If you talk about the Erniang who took off, many people think that he must be an unusual legend. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoIn terms of economic conditions, Gui's second son's economic situation is not bad, and he is almost the first to live in one of the two small bungalows that are solidified into a house with cement and steel bars. At that time, China's reform and opening up also guessed that after more than ten years of water and moon, when almost most of the people were still living in the tiled house, they already had a small bungalow with a heart, which was already considered a rich life, although the small bungalow at that time was solidified by cement mortar on the roof of the house, and the walls and walls inside had not been painted and decorated, but he was still one step closer to the times. Not only that, but Gui's son was one of the few people in the village who had a color TV before, but he never seemed to have more abundant money in terms of money. The reason why the second mother of the fly is because she once had a disgraceful life as a prostitute for a period of time, since Wu Yuan they had heard about the glorious deeds of Gui's second daughter-in-law when they were very young, of course, at the beginning there were things between his second son and daughter-in-law in their own door, and the rumors were still a few **** things that just understood people, they were all in legends, they once saw that once when the two of them were in the land, I don't know why their faces suddenly glowed with an inexplicable red light, and they all felt that as long as they were clear-eyed people, they would definitely understand that this must be the sudden arrival of their flood season in the province, and then no matter whether he was in his own home or in the deep bud valley forest, with the warm sunshine in the morning, the warm east wind, and the green sea layer after layer, in the case of a clear wind, there was such a stormy thing, this kind of wishful thinking, can hear the birds at any time, Smelling the fragrance of flowers does belong to the happy forest of a romantic affair, and a beautiful landscape that only God can build, it can be seen that it does give them a lot of passion, and afterwards the two of them have a tacit understanding between each other and tacitly work in the land, but they can't hide the red ears and the residual warmth of passion that has been shown on their faces and necks. Their faces, which were as red as when they wanted to get drunk, did not have the national wine, as if they recorded their good things in a beautiful scenery at that moment. This is probably the first legend of Fei Erniang in his unusual life, and then there are legends, she has an unknown relationship with the people in the neighboring village, according to legend, this person is still the son-in-law of a family surnamed Wu in a village, and everyone gives him a nickname called "braggart cannon", to some extent, he is also a righteous gentleman, in addition to the legend of Gui's second daughter-in-law and he once had some unclear and incomprehensible relationship, It is also rumored that he had some improper relationships with several women, and later he openly married a little wife outside, and after giving birth to a little son, he actually brought the little son he gave birth to outside back to the family for many years to raise her eldest wife at home, and later his little son also grew up under the care of his eldest wife, so it can be seen that this daughter-in-law of your money is not clear to anyone except herself in this relationship passed down by others. Although their relationship has always been good on the surface, but after the unclear relationship between them began to break through in the crowd, their relationship is no longer as intimate as before, in addition to the personal experience of the parties involved, people come out and see the same as in the legend, in that kind of close relationship, whether this kind of thing happens or not, in the hearts of most people, there is no one certainty, Of course, if something like that really happened to them, it was not impossible for it to happen under such an intimate interaction between the two people. That is, during that period of time or so, I didn't see how Gui's second son went out to work, and their family didn't have any regular income. At that time, even black and white TVs were already considered treasures of rural people, and he had color TVs invisibly in his house, VCDs and other precious goods, after having TV series and VCD, their family, sometimes even other people in the village would crowd into his unpainted bungalow to watch the introduction, and after watching the movie, he went to rent the TV series of the long department to watch, and then he looked at his face and watched the TV series. The two of them and the two members of Gui's fifth son's family were watching a movie, and all the children were kicked out of their rooms, and then several of their adult men and women hid in the room to watch ****** movies with passion, first watching the third-level ones, and then they felt that the third-level ones were not enjoyable, so they went to rent the second-level VCD to watch, and then they watched the **** directly. It was probably at that time that Fei's Erniang really realized that when people sold their bodies in exchange for men's pleasure, they actually made a lot more money than she usually made at any time, and later when people heard about him again, it was rumored that she had gone to Erku's hotel to be a prostitute. At that time,The relationship between her and the neighboring aunt surnamed Wu suddenly broke down for some reason,The aunt of the Wu family was probably because she gave her a color TV,Their relationship began to break down,Later, he found out that it was not worth it,And he was still very concerned about the departure of this daughter-in-law.。 