Haru would never have dreamed that he himself was a dignified seven-foot man, and in the end his whole life was lost to the three cows he had stolen by thieves, and in the last decades of his life, he still couldn't get rid of the shadow of the three stolen cows. www.biquge.info His whole life was shaped at that moment, and his whole life was limited by the sorrow he still lived in, which meant that he had not been aware of it since that incident, and his once young life with strong dreams had died because of it. In his future life, except for his eldest daughter, who was accidentally married by Ming Media, the two daughters later married themselves after going out to work. The energetic youth and curiosity made them unable to control the passion in their hearts and lost their virginity, and in the end they did not want to return to Chun's home in the hope of getting anything, but because they were afraid of Chun's strong condemnation in this matter, they finally came to a prelude, first privately gave them a private life, and when Chun completely woke up in this matter, it was already life cooked. Chun's life values are brought with the tendency of patriarchy that is still circulating in the countryside, and his values believe that his daughter will only be someone else's sooner or later when she grows up. So Chun only let his eldest daughter study for a few years, but he resolutely refused to let the other two daughters enter the school, and his youngest daughter was already in her teens and only fought for a chance to go to school for a semester, but her actual height and age have already made other children in the same grade, so naturally she can't be in a bunch of other children. After a semester of studying, she couldn't stand the title of the eldest girl taught by other people younger than him, and she finally ended her own academic path. And Chun's second daughter didn't have to go to school for a day under his obstruction. When Chun knew that his two daughters had run away with others, although he was sulking for a while in his inner world, he still couldn't deal with this matter after all. It wasn't until his two daughters were confined that he completely returned to his previous fatherhood, and at this time the relationship between their father and daughter returned to normal. Haru no longer blames his daughters for acting recklessly, and he thinks more about this matter than anything else. From the moment he concluded that his wife was a daughter, it seemed that such an outcome had been predicted in his brain, so he was able to deal with it more calmly and calmly. When Chun treats his daughter with that attitude, it in turn proves that he attaches great importance to the men in the family. He also has only one degree of son named Chao under his knees, Chun made his own efforts to let him go to school to receive education, but Chao was probably born with this road of study, Chun gave him more treatment than all his children and sisters, and finally he could only stay in school for six years, from the first grade to the sixth grade and then dropped out, but it is not not a smart person, Chun and Chao are among the best chess masters in the village, they are also masters of card skills, Punches are also hard hands. But Chao was different from others when he was young and gave up his own drinking, and Chun's lifelong experience of fighting wine also made him have a fear of the old experience, and he would not joke with his life until he got drunk all day before going home, and when he borrowed marriage and became a family, he was even more unstained. He doesn't have the refreshing feeling of wine at all, on the contrary, wine brings him invisible pain as if it were killing him. The skill of eating is also the muddy water technique that Chaosuo learned from his cousin Jun. When Jun taught his cousin, although he also thought he was a stupid person, although he was clumsy, but after his continuous efforts, he was finally on the road, and when he was able to go on the road, he was soon dissatisfied with his cousin's style of doing the work of his cousin army for a few days but basically spent all the money, and it was also the reason why he was more and more unwilling to obey his cousin's command after he had made achievements in the muddy water industry, and he quickly broke away from the army's team system. Slowly, he learned to go elsewhere to find a suitable place for his own work. In the end, he and his youngest brother-in-law and his only son quickly reached a team alliance, formed a team, went around to pick up work for others to do, super soon also reduced his appearance at the gambling table, every year just a few days before and after the New Year to play a few mahjong can be regarded as relieving the fatigue of a year of fatigue, the rest of the time he also changed the bad habits of the past, quit drinking and quitting smoking