(Continued from the previous case) "I really didn't think about it at the time, but it's nothing, I'm really pregnant, I beat it, and the current flow technology is not too good." The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info" LJL said disdainfully:

In normal times, I would definitely be speechless by LJL's statement, but now that I am doing a psychological survey of sex workers, I am still mentally prepared for such an answer. But I still couldn't help but think of smoking, as soon as I touched my body, I found that I didn't bring a cigarette, LJL was very clever, seeing that I wanted to smoke, I hurriedly handed a cigarette over, and skillfully helped me light it. I nodded my head in thanks, and then continued to ask, "Have you ever thought that this 'part-time' experience of yours will have an impact on your future marriage and family?" LJL drank some tea, thought for a while and said: "I haven't thought about it so much, I just need to be comfortable now, young people should dress beautifully, use the best things, and enjoy the best service." I work part-time to cover my income for a week, and it's easy, so why not. I don't need to pay attention to those worldly eyes, I just need to keep them from being known by my family, relatives and friends. In this era, it is to laugh at the poor and not at the prostitute. ”

"Don't you have any ideals and pursuits?" I asked:

LJL blurted out and said: "Yes, I just want to make a big money, I just want to get a good car, I like Mercedes-Benz sports cars, especially energetic." I also want to go to Europe and buy bags, clothes, and shoes from all kinds of famous brands. ”

I shook my head with a wry smile, and then said helplessly: "According to what you mean, if you don't find a big money, your 'part-time job' is not ready to end?" ”

LJL looked at me with big eyes, then nodded heavily.

I gathered up my paperwork and motioned for LJL to conclude the investigation. When LJL got up to leave, he suddenly turned around and asked me, "Doctor Jiang." How much can a psychologist earn in a year? I looked at LJL and smiled and said, "It's less than a tenth of yours." ”

A few tips about sex workers

1. Most people who work as sex workers have their own reasons. Among them, those who are forced by life occupy the majority. In addition, there are those who are forced by others, who cannot resist the temptation of money, and who want to fulfill a specific wish of their own (such as opening a store, completing their children's education, etc.). But in general, people who engage in sex work are disadvantaged and come from poor and backward places;

2. The existence of sex workers is a major impact on family ethics, a "hotbed" for the spread of various sexually transmitted diseases (including AIDS), and a source of various crimes.

3. The most representative country for the legalization of the sex industry is the Netherlands. Germany is also one of the typical countries that recognises this industry and has drafted relevant laws to protect its legal rights.

(Here's an interesting example.) It should be able to represent the love pattern of some young men and women now, you can take a look at it as a story, don't go to the truth...... If it's really true, you'll lose! ）

Before writing this case, I would like to explain an incident that happened four years ago: there was an unhappy family of three, the husband was an alcoholic, the wife was illiterate and ignorant, and the child was only 17 years old. The husband is violent to his wife and children because of alcoholism. Because his wife is illiterate, she does not know how to defend her rights except for instinctive resistance. often endure humiliation with children. The boy finally resisted his father's violence and resisted. Wounded his father. In this case, the child has constituted a criminal offense, but fortunately, some villagers and the child's mother helped to conceal it, saying that the child's father fell and injured himself because he was drunk. The child's father would never want his child to go to prison because of himself, so he acquiesced. Four years after this incident, the child was also 21 years old, and after graduating from secondary school, he was also very competitive and worked as a blue-collar worker in a state-owned enterprise. The monthly income can be more than 3,000 yuan. Here, this boy's name is HHW, and he is the hero of this chapter.

The story about HHW four years ago was told to me by HHW's girlfriend Mly, who found me because she couldn't stand HHW's request for up to 4 times a day. At first, I misjudged that HHW's frequent sex was due to the exuberant male hormones. But as soon as I saw HHW in person and found his thin and weak appearance, I had some doubts in my heart, and secretly asked Mly: "Is HHW really very sexually strong?" Mly nodded affirmatively and said, "Doctor Jiang, I'm not talking nonsense, I won't joke with such a private matter." I nodded in agreement, and then made an appointment with HHW and MLY for dinner. During the meal, HHW ate quickly, and before Mly and I finished eating, he was talking about something alone over there. The speed of speech was fast, and I didn't even understand it anyway. The meal lasted less than half an hour, and HHW actually said that it could be over, and the purpose of the original plan to have a good exchange with HHW through the meal was also lost. Mly didn't seem to be polite to me to end the meal so quickly, so she tried to talk to HHW, hoping to sit down again and have a good talk with me. But unexpectedly, such a hope was strongly opposed by HHW, and he was very angry and irritable. After a while, he got up and left alone, Mly looked at me embarrassedly, said hello to me, and hurriedly went to chase HHW.