He knew that Fei's Erniang was a prostitute in the county, and one day he suddenly met her brother in the county, and he was destined to go up to chat with him, chatting and chatting, and he told her brother that he was going to take him to see a good show, and he took him to the hotel where his sister was a prostitute, and then they saw his sister drinking there and dancing with a few people who were also prostitutes, and this brother of hers saw that it was his sister, It was also the first time he had heard his sister go into such a disgraceful prostitute, and a warm acquiescence in his inner world hit his mind, and without saying a word, he chased in the direction where her sister was dancing, and her sister never dared to think about the fact that she was a prostitute outside, so this matter did come too suddenly, and when she saw her brother rushing in her direction, she was also flustered, Quickly escaped from her brother's sight through the back door, and only then did she escape, but since then, the fact that he was a prostitute has also begun to spread among the crowd, and the people in the village have already determined this matter, and they are all in a state of tacit understanding of this matter. When people are connected to things that have already happened, the repercussions they make are much smaller than when things are still being prepared, as if all the remarks are based on facts, and since things have developed into facts, then no amount of remarks has become irrelevant, and almost all people in the know are trying to hold their own gentlemanly demeanor as much as possible, and when they are in contact with her, They are consciously trying to avoid topics that might damage her reputation as much as possible, and they try not to make him look embarrassed when they meet. After many years, they have been living in harmony and peace. Later, the second mother of Fei came back from a man outside, and then lived in her husband's house, she called his two sons to call the man he brought back called godfather, in fact, many people are speculating that the man may be one of her lovers, and they privately speculate whether she and her husband and her lover sleep in the same bed at night. After someone said this, it quickly caused the people present to burst into laughter, Wu Yuan can clearly remember that this is from his father's words, he also usually likes to make some jokes, when the man brought back by Fei Erniang made friends with the people in the village for the second time, it was Gui who prevented his sons from erecting stone tablets for his parents' graves together. Generally, there is such a thing in the village, the whole family and other miscellaneous families will also bring fireworks and firecrackers to the owner's house to congratulate, can help people busy to help people do some chores, if there is no work to do, either sit together and chat, or alone there does not need to do anything to do, some people have nothing to do idle boring, just a few people get together or gamble wine, or gambling money. That time, the man he brought home also went, not only that, but he also played a fist with the people in the village, and after gambling, the people who got together were already almost drunk, and when several people were discussing gambling money together, the conflict happened at this time. Gui's great-grandfather's youngest brother, Hui Sun Gang, was already famous for his drunken madness after drinking again at that time. When they were still discussing the rules and size of the gambling money, they suddenly felt that the man brought back by Fei's Erniang was thinking that he was poor and looked down on him, and at that moment he suddenly started to go crazy, he was going to beat the man who was brought back to the village by Fei's Erniang and called his two sons to call him godfather, and he also lost a few calm people who gambled together to pull him around, and the other group of people quickly escorted the man and quickly left to Gui's second son's house to avoid the limelight first, I didn't expect to chase directly into someone's house, his ostensible purpose was to beat people, even his mother was next to him and he even persuaded him to tears, she used all the soft and hard methods he could use, but her son just didn't eat soft and hard, he didn't do anything else except to reach people, until a few days later, his wine was completely sober, and he told his true purpose in his heart at that time, He suddenly fantasized from his inner world that he would clean up the other party with the strength of wine, and then take a large handful of money in the hands of others, and then he completely disappeared from the sight of everyone in the whole village, and it was this desire in his inner world that suddenly prompted him to have a strong tendency to violence, and at that time, almost the entire old city in the village came forward to almost not persuade him, who would have thought that he was in such a purpose. But then Wu Yuan suddenly realized that the truth of some things was confirmed from another aspect from the occurrence of this incident, and it was enough to prove that the man who was once suspected in the village was actually the lover brought back by Fei Erniang may be very true, on the one hand, it is like the legend of the people in the village, two men and women who were originally strangers, if there was no relationship between men and women, they might not have been able to come together so closely. Then this kind of relationship between men and women flies to their relationship in bed. On the other hand, it is probably the money relationship he has, and the money he has can make a man like Gang also move his heart and evil thoughts, not to mention that Fei's Erniang's patience is a woman's generation, not to mention that Fei's Erniang has already had a precedent for being a prostitute before this, and her purpose is probably not all her natural thirst and desire for strong desires. Part of the reason is probably that he thinks in his inner world that he can get more money than he can do anything by selling his body. But then he found out that he had been deceived, because even though he was away all the year round, it was difficult to go home almost once a year, but until the end he did not bring more to his home, and the repair of his house was completely funded and improved by his youngest son, and the money she found outside was only enough to support herself, and when she returned home every year, she did not have much extra money to subsidize her own expenses and household expenses. From beginning to end, she had always spent the money he had found just right, and he would not have it again, and when she first sold her own body, she had acquired a color television set that was very precious in those days, and all her income could only cover her own food and clothing and accommodation problems, but in spite of this, there was not much pessimism in his inner world. At the very beginning of this road, without his knowledge, he received the biggest deception that he thought he could make more money in this industry, and it was only when she actually bought into this road that he found out that he had been deceived by the biggest deception in the real industry. In the real world, it seems that the whole world is the same, in this world, all the industries that sell their bodies as capital are not able to produce the industries that people dream of, and all the income obtained by paying with labor as capital can only make up for the energy consumed by their