and gambling. His entire family business also changed quickly under his efforts. After his mother's death, his father Chun was even more seriously depressed because of the loss of three cows and the strong shadow of his spirit, and he almost lost most of his creative ability in the creation of life, and in the end, even the bride price money spent on marriage could only be made up by his own money. In the end, Chao not only earned enough money for his wedding bride price, he soon rebuilt two houses next to the old house left by his grandfather, and the outside was only built to look like an ordinary small bungalow, but with his own craftsmanship in the decoration industry, he quickly made the interior of the house as warm and beautiful as heaven. The snow-white and translucent walls and the clear and translucent geomagnetic installation, when the whole house is cleaned, people walk on it as if they want to walk on the clouds of the heavenly palace, and the reason why all this can form such a beautiful effect is not unrelated to the reasonable design of the light bulb installed on the roof. The reason why Chao can match a house so warm and harmonious is also related to his years of hard work and hard work in the decoration industry and his continuous growth in this industry, which also shows the hard work and hard work he has paid in the industry he is familiar with. It is precisely because of this that his efforts have allowed her to achieve unprecedented progress in him. But later Bin was not optimistic about this kind of self-expression, and it was their innate nature for a person to show their own merits and love beauty. When a person finds someone and something prominent in their own body, they can't help but show something outside of them, but Bin is not optimistic about this behavior. In his view, the perfection of human nature is not the most direct response to these inner selves in man. His aesthetic believes that the perfection of human beings lies in the fact that what he shows is the strongest tolerance for the changes in his inner world, whether it is joy or sorrow or sorrow, these are just the expression of all the superficial things in their inner world, and the highest state of cultivation of people is to be able to tolerate and restrain the most direct expression of these inner imaginations, one is that they can reach a harmonious and unified mode of operation with the whole nature, so Bin has been restraining himself all his life, Although he was fully capable of repairing his own house and repairing the most luxurious in the mall, he still chose to live a dull life in the end, and his food and clothing were only won by the ability of his hands, and he completely chose mediocrity in his own way of life, which was completely different from the choice of others, and this mediocre life also allowed him to obtain pleasures that others could not get from it. Those who spend their lives in pursuit of the things they are most willing to obtain, they can only toil for the things they like all their lives, for which their lives will always live in poverty, and their material prosperity can only set off the void in their inner world. For this reason, although they have a rich material life, it is not necessarily that in the end, their life can finally lead to the state of abundance in the inner world. What's more, the wealth they have obtained through their lifelong efforts is ultimately less than 1/10,000 of all the wealth in Bin's name. The performance of all this has to be said to be a way of life that belongs to people. In Bin's eyes, he himself is just one of the most hired people in the world, which is completely the life values she has set for herself since she was a child, but it is his innate concept of self-evaluation that makes him find a strong self in himself, but this strong self in his inner world has formed a life concept that wants to compare with other people's values, and it is precisely because he has this completely different concept of life in the rain, It cut him off at once the source of the pain in his life. It is precisely because of his ability to understand his position that he feels that everything he has is the source of his own convincing, and that the only thing he cannot be separated from is the moving object in the human form that arose from the first intercourse of his parents until everyone can see with their eyes, and the only real thing he has is the life that his parents have left him, and everything else includes the character, culture, and beliefs that he has today. The moral values and all the possessions and possessions that he had left behind were the result of his own efforts, and when he knew that he had all these things in his life, he classified them as his own assets, not only material and tangible assets, but also his life, his beliefs, and all the cultural qualities that he possessed.

