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He is not the kind of person who sees things differently, likes the new and hates the old, and he has an affair with Hu Shantao, not because Hu Shantao is younger and more beautiful than her wife. Although it is true that Hu Shantao is young and beautiful, this is not the root cause of his affair with her. What is the root cause? The root cause is the long-term relationship between him and his wife.

The marriage between him and his wife is a typical rural marriage, and after being introduced by the matchmaker, they only met once or twice, and the parents of both parties decided the matter, and there was no love. It doesn't matter, rural marriages in those days were basically like this, first get married and then fall in love, how many rural men and women have come over like this, and they can also go through life holding hands through ups and downs.

However, soon after his marriage, red lights began to turn on frequently. It's not that he's demanding and too picky, it's that his wife really makes him unbearable. Rude, unreasonable, and inconsiderate...... Almost all of a woman's shortcomings are reflected in her. Not only was it unbearable, but so were the neighbors, and in just a few years, she had covered a street.

Slowly, the villagers' name for his wife also changed.

At first, the villagers called her "Xu Qingping's wife" when they talked about her, and later became "the shrew of Xu Qingping's family", then "the shrew of the Xu family", and finally became "the shrew in the north of the village". Xu Qingping felt unable to raise his head in front of the villagers.

For this reason, Xu Qingping did not persuade less, nor did he quarrel less, nor did he fight less. But it didn't work, she still went her own way, and she opened her mouth to scold when she saw something unpleasant, this is true for her neighbors, and it is the same for him.

When Xu Qingping first became a village cadre, she used to be a little restrained, but it didn't take long for her to gradually return to her original state. It's useless to beat, and it's useless to scold. Xu Qingping had no choice but to suppress his depression in his heart.

When Hu Shantao first married in the village, he also caused a sensation in the village.

Not only because Hu Shantao is a rare beautiful daughter-in-law in the village, but also because she is not a man. This kind of bad man who doesn't do his job and doesn't learn well actually brought back such a beautiful daughter-in-law from outside, how can the men in the village not be blushing? What's wrong with this society? Is it true that men are not bad and women are not loved? How could such a bright peony flower be inserted in such a stinky lump of cow dung? How can such a tender cabbage be arched by a pig?

Regarding Hu Shantao, Xu Qingping did not have a good impression at first. Although she is a rare beautiful daughter-in-law in the village, he Xu Qingping is not the kind of carrot that can't pull out his legs when he sees a beautiful woman. Things are gathered by like, people are divided by groups, crabs and crabs, catfish and catfish are grouped. She is willing to hang out with the kind of man who doesn't learn well, and she is certainly not a good woman.

But slowly, he realized that things were not what he thought. She was kind, helpful, and got along well with her neighbors, completely different from his man, and the villagers liked her very much. He couldn't help but wonder, how could such a beautiful, kind-hearted woman marry such a man who didn't do his job properly and specialized in bad things?

Slowly, he finally understood that she was deceived, and she was deceived by that ruffian. For this reason, he began to pity her again, for a weak woman like her, who was kind-hearted and powerless, could she have good fruit to eat in the hands of such a ruffian?

Sure enough, the news that she was abused by that ruffian man at home slowly spread.

A beautiful daughter-in-law like her, who came from other places, was originally the object of people's attention. Coupled with the fact that she has been married for several years and has no children, it is easier to arouse people's interest, and her news naturally spreads faster in the village.

He sympathized with her more and more, pitied her, and unconsciously wanted to help her.

He is a man, and it is in his nature to protect the weak. But the shrew in his family doesn't need him to protect her at all, as long as she doesn't bully others, no one else will bully her. Now that the poor woman is being bullied by that bastard man, she needs help and he has to find a way to help her.

Just as she was thinking about how to help her, she came to the village committee pitifully. After telling the village cadres what happened to her, she said that she planned to divorce the bastard man.

Listening to her tell her own grievances, he couldn't help but feel a trace of pain in his heart. As a member of the branch in charge of mediation, it is his bounden obligation to help her get out of the sea of suffering.

After door-to-door persuasion failed, he decided to use the law to help her out of the sea of suffering.