bodies because of the strong coming, at this point, even the prostitution industry he is engaged in is no exception, and only after that, the second lady who flew began to work outside all year round, for a long time, He became the only source of income for the family's expenses, and his husband became a woman-like person who stayed at home most of the time and then relied on his wife to earn money outside to support, no one knows if there is a dream of making money in his inner world that almost everyone desires, his mentality and pursuit seem to be innately more plain and simple than everyone else in the village, except that sometimes he will go to the county town to find some temporary work like his eldest brother Jianhua, His industriousness is almost only one-third of the simplicity of his eldest brother, but he doesn't want his eldest brother to be as ignorant of culture, and it must be impossible for others to cheat his eldest brother out of his salary like that. Things are often like this, although his eldest brother does not understand culture and knowledge, but he usually shows that he is more than twice as industrious as his second brother Jianlu, but the second Jianlu's diligence is less than one-third of his eldest brother's, and the reason why Jianhua is more than twice as industrious as his second brother is because he is often deceived by others, and the temporary work he does outside almost never meets his most basic living security, and he gets less money. In the end, he was forced to hope to use all the power in his body to obtain his most basic living security. But his second brother Jianlu's labor efficiency is high, he is relative to his eldest brother, understands knowledge, understands culture, and has said that the salary that has been said before doing a good job is one, and saying two is two, he will definitely be like his eldest brother Jianhua will be deceived by anyone on the price that has been agreed, so as long as there is work to do, after working for a few days, he will have the money to buy rice and vegetables that he lives alone at home, at this time he also felt that he was tired, so he was too lazy to go out to work again, and hid in his own home to eat and sleep, After sleeping hungry and eating, I couldn't sleep anymore, so I watched the color TV that his wife bought back in his own home, which had been used for more than ten years, but the color had not changed, and the effect was still very good. To say that Jianlu is not without worries in this life, the biggest worry in his life is not that his wife cheats, it is not that his wife brought back a man who is richer than him under inexplicable circumstances. Of course, the most important thing in his life is also anxious about money. His eldest son talked about a girlfriend he liked outside, and when both parties began to talk about marriage, at this time, it was time for the parents of both parties to meet each other, and the woman's parents opened a high-priced price of 36,000 yuan as soon as they met and talked about the bride price. When he heard such an astronomical figure, he was the first to raise objections to this family business, and was the first to take the lead in urging his son not to accept this family business, and he felt that even if it took ten years, he would not be able to earn so much bride price, and he could not afford to marry such a daughter-in-law. But in this matter, his son did not listen to his command, he still maintained his concept and state of love that you would not marry, he did not choose to give up the love he longed for because of money problems like his father, but from beginning to end, he continued to pursue the goddess in his mind wholeheartedly, and as a result, this goddess was really sought after by him. Wu Yuan never figured out what kind of situation his brother, who was only a few years older than him, finally chased the goddess in his mind, he only knew that in the end they really got married, and he took the daughter of his parents worth 30,000 yuan to the family to make himself a daughter-in-law, and in a few years they gave birth to two sons in a row, and in the whole family, when the form changed like this, On the one hand, his inner world is full of infinite surprises, washing that he finally has children and grandchildren, but when his grandson has begun to learn to speak and personally calls him grandpa, he feels proud, he looks back and carefully feels that his grandson has begun to call him grandpa, he suddenly felt in his own mind, When he was still very young, he remembered the image of his own grandfather, and it was only at this time that he suddenly recalled the gray appearance of his grandfather in his mind, and he suddenly thought in his inner world whether he himself had already become the grandfather he had in his mind when he was a child, and it was only at this time that he had to admit that he was old, and his hair had already fallen out and only half a circle at the back of his head was at the root of his ears. It was only then that he discovered that the social trend was following the younger generation, and that they themselves were growing old year by year, and that time was going to send them to the grave completely, and at that time he suddenly understood his father, who was almost eighty years old, and he suddenly understood all the thoughts in his father's inner world, which had been in the same state with him before. When people come more and more, probably because of the position they are in, their inner world suddenly understands more elderly people and their thoughts, especially his father, Jianlu, who has not fed animals before, suddenly fed a black cow like his father before, that family is no longer the era when everything was decided by himself back then, especially after the family has a second daughter-in-law, he is always so unaccustomed to staying at home when he suddenly receives it, Even more often than not, he was always so unaccustomed to sitting in the place where he used to watch TV, and he suddenly had the feeling that he didn't want to stay in this house all day, but he didn't know where to go, after all, this was his home, where could he go? There is only one way to think about it, and that is to raise a cow like his father did back then, and when the cow grows up, he can have another calf, so that he can live in the world of a herd of cows, just to kill the kind of boredom that he has never felt since he had his second daughter-in-law at home, so that as long as he can be out of the busy time every day, he can not stay at home, and then live his own life in the mountains every day, and since then, he has suddenly become silentAt this time, he found that the younger generation had completely replaced