When Bin made his own position, he did not get more people's praise and statement, but after Wu Yuan accepted these remarks of his eldest brother, he found that his eldest brother's values are undoubtedly not higher, and this kind of value is probably not something that ordinary people can fully think about, and he feels that the reason why Bin can maintain an optimistic attitude is actually not unrelated to his values. From his words, Wu Yuan suddenly understood the depth of his eldest brother Bin's concept of having everything worthy of happiness, which was not unrelated to his long-term insistence on studying, and from then on, he also understood from his eldest brother what a happy relationship was.

After he got married and started a family, he also had a son and two daughters in a few years, with all his professional and technical maturity and his support behind his own family, his career development soon surpassed the career level that his cousin army has today, and finally he even the three black tile houses left by his grandfather were all converted into small bungalows, and his creative ability greatly surpassed all the creative abilities of his father Chun. But at this time, Chao looks more mediocre and low-key than any period in his past, and there is no place to shine in his body, but if anyone thinks of everything he has created today on the basis of his father Chunyuan, no one will feel that his life is mediocre and disgraceless, and people feel that his low point is more glorious in nature, which may be the illusion caused by the values preserved in the inner world of the Chinese.

In most cases, everything that Chao was able to have was actually related to his personal efforts, and compared to his personal efforts, all the changes in his uncle's family were much worse. Compared with the three brothers of Qing, Chun and Qi, from the perspective of internal cultivation, Qi's cultivation is much worse than his two elder brothers, all his behaviors completely reflect the appearance of him not entering a day of school, and at the same time, there is a difficult side of others in the process of interacting with him, but his alcohol consumption is first-class in the village, except for Wu Yuan's father's country, which can match him, others may be unmatched. Qi never pays attention to any rules in his interactions, he is always talking to others about the rules, and it is difficult for him to understand the rules when others tell him. It's just a matter on the table.,Everyone gets together to have a good time.,There's no need for anyone who is interested to continue to mess with him.,Most of the time they just follow his temperament.。 Over time, people found out from him that the innocence and straightforwardness at the wine table did bring them a lot of joy. However, it is Qi who does not have much cultural accomplishment, and he will not understand too many big truths, so as long as people use a little trick on him, it is possible to hook up all his passions and amuse the people who are doing it at once, and he himself is also happy in it, so as long as there is his Qi, there is undoubtedly an energy field that can make people happy, and his status is almost irreplaceable in the village, and what people care about is not how much he really does. It's that he can basically bring people a kind of spiritual pleasure, which is completely in an extreme and more stark contrast to the great-grandson Hong of the old five families of Shaukita, and Kai's natural personality can infect almost everyone around him. As long as people see him, they will take the initiative to go up and joke with her, and Kai is also under the siege of others for a long time, well, he came out for a reason, and his people were quickly freed from their troubles, and a group of people in this issue suddenly began to become happy and forgetful, and all their troubles were eliminated because of this, and every time at this time they would take wine and shout for Qi to drink together. At the beginning, he also learned to postpone it to the people present, but basically the people who had drunk with him in the village knew his character like support, and they had already found a way to deal with his postponement, and in the end he couldn't excuse himself, so he didn't care about drinking so much with them, and when he felt that he was about the same as drinking, he excused himself to go to the toilet, and he was never seen again, and when everyone drank the wine and remembered that he wanted him to shout, His voice had already come from his home far away, and everyone knew that his character was deliberately blamed after hearing his voice, and then they no longer blamed him, either they drank it again on their own, and when they had drunk enough, they dispersed together, or they went directly to the banquet, and drank together at other people's houses.

People will seek their own merits because they feel that they are smarter than others, so that they suddenly get self-affirmation of their intelligence, find self-confidence and feel happy, which is also the main psychological motivation of optimists. All pessimists are often very difficult to find their own merits and fail to find their self-confidence and cry bitterly, they are in a very state of mind to do things well, as a result, no matter how good they do, their inner world may not be satisfied with the things they have done very well, since they are difficult to be sure of what they have done, then it is also difficult for them to find satisfaction in their inner world in what they have done, As a result, their inner feelings can develop better, but they will become more pessimistic.

