulling her home. Until that moment, all misfortunes have dissolved into nothingness again, and their lives have returned to happiness and tranquility. Her inner world has returned to the stable state she had before. Later, Wu Yuan's eldest brother Bin commented: As a man, he must always maintain a calm mental state like their father, and he will always admire their father's calm attitude in the relationship with their mother, and he gave her an unprecedented sense of security to be able to calm down and continue to survive. Because of this, the happy life that she has felt about to be shattered has returned to a calm and normal state of development.

In contrast, the second sister of Xiu's first mother was not so lucky, she was married not long after their eldest sister, and she had reached the age of her own marriage, and then I don't know how she met a boyfriend from a neighboring province, anyway, when Wu Yuan first came into contact with his mother's sister after his eldest brother Bin remembered, she used a basket to carry one of their cousins back together, and in Bin's memory, this cousin of theirs was only two months older than the youngest third brother in his mother's arms, Xian, Just learned to walk on the ground by himself, the previous memories were all expressed by his father when he was chatting with his mother, but Bin was only able to collect this information in the cigarette signs of his father and his mother, when Xiu's second sister got married, it was Wu Yuan and their grandfather sent it over, and the country still clearly remembered that Xiu's second sister's parents-in-law were very polite, and the dumpling wrappers they wrapped were made of glutinous rice noodles, and one of the dumplings was the size of a small bowl for eating, as long as a person can eat three at a time, it is already considered a massive. Wu Yuan's father also learned that the peasants in Sichuan Province never carried things on their backs like in their hometown, as they did in their hometown, but they were all carrying things in a brave way with a flat pole and two baskets.

Guo was also a scholar when he was young, and his brain was filled with more swords and swords of the heroes in martial arts novels and the love and hate of Wen Junzijian, but he himself was a complete farmer in real life, although everything he experienced along the way was not only the basket that carried things and the dumplings they ate as big as a small bowl when eating, the untalkative country finally maintained a lifelong interest in these two things that he had experienced in his life, Knowing that many years had passed, he still remembered these two events vividly.

Xiu and his second sister had a lot of correspondence, and she was almost worse at writing than any of her siblings, and even though Xiu was in the third grade, she still had to write every word in her homework. Her other classmates had already finished their homework, and she was still at the end of the class alone, until she reached the third grade, and in addition to her own name, he had to write down word by word according to the textbook or the teacher's assignment. It's not that Xiu is naturally clumsy, it's her natural position as the eldest daughter in the family that prompts him to demand in her inner world that she must be careful to do everything well. In everything he did in his life, he asked to invite his own power to be able to do it seriously. Later, Bin Bin concluded that his mother Xiu was completely an all-rounder in life, which was determined by the fact that she had to ask herself to take everything seriously, but the flaw was that he had to talk for a long time to adapt and learn when doing everything. In the end, although Xiu finally had a grade far ahead of her second sister in terms of education, she also read the third grade at first, but her second sister only read the second grade, but in the end there was a big difference in writing skills, his second sister was able to use the words she had learned in school to write a letter to her eldest sister who had married in her hometown, and although Xiu was able to read the letter word for word, but she did not write a reply to her second sister in person, even if she had to write a reply every time, She asked the state to write for her, or asked the third brother of the country to write a letter for her. Guo has insisted on reading martial arts novels and history and story books for more than ten years, and has also refined a good hand of calligraphy. Xiu's request was originally an affirmation of his position in the family they had formed together. Picking up a pen and stationery, he asked his wife what Xiu needed to write, and after Xiu said, he picked up the pen in his hand and often did it in one go.