These performances of HHW let me know what is the reason for his frequent sex. It's not that HHW has strong male hormones, it's that HHW suffers from mania. The reason why I want to start this chapter with the story of HHW four years ago is because that incident is the source of HHW's mania.

After confirming my judgment, I casually contacted Mly and explained the situation with HHW. When Mly learned the news, she showed a sense of surprise on the other end of the phone, and she asked me on the other end of the phone, "Dr. Jiang, is it true that you said that HHW suffers from mania?" I replied, "At least that's my preliminary judgment." Mly choked up a little on the other end of the phone, and asked me tremblingly, "Then Dr. Jiang, is the mania you are talking about serious?" Can it be cured? I hurriedly said with relief: "Mly, don't worry too much about this. Mania is a very common mental illness. It can be recovered through treatment. At least for now. There are as many as 6 or 7 categories of psychotropic drugs for the treatment of mania. And it won't cost much. Mly on the other end of the line heard my explanation. seemed to have some comfort, but still said tremblingly: "Thank you, Dr. Jiang, I hope you can help HHW recover as soon as possible." "I sincerely agreed with MLY, but I suddenly had a vague worry in my heart, which was the effect of manic HHW on MLY, which was a kind of torture for MLY, both mentally and physically. I asked in a daze, "Mly, are you talking to each other now?" I need to talk to you about some privacy. Mly hesitated on the other end of the phone, then said, "Dr. Jiang." Are you still downtown now? After receiving my affirmation, Mly continued on the other end of the phone: "Dr. Jiang, if you don't think so, I'll send HHW home now, and we'll meet in the city park in the city center in half an hour, okay?" I thought about it for a moment and agreed.

Half an hour later, Mly arrived at the city park as promised, and we chose to sit down on a bench somewhere in the park, Mly was very attentive. A Cappuccino from Starbucks was prepared for me and I took a sip of hot coffee. Warm. Looking at Mly's expectant eyes, a desire to protect Mly expanded infinitely, and I spat out and said, "Mly, don't worry, I will do my best to help HHW." There was some joy in Mly's hopeful eyes, and when I looked at Mly's little joy, my heart rejoiced with her joy.

"Doctor Jiang, you said on the phone that you wanted to talk to me about some privacy matters, what kind of privacy matters, you can talk about it now." Mly asked me:

"How did you meet and fall in love with HHW?" I asked:

"He and I used to be colleagues, and by chance, I learned about HHW's unfortunate childhood, and looking at the skinny HHW, I not only did not feel disgusted, but I had a sense of sympathy, and I especially wanted to take care of him. Later, I left the unit, and I didn't contact HHW for a while, and I seemed to have forgotten about him in my heart. But by chance, I saw him handing out flyers on the street, and later I learned that he was using his spare time to earn extra money to support his family and take care of his parents. In that moment, I felt like I had found the other half of my life. To put it bluntly, I am pursuing him. Mly recalled:

"Did you have any conflicts in the course of your relationship? Do you think there's anything about him that makes him more different? I continued to ask:

"He was opposed by everyone, including my parents, from the beginning, but I never regretted it, because I always felt that a person with a filial heart must also have great love for his own wife. That's why I love him and love him very persistently. Even in the process of interacting with him, I found that what he did was not very right, and sometimes even I felt that he had hurt me deeply, I could tolerate it. So there was no obvious conflict between the two of us. Speaking of what is different from ordinary people, it is really quite a lot when I think about it now, for example, he seems to have inexhaustible energy and endless words. It's the kind of feeling that calms down. I remember one time he finally agreed to accompany me to the movies, but before the movie had been playing for 10 minutes, he began to sit still and kept babbling something, which caused the dissatisfaction of the neighbors. I haven't seen a movie with him since. mly says:

"This is a manifestation of mania, unable to stop talking, easily distracted, and not concentrating on one thing. In addition to these, does he have any violent tendencies, such as targeting you? I asked:

Mly let out a sigh of relief, leaned softly on the back of the chair, and said with some resentment: "Doctor Jiang, you expected, he seems to have a strong tendency to violence, every time he does something, he is full of confidence, and he can't tolerate some opinions of others, sometimes many people know that he is wrong to do that, I went to persuade him, but he scolded him, and even did it to me a few times." ”

"Is that all?" I asked:

Mly looked at me, looking a little embarrassed and didn't know how to express it. I encouraged her and said, "It doesn't matter, you can speak your mind, I'm your best listener." With my encouragement, Mly lowered his head and said slightly: "Dr. Jiang, as I told you, HHW has a very strong need for that aspect, and there are a few times when I am still on my period, and he will not cherish me. Since living with him. He intensified his efforts at night. Toss several times a night. He didn't seem to need to sleep, and he could have sex with me for days on end, several times a day. I really couldn't stand it anymore, so I asked not to live together, but he began to suspect me, saying that I had a man outside. I really had no choice but to find you, Dr. Jiang, hoping to get your help. ”