their former position in the family, and it was only at this time that they completely felt the most powerful loneliness from their inner world. It is true that the world is slowly abandoning them little by little, and only in the mountains can they suddenly return to the free feeling of their youth, and only in the mountains can they suddenly feel the freedom from their inner world, and even they can get rid of all the obligations of nature so that they don't live so constrained, why do they have to live in the crowd and receive one or another from other people's constraints on themselves. It was only at this time that he discovered that the reason why the whole human world was entangled in such a big concept as public space came from the difference between man and woman, from the ethical boundaries that the entire human race set for themselves in the process of entering their own civilization, and the ethical boundaries of this world are that only the relationship between men and women such as husband and wife can take off all their clothes without fear and then face each other who is on the same bed. Their ethical boundaries stipulate that as long as the person who sleeps in the same bed is not a legitimate and formal couple, they are committing incest, and they are condemned by the ethics of the relationship between men and women from the civilized society of mankind. The older people are, the more important they will be to this ethical and moral relationship to human civilization. The supervisor didn't even dare to go within 10 feet of the second daughter-in-law, and he was even worried that his aging hands and body would inadvertently touch his daughter-in-law's buttocks, waistline, and even chest. The more serious he was about these relationships, the more unnatural his eyes were beside his daughter-in-law, and he was afraid to see with his own eyes that his daughter-in-law was slightly exposed on her breasts, and he was afraid to see the grooves on her buttocks that were exposed when she bent over the low-waisted jeans she was wearing, and all the things that had to do with the ethical relationships in his mind would make him unat ease and at ease in his inner world. He found that even though the house he lived in had been built by him with a stone and a back of ashes, as if it were no longer his, he was like living in someone else's house, and he was subjected to a lot of spiritual torture that he should not do and that should not be done. It is also this strong concept of ethical relationship in his mind, once his eldest son came back drunk outside, and when he came back, he asked his wife for money, and his wife couldn't get the money out, so he started beating people again, and she happened to be at home at that time, where could he tolerate his son being drunk and making trouble with his daughter-in-law, when he saw that he was going to beat his daughter-in-law, he stepped forward and pulled his son to prevent him from beating people, Several of his uncles also hurriedly ran over when they heard them cheering Tokyo, and saw that his son, who was already drunk, was still holding it and dangling it in his hand, and when he saw his father coming over to candle, he didn't let him beat his daughter-in-law, and he said in his mouth that you will fight with you when the time comes, and his father and several uncles were a little unconvinced when they heard his words, where is the truth that a son went to kill his father, Jianlu stood in place and plucked up the courage to let him kill after hearing his son's words, Some of his uncles said the same thing, let his father stand where he is and let him kill, if he even kills his father, then he will no longer be a person in this world, but a beast. Just as he was still standing there waiting for his son to come and kill him, and while several of his uncles were agitating his son together, his son was in a hot head for a moment, and the knife in his hand was slashed at his father's back in that instant. If the knife went down a centimeter deeper, and pierced the last film that he had already killed from his father's back, Jianlu would have been opened by his son, and with it his life would have come to an end, and his son would have been stunned by his own impulse after that knife had gone down, and his reputation had been greatly damaged by the slash in his father's back. Almost the entire village looked down on him from their own inner world, they felt that he was completely unreliable, there was nothing to do, and no one even wanted to drink with him when several people in the village were drinking together. Since then, Jianlu's character has also changed dramatically, which seems to be the main reason why he really entered the ranks of the elderly, and then his only wish left is to accompany her parents through the last few years, although his father is still tough in physical injury, but his mother when he entered the age of sixty, his eyeballs began to have a whole piece of flesh, and one of her eyes took the lead in organizing her right to see the world, and when he was about to be fifteen years old, Her two eyes have been completely blind, for Jianlu, the biggest responsibility left in his life is to accompany and support his parents in their last old age, although his youngest son has never been married, but he doesn't seem to be in a hurry with him, he has a unique house decoration technology is to paint people's walls, he can get an income of 20,000 yuan in a week or two, but his youngest son has a hobby is to love gambling, buy lottery tickets and play video games, These habits of his were almost formed when he was still in junior high school, but more than ten years have passed, he only has the time to put money into it, but rarely when he takes money back from it, he has become the most profitable one of the generations in the village after the nineties, but he is also the most popular one, the outdated lottery tickets in his house pocket have been filled with several pockets over time, and even he has been stuck in this side almost the general expenses of his income, But in the end, he didn't win a bigger one, and the prize he won was only a small prize that was not even enough than his investment, but he was a very determined person since he was a child, and the more things developed like this, the more he aroused his strongest interest in this aspect, and he was convinced that as long as he used the time of his life to invest uninterruptedly, he would eventually be able to reap a million, or even tens of millions of prizes, and at that time he could become a multimillionaire overnight. What people didn't expect was that in the process of buying lottery tickets and gambling, he became a math master. His experience of buying lottery