Migrating to Australia? To be honest, WYJ's dream really surprised me, and I asked suspiciously, "Does your immigration to Australia have anything to do with your job?" As for making it difficult for yourself for the job? Wyj's eyes were a little red, she took a tissue herself, wiped her eyes, and choked up a little: "My unit is engaged in foreign trade, and the object of foreign trade business happens to be Australia, through this job I have met a lot of Australian friends, through their help, I feel more and more that my immigration dream can be realized." Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info and after my boss saw my dream, he began to coerce and lure me, sometimes saying that he could help me realize my dream of immigrating to Australia, and sometimes saying that if I didn't obey him, I would lose this job opportunity, so that I no longer have a shortcut to contact Australia. I really couldn't help it, so after a company dinner, under the influence of alcohol, I was capitulated and I opened a room with my boss. It was a horrific experience, he tortured me 3 times in one night, and I later learned that his wife had emigrated to Australia, and he was alone, of course, he needed to vent. ”

"Do you think it's worth it?" I asked:

WYJ thought for a moment, nodded firmly, and said, "If I had to do it all over again, I would still do it." Because only in this way can I keep my dream of immigrating to Australia as close as possible. In fact, I have to tell you one thing, that is, since I had my boss for the first time, my boss would ask to accompany him every Friday night. I didn't say no, and I'll be there on Friday. Take the initiative to open the room and wait for him. ”

After listening to WYJ's words. I was stunned. Look at Wyj's delicate face. It really can't be connected to the experience she just talked about. I didn't know what to say, just drinking tea and smoking. WYJ seemed to see my surprise, so he said to me very calmly, "Dr. Jiang, don't be surprised. Actually, I opened a room with my boss, not because I wanted to please anything, but I felt that since I couldn't change it, why should I run away? Only by doing so will I not lose my job. I won't lose my dream of migrating to Australia. On two occasions, when I had a period on Friday, my boss wouldn't be considerate of me at all, and he still had to force sex with me, and then I begged him to give him a blowjob to make him cum, and he let me go. Dr. Jiang, can I escape in the face of this kind of person? Unless I don't want to work, but I just can't afford to lose it. ”

For such a woman who has no self-love, I really don't know how to help her. I thought about it for a long time before a question burst out: "Then you accepted it like this." So why seek psychological help? Wyj sat back for a moment, and then said: "Some time ago, the boss went back to Australia because of family affairs, but I don't know what's wrong, I know that the boss is not here, but I still go to open the room on Friday, and it has been like this for three weeks in a row." Dr. Jiang, do you think I have the obsessive-compulsive disorder in psychology? ”

"All I can say is that you have a tendency to OCD, but you are definitely not a person with OCD." I said:

WYJ didn't seem to believe my explanation, she shook her head and said, "Doctor Jiang, no, I've also checked Baidu for this matter." After speaking, WYJ took out a small notebook, handed it to me and said, "Doctor Jiang, take a look, I have written down all the obsessive-compulsive disorder on Baidu in this small book." I took the small notebook and took a cursory look at the records on it, although the records were dense, but also orderly, indicating that WYJ should be quite planned in his usual work, at least a measured person. I don't know why she would do such a ridiculous thing? WYJ looked at me looking at her little notebook and kept asking, "Doctor Jiang, how is it?" I'm really obsessive-compulsive, right? I closed her little notebook and handed it back to her, smiled and said, "WYJ, one of the most obvious characteristics of OCD is that patients with OCD will try to restrain the appearance of OCD, but they can't, so it will be very painful. Do you have that pain right now? Wyj shook his head at me. Do you like watching movies? I asked Wyj, who still nodded. If you want to get an intuitive understanding of OCD, you can go to an American movie called "The Stick Man". I suggested: WYJ stopped sitting on his back, sat up straight, and asked me, "So what kind of psychological problem does my condition have?" I smiled bitterly and said, "Similar to your situation, I can only say that you are trying to make an unacceptable behavior into your acceptable habit, and if one day you will feel pain about it, it means that you are really suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder!" Wyj nodded thoughtfully.

A few tips about OCD:

1. There are four major obsessive objects of obsessive-compulsive disorder, which are compulsive actions, obsessive intentions, obsessive thoughts, and obsessive emotions. Among them, forced actions occupy the largest number;

2. Obsessive-compulsive disorder and delusional disorder are easily confused, the former may be transformed into specific behaviors because of delusions, while the latter is only limited to delusions, so it can be concluded that patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder may have both delusions, but paranoia patients will not have obsessive-compulsive disorder;

3. Obsessive-compulsive disorder is one of the most common psychological diseases, about one in every 60 people suffers from obsessive-compulsive disorder;

4. Those who are unwilling to participate in social activities often and have irregular sleep are prone to obsessive-compulsive disorder. So otaku otaku should pay more attention!