The reason why people are able to find their own happiness in Kai's body is that although they don't say it, they regard it as a fool in their own inner world, compared to which they find more advantages and satisfaction in their own body, so they can always find their own advantages and happiness in the process of communicating with Kai. Qi suddenly became a living treasure in people's minds just for nomination, but at the same time, it also reflected the ordinariness of her character, because of such an ordinary heart, he can interact with almost everyone in the entire village, whether it is the elderly or children. But people are also ashamed to be difficult to work with, and his unruly personality will always destroy the plans he has already conceived in his head in the process of working with others, and suddenly make the things they have done all at once chaotic. It is precisely because of this that Qi has to **** his own affairs alone for the rest of his life, and all his financial resources can only rely on the flue-cured tobacco that he comes out every year, and he himself is also a profligate and unrestrained person, so from the day he moved out of his father's old house and rebuilt his own new house, he always owes foreign debts every year that he needs to change his hands for a few years, and the only child in his family bravely rides the impulse that is still in adolescence. Soon there was a woman outside and soon became a pregnant body, this matter will soon be forced into an early marriage, eighteen or nineteen years old to have two daughters, most people in the countryside are still affected by the ancient feudal need to have a son at home, ophthalmology is not that they are patriarchal, they will love their girls as much as boys, and they want a boy just to make their inner world have a sense of security. Boys may have a much stronger sense of belonging than girls. This ancient civilization with thousands of years has gone through such a long historical process, and the reason why it has formed such a unified ideological model today must also have his own reasons, and the reason why women have reached such a level today is that Wu Bin considered through his research that this must be the result of their self-confinement. Even if there is such a custom of foot binding in ancient China, it is also the result of women who are born to pursue a rich life and prefer to let themselves accept the pain of foot binding, just like today's women suddenly want to lose weight and have reached the state of beauty in their own minds, they would rather not eat for a few days, and some people even completely reach the point of blowing themselves up, although this behavior is originally bad for their health, but they would rather live those superficial vanities than not hesitate to blow their bodies, This just proves that this history of foot binding of Chinese women is completely a father-daughter culture formed by themselves in the history of China, where they blow their own cripples. When they begin to wake up to the fact that this kind of behavior does not enable them to achieve a good and happy life, they will put forward their strong resistance to this history of foot binding, such as heroines such as Qiu Jin in modern China, they are the first to rise up against this backward history of China, but in the end they attribute the history of foot binding of China's humiliation of women to the men, and they rebel against their patriarchal thinking, but the people behind all this are caused by the women themselves, for in this case it is often the women who are more interested in the pursuit of their happiness than the men, and the people who sacrifice their lives for the sake of this vanity are often the result of the women themselves, who only take advantage of their wealth and power. The fairy tale of "Cinderella" circulated in the West also focuses on this point, and the case of Cinderella's two sisters who did not hesitate to cut off a section of their feet in order to prove that they are the owners of the crystal slipper also illustrates such a process, as long as they can enter the royal society, they will have endless glory and wealth, and the pain of losing a little limb is nothing, but it is the pursuit of Chinese women who have caused the occurrence of hundreds of years of foot binding history in China. Bin later concluded that the occurrence of these things was probably determined by the focus on the development of character between women and men, rather than who really despised them or valued whom, but all of this was defined by the results of their own development, and men did not care whether their women were bound or not, and more importantly, this landscape prompted the curiosity of their inner world, plus the rich and noble families were already powerful and powerful, who cared if the daughter-in-law who went in by themselves had the ability to work, As long as it looks good, you can be thrifty and keep your family. Even if she does not bind her feet, the elegant woman still does not lose her self-generated charm, and with this charm, he can still find love that suits him. When people face this past history, they have to admit that this act has left its sad shadow on the entire Chinese society, and they have to admit that this is a history of disasters that have happened in the world.

When Yong gave birth to his third child, he finally got the son they wanted, and he was almost carved out of the same mold as Yong in appearance, and when he laughed, he showed a mouthful of white baby teeth, which was very cute. But Yong's age also determines that he is immature in his position of husband and father, and his mind that has not calmed down has also prompted him to not be able to take a position stably for how long, which also causes him to be unstable in terms of income, secondly, he does not know how to manage money, he only keeps all his income for his own expenses, refuses to take a point from his family, and thirdly, he likes gambling and extravagant spending. At this time, all the expenses of his wife and children at home could only fall on his father's Qi. The tragic history of women happened here again, when they had the opportunity to obtain their happy life through their own efforts, they postponed it with an unwillingness as an excuse, thinking that they could achieve their happy life agreement with their beauty in this way, but their vision once again made them see the wrong way, how could there be a reason in the world not to pay but only to gain, and as a result, they had to pay for the road they chose for her boring life. Of course, since everyone has chosen this path, he must pay his due price for his own choice. But without a greedy and uncontented determination to learn to reap the fruits of one's own labor, the greater the hope, the more one can only plunge a person into a whirlpool of greater disappointment, and they are doomed to poverty all their lives. Yong's wife has no vision for her own future, but it also restricts his thoughts about the pain of life, which is a good way to entertain himself.