In fact, in terms of writing letters, Xiu is not completely unable to write a word, but she has developed the habit of being afraid of making mistakes in her inner world, so it is still the same in words, plus she herself has not done it for a long time, and she is even more afraid that she will make unnecessary mistakes, so in the end, he is completely afraid to do it. In everyone's life, the time they have is always short, and decades have passed in the blink of an eye, and when Hugh has a chance to pick up a pen and sign her own name again, she finds that the hands that she could easily write his own name before do not know when he no longer listens to him, it always contradicts what needs to be expressed in her inner world, and it took a long time for her to sketch the strokes in front of her as he imagined, By the time she had completed the series of movements in his hand that had made her feel difficult both in his own hands and in her inner world, even in the middle of winter she found that she no longer felt cold, and the uncomfortable feeling prompted her to try her forehead with her already darkened hands, and she was able to touch the wet feeling with her own hands, and then she looked at it only to find that she didn't know when she had left a sweat. It was only at this time that she remembered that those old times were not transformed in an instant, in the years that belonged to them, they had actually walked for a long time, and time had actually passed for a long time. The memories she had in her brain had to remind her of everything she had walked in the past. Since the moment she was born, her mother, who was once so beautiful in her eyes, is no longer alive, and his father's young and handsome face has already been wrinkled in the invisible years, and his beard and hair have gradually turned a little gray, and his body is gradually not as tall as it was then, and the gentleman has shrunk a little, and he has become as old as she once remembered. She also used to watch all her younger brothers and sisters grow up day by day, and even the eldest son born from her womb is now nearly fourteen years old, every time she sees Bin, she always wishful thinking urges him to hurry up and get married, but a reminder is more than ten years, and in the end he is just alone, every time he cooks and washes clothes, he has to do it himself, who is already a big man in the eyes of others, In addition to the time he went to work, he didn't come out of his own study all day, he just stuck in his own book pile all day, in his opinion, what was the use of reading so many books and not even marrying a daughter-in-law, when he was at home, he was disheveled all day, his hair and beard were messy, he didn't even look like a child, the myopic glasses on his eyes had been changed again and again, sometimes he forgot to wear glasses when he went out, and the person who Liang walked in front of him didn't know who it was, It's just a blind eye.

Xiu vaguely remembers that for so many years, she has not cut off contact with any of her sisters, at the beginning it was a letter, but then the letter was gradually replaced by a telephone, and then the phone was gradually replaced by a mobile phone, even if the mobile phone he had experienced in his own hands was not to change a few, he had not seen the shadow of the letter for many years, and when he needed to contact him, he called directly, and the sisters chatted with each other for a long time, who cares if he writes or not, Those words have also been completely forgotten, even his second sister has forgotten his hometown dialect, and even forgot the Sichuan dialect where she had stayed for a few years, and turned to Xuzhoukou, Jiangsu, which has a strong heart, and she has to repeat it several times when talking to her second sister before she can really hear the conversation between each other clearly, but this can't stop their sisterly friendship and contact at all.

Xiu's second sister left Sichuan, which was a complete surprise for her. It wasn't until her second sister's husband chased him from his hometown in Sichuan to look for her second sister that she knew that her second sister had escaped from his husband's house, although her second sister had already expressed her dissatisfaction with her husband when she came back, but he didn't expect things to develop so quickly, and eventually develop to such a point, he was fully able to understand the hardships of a woman wandering outside, although he never had a chance to get out of this, Every time his heart was completely disappointed in his husband's country, when she finally mustered up the courage to get out of the family, what she finally got was a strong embrace from her husband's country, and all his pain was invisibly wiped out in that powerful embrace, but it came to her inner world that it was not that my sister could not do without his affirmation, and at that moment all her determination to establish through his inner world was softened in an instant. She felt that at that moment her inner world had regained enough confidence in her current life, and her mind had suddenly found his own place again, although his inner world had also shown indecisiveness in his current life for many years, and the longer he stayed in this family, the more he was able to find more of his own presence in this family, After years of hard work, she has gradually found more of her own presence in this family. In contrast, she feels that her life is still happy in general. It is precisely because of the existence of this sense of happy life in her inner world that she feels the hardships of her second sister's wandering in the outside world, but then she feels even more pitiful that the child left behind by her second sister has no mother, that is, Wu Yuan's cousin, the first thing she wants to do and she feels that what he wants to do most is to leave her niece behind and have a companion with her youngest son. But then his idea was rejected by her second sister's husband, he thought that even if his wife resolutely left him, he had the ability and obligation to Yang Da's child, and then he took the child to stay in Xiu's house for several days, he was afraid of his father-in-law's naturally serious face, so in the end he only stayed at his wife's eldest sister's house for a few days, and when he had completely confirmed that Xiu really did not have news of his second sister, he was disappointed to leave his wife's eldest sister Xiu's house. Since then, despite the contradictions in his inner world, he has endured the pain of his inner world until years later, when his daughter has grown up. Her memory was no longer like that of her mother, and all he knew was that his father had told him that her father was fit for his mother to divorce. Her inner world has been in extreme contradictions, and the wrong information has made her unable to understand why two people are already in love with each other, and have already planted the seed of her love as a testimony that they once loved each other, then why his mother divorced her father and then left them. It wasn't until she got in touch with her eldest cousin Bin that she learned from him that his mother had fled, and it was the first time she had ever fled.