Remorse for a topless photo

My wife called me when I was about to get off work and invited me to go to the restaurant in the evening. I was a little flattered by this invitation, but the tacit understanding between husband and wife for many years made me know that there must be something behind my wife's courtesy.

Sure enough, as soon as the two of them entered the restaurant and finished ordering the food, the wife lamented alone there: "Aunt Zhang's daughter is so pitiful, she is almost 30 years old, and she has no object yet!" I couldn't think of who the "Aunt Zhang" my wife was talking about, so I looked at my wife blankly, and my wife saw that I didn't react at all, and her lamenting face suddenly turned into a resentful woman, and said to me with white eyes: "Aunt Zhang's daughter said that she has autism." So I can't get married yet. I asked stupidly, "Which 'Aunt Zhang'?" My wife was suddenly angry. Said viciously: "It's on the village alley where I lived when I was a child." The Aunt Zhang who lives at the end of the village. "My wife grew up in the city since she was a child, when did she live in what village? But seeing my wife's angry roar, I really didn't dare to have any more doubts, so I pretended to suddenly realize and said, "Ah! It turned out to be that Aunt Zhang, I remembered it, I remembered. How? Does her daughter have autism? Seeing that I "understood", my wife smiled and said, "Yes, you say it's strange." Aunt Zhang's daughter used to be very outgoing, and she was very beautiful, how many boys chased her. But the last time I met Aunt Zhang, I asked about the family situation, and I learned that her daughter was reluctant to see people and talk to people since she was 26 years old. I didn't look good either. It's okay now, 30-year-olds. The daughter's marriage event caused Aunt Zhang to die in a hurry. "Huh?" I'm a little puzzled that it doesn't seem reasonable for a girl to have autism at the age of 26, and her personality before the age of 26 is quite extroverted at all. My wife looked at me and asked, "What's wrong?" Is there a problem? I replied, "Wife, are you sure that Aunt Zhang's daughter is suffering from autism?" My wife nodded slowly and said, "It was Aunt Zhang who told me personally, saying that this conclusion was reached during psychological counseling." ”

"Wife, I can tell you clearly. The conclusion that Aunt Zhang's daughter has autism is probably wrong. I said categorically: My wife looked at me in surprise, and then said slowly: "Husband, do you know the reason why I invited you to dinner?" "I know, aren't you going to let me help Aunt Zhang's daughter!" I laughed and said, "My wife suddenly got up, kissed me on the left cheek, and then said angrily, "Husband, you are so smart!" I originally hoped that you could take time out of your busy schedule to help Aunt Zhang's daughter with autism. Now I not only want to help Aunt Zhang's daughter, but also find out the quack doctor who diagnosed Aunt Zhang's daughter indiscriminately, first slap him twice, then give him a flying leg, and then twist it to the Public Security Bureau. I smiled and said, "My wife, I first have to contact Aunt Zhang's daughter to confirm what the psychological problem is." Maybe the quack you mentioned is indeed superior, then maybe, don't wronged the good guys. The wife said happily: "My husband is the best, let's go back after dinner, and I will give you the information of Aunt Zhang's daughter." ”

How can I not listen to my wife's explanation?

After returning home, I spent 2 hours studying the information my wife gave me: Aunt Zhang's daughter is called GL, who used to be a salesperson in a large shopping mall, and for some reason, GL was silent almost overnight when she was 26 years old, and she didn't want to see outsiders. So even quit his job, and later, accompanied by Aunt Zhang, he found a so-called psychological counseling agency (later verified that it was not filed in the psychological counseling center, and the psychological counseling agency is now empty) to conduct psychological counseling on GL's situation, and came to the conclusion that it is the so-called autism. The reason why I was able to conclude that GL was characterized as autistic was a misdiagnosis was based on the fact that I had autism at the age of 1 or 26. 2. Silence almost overnight. These two points can basically judge that GL is unlikely to suffer from autism, and the initial judgment of individuals should be that GL is likely to suffer from social phobia. However, GL's profession is a salesperson, and it is difficult to cause GL's social phobia if this is an extroverted job, so it is certain that the root of GL's social phobia should come from a certain detail of life. Of course, these are just my inferences, which require more understanding and contact with GL himself.