tickets taught him that even if the probability of winning the next ticket was 1 in 10,000, then if he could buy 10,000 tickets consistently, then the probability of all the tickets adding up to 1 would be equal to one. His dreams and algorithms are accurate, but the reality of his test is cruel, the lottery money he put into is just like he usually plays mahjong, first give him a few tables of small wins, so that it can be a little late sweet, you can be happy, and even let him think that he is the lucky one in this world, but then the experience and test is cruel, first he must invest in verses to have a chance of winning, and then even need to invest dozens of games to have a chance of winning, But some people prefer to keep going because of the odds of winning that sentence, and the end result is that they have fewer chips each time, and maybe a chance or two to turn the buck, but as his Don Boji said, unless your own water is deep enough, all the bets that have been put in will be wasted. Probably because of the common psychological strength, Qiang also felt that as long as he was endlessly invested in it forever, he was confident that he would have a chance to live beyond his gains, but his investment over the years had already exceeded what he had obtained in the end, and he returned to the same place he had trained from the beginning after a big circle in his life ideals. If the starting point and focus of everyone's life are the same, the only difference is whether each person lives a wonderful and unwonderful trace of life in the process of life experience, Wu Yuan feels that although even people from Harvard University are promoting such a concept of life, but there is no meaning, he feels that the only thing worth pursuing in this life is that with the growth of everyone's life, all his cultivation and connotation of the realm will be improved, and the longer he experiences, the longer he experiences. The fruits of his life will be more perfect, and his ideal life will not be what it was before, and in the end it will completely return to what it was. At least everyone will be the mark of an era, but this mark will be the accumulation of all the development of the entire human world from the past to the present, so that the whole human world has developed to the collection of all the purifications after today, he feels that everything today must be the combination of the past experience of the whole history and the degree of personal cultivation, only people who live in the lowest society will be an individual who is different from other people or even different from all people who have passed. Because almost all animals except humans are like this, their life has always been an absolutely independent individual, because of this, their population has developed for millions of years and has not made much progress, at most, only wolves have learned to respect and inferiority, learned to hunt prey in groups, gorillas have learned to use branches to hunt termites, and crows have become the only animals that can support the crows, but a person will be a common collection of good behavior and civilized behavior of all animals in the whole world. For tens of thousands of years, the reason why human beings have developed such a level of civilization is that they understand that they are not an absolutely independent individual at all, they are a whole race, a combination of history and individuals that have been developed, and almost all people strive to be a cultural person who understands culture and reason, even if they have never read a book or even hate reading very much, they will force themselves to do theoretical maintenance. They think that reading books will not necessarily be the best way of life and the way out, and then they strongly express in language and behavior that they are different from those who have read books and cultured people, and they even have juice compared to them, and they even deliberately dig out everything they have learned from beginning to end at that moment to show their lofty status in the crowd, and their experience is definitely stronger than that of a person who has gone to a doctorate. Of course, in Wu Yuan's view, this is different from other animals, this kind of behavior in personal performance is also in a process of continuous improvement with age, he is at least the most absolute value of human self-expression, on the whole, he is also a person from the past experience of the summarization, he is also one of the lifelong manifestations of a person to improve the Tao in a certain degree, which he is definitely not put forward in the philosophy of Harvard University, The starting point and focus of life are originally in the same place, the only difference is that each of us has experienced different traces of wonderful life in the process of life. Of course, Harvard's philosophy of life is not unreasonable, at least for most people in this world is such an experience, their beginning and end will do the same thing, the only difference is that their life experience has wonderful and ordinary, but if you use the life philosophy of Chinese, compared with Harvard people here there is a completely different rhetoric, they think that a person only keeps his own life dull that is the most difficult thing in the world to do, The indifferent Chinese philosophy of life is out of favor and the absolute challenge of the mouth of the heart, which emphasizes the inner self-cultivation in the realm of life, and his adventure experience in the human body of the West is completely in the position of thinking, and the reason why there is such a difference and gap between the East and the West is completely related to the source of Chinese civilization and culture. They emphasize the concept of personal survival, while the West emphasizes the spirit of personal adventure and the embodiment of self-worth, and to a certain extent, this should also be one of the behaviors of individual manifestations of animal nature. What he didn't expect was that in fact, his thoughts were also the universal truths and life values of most of the people he hoped for, when his son was in the same angle of things as him, his thoughts also happened to represent the same common idea from the same perspective as him, and they also thought of the same thing as him The first thing that comes to mind is that people don't have to live so tired, as long as the money is enough to spend, why bother to earn so much? When the money they have is completely used up, until they have to work hard to go out and work again, they have to pay for their own physical work to start anew, at this time they have to regret it, why they didn't make more money in the first place, so that they can have more