This experience is also after her second sister's husband returned to Sichuan with his daughter in vain in order to find her second sister, several years have passed, her second sister told her by writing a letter that she has been exiled to Xuzhou, Jiangsu, and then where she has regained her own family, and she has regained a lovely daughter of his own. Later, he wrote to tell Xiu and his father Yu that she lived in a good environment, and that each family had endless land to cultivate, endless food, and their own house. In the end, she wanted to introduce her fourth sister, who had reached the age of a monk, to the place where he lived. Later, the people in the family also obtained the consent of their fourth sister, and finally Yu personally sent their fourth sister to Jiangsu, and finally two years later, their fourth sister also had his own child who was about to learn to walk, and their sisters made an appointment to come together to visit their father and their youngest fifth sister, who was still studying at home, and their common eldest sister Xiu. It wasn't until this moment that she told the story of his life in exile, and it was also Bin who got in touch with his cousin who was bent on pursuing the real world and felt the need to tell her the truth of everything he knew, because he felt that only the most real thing would not miss a person's own truest judgment, and as for what kind of judgment and decision should be made in the end, the full treatment can depend on the range of thoughts that each person can bear.

Xiu's second sister told that she started when she was already disappointed in her previous husband in the process of fleeing, and she could only describe from his own perspective which family he once had in which he was strongly provoked by her mother-in-law, and then she herself was defeated by her mother-in-law, which shows that her mother-in-law is just like him, just a woman in their family who is gradually outside, and he also needs to find his presence and status in this family, In the end, there was an extremely strong struggle between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, her mother-in-law has been married into this family for decades, and she takes care of everything in the house. He is like a president of the United States who has been in the White House for one term, and he already knows all the daily things of the United States. And Xiu's second sister is just a novelty show who has entered this family, and she doesn't know much about many things, plus she is eager to become a new member of the country that is recognized, and when a person is eager to succeed, under the different living habits of the previous education and lock the sheep city, in the case that neither of them wants to accommodate each other, it is natural for conflicts between the two parties to occur. Xiu's second sister is just a novelty who has just married in his own family life, and she is anxious to reflect her personal sense of existence, and many things lack more thoughtful consideration. His in-laws have been in the dominant position in this family for several years, and if you do not do what she wants in this family, it is tantamount to challenging his authority, and you will naturally receive strong accusations and blows from him. In fact, there is no absolute right or absolute error between two people, but they both want to find their own sense of existence in this family and want to achieve their own absolute dominance and rights in this family, and then there is a fierce struggle between the two married women in the family. It is conceivable that whenever there is such an annoying and intense struggle, unless the latecomer has the ability and strong will to hate the strong, he must have a tough means that are not afraid of death, otherwise, he, the latecomer, will be defeated in the end. The result is that Xiu's second sister does not have these three aspects on the one hand, he has no superhuman ability, what he has is just married into other people's families and does not know how to be flexible and often conflicts with other people's family habits and education that she has developed since childhood, and there is no strong will that can prompt her to move forward, let alone a strong means to achieve a strong dragon to overwhelm the head snake. In the end, he was defeated by others because of some different habits he had developed since childhood.

The woman seemed to be born with the ability to unite others and defeat all opponents who were against her, and she soon found herself vulnerable to her in-laws, and in any form she soon found that in the process of the development of the results, it was inevitable that she would fail without anyone's help, but at that moment she found that the most reliable and reliable person for herself was to sleep in the same bed with him every night and play with each other, seeking spiritual and physical comfort for herself, the husband who shared the bed with her, the only person she could ally with was her husband, and the husband who fought with her classmates became her rebel. Xiu's second sister suddenly felt that he was a person who was completely abandoned by this family, and all the self-worth she wanted to embody was also consumed at that moment, she suddenly felt unprecedented despair, so a kind of idea of escape involuntarily arose in his inner world, she no longer had the slightest nostalgia for this family, and finally she secretly decided to abandon everything, and then rushed to find his own happiness.

Xiu's second sister waited until everyone in their family went to work in the fields, and she quietly put her daughter to sleep, and in her inner world she just wanted to leave this sad place that had completely disappointed her, but he didn't dare to take away her only daughter. The future of life was very small for him, and although he had made up his mind to leave this place completely, she didn't know if she would make it out alive. Her decision remained the greatest challenge of the situation she found herself in, and she feared that she would harm her by taking her only daughter from her knees. The journey was tiring, and she was afraid that she could not withstand the hunger, cold, and toil that might be subjected to this road without knowing the direction and destination, and in the end she was still alone, with nothing of herself