CB privately asked me how I could get rid of the zlh as soon as possible. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 I smiled and whispered to CB, "Learn about mall security." CB scratched the back of his head inexplicably, and asked me in a daze: "Learn mall security?" I don't understand! I pointed to ZLH not far away and whispered to CB, "You can listen to her story about mall security, and you'll understand!" ”

Tips for **:

1. ** is a symbol of a high degree of social civilization, and it does not have many legal and moral constraints such as a third party, adultery, and prostitution;

2. Relatively speaking, women are more acceptable**, because neither side will be hurt by each other. It is difficult for men to do this, men prefer to maintain long-term sexual relations, even if it is immoral or even illegal to maintain this sexual relationship;

3. ** is not the same as **, adultery. It is based on the premise of not knowing the other party's life background, so to a large extent, ** is "based on color";

4. Women** are more for indulgence, revenge, and the elimination of loneliness. And men are more for curiosity, showing off capital and instinct;

5. The most frequent "lots" are: networks, bars, and companies. Even a narrow space can also create **, my friend has the experience of taking the bus, because the two of them sit together, they have a good feeling, and they go directly to open the house after getting off the bus.

(The following case should be my last psychological case, which is more interesting, strictly speaking, this is not my case, it is related to the current social youth, and I regarded it purely as a story at the time.) And what do you dossier? Compare realistic. People will have some feelings after reading it, but in this story, because someone else entrusted me to deal with it, so when I was dealing with it, I was not particularly careful, so I also made a lot of mistakes, when my record was seen by a certain leader, he made the most authentic evaluation to me on the spot: Xiao Jiang. You are definitely not a qualified psychologist! At that time, I was still a little unconvinced when I got this evaluation, but after so many years, looking back, the evaluation of me by the leader at that time was still very pertinent! ）

A friend of mine who works in psychological counseling in Shanghai called me out of the blue, and after asking for warmth, he went straight to the point and told me to contact a person, who was Wang Min (pseudonym). 19 years old. If you get in touch, it's best to help him. Then through QQ, the relevant information of the people was passed to me, and the reason why my friends in Shanghai asked me for help was because I was in the same city as Wang Min, and he was very busy and couldn't get out. I was very puzzled and asked, "How can you take on cases from other places?" My friend said embarrassedly on the other end of the phone: "His sister works in Shanghai, is my friend's girlfriend, entrusted by others, and embarrassed to refuse, in fact, according to my experience, that Wang Min has a very strong rebellious psychology, very easy to solve, I hope you can help me this time." "I looked at my schedule and wasn't very nervous, so I agreed.

Wang Min, 19 years old, from Wuxi, has just graduated from secondary school, is now unemployed, lives with his parents, has a sister (that is, the girlfriend of my friend in Shanghai) works in Shanghai, and his parents may be influenced by the patriarchal mentality, and they are more doting on Wang Min, but this has led to Wang Min's arrogance and arrogance, and even has a bad history of picking quarrels and provoking trouble.

I tried to contact Wang Min through the information provided by my friends in Shanghai, but they were all told that "the number you dialed is down." When Wang Min's parents learned of my intention, they were a little excited, and took the initiative to invite them to their house for a detailed conversation. Through the interview, I learned more about Wang Min and his family background, Wang Min's father was an honest worker, and his mother was a woman from the countryside to the city, a typical housewife. The level of education is generally not high, the family economic situation in Wuxi belongs to the middle and lower reaches, the son Wang Min is quite uncompetitive, and finally cultivated to graduate from secondary school, not only do not work to make money, but every day outside the mess. Fortunately, after graduating from university, her daughter worked in Shanghai, and would go home once a month to give most of what she earned to the family. Wang Min's parents, especially his father, expressed special regret for Wang Min's previous doting. Wang Min's father finally said a word, which made people feel particularly distressed: our family is not rich, but never dared to treat his son badly, when he went to secondary school, we took out 100 yuan from the living expenses that were not rich to him as pocket money, but for him, it was not enough at all, at first asked us, we didn't give it, he stole the family's money, the family had no money, he secretly took out the valuable things at home to sell, there was no valuable things at home, he was robbing students outside. Big brother, we really can't help it, but we can't watch the government take care of him, you must help my son! At this moment, I suddenly felt that I was under a lot of pressure, which was far from being as simple as my Shanghai friend said that "the rebellious psychology is stronger".