Under the "matchmaking" of my wife, I came to Aunt Zhang's house, Aunt Zhang received me very warmly, during the reception, I asked to see GL, Aunt Zhang whispered to me: "Jiang Jiaxian's nephew, my daughter doesn't want to talk to people, so she stays in the room alone." I comforted Aunt Zhang and said, "Aunt Zhang, don't worry! I will be able to cure your daughter's illness. "Aunt Zhang took me to GL's room, GL's room was locked, and Aunt Zhang opened it with a key. As soon as I entered the room, the thick curtains blocked all the sunlight and it was dark inside. Aunt Zhang pointed to the person curled up in the bed and whispered to me, "Nephew of the Jiang family, that is my daughter." Then Aunt Zhang said to GL: "Daughter, someone has come to see you!" I saw that GL in the bed was unmoved, still curled up there. If there is no breathing state of GL. I thought it was a dead man lying there. I tried to go up and communicate with GL. But GL seemed scared to see me. There was a hint of fear in his eyes. From this, I confirmed my original judgment that GL suffers from social phobia. I knew it didn't make sense to communicate with GL at this point. So I took the initiative to signal Aunt Zhang to leave GL's room and come to the living room, I whispered to Aunt Zhang: "Aunt Zhang, I'm going to call a colleague of mine to come over and hypnotize GL." Aunt Zhang looked at me in a daze and said, "Hypnosis? "Yes, only through hypnosis of GL. to know the root cause of her appearance! I explained: Aunt Zhang looked at me with a trusting look in her eyes, and said very steadily: "Nephew Jiang Jiaxian, I will listen to you whatever you say." I am also confident that my daughter will recover. ”

The greatness of maternal love lies in selflessness, and when we face maternal love, in addition to respect, it is moving. In the face of such a mother's love, I have an unshirkable responsibility.

After contacting Director Hong, a hypnosis expert in my unit, and explaining the situation to him, he said that he would rush over immediately. Director Hong has always been a warm-hearted person, and there are only 2 hypnotherapists in the whole unit. The other is Nguyen Tianwen from Vietnam, who came here for an internship. He can't be counted on in business. It didn't take long for Director Hong to finally find Aunt Zhang's home, and he didn't be polite to us, and after asking me some relevant information about GL, he asked Aunt Zhang to take him into GL's room, Director Hong repeatedly asked us not to disturb him and GL, and then followed Aunt Zhang into GL's room. After a while, Aunt Zhang came out of GL's room, and I accompanied Aunt Zhang to chat in the living room for a while. There are faint sounds of GL's dreams coming from GL's room. About the time of a TV series, Director Hong walked out of the GL room, called me alone and said: "The hypnosis effect is very good, there are a few key points you need to pay attention to, 1. There is a nude photo that has a great impact on her; 2. Threatened by others; 3. The concept of family is very strong. I nodded, handed a cigarette to Director Hong, lit it for him, and then asked, "Based on Director Hong's experience, is it possible for her to be cured of such a situation?" Director Hong took a deep puff of his cigarette, thought for a while, and then said in a deep voice: "Xiao Jiang, this situation can only be controlled, and cannot be cured." I was a little surprised and said, "Isn't GL suffering from social phobia?" Director Hong's face was a little heavy and said: "Social phobia is certain, but according to the effect of hypnosis, it seems that the treatment method in the early stage of GL is not dealt with in accordance with the material method of social phobia, and this condition has been mistaken for too long, and it has been complicated by depression." "I was stupid over there, depression, the equivalent of physical cancer, which is incurable with the current level of medical care. GL suffered from depression at the age of 30. This is undoubtedly a major blow to a person, a family. I don't know how to face GL, how to face Aunt Zhang, how to face my wife? Director Hong hurriedly said goodbye to me and Aunt Zhang because he had other matters. I could only face Aunt Zhang in embarrassment, Aunt Zhang seemed to notice something, and asked me with a solemn face: "Nephew of the Jiang family, is there something wrong?" I could only comfort Aunt Zhang and said, "Aunt Zhang, GL is not autism, but social phobia. This problem can be cured. "Aunt Zhang seemed to be much relieved when she heard my relief. He muttered, "That's good, that's good!" ”

The effect of hypnotherapy is the best for the radical treatment of GL social phobia, but the cost is too great. Director Hong offered to help, but I still refused, and I used conservative cognitive therapy to help GL gradually overcome social phobia. The treatment took a long time, but I was always 100% committed. When GL could communicate normally, I learned the reason why GL suffered from social phobia, that is, GL had a relationship at the age of 25, at first both parties were fine, for this reason when they were still having sex, her boyfriend took passionate nude photos of her, but at the time, GL found that her boyfriend had many vices, so he wanted to break up with him decisively, the boyfriend was unwilling, and threatened to let all of GL's relatives and friends see GL's passionate nude photos. Hit by this, GL became reticent, as if he was a different person, and lost his job for it. Her boyfriend was afraid that it would get bigger, so he gave up. But the pain and hidden dangers left for GL for this do not stop there. Afterwards, GL's misdiagnosis dragged on and on, and a lot of the pain caused stemmed from that passionate nude photo.

GL eventually triumphed over social phobia, but she was once again a "slave" to depression!

A few tips about social phobia:

1. To a large extent, stuttering is also a manifestation of social phobia;

2. Social phobia is often accompanied by anxiety disorders;

3. The imbalance of serotonin in the human body causes physiological social fear;

4. Timidity and sensitivity of children are likely to be the premise of inducing social phobia in adults. (To be continued.) )