Sex workers, most of whom are women. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info is commonly known as ** by the society. Their psychological state is what our front-line psychologists urgently need to grasp and understand, and only by mastering their psychological state can we effectively understand the psychological trends and needs of people living at the bottom of society.

According to the requirements of the unit, we front-line psychologists must contact these sex workers as a friend, because only in this way can we have a better, more authentic and effective understanding of their psychological activities. But in reality, it is undoubtedly impossible to do it, make friends with sex workers, and your lover agrees? Do your relatives and friends agree? Besides, you don't mind making friends with sex workers, they do! Truth be told, sex workers are more vigilant and vigilant than any other professional.

This year's psychological investigation is much more difficult than in previous years, because it coincides with the national crackdown on pornography, and many sex workers have disappeared. It is even more difficult to find sex workers, especially those who are willing to undergo psychological investigations. Luckily, I met a hotel friend who knew a sex worker who worked part-time. With his help, I met this part-time sex worker and agreed to meet at a teahouse in the city. The "appearance fee" paid to her for this is 300 yuan.

First of all, let's introduce the background information of this part-time sex worker: LJL, a 26-year-old native of the city, is unmarried, and works as a counter salesperson for a certain brand of perfume in a large shopping mall in the city. An income of more than 3,000 yuan a month cannot pay for her high consumption. When I was 23 years old, I met a Taiwanese and acted as the ** of that Taiwanese naturally. In 08, the world economy was sluggish, and that Taiwanese returned to Taiwan. LJL has nothing to rely on. Massive overdrafts of credit cards. Paying off the loan from her salary is simply a drop in the bucket. Forced to desperation. She approached that hotel friend of mine and wanted to introduce her to a big deal. The hotel friend made it clear that the big money he knows are business people, running here today, running there tomorrow, long-term ** is unrealistic, but it can be short-term **or**. In order to make more money as soon as possible, LJL immediately agreed. The price of one time is 450 yuan ~ 600 yuan. The price of one night is 800 yuan ~ 1200 yuan. Then she began her part-time "career".

The teahouse where we met was chosen by LJL, and it is said that she is a frequent visitor here. I arrived at the LJL box in advance, and before she arrived, I took out the questionnaire and the pre-prepared questions alone, and I did not bring my laptop and voice recorder with me as she requested. After a while, a waiter led a beautiful woman about 166 centimeters tall into the box, only to hear the waiter say kindly: "Sister L, this is the box you booked, Mr. Jiang is already waiting here!" I heard the beautiful woman say, "Thank you." If you don't ring the bell (call for service), don't come in randomly. The waiter nodded and left. I guess this beauty should be LJL. Hurriedly got up and greeted each other and said, "Hello, you're LJL, right?" I am Jiang Kai introduced by WF (hotel friend). LJL looked at me, sat down, and said, "I thought that the psychologist was a very vicissitudes of life and a very old image, but I didn't expect to be so young." I smiled wryly and explained: "It's too easy to become a psychologist now, theoretically speaking, you can become a national second-level psychological counselor at the age of 24!" LJL nodded, then pulled out a pack of cigarettes from his handbag, pulled out one, and lit it for himself. I took a closer look at LJL, her big eyes, long eyelashes, white skin, beautiful figure and fashionable dress, she is definitely a big beauty, but behind such bright clothes, who can know that she is engaged in sex work that is not well known?

"LJL, if it's convenient, let's start the survey, shall we?" After that, I handed her a questionnaire, only to see that LJL did not take it, but still smoked her cigarette elegantly. I suddenly remembered something, and hurriedly took out 300 yuan and handed it over. At this time, LJL put out the cigarette, put away the money, and began to make a questionnaire.

The content of the questionnaire is very simple, most of them are multiple-choice questions about the background of the respondents. Respondents only need to answer truthfully according to the content of the questionnaire. It took LJL more than 10 minutes to finish the answer. When I took the questionnaire, LJL cautiously asked, "Dr. Jiang, are you sure this questionnaire will be kept confidential?" I nodded categorically and asked, "Don't worry, this must be confidential." When we finish this meeting, I will seal this answer sheet in front of you. Then go back to the unit for archiving. If you have any questions, you can go to our unit at any time through your own identification. LJL nodded and muttered, "I believe in you!" ”

"Then ljl, next I will ask you some questions, these questions may involve your privacy, if you feel inconvenient to answer, you can explain it to me, but everything you answer, it must be true, is it okay?" I asked:

LJL nodded and said, "No problem, just ask!" ”

"Can you tell us about the first time you learned about sex?" I asked:

LJL thought for a moment, and then said: "This is not very clear, the first time was when I was a child, I was touched by a man who made a living, and then I went back and told my mother, and I was educated by my mother." What I knew about sex at the time was that men can't touch women. Later, when I was in junior high school, I became obsessed with reading romance novels, and a large number of ** descriptions in them made me really understand sex. ”

"You don't learn about sex from a positive educational path?" I asked:

"Positive education? There have been classes on mental health in schools, but have teachers taught about them? It doesn't seem to have been. I got all my knowledge of sex from romance novels. Later, I watched two pornographic movies, and I always felt that the sex in reality was not as beautiful as the sex in romance novels. LJL said frankly:

"Through this questionnaire of yours, I learned that your first sexual experience was when you were 16 years old, why so early?" I looked at LJL's questionnaire and asked:

LJL was stunned for a moment, sighed deeply, and then took out a cigarette, lit it, took a puff of cigarette and said faintly: "My first sexual experience is unbearable, that was the first time I came into contact with QQ, I met a netizen on QQ, quite chatable, and then exchanged phone calls, and finally met, that time the netizen invited me to dinner, drank a little wine, and finally he opened the room, said that we would talk again after the room, I believed it, and when I got to the room, he had sex with me. ”

"Didn't you resist then? Did you call the police later? I asked:

"Big brother, are you a psychiatrist? This isn't the first time you've heard of this kind of thing, is it? Everyone chatted very well on the Internet, and in the end, they did this thing half-pushed and half-done, how could they call the police. LJL said disdainfully:

"Did you regret it afterwards?" I asked:

"I really regretted it afterwards, after all, my first time was so unclear, but I didn't even know the real name of the netizen. The netizen saw me bleeding afterwards and asked me if it was the first time? I nodded, and he quickly gave me 500 yuan, saying that I wanted to buy whatever I wanted. The first time I got 500 yuan, I was a little angry, I always felt like a **, and then I thought that I wanted a good mp3, and I was at ease with it. LJL said as he smoked:

"Did you ask the other person to take contraception when you first had sex?" I went on to ask:

LJL glared at me and said, "No, how could that situation ask the other party to take contraception." ”

"Have you ever thought about what to do if you get pregnant?" I asked in amazement: (To be continued.) )