To this end, he helped her find a lawyer and help her fight the lawsuit. When she was frightened and helpless by the man's threats, he comforted and encouraged her in every way. In the end, she finally won the case and escaped from the clutches of that bastard man. In order to prevent her from being retaliated against by the scoundrel, he persuaded the other members of the two committees to vacate a house from the village council for her to live in temporarily. Moreover, he also took strict precautions to ensure her safety.

God has eyes, only more than two months later, the ruffian hooligan was arrested and imprisoned by the public security organs on suspicion of multiple cases, and was sentenced to 20 years in prison by the court soon after for multiple crimes. Hu Shantao, this poor woman finally started a new life safely and securely.

She didn't want to go back to her hometown, so he reapplied for a homestead for her through the village and helped her build a new house. Seeing her feeding the rabbits and raising pheasants in the courtyard, he also felt very happy and satisfied.

Later, the two village committees were re-elected, and he became the secretary of the party branch and the director of the village committee. And she was also elected by the villagers into the village committee, became a member of the village committee, and became a partner in his work.

At first, he helped Yamamo, just because he pitied her and sympathized with her. But after becoming a colleague with her, as the contact increased, he found that his feelings for her gradually changed. He loved to be with her, longed to be with her, and talking to her in the office in the evenings became the happiest part of his day, so much so that he went to the office almost every night. If Shan Tao didn't go, he would feel lost in his heart.

As a man in his forties, he knows what this psychology means? I also know that this is not right. He was a married man, and although his marriage was unhappy, it was not a reason to seek an extramarital affair. Besides, Shan Tao is currently a single woman, and she still has to find a reliable man to start a family after all, and since he can't be responsible for her, he can't have any thoughts about her.

Therefore, as much as he longs to be with her, he strictly controls himself and never allows himself to do anything out of the ordinary. When he was with Shan Tao, he only talked about work and never talked about his family. Sometimes, he would also tell her something about finding a suitable person to start a family as soon as possible while she was young. But Shan Tao just shook his head and didn't speak. He knew that the first marriage had hurt Shan Tao a lot, and she hadn't completely come out of that shadow.

divorced his wife, and then restarted a family with Shan Tao. It's not that he hasn't thought about it, after all, he's a normal man. has been arguing with his wife for more than ten years, and he is really tired of it, and he doesn't want to live with his wife anymore.

But when he thinks about it, he doesn't have that courage.

In the countryside, divorce is far less casual than in the city, and although he once helped Yamamo divorce her bastard man, he can't do it easily. His situation is not the same as that of Yamamo, whose ex-husband is a ruffian and hooligan who has done all the bad things and is hated by the whole village, and who often abuses Yamamo. Shan Tao divorced the hooligan, and the whole village supported her. He is different, although his wife is a shrew in the eyes of people, she has not done anything bad, far from being comparable to that rascal. And she is a woman, a traditional weakling, divorce her, not to mention whether others will morally support him, he himself will feel uncomfortable.

Besides, after all, he has been married for more than ten years, and he has already given him a good youth, and he divorced her, how will you let her live in the future? He is the secretary of the party branch, and he talks about moral construction to the villagers every day, and he himself cannot but talk about morality.

In addition, it was he who helped Shan Tao get divorced, and now that he is divorced and goes to find Shan Tao, what will the villagers think? It turns out that you helped Shan Tao divorce with premeditation! You're really scheming!

Therefore, considering these various reasons, he cannot go down the path of divorce.

However, he really couldn't stand the troubles of being with his wife. Quarreling and fighting every day, is this still a home?

Not only he couldn't stand it, but even his son couldn't stand it. After graduating from junior high school, his son said that he would go to high school in Chaiyuan City. He said that he had seen enough of the two of them fighting every day, and he wanted to stay away from home, out of sight and out of mind. Before leaving, he also did work for the two of them again and said, "Dad, Mom, if you can't get by, just leave, why bother like this?" Don't you feel tired of fighting every day? Don't worry, I won't feel uncomfortable, divorced, you are still my parents. In the future, I will still raise you normally. ”

Thinking about his son's words, he really wanted to be ruthless and just leave. But after thinking about it, he couldn't make up his mind. In fact, apart from that certificate, can they still be called husband and wife? He spends no time at home, and even at night he often sleeps in the office. She was also used to him like this, and she didn't care if he went home or not.

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