Kai himself was a natural optimist, and he spent his life looking for his own happiness in oral administration. When he wanted to kill the chicken, when everyone else hadn't gotten up, he had already stewed a pot of steaming muscles for his own breakfast, and when he wanted to eat dog meat, he asked a few people to bring in the housekeepers he fed at home to slaughter. He was hedonistic and seldom thought about the future. His greatest achievement is that he has passed the process of more than 40 years of hearing and seeing, and finally learned the ability to deal with the aftermath after serving as a state affair, but he always has things in his heart that he can't figure out, when his emotions come up, he doesn't care about other people's feelings at all, no matter how others advise him, he always maintains his own bottom line and principles of doing things, and it is also the principles and bottom lines that he maintains according to his own vision of things. It also makes him unsociable when working with others. Others are always afraid of his emotional and rigid face, and when he feels that he has no value in the eyes of others, he will run back to his house to find something to do by himself because of the inexplicable anger in his heart. His exaggerated movements are a bit like he is deliberately proving his own value to others, but other people often think that this kind of thing is an ordinary thing, and they also think that all this is an ordinary thing that a person should deal with, so even if he sees them, it is difficult to think that it is actually reflecting his own personal value.

When others turned a blind eye to his actions, his heart gradually returned to peace, and his anger of turning around and leaving in a fit of anger was also calmed down at once, and his mentality, which had been experienced for more than forty years and that he himself had his own children and grandchildren, was still as mature as a child. His character is still without a shadow and without an end, anger comes inexplicably, every time there is some kind of anger in his heart, he will always turn a blind eye to all people and everything, he will run home by himself like a child and sulk alone, but when no one pays attention to him for a long time, his mentality will slowly be calmed down, and the anger in his heart will disappear without a trace. When his anger has completely disappeared, he will deliberately find something in his home that everyone can see to do, maybe those things do not have to be done, even if they have to be done, it is not necessarily necessary to do at this time, but whether things have to be done or not is no longer important, his purpose is to prove to everyone that he has not been angry before, he just has something to do at home and has to leave, At this time, he would deliberately make a loud noise, so that everyone could understand that he was leaving only to deal with something he was more anxious about. When he felt that everyone else should know his purpose through the performance, he would deliberately hum a song that had run away in his own home, deliberately make a cheerful appearance, and walk back as if everything had never happened. But people are not stupid, they are also people who have experienced decades of life, and it is also a matter of basic common sense to be able to distinguish anger and happiness from the eyes of others that have happened, and it is a matter of basic common sense, and how can they not know the changes that have occurred between a person before and after. But we are all people who have lived together in the same environment for decades since childhood, and we know each person's character and what happened in their lives, but they sometimes know what has happened but they don't want to talk about it in person. At this time, they feel that they have not lived in vain in these decades in this world. When this great idea germinated in their inner world, even Bin, a person who had long been well-read as his life's goal, did not feel easy to approach. Although Bin is already well-read, he is almost forty years old and is just a hairy boy in their eyes. It's just that every time Bin sees this dark color in his eyes, he immediately understands what happened, he always laughs and doesn't say anything, and he doesn't blame anything, with his years of writing experience, he tells him that this should be a good writing subject, so he likes to record this kind of thing that has happened every time, and keep it in his own space, and then form his life wealth to be treasured by him.

Most people obtain their happiness and happiness through the embodiment of their own value, they are all acting geniuses on this social stage, and everyone hopes that they can find a performance role that suits their own identity on this stage. They don't want others to see them as a lazy person, or a narrow-minded person. In short, they hope that any shortcomings that humans have had in the past will not fall on them, but no matter how good they are, when they look back, they will still find that there are still many shortcomings in them that they think others can see at a glance. It is precisely when they make such an astonishing discovery in themselves that they will think of ways to make better amends for the defects that come from them, and often the best way to make up for them is to explain through their verbal expressions the defects in them and the reason why they choose to do something. In fact, it is not difficult for a person to live in this world, the most difficult thing is their role positioning on the stage of life in this society, in order to achieve an ideal goal in their minds, they will often pay more, and in the end they will achieve nothing.