time to play, but think about it this way, anyone who is not a fool, they hardly have to spend time thinking about it will understand, as long as they lack the source of the material base, They may not be able to live in this world for a few more days, if they don't eat and drink water, people can only live for a maximum of 20 days, which means that if a person does not eat and only drinks water, they will only have a life span of 20 days at most, but in fact, their life span is only 20 days in such a short time, they will not feel worried about any panic and pressure, because they can understand even if they don't have to think about it, even if their life span is only 20 days, as long as people are still in a healthy state, They have enough time to live their own life security, so people have no need to panic at all, but when they are taught to eat no food in a day, panic and stress will follow, people will only unconsciously think about what they most want to get when they need it most, and only when they are poorest can they feel what kind of life is happy and rich. Under what kind of state can a person's life obtain the greatest value of his life, and only when he is the poorest can he feel the stupidity of life more thoroughly, and then grasp the most essential things in his life wholeheartedly, and then use the greatest power of his life to obtain things that make them feel worthy of exchanging their whole life. Of course, everyone hopes that they can get the most peaceful mind, and hope that the whole world is going according to their own will and will, but it is precisely because of this that when all people forget that the whole world is going according to their own will, they will unconsciously become a basket of crabs caught by anglers in the basket, if there is only one crab in the whole basket, they may always have a chance to win, But if two crabs are put in the same basket for the same purpose, then they will inevitably form a crab rivalry with each other, and finally let the angler take advantage of the fisherman. Of course, all this has nothing to do with him, his life can abandon all the things that he doesn't pay attention to in his inner world, and he doesn't care too much about other things, and he doesn't even have books in his inner world and specializes in such a high theory of life, in their eyes, money is equivalent to the standard of judging people and things in their eyes. In this world, when people do not have strong desires, they are divided into two aspects, on the one hand, people who originally have desires have to restrain themselves from thinking about their desires when their desires arise, this kind of behavior is only suitable for the so-called monks who cook rice, but a person has restrained himself, and it is the behavior of his own behavior to be checked, and other people will feel that such people are educated, cultivated, and have connotations, and are the behavior of a humble gentleman, as if they are educated, cultivated, People with connotations have filtered out the original cruelty and wildness of human beings, people will become gentle, no one wants to be with a person who always has a tendency to be brutal, this is also out of the protection of their life safety, a person at least he has to live his own safety in his heart, so that he can rest assured or decide to do something; On the other hand, a person's inner world is not strong enough to support his ability and confidence to generate desires, that is to say, a person who calls me you have the ability to desire. Just like Qiang's uncle Jianhua, he can't even guarantee the foundation of survival, and the happy life he hopes for most in his vitality is to be able to live with enough food and clothing and sufficient material living conditions, although he himself is very old at that time, every time he has a new set of clothes, he will still be as happy as when his mother did it for him during the New Year when he was a child, and every time he will thank him for the past, He always came to the same conclusion that his mother loved him at that time, and he was the only one in the whole family, and he didn't have time to have any brothers at that time, and he and his mother were at home looking forward to when his father Gui, who was still in the barracks, would come back, but they felt that this was a kind of luxury, because his father was very different from him, and it was actually so easy to see him, and at that time, because his father was not there, he didn't have any chance to study, Later, several of his younger brothers were born one after another, and his father also returned home from the barracks, and he was able to see every day that he used to be such a longing father, I don't know why, he later became what he was later, a little silly, his only skill was to follow his father and mother to the land brothers, plowing the fields and plowing this is his strength, he has never seen a penny since he was a child, and it is difficult for his parents to touch a penny all year round, At that time, men only knew how to work in the fields, and they didn't know that almost all the women who came over in your time had the same tragic fate, of course, in Jianhua's heart, he didn't feel anything called fate, because he himself was a combination of tragic fate, he represented all the life he had experienced since he was born, and in his eyes he was only optimistic about the changes day by day in his time, and the life he saw was all the changes he had experienced. Even everything at home

Change, he saw the village generation after generation in the innovation, the original time to repay you became the world of the tile house, and then the world of the tile house gradually became the world of the small bungalow, and then the small bungalow also became a small building, in the common life experience, everything he saw in his eyes, Li Guyi led a comparison with his father, he can almost have the same wisdom and level as his father, but he just does not have the ability to express clearly as his father, But this is not the fact that for so many years, his admiration for his father has never been lost, this is his recollection that he is the teenager who has not exceeded the public, but there is a time when he likes it, he pretends to be as calm as he wants to beat people, in order to win the trust of others, in fact, this kind of calmness is just a person's wishful thinking, whether he has authority to speak on the one hand, he is calm enough in the eyes of others, On the one hand, it depends on whether the person you speak to him is willing to listen to and take the opinions you take for them, and a person's listening and taking of another person's opinion is the greatest respect and affirmation