It was easy to find Wang Min through Wang Min's parents, when he was found in a large Internet café he was obsessed with surfing the Internet, when I saw him, he was thin and small, and his face was relatively delicate, which was very different from my imagination of Wang Min, just looking at his appearance, it was difficult to imagine that he was Wang Min who stole family money and robbed students of money, and there was a girl sitting next to Wang Min, dressed up hiply, snuggling up to Wang Min, looking at this situation, she should be Wang Min's girlfriend. Wang Min was very involved in the Internet, and he didn't notice my existence at all, but his girlfriend next to him noticed me, and the girl said to me casually: "What are you doing?" I smiled and said, "I'm here to invite Wang Min to dinner together." This sentence surprised the girl and also "alarmed" Wang Min, Wang Min turned his head to look at the strange me, his eyes naturally revealed a trace of incomprehension, and asked me in a puzzled tone: "Do I know you?" ”

"I'm your sister's friend, of course I know you, but you don't know me, what time are you going to go online? When that's over, I'll invite you both to dinner together. I said:

That Wang Min suddenly smiled, and then said: "My sister MD is really diligent in changing boyfriends, since someone invites her to dinner." That's not going to go online either. Let's go. "Finished. Hugged his girlfriend and went to the Internet café counter to pay the bill. I was stunned for a moment, and then I reacted, Wang Min regarded me as his sister's new boyfriend.

When I got out of the door of the Internet café, Wang Min said to me, "Where is the car?" I was stunned again, and then said, "I don't have a car, let's just find a place to eat." Wang Min said disdainfully to his girlfriend: "My sister is getting more and more tasteless, and she doesn't even have a car to find a boyfriend." The girl laughed and I just shook my head. "If you don't have a car, you can take a taxi. Let's go to Xixin Hotel to eat. Wang Min didn't wait for me to agree, so he stopped a taxi and got in with his girlfriend first. I then got into the car and told the driver the destination, I was puzzled and asked, "There are so many hotels here, why do you want to go to the Xixin Hotel?" Wang Min said disdainfully: "If you are my enemy and listen to you, won't I be fooled and suffer?" "I feel a pang in my heart that this "concern" is far from what Wang Min should have.

When I came to Xixin Hotel, I asked for a private room. Sit down. Wang Min didn't have any "etiquette" or "politeness", and he and his girlfriend ordered all the dishes they needed. The waiter reminded again and again: "The three of you can't eat so much." The king just said: "Anyway, someone invites, don't get in the way, let's have more, don't you get profitable?" The waiter could only helplessly say: "This is our obligation to inform." After ordering, the waiter asked me in disbelief, "Is it served according to what you ordered?" I could only smile and say, "Just press what they ordered!" Only then did Wang Min look at me with his eyes, and then took out a pack of cigarettes, lit one himself, and asked me if I smoked? I motioned to smoke my own, he looked at the brand of the cigarette I smoked, he didn't seem to have seen it, he didn't ask, he took it and played with it, and then took one and gave it to his girlfriend, the girl "knew the way" and smoked it, took a puff, and said, "Yes, it's very light, better than your seven stars." Wang Min looked at the cigarette cases in foreign languages, and really didn't know what brand it was, so he asked me for advice, and I replied lightly: "Davidoff from Germany." Take it if you want. Wang Min smiled and said, "My sister's new boyfriend is also stingy, so he gave his brother-in-law a pack of cigarettes, is there a meeting gift?" I also smiled and said, "I'm sorry, I'm not your sister's boyfriend, but I'm a friend of your sister's boyfriend's friend." Wang Min felt very surprised, and then felt that such a relationship was very "complicated", so he said: "No matter what kind of friend you are, what is your intention in inviting me to dinner?" I didn't pay any attention to him, so I said to my girlfriend next to me, "Do you know Wang Min? The girl was still savoring the cigarette and ignored me. I continued: "Your boyfriend's father is an ordinary worker, and his mother is an honest rural woman, don't look at him as well-dressed, the money for these clothes is either stolen or robbed. As soon as these words came out, Wang Min and the girl were stunned. Wang Min shouted, "Don't talk nonsense! The girl looked at Wang Min suspiciously. Obviously, Wang Min pursued this girl, and he must have boasted of himself as "heaven and earth". And what that girl likes about Wang Min, the officials also know it. I said this deliberately, Wang Min was really furious, and the girl was really puzzled.

Wang Min continued his quibble, and the girl was still skeptical. At this time, I said to the girl, "If you let him take you to see his parents and his family, he will know who is telling the truth and who is lying." The Wang Min stood up and muttered, "Who are you?" I ignored him, but continued to say to the girl, "You can see how much money he has in his wallet now?" You don't want to think that if he had money, he would take you to the Internet? The girl had already believed me for seven points at this time, and she asked Wang Mindao, "What do your parents do?" Wang Min still quibbled: "My parents are in business, and now they are in Guangdong. The girl said, "Then you can take me to your house, you should live alone, right?" Being asked like this, Wang Min was stunned. At this time, the girl completely believed me, and she scolded Wang Min: "What kind of hero are you MD not capable of? Wang Min looked at me viciously, then took out his mobile phone, and said to me while dialing: "Don't leave if you have the ability, you wait for me." The girl was a little panicked and looked at me. I laughed and said, "Let him fight!" We're waiting here. At this time, the price of the food I had just ordered was moved. I said to the girl, "Let's eat first." Wait for him to call someone. The girl still looked uneasy.