Both Qi and Wu Yuan's father, Guo, have one thing in common. When they were middle-aged, they found that their respective alcohol consumption was unmatched in the village, so the two of them found their own value in the process, of course, in the process, the country eventually became the leader, because he used modern high-tech products to cheat for himself, and the bed he slept on at night was the result of the current high-tech products, which soon helped him adjust the normal functions of his body, In the end, his body, which had been damaged by drinking, was slowly recuperated, which suddenly increased his already declining alcohol consumption. In the end, he was able to dominate the alcohol consumption because he did not pay attention to the rules, and when he felt that he was not good, he would quietly leave, no matter who called him, he would not come back, so that others could not do anything about it. His wife sometimes can't stand the way he drinks, but Kai is a patriarch, and he almost has the final say at home and abroad, this family model of one strong and one weak makes it difficult for the contradictions of the whole family to develop, and in the end their family has never had any major contradictions, at most it is only a few words, and finally in Qi's strength to the end, this contradiction is quickly settled because of the compromise of the other party.

* The second brother Ming is also a natural optimism like his youngest son, in the impression of Wu Yuan's eldest brother Bin, he can play a good flute, but at that time Bin was just listening to the sound of the flute whining, he couldn't tell what this seemingly profound old man was blowing out, Ming Zaibin had died when he was still in the second grade, and Bin, who had no musical cells from beginning to end, didn't understand what a tune Ming liked to play at that time was until Bin later also liked the flute, And also learned to blow a few simple songs, only to be told that the tune that Ming played was the Chinese classical song "Liang Zhu", Bin also had the opportunity to stop and listen to various versions of this Chinese classical song after going to college, so that later generations also according to the tune of this famous song, fill in the words, to later people can be completely according to the words and tunes that have been filled in with the mouth often sung out, and then Bin also deliberately memorized a word, when he wrote down the words, he quickly grasped "Liang Zhu" The tune of this classical song. Even many years later, he still remembered the words he memorized, and every time he only had to find the words in his memory, he would be able to blow a complete piece of "Liang Zhu" on his familiar flute. In Bin's eyes, the poem was also written well, and later Bin was often heard by Wu Yuan, and he listened to it many times, and Wu Yuan also memorized it by ear and eye. I saw him write like this: The green grass is in full bloom, and the colorful butterflies are wandering for a long time. Through the ages, love and affection have been praised, and Shanbo will always love Yingtai. The classmates have been studying for three years, and there is no guessing at each other. Eighteen phases are affectionate, who knows that they are not on the platform. Bin also resonates through this song, and in a certain boring period, he will suddenly find the mark of the old man playing the flute sitting on the stone under the peach tree. The old man always looked smiling, he always liked to joke with different people, but he also left a mouthy image for the rest of the village. Until he died for a long time, many adults and children in the stockade had any discomfort in their bodies, they would get used to taking a bowl, beating half a bowl of water and putting it on the flat ground, dipping one end of the three chopsticks in some water, and then inserting the other end into the water in turn, and then gently stabilizing the chopsticks with their hands, while stabilizing while calling the title and name of the outdated person, the name of a good person was called to stand up, and when shouting who stood up, When the chopsticks in the bowl were suddenly able to stand up without being held by any human hand, they unanimously concluded that it was the cause of the mouthful of the person whose name was called. Whenever this time has died after Ming is called the most times, unfortunately every time the chopsticks stand in the village when his name is not handed over, the chopsticks standing in the water bowl can stand up steadily, every time the people in the village are sure that it must be the dead Ming Duozui. When people call out Ming's name, the chopsticks stand up steadily, and they will always be angry as if they are talking to themselves and others: "Let him stand more, who will tell him to talk more." "Until the chopsticks have been standing for a long time without falling, they will respectfully step forward and take the chopsticks and bowls away, add some rice directly to the water in the river bay and then splash it out of the door with a shake of their hands, and then take some paper money that is ready to be burned in the house for the deceased, and the diseases of adults and children will disappear at once.

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