for another person's calmness, and then he also makes a person's value be reflected to the greatest extent, but Jianhua never seems to have enjoyed this kind of treatment from others in the village. Until his second brother got married, and the third brother became a son-in-law and was married off by his parents like a daughter, his fourth brother was also married, and he always suspected that he had a stable family like the boys in other villages, and then he could have all the authority in his entire group, but he had never even had this kind of authority in his life, and almost the whole world had nothing to do with him. Because only everyone in this world wants to have the most absolute value and status that is stronger and greater than others, and everyone is being the most authoritative and valuable person in this world, and their least thought is how to highlight their own characteristics, how to live by themselves among all the people, and how many people can do it like that, and the doctor does not allow anyone to do any struggle, until later, all the people in the whole village find that he has not borrowed a penny of foreign debt like anyone in his life, Although he only lived in a state of life without manifestation, and did not even make any struggles and opinions for any of his unequal political struggles, and never even had any thoughts and ideas about political struggles in his life, if you want to count, all the people in the whole village found that only He and his son Hong Hetao were real farmers in the village, and their whole lives were thrown on their land. He is a person who truly believes that farming land is the source of all his livelihood. At this point, Wu Yuan has always believed that this is a glorious tradition that their family has established by He. Just like Gui, although he broke the highest record for the most sons in the village in this life, he also paid a heavy price for this life, his eldest son Jianhua is not one, the second son's daughter-in-law was affected by the family environment, and finally forced to become a prostitute, the third son was forced to marry away and became someone else's son-in-law, and he eventually suffered all the unequal family treatment suffered by his married daughter in her husband's house, It wasn't until everything that was worse than a woman happened to Gui's third son that the people in the village thoroughly understood that a man's heart was actually as fragile as a woman's heart, and even when it was too late, he was just married out to be a son-in-law for others, and he was often hit back to his father Gui's house like a newly married woman who had never suffered anything that had never suffered from him. Gui also sent his third son to his in-laws in person like someone else's father loves his own daughter, and then sat down and fought with his in-laws, and drank again, and the parental relationship between the two sides began to operate again, until this happened several times, the third sister regained a firm foothold in the entire family he came to, and finally settled his own blood in his own field. After getting married, one of the skills he possessed was to kill pigs, and in this way he quickly became one in his entire family. In fact, he found that their entire family did not have much prejudice against him, an outsider son-in-law, which made it most difficult for him to deal with, and the people who were the most difficult to make friends with were the people within their family. For such a thing as the acceptance of the son-in-law, for the rural people, this is originally a propaganda of not having a son in their own family, and people who have such a situation in an agricultural society are originally depressed and deformed in their inner world, and the more they pay attention to their own weaknesses, the more they can notice the gossip of others about themselves, women may naturally feel that they are the weaker people in this world, so their words and expressions in this regard are also the strongest, The most difficult thing for the third sister is the blame from his mother-in-law and wife, but then she got used to it. He understood that a woman's overly strong performance was only a superficial phenomenon. Of course, later he stopped and resisted all the reproaches from his wife and mother-in-law, but after he finally had a child of his own, he finally had responsibility and stability in his heart, and at this time he was able to have responsibility and endure all the blame that happened to him, and he himself moved towards the maturity of his character. Of course, for these sons under Gui's knees, the one who has a better life is his fourth son, but his fourth son has always been the most hardworking person in his entire family, he has been working hard all year round for the cash crop flue-cured tobacco he planted, but the most bitter period of his consciousness is still after he got married, the three children he gave birth to before are all daughters, but what he wants most is to be able to have a son, His life was in the context of this kind of family planning in China

He hid in Tibet for several years, and his life also went to the most intimate era in those years. It wasn't until his fourth child that he finally had the son he had always dreamed of. As soon as the child was born, he feasted on the whole family in the village, and he did not accept any gift money from anyone. Since then, his long-cherished wish has finally come true, and his life has begun to turn for the better year after year. Then the house was repaired by itself, and when he felt that he could finally settle down, his eldest daughter had grown up unconsciously, and she decided to drop out of school, get married, and finally put herself into the agricultural life that his father Haimei did not want her to live in, no matter what kind of persuasion was carried out on his daughter at that time, but in the end he still watched with some kind of interest as the daughter he had personally cultivated married in this way, Then he returned to the agricultural life society in which he had worked hard all his life, but then his second daughter finally chose the path of vocational school after finishing junior high school, which finally gave him a comfort in his soul, but his sao daughter and his only son are still very young, which shows that there is still more hope in them, in so many years of hard work in his life, he did not gain nothing before, His only task is to be responsible for raising all his remaining children to adulthood, for which he is afraid of death at the age of sixty or seventy, but he was still happy in his mind before, he seems to be living a life of hide and seek in order to have a son and the people in the county