Looking at Mly's full of grievances. I said comfortingly, "Don't worry, since we have found the cause of HHW, we will be cured soon." Mly blinked at me with her big eyes, and said with some disbelief: "Didn't you say that 'the country is easy to change and the nature is difficult to change'?" Could it be that HHW's personality can be easily changed? I laughed and said, "Mly, you're so cute." HHW can be changed with treatment, and it will be very easy. Mly could barely believe her ears and jumped up from the bench and said, "Really? Psychiatrists can't deceive people, right? Dr. Jiang, don't lie to me. I continued to laugh and said, "Well, you call your HHW, and I'll start the treatment for him." After 10 days, it is guaranteed to have a noticeable change effect, and it will give you a brand new HHW in 3 months at most. What do you think? ”

"Thank you, Dr. Chiang. I'll call HHW. After the happy mly finished speaking, he picked up his mobile phone casually and called HHW.

……

HHW was diagnosed with mania through psychological counseling afterwards. I suggested the most effective electroconvulsive therapy to help HHW cure mania, and it proved to be effective. HHW gradually improved, and after half a month, the phenomenon of easy distraction and constant speech was resolved. After 3 courses of electroconvulsive therapy, it can be concluded that HHW's mania can be cured. In view of the tendency of mania to recur, I gave HHW a 5-day dose of sodium valproate to consolidate it in case of emergency.

As a token of her appreciation, Mly gave me a set of Snoopy dolls, which girls often give away, and I still have them on my bookshelf.

A few tips about mania:

1. The best way to treat mania is electroshock therapy, which is safe and effective. The treatment cycle is also short;

2. Some of the symptoms of mania are similar to schizophrenia, so we should pay attention to the difference and not confuse them;

3. Theoretically speaking, mania is relatively easy to treat, but it is also easy to recur, so it is recommended to cooperate with anti-recurrence treatment in the process of treating mania;

4. In the treatment of mania, the use of drugs is not recommended, because many psychotropic drugs for the treatment of mania have side effects, and improper use is easy to produce blood lithium poisoning. If drug therapy is necessary, clonazepam is recommended.

(This case is gray, when reading this case, please be mentally prepared!) ）

These days, it's a bit cold and surprisingly cold. When I went to work in the morning, a few colleagues were late because of the cold weather. When I arrived at the office, I wanted to make a cup of hot coffee to refresh myself, but when I got to the pantry, I found that there was nothing but some black tea from Lipton's bag. That's when I thought of Sister Zhou. Sister Zhou is an expert in charge of adolescent psychological problems, and she is also a well-known "department store" in my unit.

When I came to Sister Zhou, I saw that Sister Zhou was reading a post on BBS, I jokingly leaned up and asked Sister Zhou, "Sister Zhou, what are you looking at?" Sister Zhou turned her head to look at me, pointed to the computer screen and said: "The leader just sent an email and gave a link, saying that I should deal with it, I followed the link and looked at it, it was a girl from an art school in this city who auctioned her ** online." I'm a little baffled. I laughed and said, "Sister Zhou, why is this inexplicable?" This kind of girl wants to be famous, wants money, and wants to go crazy, and the psychological problems of this kind of person should be solved by Sister Zhou. Sister Zhou sneered and said: "You don't have backache when you stand and talk, this kind of girl will receive psychological counseling?" She sees a woman talking to her, and she ignores you. I nodded in agreement: "That's right, what are you going to do then, Sister Zhou?" Sister Zhou looked at me suspiciously and said, "Xiao Jiang, you were sent by the leader to check my work, right?" Such gossip! I hurriedly explained: "Sister Zhou misunderstood, there is no coffee in the pantry, I asked you to order coffee, I happened to see that you were busy with this, sorry!" Sister Zhou smiled: "There is no problem with coffee, but I have something I want to ask you Xiao Jiang for help." I seemed to notice something, looking at Sister Zhou, who was a little sneering, I hurriedly asked: "Sister Zhou, you won't let me play the role of the person who bought that girl's **, right?" Sister Zhou handed me a pack of Maxwell coffee, and said with a smile: "The main thing is that you just ask her out, and you Sister Zhou will do the next work, do you owe you a favor and give face?" "Sister Zhou saw that I was still hesitating, and hurriedly took the initiative to help me make coffee, such an attitude, such words, I can still have a reason not to agree? (To be continued.) )