And that royal people. Holding a mobile phone, he first shouted in the private room, "Ah Long, I'm wow, in the Xixin Hotel, you call someone over to help me settle down." "Then he hung up the phone and wanted to fight me, but luckily I had a good body. It is not a disadvantage to fight with a young man who is less than 20, and Wang Min saw that he could not get cheap, so he dropped a sentence and said: "Wait, I'll go downstairs and wait for someone." Then he said viciously to the girl, "Will you come with me?" At this time, the girl categorically would not follow Wang Min.

After leaving Wang Min, the girl said to me in a panic: "Let's go quickly, it's too late to leave!" I smiled and said, "You've been fooled by his lies, so it's okay." But it's unforgivable for you to be fooled by his performance! "Performance?" The girl was puzzled. I pointed to the dishes on the table and said, "I ordered too much, we ate slowly, and his mobile phone was in arrears." Can I call someone? "The girl called Wang Min's mobile phone, and it was really in arrears. But he was still a little uneasy and said: "Then he can call someone by just finding a public phone!" I think this girl seems to be sophisticated, but in fact she is still very naïve, I can only say: "A person who can't even pay the full amount of his mobile phone bill, and still expects others to help him do illegal things?" Only then did the girl be relieved.

As expected, I ate late with the girl that day, and I didn't see Wang Min bring his friends to "take revenge".

When I got home in the evening, I opened my email and hesitated for a long time, and finally sent this text to my Shanghai friend: "See, Wang Min is not as simple as rebellion, several mental illnesses coexist with hypothesis and inferiority, forgive me for being incompetent and unable to help, but the combination of hypothesis and inferiority complex has made me 'Shan', you can follow up." I hope you forgive me! ”

A friend of mine who works in psychological counseling in Shanghai called me out of the blue, and after asking for warmth, he went straight to the point and told me to contact a 19-year-old person, Wang Min (pseudonym). If you get in touch, it's best to help him, and then pass the relevant information of the people to me through QQ, the reason why my friends in Shanghai asked me for help is because I am in the same city as Wang Min, and he is very busy and can't get out. I was very puzzled and asked, "How can you take on cases from other places?" My friend said embarrassedly on the other end of the phone: "His sister works in Shanghai, is my friend's girlfriend, entrusted by others, and embarrassed to refuse, in fact, according to my experience, that Wang Min has a very strong rebellious psychology, very easy to solve, I hope you can help me this time." "I looked at my schedule and wasn't very nervous, so I agreed.

Wang Min, 19 years old, from Wuxi, has just graduated from secondary school, is now unemployed, lives with his parents, has a sister (that is, the girlfriend of my friend in Shanghai) works in Shanghai, and his parents may be influenced by the patriarchal mentality, and they are more doting on Wang Min, but this has led to Wang Min's arrogance and arrogance, and even has a bad history of picking quarrels and provoking trouble.

I tried to contact Wang Min through the information provided by my friends in Shanghai, but they were all told that "the number you dialed is down." When Wang Min's parents learned of my intention, they were a little excited, and took the initiative to invite them to their house for a detailed conversation. Through the interview, I learned more about Wang Min and his family background, Wang Min's father was an honest worker, and his mother was a woman from the countryside to the city, a typical housewife. The level of education is generally not high, the family economic situation in Wuxi belongs to the middle and lower reaches, the son Wang Min is quite uncompetitive, and finally cultivated to graduate from secondary school, not only do not work to make money, but every day outside the mess. Fortunately, after graduating from university, her daughter worked in Shanghai, and would go home once a month to give most of what she earned to the family. Wang Min's parents, especially his father, expressed special regret for Wang Min's previous doting. Wang Min's father finally said a word, which made people feel particularly distressed: our family is not rich, but never dared to treat his son badly, when he went to secondary school, we took out 100 yuan from the living expenses that were not rich to him as pocket money, but for him, it was not enough at all, at first asked us, we didn't give it, he stole the family's money, the family had no money, he secretly took out the valuable things at home to sell, there was no valuable things at home, he was robbing students outside. Big brother, we really can't help it, but we can't watch the government take care of him, you must help my son! At this moment, I suddenly felt that I was under a lot of pressure, which was far from being as simple as my Shanghai friend said that "the rebellious psychology is stronger". (To be continued.) )