planning office, and finally he finally got his wish the most desired in his life at that time, and he finally escaped the tracking of the planning office, Under the intense pressure of worrying in his heart that it would be the birth of a daughter, when he was looking to see if he himself faced the reality of the situation again, when he watched him make any life choices by himself, he saw with his own eyes that the son who haunted him was finally born in front of his eyes. At that moment, it was the emotions that he had been doing for years that were suddenly released at that moment, and his inner world was almost overjoyed, but at the same time, he also understood his own responsibility in the future life, and he needed to redouble his efforts to maintain all the hopes he had gained during those years of hiding in Tibet, and he suddenly wished, like the godfather, that each of them would be able to obtain the happiness they deserved. At that moment, there was infinite piety in his inner world, which made him feel that the heavens could see my heart, and the emperor and queen earth could test his sincerity, and all his actions almost brought the wife next to him to tears of gratitude. To be able to witness a man's touched wife will always be the most beautiful in the world, that is, that time, she can personally feel but his blessed inner world remembers one after another, this is one of her most intimate feelings of a man's inner world in the constant change of the most intimate process, since then, she is willing to spend her own life with the man in front of her to live, her heart seems to stay at that moment she silently swears to him, Even if he is asked to accept the greatest suffering in the world in the future life, she is willing to accept it sincerely. Later, Wu Yuan felt that when a woman was desperate to pay for a man, it was actually because she found the true love that belonged to her in this world, and only true love could give her the greatest strength in the world, so that she was willing to endure the suffering she deserved or should not have for all things, and her world began to become extremely quiet from the moment she began to identify her own mission. Even women at that time inadvertently became the most broad-minded people in the world, and they were able to tolerate the whole world as much as their own children. The love of men for women is like this, he has taken her as a part of their own body, has become the object of their protection in this world, if they are hurt, it is equivalent to a painful blow to their hearts, for the love in their hearts, they are always restless that day, they express their place in their hearts almost the whole day, but no matter what position they put themselves in, they will feel restless, In fact, what they need to express at that moment is how much they are better than her, and only love can make them fall in love with this kind of restlessness, and even unable to control and control their emotions and thoughts. At that moment, their minds were like ants that had been placed on the heat of disaster, and how they were like fifteen buckets, restless, up and down. Their mental pain is the same stimulation to their brains as their physical pain, so their inner world is just as painful as their physical injury. It is precisely because of this, they are always trying to correct their position, how their brains hope to be able to correct their body in a correct way to alleviate most of the pain they can feel, as they usually do when they are injured in the body, but the physical pain they can alleviate by correcting the physical posture, but if it is a person's spiritual pain, it is difficult to find a correct position in their mind to relieve their pain. Of course, it is not that a person cannot change a way to think or alleviate a person's spiritual pain, the most important thing is that they are in love with someone in their inner world at that time, and this powerful love is not that they have to think like that in their inner world, they have to think and express the correct position of a person in their minds, and all the pain at that time is also everything that they are willing to bear for a person in their inner world. There is nothing in this world that is worth everything that a person is willing to endure, whether it is a man

People are still women, and if they are willing to let their lives bear everything, it is enough to prove how much their inner world is full of love for someone.

Of course, when Hai Mei took away this promise to him in his wife's inner world, if he knew and understood his wife's affection for him, he didn't know how happy his inner world was, they had unconsciously broken the mental shackles that were fixed in people's hearts that all parents' arranged marriages would not be happy, and they could also communicate with their hearts like friends in the life of their parents' traditional arranged marriages. They don't have a strong need for what the other party must bear for themselves, if from this point of view, people who are running modern and contemporary married life, people who are pursuing and choosing the so-called free marriage and love, are instead being bound by their inner world, and this bondage may come from their strong pursuit of happiness. The stronger this pursuit, the more they want to get something out of each other. The stronger the pursuit of marital happiness, the stronger they want to get everything from each other in their inner world, and in this sense, their free marriage and love model is not as easy as the traditional parental arranged marriage model to make people happy. Fortunately, people still understand psychologically that there is no absolute good or absolute bad in this world, and all of them are in line with Einstein's theory of relativity to some extent. All right and wrong are also relative, and the so-called freedom of love and marriage of this generation is really just a rebellion against their parents and everything they think has been a long time since they were in adolescence. And then it was formed before and after May Fourth, a kind of adolescent rebellion of the new social youth against the feudal traditional society. In the end, what they caused was a rebellion and reform of the whole history in the new period. This powerful rebellion and reform from history eventually led to the development and innovation of an era. It makes the whole history begin to develop towards a new era, but it is also to bear the new responsibilities and disasters brought to them by the world in the new development, and even to bear all the pain in the new life in order to pursue all the happy life they dream of in their hearts.

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